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Some seasons of life are loud and busy and blooming. And others… are quieter. Messier. A little lonelier. This week on the blog, I’m writing about the lonely side of personal growth—those in-between seasons where you’ve let go of what no longer fits, but haven’t quite settled into what comes next. It’s about what it feels like to step away from old roles, old identities, old expectations—and how even the right decisions can come with their own kind of grief. It’s about change, self-discovery, and that quiet space where you're still becoming. It’s not a ‘how-to.’ It’s a reflection. A gentle reminder that if you’re feeling a little lost or unsettled right now… you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re just not finished yet. The post is live now on the blog— You’ll find it under “Latest Blog Post” in the link in bio, and I’ve popped the direct link into stories too. Save it for a quiet read with a cuppa. I hope it lands softly.
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#becoming who you are#becoming yourself again#calm daily rituals#emotional growth#emotional honesty#emotional midlife shifts#emotional wellbeing in midlife#everyday growth#finding peace in transition#gentle growth#grounded routines#how to cope with change#how to feel grounded during change#how to handle life changes#how to live intentionally#how to reset in midlife#in-between seasons of life#inner change#intentional life changes#intentional living in midlife#letting go of old identities#letting go of who you were#life transitions#liminal space#midlife reflection#midlife transitions#not quite there yet#not who I used to be#Our Little House in the Country#personal growth in midlife
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★ 113 // “Dissociation”
#jjba#jojo's bizarre adventure#steel ball run#sbr#johnny joestar#offerings#tools used:#clip studio paint#ezgif#This offering was wildly unplanned but despite having other ideas I wanted to do this one came out.#This one's a vent because I've been so dissociated today but kinda just lately in general. :/#Johnny strikes me as the type to have dissociate episodes so perhaps this is fitting for him#I kinda had the epiphany that dissociation feels sorta like the lasso tool. So that's what inspired this.#Honestly Johnny is like a grounding tool to me at this point.#I create for him every day man. Johnny is a part of my routine.
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thinking about how andrew who has to unwrap every single one of neil's bandages minyard would do in a zombie apocalypse like how routine it would be for andrew to look over neil's skin for a bite mark no matter how short of a time he spent outside their safe zone he has to look every single time
there would be several close calls too to the point where the rest of the foxes find it absurd like they'd be sitting there for an hour and neil would be dead on his feet but still running on adrenaline, shaking and matt who's always the one to go out on patrol with neil would say over and over that neil's clean and nothing got to him but andrew would silently look over all neil's wounds for a third time anyway
#and most people in their safe zone thinks that andrew is going it because he's scared of infected getting inside their walls#or at least he's practical#if there's a bite the person has to get out#but really andrew doesn't care about someone getting bit he cares about NEIL#and it would also be grounding for neil not only to have andrew look him over but to go through the routine it helps remind him that he's o#especially after close calls#anyway#....i think i need to put them in a zombie apocalypse now#aftg#all for the game#andreil#neil josten#andrew minyard
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i rllllly love the depiction of worship and religious ritual in cr2 i keep thinking about it , specifically abt the clerics. i love how they're very opposite in their approaches - jesters worship is chaotic and energetic and she tricks people and she paints and vandalises signs and paints and paints and draws and creates at first to please the traveller but then by the end she's doing it for the joy of creation and trickery and artagan is more her equal (jester god creation moment?) . caduceus' worship is slow and ritualistic and meditative - he sits on the earth and feels the wind and ground beneath him , and he leaves behind new growth on dead things , returns them back to the earth. he drinks water from streams, eats plants grown from the wildmothers earth, and will die and decay and become the ground and the plants again. its all cyclical forever and ever ! so he guides things back to that path via decaying them and asking for the wildmothers help. and he sets up altars and lights incense + meditates to feel the wind acknowledge him back and i think both these depictions are rly nice!!!!!!!
