#system protector

[rainbow-glittery-gutz]

if u come at me with a "source" on endos that mentions being transgender, tulpa, or even the word sysmed

im not fucking reading ur source

CDD is NOT comparable to being transgender AT ALL

tulpamacy is a CLOSED PRACTICE

and SYSMED IS ONE OF THE MOST TRANSPHOBIC TERMS IVE EVER SEEN AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO US TRANSGENDERS WHEN WE SAY IT.

you CANNOT BE TRANSPLURAL. thats NOT how disorders work

you CANNOT make the brain randomly start splitting. CDDS develope AS A CHILD

THEYRE A FORM OF PROTECTION. DID IS YOUR BRAIN BEING TOO OVERWHELMED AS A CHILD TO HANDLE TRAUMA THAT IT PUTS UP AMNESIA BARRIERS TO PROTECT ITSELF. NOT SILLY CHARACTERS IN YOUR HEAD.

ALTERS ARE NOT THE ONLY SYMPTOM OF DID.

and even if in the slightest chance you can have alters without amnesia and trauma, it is NOT CDD

reminder that in the dsm5 it literally says "if the symptoms are caused by a religious practice, or reported not caused by trauma, DID should not be diagnosed"

"oh but doctors are studying endos" THATS LIKE 2 DOCTORS COMPARED TO A MILLION OTHER PROFESSIONALS AND RELIABLE SOURCES STATING OTHERWISE. YOUR SOURCE IS BULLSHIT

[sys-protector-culture]

Protector culture is having to shut down emotions every time the Host goes to look at something he knows will hurt him.

I’d follow him to Hell and back but I just wish he’d stop going there. /ref

[wiredshark]

Ya don’t owe sympathy or kindness to those who hurt ya

Say it louder for the people in the back

Ya don’t owe kindness to those who hurt ya

[the-silent-fellowship]

Survivalmate / Survivalist

[PT: Survivalmate / Survivalist]

“ Survivalmate/Survivalist is a role in which a headmate fronts during survival situations in order to live/exist through the situation. Survival situation can mean a situation that requires emotional survival skills such as masking, recognizing red flags, setting/keeping boundaries and etc., and/or physical survival skills such as fighting, medical knowledge, wilderness survival knowledge, etc. This differs from a protector because they do not generally want to live through a situation to protect the system, but because they have the skills to live through it.

Headmates with this role may be considered a protector but not always. “ - Pluralpeida(link)

[ID: in Alt text]

[Tags] @system-term-archive, @pluralitywords, @pluralterms, @radiomogai, @plurchive

[moonpool-system]

@invisible-friend-system's Systember day 2. "Protective"

give badeline brass knuckles im sure that'll go over smoothly :)

[shapes-and-colors-sys]

Argutector

Definition: A type of protector who fronts specifically to deal with arguments or to help verbally defend the body

Coined by us!

-Kate

[hellsys]

Does anyone know any protector userboxes that have been made? There isn’t many and I don’t think there’s any blogs that are dedicated to making userboxes for protectors like their is persecutors! - Mycroft [He/Him] [Protector/Management]

[redacted-coiner]

Host, Admin(link), Co-Host

Soother(link), Caregiver(link), Comforter(link)

Protector(link), Gatekeeper(link), Persecutor(link)

Some system roles!

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[rainbow-glittery-gutz]

Still loving your headmates while still not wanting DID can absolutely co-exist btw

Someone had the nerves to accuse our co-host of romanticizing DID all bc he vented about not wanting DID while still mentioning he still loves us despite it bc he didn't want us to see it and feel like we were hated

[sys-protector-culture]

System Protector Culture is…

A culture blog for system protectors.

About the mod:

・┈ ✦ ﹕Name : Chaos

・┈ ✦﹕ Pronouns : Any

・┈ ✦﹕ Role : Protector / Anger Holder

・┈ ✦﹕ Sexuality : AroAce

We're a questioning OSDD-1b system, with suspected BPD. Others may answer your asks, they will sign off. Sign off masterlist here.

The other system protector culture blog is pro-endo and utilises the term "sysmed", which is so fucking disgustingly transphobic. So, I created my own. :)

My personal blog is @i-dont-wanna-feel-better. :)

Flag by @dissociative-identity-coining (please state if you wish for me to remove it).

Anon sign off list.

DNI:

- Non traumagenic systems/supporters

- Syscourse

- General Criteria

- Anti alterhuman , regression , etc.

- Radqueer/TransID etc.

- Personality disorder abuse truthers

Feel free to take your issues with this list to my main blog. :)

Be sure to start your ask with something along the lines of "Protector culture is".

Tags:

#protector culture is - Asks that are sent in.

#not culture - Any asks that aren't protector culture.

#update - Updates about the blog, our life, etc.

Whole system:

Personal:

[the-office-userboxes]

1) This protector doesn't have empathy 2) This protector is usually co-fronting but doesn't show it 3) This protector might lash out if under stress 4) This protector loves discussing system roles

Here you go! I hope you enjoy!

Like and/or reblog if using/saved!

Credit is not needed but appreciated!

[wiredshark]

This is BULLYING!! System protectors stop doing your JOB!! Dont PROTECT me like you FORMED to do its DISCRIMINATION!! I'll be TOTALLY fine!!

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for traumatized system protectors!

Being a headmate with a protective role can at times be exhausting, challenging, overwhelming, and downright scary. System protectors often face difficult, violent, or frightening situations in order to protect the rest of their system, and sometimes this can come at a great cost to the protector’s own health and well-being. This post goes out to all the system protectors out there who have been traumatized in some way!

🛡 Shoutout to protectors whose trauma history has made them jumpy, nervous, awkward, or easily startled!

💖 Shoutout to protectors who are also trauma holders, or whose trauma causes them to be separated from the rest of their system!

☀️ Shoutout to ex-protectors and those who are no longer able to effectively protect their system due to their trauma history!

🛡 Shoutout to protectors who split to cope with a traumatic situation and now can only front when their system is facing new trauma!

💖 Shoutout to protectors who are often dissociated, listless, dazed, or confused!

☀️ Shoutout to protectors who feel like they can’t relate to or connect with the rest of their system!

🛡 Shoutout to protectors whose trauma has left them angry, bitter, irritable, or spiteful!

💖 Shoutout to protectors who are not brave or tough, or who struggle to meet the expectations of their headmates or others outside their system!

☀️ Shoutout to protectors whose trauma has caused them to develop a subsystem or strange, unorthodox, or maladaptive coping habits!

🛡 Shoutout to protectors who struggle with flashbacks, panic attacks, depression, nightmares, or other symptoms of PTSD!

💖 Shoutout to protectors who stay loving fiercely and are committed to practicing kindness, compassion, and generosity despite their trauma history!

It is an unfortunate fact that many system protectors may form as a result of trauma or end up traumatized at some point in their lives. We genuinely hope that each protector who reads this can find hope, peace, comfort, and recovery in their future! Know that it’s okay for a protector to need or want support or a break every now and then. It’s okay to slow down, take a step back, acknowledge your needs, and breathe!

Please remember that you are valued and deserving of love and respect just the way you are. Regardless of your current capabilities, how you are coping with your trauma, and how you currently understand yourself and your system, you are worthy of kindness and compassion, no ifs ands or buts about it! We care about you, and we truly wish that you can find the resources and support you need in order to live your best life. Thanks so much for reading, and take care!

[reds0sepetals]

I don't think Swap Corry deserved Zayna.I can treat her better!

[plural-headcanons]

Garu and Karu from NU: Carnival are a host and protector in a canon traumagenic system with functional multiplicity!

[psychotic-system-culture-is]

schizospec system culture is having a headmate who helps in grounding the host by just verbally tearing into their delusions and being so here for it

@departureresidents

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