#bi spectrum

[genderqueerdykes]

here's to every bisexual who has had their bisexuality policed. here's to every bisexual whose defintion of bisexuality differs from people who try to define it for them. here's to every bisexual who gets told they're just straight. here's to every bisexual who gets denied access to queer spaces because they "look straight" or they're "in a straight relationship." here's to every bisexual gay and lesbian. here's to every bisexual butch and femme. here's to every bigender and genderfluid bisexual who has their identity questioned because of one or more of their genders. here's to every trans bisexual person whose bisexuality comes into question when they come out or start transition. here's to every bisexual who gets told they're bisexuality is "incorrect". here's to every bisexual who gets told their idea of bisexuality is actually pansexuality and they'd be better off identifying that way instead. here's to every bisexual of color who has their bisexuality questioned due to racism.

here's to every bisexual.

[lgbtqtext]

[skylee-spider-lillis]

"Me? Oh yeah I'm lesbian I'm sure of that-"

* Jayden Revri as Charles Rowland comes in to my life *

...... Guess I'm bi spec.

(Fuck you Charles Rowland. Thanks for this sexuality crisis mess again).

[en8y]

[IMAGE ID: four rectangular flags with six evenly-sized stripes each. the first flag's stripes, from top to bottom, are as follows: medium blue, bright purple, hot pink, light orange, light yellow, and bright green. the second flag's stripes, from top to bottom, are as follows: bright purple, light yellow, light orange, bright cool pink, bright green, and medium blue. the third flag's stripes, from top to bottom, are as follows: bright purple, hot pink, bright yellow, bright blue, bright green, and light orange. the fourth flag's stripes, from top to bottom, are as follows: light yellow, warm light pink, bright pink, dark purple, medium blue, and light teal. END ID.]

bispec / bi-spectrum, plyspec / poly-spectrum, panspec / pan-spectrum, and omnispec / omni-spectrum flags! anon asked for bispec and i wanted to see if i could come up with some more :3

can be used in a similar way to aspec, to refer to bi-/ply-/pan-/omni- identities as a whole, or as their own identities!

used this mspec flag as a base!

@radiomogai @liom-archive @obscurian @orientation-archive

[alien-ontheinternet]

Epic oc alert!!

I really like this one /srs

Click images for better quality!!

He doesn't speak English,he only knows Spanish :3

Oh,btw, I made her Jewish because I want to have a big group of people as ocs and not just make them all the same with all the same beliefs and stuff. I'm not Jewish,so,if you feel as if I portrayed something wrong. Rather that be a stereotype or something. PLEASE TELL ME. I don't know much about Jewish culture so I may mess up. This goes for when I make any oc of mine have a different culture/belief than mine. I do not know everything about every belief and culture.so,PLEASE TELL ME!!!! /srs

Sorry for the long text /gen/srs

Xem is 3'10

Onme's name is purposefully misspelled as a joke. Her name is pronounced "on-me"

Funfact: the main reason I made him,was because,I really love the color pallet of the omniSexual flag! /srs

All of the alters😎

Didn't know what to put as the background so I just put a random bingo I did 2 days ago

[ilikemicrowaves]

I get really pmo whenever someone sees a ship that from the outside is a straight couple and go " ew *straight* people " or " it'd be better if they were yaoi / yuri . " *guys.* The gender of a ship does not dictate or determine its quality . Take ripnami ( wings of fire ) , for example : if Riptide was a girl , the ship in canon would still be balls . But also another important factor : BISPEC PEOPLE EXIST . DONT FORGET ABOUT US !!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like bi spec representation in fandoms has really dropped the past few years . One time I read a post from a Fandom I was in were one of the Canon characters was bi , and op said " hate it when creators make their characters bi and then put them in a straight relationship . " BECAUSE THEY ARE BI ?????? Just because you didn't get your fucking yuri / yaoi doesn't mean it sucks . The chatacter is still bi and we still got our representation . Don't forget we exist .