#i also love yasha's story of like .ok i know this god and i know he sees me but how do i connect so i can hear him clearly ?#and she does things like standing out in a storm and just screaming at the clouds with nott and jester helping . so good#headcanon but i guess sort of canon idk?: i think cad just rly rly loves prayer and meditation . like he loves the routine of it so much#and he lovs the pull of muscles strettching when he bends and puts his head to the earth. one of the most joyous grounding things ever#and bonus you get to sniff the moss#kiddo say
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thinking about the kunikida bible (dazai’s entrance exam) and i will never get over any of it but i especially love the concept of ideals being something that can corrupt and radicalize a person and how being partnered with someone who challenges those ideals is actually why kunikida is able to stay living a morally sound life
#grabs you and shakes you. have you thought about the little ways kunikida and dazai care for each other today#kunikida keeping dazai grounded. checking in with him every day. being the one who goes and finds him when he jumps into the river.#giving dazai’s disorderly lifestyle the routine and stability it desperately needs#whereas dazai pushes against kunikida’s rigidity. forces him to rewrite his schedule and question his deep-rooted beliefs. keeps him fluid#i just know dazai is so fucking delighted that he can do good for someone by being a giant pain in the ass lmfaooooo#this is also why i’ve never understood the rhetoric that dazai’s past conflicting with kunikida’s ideals makes them a bad match or whatever#like. that’s exactly why dazai is a great partner for him. kunikida’s ideals aren’t always healthy#“kunikida would never work alongside a man from the mafia!!!” that mafia man is stopping him from becoming a domestic terrorist
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Some seasons of life are loud and busy and blooming. And others… are quieter. Messier. A little lonelier. This week on the blog, I’m writing about the lonely side of personal growth—those in-between seasons where you’ve let go of what no longer fits, but haven’t quite settled into what comes next. It’s about what it feels like to step away from old roles, old identities, old expectations—and how even the right decisions can come with their own kind of grief. It’s about change, self-discovery, and that quiet space where you're still becoming. It’s not a ‘how-to.’ It’s a reflection. A gentle reminder that if you’re feeling a little lost or unsettled right now… you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re just not finished yet. The post is live now on the blog— You’ll find it under “Latest Blog Post” in the link in bio, and I’ve popped the direct link into stories too. Save it for a quiet read with a cuppa. I hope it lands softly.
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#becoming who you are#becoming yourself again#calm daily rituals#emotional growth#emotional honesty#emotional midlife shifts#emotional wellbeing in midlife#everyday growth#finding peace in transition#gentle growth#grounded routines#how to cope with change#how to feel grounded during change#how to handle life changes#how to live intentionally#how to reset in midlife#in-between seasons of life#inner change#intentional life changes#intentional living in midlife#letting go of old identities#letting go of who you were#life transitions#liminal space#midlife reflection#midlife transitions#not quite there yet#not who I used to be#Our Little House in the Country#personal growth in midlife
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hm i gotta go back to my work again, i wanna get out an article this month to keep my streak up and get back in the flow
#it'd also be good for my mental health to have a bit more of a routine agains#something to grasp and ground me#as to not constantly dissociate and derealize
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I know that was a shitpost for the latest Danny Phantom fandom meme, but I'm genuinely impressed and how authentic it sounds. How much of Dash's monologue is real advice, and how do you know all of that? Do you work out?
Yes I'm so sorry to inform my good people of Tumblr that I've secretly been a part of the gym fandom for all this time. I've only recently come out as a gymbro in this phandom via my creation of the current dp gym bro au meme that I've forced upon everyone in this good holy christian space. I mix whey protein into my overnight oats, I track my macros, and I have a closet full of Gym Girlie Outfits™️.
And just know it's a badge of honor that I carry to be able to say I've converted multiple members of the Danny Phantom phandom into regular gym goers as well 💪
#all jokes aside i grew up in a very athletic family#where talking about things like gym routines and protein tracking was very normal#i worked as a tennis coach for a few years before i was injured (by my own hubris) and was forced to quit#i've been rebuilding my body basically from like the ground floor since the injury#and while at first it was frustrating cuz i had to learn how to do things i'd always been able to do before#(and yes i did cry on my yoga mat more than one time in the beginning)#now i'm learning to have fun with it!#im still very weak compared to where i once was#and it doesn't help that i was set back by other injuries that came from not taking care of myself like a bad knee#but slowlyyyy i'm getting there#i once thought i'd never be able to do an unassisted pull up again#and now i can see it within my reach!#very exciting#i love love loveeeee being strong#Also yes it's real advice to train the 'minor' muscles#for example a lot of lower back pain comes from a weak glute medius#ppl be focusing on the glute max cuz it's the big one and forget about the other glutes#compound exercises are a great way to hit multiple muscles at once
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What happened to the office adventure? I wanted to see office shenanigans :•{
#TADC#tadc#tadc office au#I wanted to see Pomni tiredly typing on a computer but feeling grounded with the familiar routine
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Methas to JJ: I think I am falling for you.
