Post Graduate Articles of a Body Dysmorphia Specialist, Author Michael Bench
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"Criminals Witches and Perverts, Oh My." A commentary on the spectacle and politics of transgenderism." MBench *Toward the end in the conclusion I got discursive to get to the climax point.
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The 8 year nonpermanent reinstatable marriage/*civil union
Dear Attorney General Garland,
I contact you today about the safety of American families, the cause of reducing domestic violence, the cause of ending the objectification of the American Citizen as a spouse object and the battery and emotional injury of their children. The average marriage lasts 8 years according to select law firms. Other firms suggest that the first two years of marriage has many stresses of adjustment (resulting in annulment as it should) followed by the colloquial seven year itch. Some people were always itchy and others, when finding themselves itchy, stay itchy. The spouse then gets defensively itchy resulting in a very untidy environment for children to observing resentful 'hate fucking”. Other than the constantly itchy horndog.. which is certainly a personality trait and cardio fitness ritual... the rest of that is no good. Additionally, the hollywood divorce rate is not a good spectacle for the tabloids to make headlines on. I dont know who buys this trash material in stores but shame is their’s. Its certainly no ideal relationship advice.
It is my view that profit minded legal sector is choosing to take a blind eye to necessary reform of the crossroads of religion and state views on relationships. Divoce should neither be an industry nor a marginal topic no lawyer wants to ball up to addressing. Marriages should not be permanent but rather should be an 8year reinstated condition. If a couple want to reinstate their marriage, for no cost they can address their wishes to be reinstated individually (without duress), and those persons who are sick of their spouse need only do nothing except move out/on by the 8year expiration.
. Another benefit is that if wills are drawn up, the choice to not reinstate a marriage also cancels all stipulations of that spouse being in the will. This will not effect pre-nup agreements unless the agreement intends to extend beyond the marriage duration. I want to be clear that the goal is to make no expectation of continuance simply to remain a couple for tax benefits or income no matter a toxic household. And, if a spouse.. an abused spouse, continues the marriage by some bizarre foolishness.. If an incident occurs in the next 8year stint, the marriage goes dead in the moment; each member is evaluated for their motivations. For to keep the abuse allowed is to also be participant in escalating/facilitating which must be seen in a criminal sphere. See also facilitating rape such that minors get black out drunk at parties or misstate their age or attend functions like college frat parties where the expectation is attendees will be college age young consenting adults. In the facilitating matter we also have teens facilitating the transport of child porn to one another; which should be charged formally under adult law.
If children are born into a marriage that dissolves, and at dissolve.. I feel we need a stare decisis of settled estate to be fair and create a third mind of thought about care of children of separated parents. To my sense this has not really been examined and left to judges to decide on the spot. State to state this could vary wildly by no slight or fault of judges unless we're talking Iowa.. (Nelson v Knight).
Iowa, where a supreme court shouldve been treated with 2inch diameter urethral sounds to remind them of their err.Iowa in which a priest completely swayed a court system in blaming the dental assistant for being the fixation of the married dentist but fully omitted to mention the dentist acquired his (first) wife AS an employee of that very practice and was continuing his trend of shopping his subordinate labor force. Should the law be fair, it better damn well be. Make that 3” diameter urethral sounds for the Iowa Supreme Court.
In the sense a couple know they're only in for an 8 year stint, their stress levels will not be as escalated and they have reason to be on good behavior. I am aware this request will face religious backlash and I say to them.. “ if marriage is a sacrament , the god that which is named in honor of that sacrament appears nowhere before the wife is shot in the head, strangled, beaten, abused”. Their god is only attributed attrition.. “ gee it mustve been god's will.” To that quoted moron I retort.. “ its more reasonable to believe there is no god than to accept he takes a blind eye to such abuse/homicidal conditioning.” If that really is 'Christian' standards, then that religion is truly dead and not likely to resurrect. So if a couple choose instead.. by their choice to have a permanent marriage.. may it be on their duty to be a bet between church and state that if they fall apart to violence or adultery.. that religion owes the state a $100,000 purse and public apology. The state should and will provide better.
Please consider this an amended view of my political banner.
Michael Bench, MEP , WGSGC
#GenderStudies
Author of Native Supremacy.