[pumpkinspicel0v3r]

⚠️ 18+ post, minors and people uncomfortable with sex take caution ⚠️

i think the reason it took me so long to come to terms with being bisexual is i actually don't know how women have sex.

when im having sex with a man i like being able to feel him inside me and see him in pleasure. i like feeling his warmth in me and knowing that he likes mine too. i like hearing him sigh when he enters me, like it's a relief. like coming home and taking your shoes off. i don't know how to feel this with a woman. i don't know how i could make a someone without a penis feel the same way.

dildos arent the same. just hard uncomfortable plastic. sure it can hit some good spots but it doesnt have that intimate closeness and warmth you get from real dick. fingers can have that but they don't get as deep and my partner wouldn't be getting any pleasure from that. i just don't know how sex with a woman could be as intimate.

i feel like as a woman i should know more about what would be pleasurable to a woman but i have no clue. idk how to properly word it but i think i have like a strong sense of gender roles embedded in my brain and breaking it feels uncomfortable even if it is something i want to do. i want to feel like a woman but i don't know how to have that dynamic with another woman and i shouldn't expect a woman to take on the role of a man when neither of us are men.

idk if i worded that correctly or if it's worded exactly how i feel im just trying to say i have kind of felt bisexual since i was a kid and i dont really have an explanation for this feeling or why id want to be bisexual if im not, but i cant even imagine how having sex with a woman would work. lesbian porn sometimes confuses me more but i guess most of it is made for men idk

btw i labled this nsft because i was worried i described it too graphically and i dont want kids to accidentally read it or to make ppl uncomfortable but this isnt like a sexy post, im expressing my thoughts as someone who is coming to terms with bisexuality after closeting for years. i feel bad for talking about sex with men after tagging it wlw but the point of the post isnt that i like to have sex with men it's just that i dont understand how to get that same feeling with a woman, because i do like this woman and i want to feel that way with her but how??

[officeobject]

I used Beelzebub in an animash where I collabed with my tween brother and also explain several queer terms, full story:

Okay so like, my brother (a tween), wanted to make an animash thing with me - like, after I showed him animash video things, so after some time of trying to find an appropriate song we both wanted to make a video out of (WHILE he was impatient), we settled on "Never Been In Love" by Will Jay, and he didn't allow me to use Dixie from The Fox And The Hound 2 because he saw her in so many of my kid-friendly animash videos and said I used her too much and forbade me/said he didn't want me to use her for this one (I think his sass comes from having ME as a sibling), so I considered, and decided to use, Beelzebub from Helluva Boss. I told him at first (and throughout the process), that Beelzebub was from an adult show, and also a few times said he therefore, like, couldn't watch it or something, but he knows I really emphasize things needing to be kid-friendly (I think even our mom and his dad, might too), so he takes it seriously and is not actually interested in adult things, besides cursing, the middle finger, and also the fact that he will consume any horror media he comes across, I guess - in fact, he's so uninterested in adult things compared to me, that HE'S NOT EVEN BEING WEIRD ABOUT ADULTS - CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT?! Anyways, I skipped over what I'd deem, as like, inappropriate, and had the scenepack on mute (which I also have on mute if it's just me, honestly), and he honestly didn't see anything more inappropriate, than those "howling growling salivating heavy-breathing" type of scenes that are for some reason in kid's media that every adult excuses as aesthetic or romantic attraction - and yes he knows alcohol exists and that he's not supposed to drink it, but it's not like he was focused on the punch-like drinks, he just had some good criticisms, like:

- What Beelzebub's hair (then also stomach), was made of ... I said it was supposed to look like lava lamp. He agreed and thought it looked like lava lamp.

- What happened to the dogs (hellhounds). I said she forced them to drink too much, and about the swimming ones, I said they were thrown in but could swim/were fine.

- He also asked if Beelzebub is a good swimmer, since I mentioned wanting to maybe add her swimming scenes. I said she probably is, because she can sing under water.

- He asked if she had wings. I said "yes, she has wings".

- He also asked why she did the things she did (as in, why she made hellhounds drink or something), I said "... because she's mean and she just does that", or "because she's mean", or "because she's mean and she just shoves people into drinks in this adult show", stuff like that, and I definitely said "see?! She's so mean she's making this dog eat this cake", or something.

I honestly prefer how I portrayed her in the video and for my bro and how I saw her, which somehow made her prettier. Also, somehow whatever I said, makes more sense than official Hellaverse lore, because then at least I acknowledge, that she is mean because she shoves people into food and that's how things are.

Anyways, he also asked about why she hates the dogs, I said she didn't, and that she just shoves people into food because that's what she does/because she's mean.

