#advice💋

[salemlunaa]

ෆ REVISION IS KEY ෆ

as the operant power, you decide your life…

For those of you who want your dream face, you’ve had it. For those of you who want your dream bank account, you’ve already had it. For those of you who want your dream lives now, you are living it.

I don’t care if the 3d showed you “nothing” as you woke up this morning, it doesn’t matter. revise it. You can revise absolutely anything in your life, anything. As the operant power, you get to choose what happens in your reality, when it happens and you get to orchestrate events in your life down to the smallest detail.

If you don’t like something, it didn’t happen anyway

If you don’t like the fact you’ve not induced pure consciousness yet, what are you upset about? you already have. multiple times.

If you don’t like the fact that you woke up with “nothing”, you didn’t, in fact you have everything you’ve ever dreamed of.

If you’re getting frustrated over the realisation that you’ve been in this community for a while and “haven’t been able to manifest anything”, rewrite that, that’s false and you have everything you’ve desired because you’re so powerful, you have accomplished so much.

If you don’t like the way a certain situation panned out, then redesign it.

Because you can.

Do not conform to the 3d, no matter what. You have stumbled across the law and shifting for a reason, please don’t tell me that you’ve learned all that you’ve learned just to listen to the 3d. Who’s to say you’re a failure? That you’ve accomplished nothing? What is your proof of that?

Truly, think about it, to all of you who are frustrated because you haven’t induced pure consciousness yet, or you haven’t managed to manifest anything, I want to ask you, what is your proof of that? how do you know that’s true? why do you believe that is true? How come you are so sure?

The answer to all of those is the 3d, whether you like it or not, look back at those questions, the answer to each of them is “because the 3d said so”, “because you can’t see it in the 3d”.

And that is where your mindset needs to change. As the operant power, as a god of your reality, you can choose what has happened, what is happening and what is yet to happen. If you let the 3d get in between that, you won’t progress. The 3d is nothing but a lifeless mirror, waiting to reflect your dominant thoughts, why are you using it as a reference point? Why are you using it to determine whether you have your desires or not?

Nothing is real unless you want it to be because you have the final say. So revise revise revise!!

The 3d can’t tell you what’s what, revise,simply because you can🌀💋

[bl0wupdo11]

Unlocking Your Potential: The Power of Manifestation and the Law of Assumption

What is Manifestation?

At its core, manifestation is the process of bringing your intentions into reality. It’s about aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions with what you truly desire. This means shifting your mindset and focusing on the positive aspects of your life, rather than the negatives. By doing so, you set the stage for abundance and prosperity to flow into your life.

The Law of Assumption Explained

The Law of Assumption, popularized by the great Neville Goddard, posits that whatever you assume to be true becomes your reality. In other words, if you believe you are worthy of love, success, and happiness, you will attract those very experiences into your life. Your assumptions shape your perceptions, and your perceptions shape your reality.

This law emphasizes a fundamental truth: you are the creator of your own experiences. Everything starts with a thought. If you assume that your dreams are already a reality, you will naturally align your actions and emotions with that assumption, making it easier for those dreams to manifest.

How to Harness These Principles?

🍒 Get Clear on Your Desires: What do you truly want? Write down your goals and dreams with clarity and conviction. Be specific! The universe responds to clear intentions.

🍒 Visualize Your Success: Spend a few minutes each day visualizing yourself living your desired reality. Feel the emotions associated with achieving those goals—joy, gratitude, empowerment. Visualization is a powerful tool that reinforces your assumptions.

🍒 Affirm Your Beliefs: Use positive affirmations to reinforce your assumptions. Statements like “I am worthy of success” or “I attract abundance effortlessly” can rewire your subconscious mind and shift your internal dialogue.

🍒 Take Action: Manifestation isn’t just about thinking; it’s about doing. Pay attention to intuitive nudges and take actionable steps towards your goals. The universe rewards action!

🍒 Trust the Process: Cultivating trust in the universe is crucial. Understand that everything unfolds in divine timing. Let go of the need to control every outcome and watch as opportunities begin to present themselves.