Me: Buddy, he is doing his job-
#like i knew methas was a sopping wet cat but i didn't realize how much of a sopping wet cat#this man is so starved for kindness and affection he fell for the guy doing his job while routinely yelling at each other#i am all for rich people crashing into the ground and kissing the ground their working class partner walks on#but jj is-and i can not stress this enough-DOING HIS JOB#jjmethas#methasjj#this love doesn't have long beans
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What kinda stuff do Daniel and Aslan like to do together? What kinds of dates for they enjoy most? 👀
BUNCH OF QUALITY TIME WITH SWEET LITTLE ACTS OF SERVICE!!!!! they body double a lot :]] aslan working on whatever silly spell hes messing with or reading yet another book on charms while daniel's working on potions as per usual, its part of their little nightly ritual n aslan literally has it marked down on his schedule HEHEKDNE i also like to think his presence there's just helpful to daniel, they've got a system going where he can go prepare for a different potion while as watches over the one already in the cauldron so things Don't Go Wrong
They also skip out on breakfast in the great hall every other day because aslan likes cooking and makes them breakfast instead
SO GENERALLY THEY SPEND TIME TOGETHER WHILE ALSO DOING THEIR OWN THING AND ITS SO LOVELY TO THEM !!! JUST BASKING IN EACH OTHER'S PRESENCE WHILE ALSO PROGRESSING INDIVIDUALLY!!!!!!!!! growing together .. my fave .... my loves .....
and then for dates!!! they enjoy staying in and having movie nights together but besides that they often go on shopping trips for potion ingredients, books, and clothes thrifting then ending with a cute lunch or dinner out, going to the forest for ingredients and creature spotting is also date night for them HEHDKDNR, these two are just productive n in love, if it were up to them literally any time spent together would classify as dates
#they're so the “nothing changed besides now they kiss” trope but its bc they've always just been so . attentive and caring for e/o#they work together so well !!! fitting into the routine perfectly n with ease !!!!!#the kind of love thats just ever present#not needed to be mentioned bc its just so evident in the way that its a peaceful normalcy#love forever present like how you know the sun rises each morning and like every breath you don't even notice you're taking#n even through distress they ground each other??? giving the other the care they need??????#SORRY THIS IS SUCH A RAMBLE LMEOAMANE I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS ON THEM . SO SO MANY .#daniel page#aslan aureus#goldenpage#am!au
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Some seasons of life are loud and busy and blooming. And others… are quieter. Messier. A little lonelier. This week on the blog, I’m writing about the lonely side of personal growth—those in-between seasons where you’ve let go of what no longer fits, but haven’t quite settled into what comes next. It’s about what it feels like to step away from old roles, old identities, old expectations—and how even the right decisions can come with their own kind of grief. It’s about change, self-discovery, and that quiet space where you're still becoming. It’s not a ‘how-to.’ It’s a reflection. A gentle reminder that if you’re feeling a little lost or unsettled right now… you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re just not finished yet. The post is live now on the blog— You’ll find it under “Latest Blog Post” in the link in bio, and I’ve popped the direct link into stories too. Save it for a quiet read with a cuppa. I hope it lands softly.
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#becoming who you are#becoming yourself again#calm daily rituals#emotional growth#emotional honesty#emotional midlife shifts#emotional wellbeing in midlife#everyday growth#finding peace in transition#gentle growth#grounded routines#how to cope with change#how to feel grounded during change#how to handle life changes#how to live intentionally#how to reset in midlife#in-between seasons of life#inner change#intentional life changes#intentional living in midlife#letting go of old identities#letting go of who you were#life transitions#liminal space#midlife reflection#midlife transitions#not quite there yet#not who I used to be#Our Little House in the Country#personal growth in midlife
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Okey here’s the final video! Maybe I’ll come back and add more fine details later but I’m alright leaving it like this for now. Boop :)
[Video ID: A digital animation of Norman Takamori and Skip from Dimension 20: A Starstruck Odyssey. Norman is doing push ups and Skip, slug mode, is booping his nose when he gets close to the floor. End ID.]
#my art#described#animation#dimension 20#a starstruck odyssey#norman takamori#skip takamori#skipperskip#the wurst crew has like. a Joint Workout Day together. everyone kinda does their own routines - Norman’s specifically is very reminiscent-#-of brigade/military warm ups. everyone else is Just A Lil Fearful at how much this 50 y/o man can do actually WHEHS#Skip goes out of body to try n mimic Norman’s workouts but realizes pretty quickly he. can’t really with his slug body. he tries to do one-#-(1) push up and realizes oh his body can’t really do that. cus Norman bursting out laughing cus Skip just kinda slammed his body fully-#-flat on the ground and realized he didn’t really have an ‘upper body’ to support LMAO#so skip just decides to kinda cheerlead Norman on. Norman does sit ups with Skip on his knees and boops his face when he comes up :)#at some point Norman just stops counting how many of each exercise he’s done cus he’s just having fun with Skip. ‘hehe slug bf go boop :)’
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One of the most solid writing elements of Independence Day that has really helped the movie stand the test of time is just how methodical the aliens are in their destruction of Earth.
