annoyingobscenecowboy

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The first rule of hyperfixation club is you don't stop talking about hyperfixation club

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treating tumblr like pinterest >>>

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Pros of hyperfixiation:

Happy!

Art ideas

Life is good

Cons of hyperfixiation:

I am going to blow up

All my art is of the same guy

If I don't think about this 24/7 I get violent

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alright, time for some DIY mental conditioning!

step one- find a music artist that you like listening to. This should NOT be your favourite artist because you may not to get to listen to them often anymore. It’s also easier if it’s rather niche, so that you’re unlikely to just hear it out and about. step two- you will listen to this artist ONLY when you clean or do other chores. It’s important that you don’t listen to it while relaxing, that’ll undermine the whole operation. But having it play gives you an incentive to be productive, because it’s your only chance to listen to this music, and also helps you associate particular music with getting up and doing things

step 3- once the association is well and truly there, then this music can be a useful tool to make you start on chores. When you play the music, you’re put into a productive mood and sort yourself out. It’s crucial that you don’t then start ignoring the music, because then it won’t work as well.

uh, disclaimer, I genuinely don’t know if this’ll work for anyone else, but it’s worth a try if you really struggle with chores and stuff.

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AuDHD under capitalism is a nightmare 🦋♾️🌈

so here’s how i avoid the burnout that comes with stress-cramming schoolwork

1 - make a list of plans you need to make - rather than getting stuck on “what do i do first?”— - write down everything you need to do in general terms - for example: > make revision cards for the great gatsby key moments > annotate king leah > write new resume

2 - write down the actions needed to complete this task - rather than diving right in then getting overwhelmed by the ambiguity of the nest step (this is often my problem)— - you write down clear steps you can refer back to - for example: > brainstorm all key TGG moments > organise them in lists by theme (for me, the themes are something i already have a list of) with room to spare for each > add 1 or 2 key quotes for each moment > add favourite critical quote for each moment > add very short analysis for each moment > copy this information on one side of a red revision card > put the name of the moment on the other side

3 - repeat for every item on your list - i write all my plans first because i find that keeping motivation to do so is easier when i don’t stop - i recommend setting a timer for 10/15 minutes, then alternating between resting/working until you’re finished

4. pick a task, follow your steps - aim to complete 1 step per sitting.

🫶 this won’t work for everyone, but i recommend trying it if you haven’t before! (it’ll probably work best if you modify it for you)

BONUS: make a new list where you organise your tasks into “easy” and “dreading”. (or whatever categories you want— i just like these) tick them off in a bright colour as you go along. once you’ve done an entire category, cross out the title. this helps me.

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Focus frogs! A tool to help neurodivergent people chunk up work and take breaks while still maintaining momentum due to having a visual signifier of ur progress!

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the perfect pear

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NATG 2023 Day 29 - Draw as many previous prompts in a single picture as you can / Draw a pony scrambling

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Pear Butter icons ☆

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Hey i found this gender/sexuality chart! i feel like i should share it in case it helps someone out.

As someone who is nuerodivergent, gender and sexuality or attraction has been super confusing for me to understand and stuff like this can make it feel a little less complicated.

Here’s a blank version and also where i would describe myself falling:

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a note for future girlwhore incase she forgets what she can hyperfixate on when it comes to tumblr:

autism/nuerodiverency

backrooms

fanfics/wattpad

fnaf

mlp

monster high

art/ocs

MADD

cryptids

animal crossing

valorant

everskies

sims cc

botany

house stuff

stim boards, slime, asmr

witchcraft

self care, skincare, hair care

piercings

studying

chronic illness

stuff 2 buy

video essay

writing

exercise

books

cringe

recovery

obsessed love

lgbt

anything music

“aesthetic”

horror

nutrition

recipes/food

sabrina carpenter, chappell roan, tara yummy

mental health, coping, therapy

undertale

life is strange

snoopy

cult, religion

sanrio

bluey

headcanons

journaling/scrapbook

lps

french anything

lisa frankenstein

sweeney todd, heathers, mean girls etc

crafts

tips for the bf

depraved side of tumblr (like, the WEIRDOS)

dandy’s world

pretty much anything that makes me mad but fascinates me (purity culture, spiritual psychosis)