Carbon County,Pennsylvania
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Busting Dr Cynthia Buliks Injurious Revisionism of Anorexia and Eating Disorders.
By Michael Bench, MEP, WGSGC
1.Can you tell who has eating disorders?
Cynthia says “no”.
Actual Answer: Yes.
Starvation effects are observable and anorexia is cosmetic starvation. Those females with an early eating disorder (EDNOS) or using Anorexic behaviors should be addressed and reported to school staff or counseling for their safety; Crash Dieting is disordered eating even if not a diagnosis and is part of a larger social problem of aversions to patient and honest physical conditioning. Crash diets are the tools of lushes. The very lushes that publish female targeted media promoting cleanses and ‘quick fix tips’. Medical and health advice, if from a document, should only come from academic journals.
2.Are mothers to blame:
Cynthia says no.
Actual Answer: Often
Mothers who have seasonal weight control efforts and use crash diets to cheat their way to a 'beach body” are modeling disordered eating. Crash diets are disordered eating. Mothers involved with pageants have also been known to use other methods like infecting their daughters with tapeworms to reach a desired thinness.
3.Are families to blame?
Cynthia says no.
Actual Answer:Yes.Situationally.
Involvement with sport, social or classist activities that prioritize gender roles before sport itself is a complicity to eating disorders and body dysmorphia. A parent who willingly lets an industry or coach alter her child’s course of physical maturity is actively neglecting their child no matter what the presumed benefits. Families also normalize some seasonal classism, poor nutritional behavior, and poor communication that can be seen in children using anorexic trope behavior and insincere-suicidal attention getting. Mothers who believe their daughters should be paying attention to female targeted fashion media and other retail or pop culture are poorly guarding their children.
4.Is society to Blame? (Far too general. Go home Cynthia.)
Actual Answers: Media is to blame partly in that it protects its advertisers exploitation and revisionism of need/want psychology. Media also forwards health talking points for the unhealthy. The term “weight control” for example is an index case of tolerating a slothful deviant-leisure society who cheat their way to “good looks” simply for summer exhibition. Then they return indoors for winter with their indoor sloth and lazy nutritional rituals.
Coaching & Fashion: Females are not males. Training them as males or believing diet is a form of genetic engineering is magical thinking that can injure the athletes. Instead, minimum ages in sport should be raised so children in gymnastics ,for example, are not used as carnival acts. Lacking a period, a females maturity/fill out has not been “stalled”. She is amenorrheic whether with or without a visible menarche; an event itself that’s been postponed. Females cannot sustain low BMI male thinness to appear his heterosexual-binary-other. In fashion , the binary roles are actually the same , only at smaller emaciated sizes and not androgynous as reported. Fashionistas who take their model's health for granted as an act of 'luxury artification” are long guilty of endangering her health/assault , among other violations like complicit child trafficking (Set aside whether the female volunteers the risk, the runway’s terms are decided by the foolish and nihilist cosmosexuals having very little competence about human physiology. Respecting ‘who we are” ,eh?) Females normalizing anorexic/disordered eating as a justification of their (model) career or fame are themselves a microphone for social blame.
5.Are Anorexia and Eating disorders a White race problem/Female problem.
Actual Answer: Yes.
The democratization of Western and American market views of ideal beauty and ideal sexuality has not changed the core source of toxic constructions of binary gender. The manipulation of the female body to conform to eras if disinformation and beauty trends, ie Gibson girl and the Heroin Chic waif, show that 'disordered eating' and its long term effects are practiced as luxury fads. Actual mental disorders escalated to Anorexia Nervosa or Bulimia Nervosa stem from European and South Asian religio-social pacts of personal virtue(Breatherism/Inedia). Ever since the first London and American reports of Inedia or fad fasting the practicioners lied about how little they ate. Anorexia, breatherism and inedia have always been appropriate religious rituals used by desperate zealots for attention.. The vulnerability to this sort of radicalization around fasting links to psychological vulnerability and distortions of their self (a specific form narcissistic personality disorder)
6. Consider the remainder of her list debunked.>>(will add the rest later)
>>Anorexia is NOT A CASH COW.