But anyways, he found it fun to make - like, the video, and thought about starting a channel together, and now, I was there, thinking about my brand, thinking about privacy, and also about the fact that I wanna make my OWN videos, which would be 13+, which I told him. And no he wasn't interested in Beelzebub after the video or anything, LOL - well, regardless, he wants to make another, and also I had to show and search up flags, because his classmate (prone to being mean or getting things wrong/lying - even said the n-slur at least once - am worrying a lot about his home life), had said, that some flag meant you hate or don't love girls, which was a flag in some fighting/gun-related Roblox game ... my brother has had crushes on girls, so I honestly understand nothing - he has nothing against girls, even ... and I'm being confused, because I seriously mean he had equipped the flag/skin or whatever - or, well, actually, fully decked out his character in that one specific game ... even HE doesn't know why he believes his classmate.

So anyways, I told him there is NOT a flag for that, his classmate is most likely lying, and he couldn't fine the game (he had logged in on a different account - I don't know but whatever), but I explained what being biromantic is, anyway.

Later turned out that flag might've been aceflux, so I tried to find out how to explain SEX-UALITY (we don't know at what age to explain what sex is, but at least he's for whatever reason this year said our mom and his dad had sex - I never needed to hear that from him but okay - he thought it was funny), and hey, he knows about being aro and that there's a spectrum (because I used the Never Been In Love song as an opportunity), and that I'M aromantic - I also said I'm asexual (not the exact word though), as I decided to explain SEX-UALITY, as wanting to kiss someone. So I said that, like, aceflux is like sometimes you wanna kiss people and sometimes you don't - (I TRIED) - and said that I never wanna kiss people nor get a partner :D -

Also he only cringed for like a few seconds at me explaining what biromantic is, but I think he accepted it or something, so yeah.

Anyways, events in order:

- I make video with Beelzebub

- I explain being aromantic + le spectrum

- My lil' bro says he's making a playlist of songs on his phone, including Shreksophone (I don't even know if he's allowed to do that, but okay - I showed him Shreksophone by the way - anyways, he likes meme songs so that's what he watches on YouTube I guess - well besides gaming and horror and crafts)

- I tell him about bi and stuff

- We don't find what flag it was he saw

- We find out it could be aceflux and I try to explain things

- We watch our video and show it to our mom and I was super nervous and she said she didn't recognize the fox, and I'm scared to explain where the fox is from, but also, no idea why she thinks she would recognize the fox, when, like, I haven't even shown her much of MY animash - and sure, HAVE shown her other's in the PAST, but STILL

- My bro wants to make more animash

- I have separately than this, made a rant about how it's NOT a bad thing I included Beelzebub in our animash

Also I tried to talk about the contents of Rainbow Factory and animations of it, but my mom seems fine with it, and I doubt she's oblivious - my brother is just interested, not even, like, super sad or scared - I still don't have permission to show him a My Little Pony toy horror series, for some reason, even though I've literally watched it through, but okay.

Anyways, do send animash ideas, I guess - and yes I mentioned "or more genders" for the explanation of "bi", and he didn't question it. I'm actually the reason he has a positive association with furries - well, I'M one, so yeah. And hopefully the song, and me explaining some song lyrics, or symbolism or something in my song, and what aro is, and having to make him spell lyrics, helped him.

[genderqueerdykes]

thank you both for this, i was literally in the process of writing a post about this as i saw these.

i came out as bisexual when i was about 19 or 20 years old, in 2011 - 2012. this was such a difficult thing because everyone around me suddenly had very pointed opinions on me. suddenly i wasn't queer anymore, i was a straight person. i asked people why and they said well bisexual people are half straight, which makes you straight, which means gay people don't want to be around you. i was told nobody likes bisexuals because they're too straight to be gay and too gay to be straight

i had a literal personal dilemma because i didn't feel like that at all. when i was realizing i was bisexual i was realizing i was attracted to all genders in a queer way. i did NOT feel like my attraction to men, women or genderqueer people was straight in any way, shape or form. i've always fit in much better in both gay and lesbian circles. those have always been my home, and my community

in the early days of my transition, when "genderqueer" wasn't even remotely heard of, i had to try to transition into being a man to be seen as trans at all. i went from being forced into lesbian spaces to being forced into gay male spaces. nobody let me pick where i was existing. i was being pushed around. i liked both lesbian and gay male spaces, but i was being told when i could and couldn't occupy the spaces. and then when it came out i was bi everyone called me a traitor and said i was a straight person

my best friend at the time came with me to pride meetings and when her mom found out about that, and that i was bi, she told my friend she couldn't come to those pride meetings anymore, and that i was turning her daughter into a lesbian. her mother would not stop calling me a lesbian all throughout my life. from early childhood, she thought me and her daughter were dating because i was butch and she was femme and we were very close. her mom carried this belief into adulthood, asking her outright if we were lovers. her brother thought we were, too, and taunted us about it.