[thetorturedlovergirl]

GUYS GUYS THE LOML MY UNIVERSE MY LIFE (a.k.a MADDYYY) FINALLY MADE THEMSELVES A TUMBLR ACC AAAAAA

pls her mind is amazing and everything they write is super interesting. A Canadian fanatic of the seventh doctor and If u are in the Thoschei server u know how much Maddy loves to analyze stuff (clothes or eras) and everything they say is always fascinating (and also if you are there u know how much in love I am with her)

SO FOLLOW THEMMMM: @fruitywhovian

[purebbyfawn]

u look the way ur meant to look, ur the way ur meant to be, always remember that !!

ik it may sound cheesy or dumb but if u wouldn’t say something to someone else, don’t say it to urself. love urself the way u love others (& the way others love u bc u are loved). ur a person who deserves that love too ࿐ ࿔*♡

[chikaras-garden]

What are your tips for writing smut in particular? I wanna know how to write it and how to write it well.

As with any writing advice, these are guidelines, not rules. I’m also not the singular best smut writer in the universe, so please don’t feel like you have to do any of this; it’s just what works for me!

Read. A lot. And not just fanfic; find romantic and/or erotic novels you like and read actively, taking note of the turns of phrase (i.e. word choice and sentence structure) that stand out to you—then think about why. Is it the connection between the characters? The vividness of the descriptions? Not only will this help you learn effective writing, but you’ll also find inspiration you may not have thought of otherwise.

Know your characters, their personality, and their relationship to each other. This will help you write actions and, more importantly, reactions. There’s a difference between lovemaking and hatefucking. There’s a difference between Jason Todd and Dick Grayson. Are you writing comfort sex? Sleepy sex? “I’m so mad at you I have to fuck you” sex? How would Jason vs. Dick kiss a reader he’s in love with? What does each of them need to do or feel in order to be satisfied? Knowing how your characters feel and behave should guide every decision you make in your writing, whether it’s smut or anything else.

Characterize your reader. In the same vein as the above, your reader is a character. They should have a personality, likes, dislikes, wants, and needs—knowing this will help make writing their actions and dialogue flow more easily for you, and it makes the scene more interesting.

Smut is (usually) a multi-person ordeal. What I meant when I said that reactions are important is that one character isn’t acting in a vacuum and the other character isn’t, like, a sex doll. Character A and Character B should constantly be acting and reacting to each other, keeping their emotions, personality, and relationship in mind. In most scenarios, Character A is doing something with the express purpose of getting a reaction out of Character B. And even if Character B is submissive, a bottom, or even tied up, they shouldn’t be entirely passive. Their facial expressions, sounds (moans), and actions feed into what Character A chooses to do next.

Keep positions and anatomy in mind. Know where each person’s hands are, what they can reach with their mouth, and how other body parts like thighs, chest, neck, and butt, come into play. Don’t be afraid to use reference photos for this, and also keep in mind each character’s physical ability. Using Jason and Dick as an example: Dick is generally more flexible than Jason, but Jason is generally seen as having more brute strength. Their physical abilities would impact their instincts: Dick might be more inclined to twist himself to reach something, while Jason might simply move the reader where he wants them.

Slow your pace and focus on detail. Thinking about the vivid descriptions from the romance novels we like, “he sucked her nipple” is less impactful than “he made a cup of his fingers and lifted her breast to his lips” (I believe this was in The Governess Game by Tessa Dare). Why? Because we can better visualize what’s going on. The second sentence has movement that takes us though the scene instead of making us imagine it for ourselves: he made a cup of his fingers, then he lifted her breast to his lips, then (it’s implied that) he sucked her nipple. The word choice here is specific to his characterization; he’s explicitly being gentle with her, as compared to a character who would instead “bring her nipple to a stiff peak with several rough twists of his fingertips, then cover it with his lips” (I do not remember what novel this is from).

Spend some time on non-sexual intimacy. In my own writing, the actual act of penetrative or oral sex is maybe the last 33% of the piece I’m writing because there’s so much intimacy in foreplay. Sexual tension is your buildup, while the sex itself is really only the payoff, so give the same attention and detail to the kisses, touches, or even looks that get us to the main event in the first place.

Here are some more resources:

Smut terminology

Smut-writing advice

Ultimate guide to writing smut fic

[redlipstickdujour]

Ooo, uhh…what I meant to say, is 💋

[moonlight-prose]

busts down your door

did i hear barbie sleepover

i would LOVE to host one!! i've been thinking about it for awhile, but i wasn't sure anyone would actually want that.

[mcnjushcge]

btw, it's your choice but if you want to- would recommend pinning the donation post to the top of your blog (so people who click on your blog can see it) :3

I FORGOR YOU COULD DO THIS 😭 I’ve just been rbing it so it would reappear on people’s dashes……

[omgeto]

Hii empress !

Love your works ❤ (especially tojis one).

Do you have any idea how to get back into reading, you know like real books. Any tips or tricks

Hiii nonnnie tysm 😽✨

But I’d say to get back into reading real books the easiest way is just TO DO IT. like obviously that is easier said than done, so I’d say what I usually do is reread something I’ve already read (this rarely ever happens but this is if I’m in a deep deep slump) or start off by reading a novella or a shorter book to kinda ease you back into it.

You could try do things to make reading even more fun so it doesn’t feel like a chore such as creating like a reading review if you don’t already have one or like a journal where u rank all the books you read.

You can also find what books are super popular and trendy right now in whatever ur fave genre is (go on tik tok even tho booktok recs are usually dogshit imo) and then read that so it’s easier to find videos and people talking about whateve ur reading to keep you even more engaged.

Hopefully some of these help I have more ideas if needs be!!

[bl0wupdo11]

Unlocking Your Potential: The Power of Affirmations

What Are Affirmations?

Affirmations are positive statements that you repeat to yourself with the intention of challenging and overcoming self-sabotaging thoughts. They serve as reminders of your strengths, values, and goals. By consistently affirming your worth, you can rewire your brain to focus on positivity and resilience.

Why Do They Work?

The science behind affirmations is rooted in psychology. When you repeat affirmations, you’re essentially training your brain to believe in those positive statements. This practice can lead to a shift in mindset, increasing your self-esteem and motivation. The more you affirm your strengths, the more likely you are to act in ways that align with those beliefs.

How to Create Effective Affirmations?

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི Be Specific: Instead of saying, “I am successful,” try “I am confidently stepping into my career as a leader.” Specificity helps you visualize and embody the affirmation.

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི Use the Present Tense: Frame your affirmations as if they are already true. This creates a sense of immediacy and belief, reinforcing the idea that you are already on the path to achieving your goals.

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི Make It Personal: Tailor your affirmations to reflect your individual aspirations and values. The more personal they are, the more impactful they will be.

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི Keep It Positive: Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. Instead of “I am not afraid,” say “I am courageous and embrace challenges.”

[yther]

Sun.May.18/25

(still)

this poem is a passing

of

preponderance

evoking

understanding

time

..Ͽ

[chikaras-garden]

tips for dialogue in fics please?

If it’s any consolation, this was a really hard (but interesting!) question to answer. For me, dialogue is the first thing I think of—so often, it just comes to me and I write everything else around or based on the conversation I imagine. 

That said, it was a neat challenge to pick apart how I do that, so here are some tips:

Read dialogue and watch conversations in shows and movies to get a feel for what sounds compelling and natural to you. Not all professionally written dialogue is good dialogue (I have one particular film writer whose dialogue makes me want to commit acts of violence); and if it doesn’t sound natural to you—it isn’t natural. Take note of things you like, and try to use those tools in your own writing.

For clarity, I omit filler words like “um” or “uh,” and I also never use dialect words. If you’re familiar with the Highlander romance subgenre, you know what I mean, but dialect words are basically phonetic interpretations of how words sound in a particular accent. I find filler and dialect words are hard to follow as a reader, so I choose not to use them.

But on the other hand, feel free to write messy sentences. Sometimes, we cut ourselves off in speech, or we use informal contractions. “You’re gonna— You’re gonna do what?” Allowing yourself to break rules of prose within dialogue makes what your characters are saying feel more human.

Think about what your character knows and what they want their conversation partner to know. This is where dialogue can be interesting. Would your character lie or omit information? Why? How would they conceal that? Does your character believe what they’re saying—even if you, the writer, know it isn’t true? How would you convey that to your reader? 

Think about the words your character, specifically, would use to describe something, and also consider their emotions at the time. A character who’s sad or angry might have difficulty getting words out. A character who’s usually quiet wouldn’t use a lot of words to convey a thought.

Just like how you, the writer, have an audience—your character has an audience and would consider them when speaking. Think about who your character’s conversation partner is and what their relationship is like. They would most likely be more casual and open when talking with a friend, or more guarded with someone they don’t know well. If your character is talking to a loved one or a child, they might sugar-coat or soften what they’re saying out of consideration for the other person's feelings or safety.

Simplify your dialogue tags. A tag is something like “he said” or “she asked” before or after your dialogue. Not every piece of dialogue needs a tag. If it does, it probably only needs a simple tag of a verb with (maybe) an adverb. Too much description around your dialogue distracts from what’s actually being said.

Read your own dialogue aloud or in your head. Does it sound like something a real human being would say? Does it flow naturally off your own tongue?

[girlypopinspos]

#but also a lot of writers fear giving their OC’s flaws bc of how canon characters in media have been received who share those flaws #especially when writing female OC’s

If someone is afraid to write flawed characters because Annie Anti might get mad at them, all I can say is: Ignore that fear. And this goes for anything you fear putting in your stories!

Don't force yourself to make bland, hollow characters or stories because some Puritan on Tumblr might throw a hissy fit over it.

Say it with me, everyone:

Fandom OCs — even when paired romantically with canon characters — are not inherently Mary Sues or Gary Stus.

Yes, many are someone's self-insert who lacks any depth or flaws because that person sees themselves as Perfect, but that is not always the case.

Plenty of people (myself included) are more than capable of creating complex, interesting OCs to insert into our favorite fictional works. (And even a self-insert can be good if the creator doesn't make them Perfect At Everything and can see their own flaws.)

[glamgirly]

SHOCK THEM ALL: golden rules on how to change your life and achieve your goals

A/N: hi bb 💘 so today we’ll discuss how to have the biggest glow up known to mankind before school or if you just want to for no reason at all, tf tfff!! here you’ll find everything. have fun reading!! 💋

GOLDEN RULES: MINDSET

• reflect on who you are now : it may seem obvious, but to understand what you want to change in your life, you must first understand what needs to be changed. once you understand this, it is time for the next step…

• imagine your future and your future life! : who do you want to be? the good thing is that it is up to you to reinvent yourself. the best thing is that it is up to you to control yourself.

• start answering the following questions: who is she? how does she act? how does she deal with and talk to others? how does she want to be seen by others? what are her motivations? what is her outlook on life? what are her strengths? what are her weaknesses and how does she work on her insecurities?

• start journaling: get seriously organized and start planning your days. make short todo lists and prioritize tasks. keep your journal close and mark the tasks you have just completed. it will help you to be consistent and is an effective way to easily achieve the big and small goals in your life.

• trust the process: it is a marathon, not a sprint.

• what goals do you have? : write down the top 5 goals you have in life (there can also be more of course). how do you plan to achieve them? write down a realistic step-by-step guide on how to reach them and start working on your goals now. it is never too early to make your dreams come true!

GOLDEN RULES: LOOKS

• eat a balanced diet and stay hydrated: one of the best things you can do for your mind and body is to eat a balanced diet and stay hydrated. focus on whole foods, limit your sugar intake and drink filtered water with electrolytes. drink herbal teas to detoxify and smoothies to fill up on vitamins.

• start exercising: get into the habit of moving more and find your exercise routine: swimming, pilates, weightlifting, yoga, walking outdoors. It can be anything.

• develop a skin care regimen based on your skin type: determine what your skin type is and purchase products that meet your needs.

• develop a hair care routine: grow your hair and focus on its health. find a hair care routine and products that do exactly that.

• become a style icon: to reinvent yourself you should get rid of the things you no longer wear and build a capsule wardrobe. focus on quality and not quantity.

[rottingkiss]

( @goreburdened // ask the love doctor )

❝It's IMPORTANT that you treat this ENTIRE relationship as transactional and to "keep score". I'm a BIG believer in winning at ALL costs, and you BETTER believe that extends to sex and romance.❞

[bl0wupdo11]

The Ultimate Guide to 2025 ˖ . ݁𝜗𝜚. ݁₊

✦ Create a Vision Board: Use Notion to design a digital vision board. Include sections for your goals, dreams, and affirmations. This visual representation will keep your aspirations at the forefront of your mind.

✦ Prioritize Your Goals: Break down your yearly goals into quarterly and monthly milestones. Use Notion to create a task tracker that allows you to see what needs to be done and when.

✦ The Eisenhower Matrix: Implement the Eisenhower Matrix to categorize your tasks based on urgency and importance. Focus on what truly matters—this will help you eliminate distractions and stay on track.

✦ Act As If: Live your life as if you have already achieved your goals. This doesn’t mean being delusional; it means adopting the mindset and habits of the person you want to become. This shift in perspective will attract the opportunities you need to make your dreams a reality.

✦ Embrace Change: Be open to new experiences and challenges. Growth often comes from stepping outside your comfort zone.

✦ Set Boundaries: Protect your time and energy. Learn to say no to things that don’t align with your goals or drain your spirit. Prioritize your well-being as you navigate through the year.