If researchers want to do genomics research, have at. Anorexia itself has provably been found occurring as fads. If the 'formal' uppity journal community don’t have the courage to admit mental illness can be market caused and that the external sphere of society can be toxic.. it is their own failure to confront it and demand regulation. Gibson Girl, Heroin Chic, and proana ‘lifestyle’, are fads whose females are too often seen as ‘victims’ of a male privilege error rather instead their own stubborn choices and long term effects there of : I reject the notion Anorexia should be tolerated as a go-to for researchers that simply need grant money and repudiate those that attempted to distract its identity. The democratization of Anorexia as ‘everyone’s disease’ leads me to be highly suspicious of Buliks motivations as a professional and what diet/pharm companies are handing her NCEEDUS checks.
“ Aye , I hear you was gonna go on a crash diet. You dont wanna be one of those wanna bes.. A real crash diet , ya cut your own brake cables , go for a drive on elevated roads and see how many cliffs you can climb back up from.”
What is Anorexia Nervosa:
Behaviors of Disordered Eating are not themselves the source of the problem. All persons using crash diet and anorexic symptom behaviors however should be considered ‘eating disordered”. Anorexic behaviors are actions of solving a problem the subject appears to suffer even if originally having a healthy proportioned body. Current research suggests that between 3-10 exposures to any message makes an audience more willing to oblige and 'know' its message. This also means a female convinced that eternal youth is where she must rest her physical body to be beautiful is not technically a mental disorder yet. In the struggle to keep her body looking prepubescent the damages of malnutrition and gray matter deterioration lead to distortions of thought. These distortions then create new symptoms, unoriginal symptoms that are signs of a narcissistic depression and helplessness.
Starting at that point for internal pathology....
If Anorexia is a mental illness aside from market learning then it must be recognized a problem of extreme dissatisfaction with the self that has escalated. Anorexia Nervosa , or the most extreme form of cosmetic starvation is then to be recognized : A narcissistic depression formed from the conflict or inability to adapt to adolescent body changes. Social messages denouncing the mature female body and independence may solidify these formerly inert cautions. Further, body changes of the teen are used by marketers to embarrass and humiliate the teen for imperfections; a classic 'witch hunt' scenario of threatening the girl with being burnt at the stake for not being a sexual object. The anorexic is faced with that environment daily; an environment where she has no choice to identify as an adolescent among peers and media , whether she’s ready to adapt or not. There is a clear ‘at adolescence trigger” that points to an adaptation difficulty in a soup of marketing that denounces the aged female as roast beef, spent, junk in the trunk and other negativity. The Youngest females.. healthy or by pathology would have a difficult time concluding what is good about being female when the unhealthy deposition of fat at the waist and hips is normal for her maturity. That is mainly due to problems in the fitness community media leaving no appreciation for fitness itself. Magazine imagery is purely body sculpted or body building.. actual athletic conditioning with the time allotment it requires.
I am also referring to Anorexia as a form of Gender Dysphoia who's conflicted social and internal views of teen maturity can lead to traumatized states. This should not leave room for stable anorexics or unstable females to characterize the adoption of their injurious methods for 'an in-crowd” elitism.
Anorexia Nervosa and its less severe 'eating disorders.. should actually be called #BodyDysmorphicSIBDieting ( Self Injurious Behavior-Dieting)..It includes caloric restriction, multiple stimulant abuse, dissociative abuse and abuse of prescribed medicines, poor choices in recovery foods which adds to their narcissistic shaming. Pro Ana websites and groups must be understood part of the symptom of a sociopathic “narcissism supply”. Because Anorexia is so well known, applying its known traits can mimic actual anorexics but these body dissatisfied people are factitious disorder candidates. (they are still disordered and mentally unwell. Thereby groups calling themselves pro Ana that taunt new members as ‘wannabes’ are not doing their job as a support group; Support groups and other health resources pages welcome members and hope to spread positiivity. Instead pro ana sites often feature a core group functioning as an exclusive cliq who give merit to the identity of ANOREXICS as it surrounds her; the actual board member is of no consequence. The Pro Ana board is an active process of denial/bargaining by making their narcissist affliction sound positive and trendy.