Despite all of their advanced tech, everything has its limits. They can't just bombard Earth from orbit because their weapons don't work that way--the blast from their mega-cannons spreads across the city because of the City Destroyers' massive size and shields. The dramatic charge time at the end is matched by the charge times in the beginnings (it's a few seconds longer in the climax, but the City Destroyer just spent a lot of energy moving full speed to Area 51 and probably hadn't charged the cannon as effectively as the ones resting above cities for hours had--which is logical!); everything works on a consistent standard.
The aliens also rely on the Earth's satellite connections to function, adding a level of realism to their communication and function--and yes, people make fun of the virus plot, but the writers show their work throughout and address every point step by step.
All of this combines so that, while you can't see the aliens acting at all in the movie, you can work out exactly what they're doing. There's a logical pattern to every action they take, and it doesn't matter if the commander in the final battle is smugly sitting back and swirling a glass of Space Wine as he prepares to exterminate the little humans for his Glorious Leader, or screaming furiously at every officer to get that weapon online before something damages his ship further--the goal is clear. The movie is a huge chess game, both sides are players, but we're only seeing one perspective.
That makes it an odd case where a Sci-Fi film is actually a War Movie, and I love it.
#independence day#id4#the synchronized countdown at the start#the destruction of population centers#the preparation of a ground invasion at the end?#this was a ROUTINE for them#this was just going to be their Invasion Week#there was a whole plot left to go for all of them#and then they all died in a nuclear explosion#really wish the sequel had been better#as in...that the sequel had explored something wholly different#maybe a district 9 sort of thing#but...it's a good solid standalone film
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there's this phenomenon i've seen talked about where a product is finally being created for a market that wasn't previously being served, and the first response to it being an expectation of moral perfection, especially when the market in question is marginalized in some way (as women are in general, but especially in the world of sports). the product is held to a higher standard than the counterpart that serves the non-marginalized because people are projecting a sense of morality onto the product that they don't with the counterpart because the counterpart is (wrongfully) seen as neutral or apolitical because it represents the non-marginalized.
i'm not by any means saying everyone should shut up and take what they can get, but the threats of specifically boycotting over things that wouldn't result in any comparable amount of pushback if they happened in the nhl (which can actually afford to withstand a boycott and where changes made by a boycott would have a much bigger impact) is worth examining to me. also i don’t know how productive it is toward making the world a better and more inclusive place. is an approach to punishing one single individual having a net positive benefit when the approach could also harm women's sports at large. sometimes it feels like people just want to have a strong reaction in the moment because it makes them feel like a good person
#britta curl#pwhl#tbf i think some of the boycotters are not routine sports fans and lack perspective on how unstable women's sports are#and have no idea how quickly women's hockey has folded in the past when trying to get off the ground#but quite honestly some of the responses i'm seeing simply reveal a disconnect with reality#people saying they now feel unsafe watching because the pwhl was a safe place for them#idk how to tell you this but there are certainly other players who hold those beliefs and are smarter about hiding them#i can get this dulling the shine on what was previously an escape for you#but all of life is like this honestly#like every tv show you love will eventually have a cast member say or do something reprehensible#that's just the world we live in unfortunately#i get that everyone has to choose where they draw the line but i think if you're feeling surprised or blindsided#you haven't been paying attention to what's actually going on in the world and have been living in a bubble of what you want to see and hea#which is fun i get it lol. but these are the same people who claim to care about these issues and are clearly lacking any kind of#perspective on what's actually going on with them because they can't learn about them without getting upset#je parle trop#mine
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today I started writing my fic again, after not having written a single sentence in months. I have two things to say: god, I missed it, and god, I'm rusty
#re: me#re: the last puzzle#on a more somber note#it's insane how much you can lose yourself in everyday routine#and all those mundane struggles#and then something comes across (for me that's writing)#and it sort of shakes you awake#and you say oh. there i am#maybe grounding is the right word idk#but for the first time in a while i feel like a slipped back into my skin
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