my own mom weaponized lesbianism against me. she hated how butch i was. she hated that i "looked and acted like a lesbian". she called me a butch and a bulldyke hatefully. she told me not to dress or look certain ways or else people would assume i, and her by some proxy, were lesbians. my mom was insanely butch so i don't really know why this was being leveraged against me but either way when i became a young adult and my mom was trying to force me to learn to drive (something i am terrified of doing due to having 2 dissociative disorders), she asked what kind of car i would ideally like. i said a truck. i was standing there in a purple plaid shirt and she just sighed and went "I knew you were a lesbian." she pointed out my shirt. she was weaponizing lesbophobic and butchphobic stereotypes against me, but either way, reinforcing that i was a lesbian in one capacity or another

i got so tired of my friends harassing me for saying that if i was bi that meant i was straight and i needed to stop calling myself gay because i wasn't, and that it was an "insult" to the gay community. note that nobody gave a singular flying fuck about the bisexual community at all. i was literally bullied out of identifying as bi, because my straight cishet male friends hated it, and my lesbian identifying GF was uncomfortable with it because it made me sound too straight.

the thing is, none of these people asked what being bisexual meant to me.

i actually liked the lesbian community a lot. i really love other lesbians. i have always been attracted to lesbian and butch identifying people for as long as i could remember. i loved seeing strong butch women on TV, even if there were rude jokes. i loved the idea of being a masculine person who is sometimes a queer masculine woman. i loved the idea of being with femmes, i loved queer women and people who took femininity to the next level. i also loved seeing gay men when and wherever they existed. i always felt like i fit right in, and like i was seeing a reflection of a part of myself i needed help discovering.

i have almost always, as long as i can remember, identified as a gay man, and a lesbian, at the same time. my attraction to men, women, and people of all genders is queer no matter what gender of mine is involved. it doesn't matter. i have never felt "half gay half straight" which is why people weaponizing heterosexuality against me as a bisexual forced me to strictly identify as a gay man for almost a decade. it was painful to ignore my butch lesbian side, and to stop identifying as gay, because people would criticize how attractive i found women, and other people

if people had let me exist and explain what bisexuality means to me, they could've understood that bisexual is an inherently deeply queer attraction no matter what genders are involved, but NOBODY cares to listen to the bisexual. everyone LOVES to speak for us because we're just "straight people invading the queer community."

we've had it. bisexuals are queer. even if they DO identify as "half straight" they're STILL queer. let bisexuals define bisexuality. there is no one size fits all form of bisexuality. every single bisexual defines it differently and that's the point. it's a very complex identity with many layers that often relate to gender and presentation as well as attraction.

let bisexuals define bisexuality.

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[fairyb0ii]

Makeup ideas for your Pride. 💗💜💙

[en8y]

[IMAGE ID: two rectangular flags with six evenly-sized horizontal stripes each. the first flag's colors, from top to bottom, are as follows: medium blue, bright purple, bright pink-red, light orange, light purple, and deep purple. the second flag's colors, from top to bottom, are as follows: medium blue, bright purple, hot pink, light pink, light blue, and bright teal. END ID.]

heteroflexibispec/heteroflexible bispec and homoflexibispec/homoflexible bispec flags for anon! based on my bispec flag and these heteroflexible + homoflexible flags!

@radiomogai @liom-archive @obscurian @orientation-archive

[deikochan]

[socte-blue]

STOP SAYING “TWINK” LIKE ITS INHERENTLY AN INSULT.

[pumpkinspicel0v3r]

fffuxj im so attra c ted to this girl what do i do. how will i find a girl like her or as beautiful and as tall as her.

where do i even find other wlw

[officeobject]

An Ethan quote that some people other than me might also need to hear: