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TW: Amber Heard vs Johnny Depp (but PLEASE READ if you can stomach the talk about DV!)

I am declaring now that I take back EVERYTHING I’ve said about this case anywhere online or off. I have found out much information which I did not have which gives a new perspective on evidence that previously made it look like she was the abuser (eg. the first bombshell was revealed at “when you take the high road” in part 1 of linked video where a part of a phone call recording SOUNDED like an admission of guilt and an abuser mocking their victim but really it was an out of context clip from edited phone calls shared to Johnny Depp stans from his lawyer where she explained why she reacted to pain and freaked out in a fight flight freeze or fawn state because she thought, after years of abuse, that he was going to attack her again). After around 2 weeks of research, watching all 3 parts of Medusone’s series (part 1 linked), rewatching videos breaking down the case, listening to audios like the Australian audio, listening to Medusone’s hours and hours long podcasts going through the evidence, watching her whole deposition, going through transcripts and watching testimonies and cross examinations I have concluded that I was manipulated with lies and manipulated audios and facts which twisted the truth into a lie. I apologise to Amber Heard for my contribution into her public abuse. As someone who went through intimate partner abuse by someone who wasn’t a cis man, I value all victims regardless of the gender or sex of either party, but in this case I believe Johnny Depp used DARVO to use Reactive Abuse against Amber and then painted her as the abuser in order to manipulate people with consciences to join in with the public hate when the “gold digger” narrative didn’t work, on its own at least. I also can’t ignore how her neurodivergence (she’s ADHD) was used against her with that pseudoscience bullshit of body language analysis, which is particularly heinous to do to someone neurodivergent as we do have different ways of communicating and we often do “tells” of lying. No wonder people didn’t understand her. I suggest everyone who believed him to watch at least the first part but really every three parts are so important. Amber was and is truly an unambiguous victim. Thank you for reading

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CONGRATS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENTTTTTTTT

:3

THANKS!!!!! 💜

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Bruh 💍 “would you maybe wanna marry me?”👉🏻👈🏻

(Forgot to post on Tumblr yesterday :3)

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How y’all doing? I just flipped down and flipped back up and flung my glasses behind me XD

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Birthday present to myself 🙌🏻 if you’re not on Instagram check this post on Instagram because oh my god that’s amazing #art #petpainting

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S’more Toastie :P https://www.instagram.com/p/CqA7ZS7I40v/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Snake and Masssssh #christmassteve

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people on tumblr be like “I’m going to create an environment that is so bad for people with OCD”

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some ppl treat transmascs like alright if you act "too" masculine you're a toxic monster of the patriarchy and if you don't act masculine "enough" you're actually just a girl. and this all depends 100% on how i personally feel about you at any given moment :) now dance monkey dance

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there is something so darkly comical about tumblr potentially outliving twitter

tumblr, which is held together with duct tape and madness, run by three raccoons in blood stained Yahoo! hats and a handful of crabs, its only discernible source of income the sale of shoelaces from an inside joke so inside no one knows the original source anymore and fake blue checkmarks... that website still lives on

truly the cockroach of social media and I love it for that

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You know our society is fucked up when people seriously think being a criminal defense attorney is like. A moral evil. Like people seriously jump to “wow you defend murderers” as if the majority of “crime” that happens on a daily basis isn’t literally stuff like addicts being caught possessing drugs or homeless people being arrested for loitering or fucking poor women stealing food and clothes for their kids like… the average person is just one or two paychecks away from also being deemed a “criminal” by society but yeah sure you should definitely act like needing to be defended against the state makes you an automatically morally bad person

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If I've learned anything on here it's that you need to be really aggressive about not elevating lesbianism above everything else like it's special and different from other genders and sexualities or you turn into the worst most annoying kind of person.

Like. Y'all need to realize that "lesbians are special above other people because they're not attracted to men" is radfem bullshit right. You know that you're repeating radfem shit for no reason other than to make you feel a lil special right.

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“It’s often unhealthy to hyper-analyze your sexuality to the point where how you experience it changes where you belong. This is why the idea that broader terms are somehow more restrictive is baffling. Continuously breaking labels down and creating terminology for each facet of one’s identity shrinks communities until it’s just one person convinced that they’re the only one who relates to their experiences. It isolates people and ignores the importance of individuality within a collective identity.”

On Hyperpersonalized Sexual Identity

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In memory of my inner child bitch

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