In no way should statements of recovery or links on these proana sites be presumed to be safe. Anorexia Nervosa is technically an umbrella term for three or more groups necessitating 'shortcutting dieting techniques” to achieve a desireable body. One is truly a mental illness of its own, another is a sociopathic illness that has adopted anorexic traits for its factitious parading.. but is also as serious. Also be mindful that persons starting pro anorexic boards might also be sadists and psychopaths who find artificial arousal in providing a place for harm. All persons utilizing starvation and self abuse for an undisciplined 'thinspired body” are all heading to the same fatal end; including fashion models. Anorexia in name, in diagnosis, or in method IS STILL ANOREXIA. A refusal of recovery and presumption that anorexia is a lifestyle in name , point to a group still in denial that their practices are injurious. Denial of self failure/deception is one narcissist flaw even if the personality disorder symptoms dont apply to the factitious supplicants
Third is a general category of body dissatisfied females who use encourage each other with SIB Diet techniques rather than actually go to a gym and perform both cardio AND resistance-exercise-for-STRENGTH.. which will infact lead to hypertrophy and better metabolism. This third group is often heckled by the others as fakers and wannarexics. In fact it is the other two groups proving the sociopathic tendencies of their guilt being made manifest on others. Since they cannot empathize, they neither should be empathized. Those yelling 'wannarexics” can be considered social trash and treated accordingly. A combined trait among all 'anorexics' is they mistake strength as an inside characteristic to excuse responsible self conditioning. .. or to justify their fears lifiting weights .. as a behavior is too masculinity defining. Her ego exploits her physical body and the body at times will take back such time to demand fueling. It is then rightful the ego feels shame but not for eating .. rather for the fasting that causes binging in excess of regular fueling of activity. This singular matter has a strong motivation to be fatally thin and is their excuse to avoid most legitimate forms of balanced physical conditioning. The thinness is of no consequence. Those who intend to crash diet their way to a perfect body will eventually succumb to the cheapness of their diets. There is no diet that achieve what physical benefits come from physical conditioning. Research addressing diet as more important than exercise in weight control addresses a foolish society terrible at both. MB.
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Iliopsoas Strains, Side Stitches and Testicle Turmoil.
//As written to the NATA News. (National Athletic Training Association).
Dear Editor
The exact cause of sidestitches during running has long eluded the profession. What has been agreed on are ways to subdue the discomfort. A letter to The Physician and Sports Medicine suggested “bending forward pressing ones fist up into the ribcage and against the liver and run 10 to 15 steps like this.” (Duncan). Less severe methods by this contributor (in order) include 1)try belly breathing rather than shallow chest breathing, 2)exhale when the foot opposite the side stitch strikes the ground, and (3) run with your hands over your head while breathing deeply. The uncomfortable circumstance seems local to endurance runners, especially novices.
Chris Webb of Moonjoggers.com echoes nearly identical advice. With a jpeg of all the muscles of the abdomini and obliques family shown on his website, Webb goes on to join the viewpoint blaming the transverse abdominus for exercise-related transient abdominal pain (ETAP)(Webb). With that in mind, make concern of two different forms of advice to 1)raise ones arms over their head. 2)concentrate on exhaling when the opposite foot of the stitch contacts the ground. The effect of each of these strategies brings passive attention to the gait. The runner is forced to concentrate on moving their footstrikes underneath them rather than behind or in such a way that their running gait is mechanically swayback.
It would be first wrong to only focus on the anterior face of the body (trunk flexors) to narrow down the culprits. The posterior zone of core stabilization includes Psoas major and iliacus (iliopsoas), longissimus thoracis, serratus anterior, latissimus dorsi, erector spinae and many others. In fact, the American public's issues with low back pain mirror sports medicine's and orthopaedic disinterest in the low back musculature as individual components.
Webb added that stopping a run to stretch trunk musculature (inclusive of the pectoralis major) could somehow relieve the ETAP pain. An athlete of enough experience to know what DOMS feels like would readily realize the pectoralis major and diaphragm could not be culprits to a side stitch. Either the stitch would replicate shooting pain down the arm or breathing would be entirely altered. Worry of a heart attack should certainly end a run. Webb and Duncan give us our clues what the underlying cause is: its deep, deep as the liver (seemingly). They suggest pressing on the point to relieve pain. We in sportsmedicine already use this method to defeat tennis elbow and patellar tendonitis: reducing the range of motion of the muscle/tendon to ease strain on the attachments with chopat straps The psoas major is a clear victim of conditioning neglect and the root of ETAP. What is the cause: bad form favoring hip hyperextension which strains the muscle while the runner already has it in a stretched position (standing upright). The psoas group is tasked with both core stabilization and run form performance posture. The iliopsoas's relaxed position occurs while sitting. A stitch is condition of a muscle under tension not yet acclimated to the jarring of running and aiding inefficient run mechanics. Whether these elements are alone painful or result in a spasm existing as a 'standing wave” are yet to be decided.
This discussion doesn't yet explain why the stitch only occurs on one side of the body. The immediate answer is ;no matter how perfect in attempt; all sports gaits are somehow assymetric. I do not choose that particular hill for my professional career to have a momentus death(or celebrity status). Instead, I favor a causal notion behind assymetry: ergonomic and physiological mechanisms of energy conservation. When two muscles occupy a redundant function, its my hypothesis the brain sends only one message and at certain times there is a dominant muscle of the pair and a subdominant. The subdominant follows the dominant. Õunpuu and Winter's EMG study confirms higher activity in dominant side plantar flexors. Their abstract directly states: “an assumption of symmetry is not valid for individual subjects” and bilaterial differences are hidden in pooled data. (Õunpuu). As early as 1989, the potential for muscles of a pair to act differently opened the door to evaluate ETAP correctly.
Side stitches are not the only difficulty an injured or strained iliopsoas/psoas can deal out. For males, a strained iliopsoas can leave one doubled over and cursing at all family members and every barking neighborhood dog. Pain is far surpassed by worry; surgical intervention worries. Do I have a varocele, testicular torsion, a hernia; what is a matter? The onset of a psoas major strain is often a long time coming. The tightness in an upper side quadrant of the abdomen is often written off as resistance exercise DOMS or a nuisance. Graduate school coursework circa 1998 had conflicting views whether stretching actually reduced potential for injury when before exercise. Sprinters and weightlifters should always expect to stretch regardless of research debating maximum muscle tendon and force. The endurance runners face a dicier gamble. I prefer to believe their best routine is stretching after a preliminary portion of their run has warmed them up to deliver preformance goals in their daily workout; when they are ready to drop the hammer on more challenging hills or paces. Othewise they should always stretch after the run or keep their goals section limited to stretch directly after and follow with a cool down run element.
For musicians/percussionists the strain will casually take place by whichever side the toms are arranged for fills while playing the drum kit. From high tom to floor tom; the daily enthusiasm to rockout first and stretch later sets a stage for serious pain radiating from the trunk down through the scrotum. Even actively trying to stretch the trunk muscles can leave an athlete or percussionist vulnerable to series of events that trigger the strain.
The trigger of a moderate iliopsoas strain (as experienced by the author) came to fruition while trying to stretch the muscle. Lying in a supine position on a press bench (at the gym) and allowing the legs to hang off each side edge while not touching the ground, the iliopsoas was put under extreme tension. That instant of posture was a rest period between doing raised-straight-leg crunches. Giving no warning to the body for a not-gradual mode of extreme tension, the psoas muscle group became insulted. The effect was not pronounced until three hours after. The effect also included an hour of elliptical cardio including a crossramp of the whole leg focus before returning home.
The sharp large-area pain of an iliopsoas strain can cause male athletes to be very concerned of testicular conditions. The pull on the inguinal ligament, internal and external oblique insertions along the pelvis floor raise due worry of conditions that require surgery. The threat of surgery amidst a condition having very little literature can compound individual sensitivity to pain. The pained area will comprise just below the pectoralis major down to the epididymis of the testicle on the same side, some central discomfort in the central low abdomen exists as well. The acute injury can be handled with rest, ice on both the epididymis, crotch, iliopsoas bursa and pained side of the abdomen. Most pain will subside in three days. Latent effects or warning symptoms include hypersensitivity to the edges of seats when the rear of the testicle brushes against them, slight oddity in latent fluid sensation at the end of the penis following ejaculation and some urinations is also telltale. These are not sensations of burning or pain nor should urination or ejaculation be painful, Otherwise you may be dealing with another situation entirely. There is a change in the chemical composition of the fluid denoting some form of stress or small scale inflammatory response.
If the athlete returns to resistance exercise before the injury is healed, they risk a slightly less painful experience providing their gym routine was unchanged and they guarded against painful postures and excessive weight. Squats were unaffected; both for quadriceps and gluteal focus. Running is also not painful nor did it result in ETAP. The author is an experienced runner so his posture may not have the quirks that would raise a disabling condition to novices with an iliopsoas strain. In this experience a few tests of the leg and abdomen were evaluated. Step sign was negative. Step sign was followed by a hip flexor test which was also negative but resulted in an internal 'snapping syndrome' sensation near the ASIS. The snapping sensation was not painful as it moved from external to internal, nor did it radiate pain to the offended/engaged testicle of the condition. General soreness following workouts did require further icing in all regions.
A test for this strain is as follows: lying supine in a resting position of yoga's bridge; begin with a wide stance with feet planted on the ground and knees at a comfortable maximum distance apart. Rotate each foot inward to about 30-40 degrees. At this point the clinician should ask the athlete to begin spreading their knees as far as possible. The motion will cause mild discomfort on the iliopsoas-pelvic pathway and can send stress down to the rear of the testicle.The athlete may notice significant details about the attachment location of the pelvic fascia to the testicle and its unlike the vas deferens.
A return to rest position will clarify if impact to the strain has been achieved by discomfort in the upper psoas major region. In no way should the discussion of an iliopsoas strain deter visiting a general physician or a urologist for concerns of genital injury. Having done extensive research it appears the misdiagnosis of this ailment has resulted in excessive and unneeded antibiotic medication, invasive testicular modifications, the false diagnosis of repeat bouts of epididymitis, routine torsion protocols, testicular removal and many wild guesses. Even well trained professionals utilizing the Arnheim & Prentice “Principles of Athletic Training”(8th Ed) undergraduate text or even the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons “Athletic Training and Sportsmedicine” (2nd Ed) text would not be able to differentiate a posterior stabilizer induced discomfort from a testicular complication from the mid 1990s research absence in the area. Urologists and orthopaedic doctors should also take heed.
(Now I'm going to get back to my sore tummy and my sore man-ball).
Michael Bench graduated East Stroudsburg University's Movement Studies Program with honors and concentration in Athletic Training SportsMedicine in 1998. He was NATABOC certified in 1999 while completing a Masters Degree in Exercise Physiology and Graduate Certificate in Gender Studies; (#GoDucks) specializing in body dysmorphia. His further experiences in body modification scenes and independent work in competitive endurance (amateur) athletics, gate control theory, percussion coordination and body composition have enabled the perspective on this elusive malady. He has published two books, “This Device of Reason” and “Native Supremacy”; and many unpublished papers ranging from economics to anorexia nervosa. His current edition of research “External Motivators of Anorexia Nervosa and Anorexic Self Abuse” is available free on request.
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Opening Letter to Labor Secretary Martin Walsh//
Disclaimer: This letter was originally slated to go through the White House email form as it could not be left for understaff prone to market loyalties. The matter relates to the physical abuses of laborers in the fashion industry and the protection of women in the marketplace. One runway model summarized her experience in the runway fashion industry as ‘ what most people called sexual harassment, we called compliments”. ..
As was written for the White house email form.
Dear President Biden, Enclosed is a letter I have prepared for your new US Labor secretary. The reason I am sending it through this venue is because M Patricia Smith, Labor Solicitor/assist to secretary is likely to trash it. Smith is a loyalist to a misogynist fashion industry and cannot be trusted to assure the Biden administration is made aware of significant problems. Problems that I found the Pennsylvania House and Senate delegates were too incompetent to handle.
Dear Labor Secretary Martin Walsh
Congratulations on your appointment to the US Secretary of Labor. It is a post with many opportunities of advancement considering its previous inhabitants have done so little to advance it. OSHA's budget is only limited by the initial investment in staff so that dangerous workplaces can be fined . David Michaels, Edwin Foulke Jr, and trumps appointee were not prepared of the bankroll they were leaving on the table by keeping the agency understaffed.
Ever since 2008 I have called on OSHA to regulate the fashion industry , specifically the fashion modeling agencies; to stop the industry anorexia that exists in its coven. One of your very own employees : M Patricia Smith, solicitor actively enabled the sex trafficking industry within NYC fashion to flourish by circumventing regulation aimed at ending eating disorders. How would that be linked? Agencies such as Elite Models go along with haute couture's demands because they can prescribe upon a female an emaciated frame by which she is no threat to them. She is no threat to demand her due pay for her commercial estate as the person the luxury brand uses to parade their diseased prescription of 'the female”. She is not female, usually, not for them.. rather she's typically pictured the androgynous prepubescent frame suited to turn on pedophiles as they are.. even if she's technically 16-22yo. That alone is a public health danger no matter who calls it art. Luxury fashion exists to be callous by its exercise of Bourdieu's Habitus: the arrogant exercise of trashing others for not wearing their clothing well or talking under the luxury parameters/terms of the Veblen good.
Every time I contact DOL, somehow the entire explanation bores them into inactivity. So , I'll tell you ahead of time.. if you dont understand what I'm telling you .. ask. The Department of Labor ,especially OIG and OSHA are far underperforming in protecting American workers. It is not only OSHA's duty to adopt the body mass index to regulate industry but also to adopt ALL health standards accepted by NIOSH/CDC in the effort of assuring a safe workplace. That is OSHA's duty as an agency. Is it not the Department of Labor's duty to avoid protect workers despite how the market might recontext them as contractors as a financial convenience. It is the goal to protect the rights of workers as they are in each industry and not by that industry's cowardice or vanity to exploit them in all the ways they will and do.
In this debate you're going to hear all sorts of nonsense about “Feminism' and “ Homophobia” as a defense for what the luxury fashion industry does. All you have to do is ignore their lawyers and their excuses and instead protect the public from the models and from becoming “ their kind of fashion model”. You're going to probably ask “ how can I prove the fashion industry causes eating disorders?” It does. But be real clear that just like murder you can kill a man with a sword or a gun. I am not saying all eating disorders are caused by the fashion industry; an industry who models malnutrition as a class status repeated back in the time of the “Gibson Girl”. All girls colleges reported worry that their students looking like worn dark eyed zombies was not a healthy state for students to be in.
A gay male fashion designer is neither an expert on anatomy nor gender studies, or gender psychology simply because he has a front row seat to his experience. He is open to be criticized and prodded exactly what about the female body he is aware of in physiological terms. Whether he protests by barking back “ you're just homophobic” avoids recognize he has nothing to respond. Dolce and Gabbana's designers failed out of fashion school so would hardly be the candidate to have a graduate or even bachelors degree in basic biology. Bluntly, just because he prefers his sex as a penetration by penis in his orifices doesn't mean he can appropriate the Cis Female identity and preferences for his own; for his microphone to redesign her; to artify her as an object of his creation. She is not his creation. So lets start at the reality that if a fashion model emaciating herself from age 16 onward AWAY from her natural fillout.. by the same championed methods as anorexics.. (stimulant abuse, strict calorie restrictions, exercise abuse, drug escapism) that she too will become injured no differently than the diagnosed anorexic the Usgov/NIH currently confuses themselves to be 'a mental disorder”. Its not a singular set of incidences. Its a tragic mistake of LGBT fashion designers and agencies to abuse a girl into their standards of sizing when said sizing is injurious to her.
I am going to close on these points: No matter if a foolish girl moves from Wyoming to New York City to chase her Vogue dream of being a runway model... her sense of liberation to be that model stops being 'feminist” when she forgets herself as an object set infront of youth and the public. When she is made a model to others.. her liberty is zero. Her occupation is not an ideal circumstance no matter how she smiles or how many magazine covers shes on. She is not an ideal female nor feminist to allow herself be made a 'hero' and 'celebrity' infront of young girls while she secretly is only in the industry to settle a fraudulent debt against her. These agencies recruit girls on the image of prestige. They hire limos and other image related services at her expense without telling her... or so the scam goes. Even if I detest the model herself for being a foolish stooge ,.. she has a right to grow up physically as a case of health no matter what her occupation is. Her identity does not owe the industry a duty to stunt itself to 'be its girl' . “It” doesnt know what a real girl is nor how to correctly respect her. If we really were talking about 'gender bending”, then the bulldyke butch female is absent on the range of imagery. The guys might wear the dresses but the females just look angry and spent.
Due to couture labels like Balenciaga, Gucci, and Dior.. the luxury fashion market clusters around them as a cult of personality. It is not merely fashion. Dior built his name on trying to repopularize the waspwaist.. and so we must also realize the practices of body modification (ie tattooing, piercing, corsetry) are also not for people below 18; an age 16 & 17 year old girls should not be allowed or expected to oblige. Couture's waif is body modification in a most anti female way of things; so.. neither CFDA nor its couture industry are feminists at all. Balenciaga is actually more famous than Dior in that the original models were 14 year old girls in place of models. Now the fashion critics are all gaga for 'the androgynous' norm not calculating that a girl too young to have one gender isn't either old enough to split the difference between two. The artification of gender is not its study nor its protection as an asset of classism.
The fashion industry is arguing that the “ Body Mass Index' is an inaccurate measure of health. As a paper chart, it was never meant to be a clinical test measure; Strike one. When skin calibers or hydrostatic weighing become part of the actual measure of body adiposity then BMI is plenty fair. More the point, a female below 18.5 even by the paper chart shows a lack of care for herself in weight training and metabolism maintenance. By trying to be a model or imitating model prescribed crash diets.. the youth and females of the public injure their metabolism in three ways : 1) they are incapable managers of any crash diet. 1a) they dont know to reset their reward food choices. 2) they indulge multiple crash diets and for far longer than the plan itself advises 3) the crash diet look is not the same look offered from hard training and a mere weekend worth of fasting for a judged event. These females are acting like the ideal body is maintained daily and weekly. Its not. The fashion industry tries to cheat its way to looking like the hard work of elite athletes concealing all the cheap taste addictions/ 5 star lard cuisine its fine dining jet setters choke down their throat between events.
The fashion industry also doesnt realize that body composition is larger than the height/weight chart. Body composition is small piece of Anthropometrics and Goniometry of the Movement studies field; Not Psychology. I actually find the female led psychology field in the study of eating disorders has enabled young girls to remain getting injured by market forces. This is not a day camp for women to console each other as victims.. Its a mockery of gender and sex education that its archetypes are paraded as ambiguous fads on the runway There are finite limits to the health of the female body that the industry is not protecting ; worse.. they indulge these 'international standards” so that the females and males applying for these jobs are worn out and too tired to fight about due credit. The broken mirror on the industry is they worship youth only so the youth cluster for easy fame.. and much easier exploitation; knowing nothing about the industry's dangers. New models are especially vulnerable to prostitution, forced drug addiction, rape, and the long term effects of eating disorders due to the silence of the current models and organizations like “ The Model Alliance” that try to legitimize the profession. Fashion designers have no say what eating disorders. They hesitate incriminate their own “homoerotic imagination” as diseased. Neither Fashion designers nor talent agencies have a soapbox on which to defend their exploitation of the models (mostly female).. in that 'she can leave whenever she wants... except she cant” . Due to the debt scam held over her.. she is forced to crash diet continually (malnourishment) until she is either out of debt, dead or in a hospital. She'll remain in that hospital taking small checks to shut up.. and take blame for 'her self made diets”.. instead of connect that no matter how self managed her disaster.. the primary cause of her illness ; her PHYSICAL EXHAUSTION; is by the compulsion to 'fight hard for her fame” and the agencies income.. no matter how unlevel their commitment is to her safety or industry legitimacy.
TO BE QUOTED:”Eating disorders victims are bonded by physical exhaustion that cannot be mistaken as a mental symptom to be bandaided by antidepressants.” -Michael Bench. Eating disorders are a physical ailment resulting from the queer fetished 1)calorie restrictions AND 2) food combination/pairings that set her GI tract and immune system into a downward spiral. 3) When the female dieter decides the first crash diet didnt work, her move to another plan ( of weird diet combos like grapefruit and baconbits) adds to the confusion of the GI tract. The GI tract biome is set off balance by these diets... and so too is an injury to her metabolism.. An injury of the public occurs through these extreme and fast results diet motivations as much as the fraudulent diet instruction itself.
The problems of the Department of Labor effectively advocating for employee safety are also complicated by its unwillingness to address NIOSH- NORA as a bunch of deadbeats.. They're too worried if a Christmas tree bundler was risky instead of keeping young women away from molesters, sadists, human traffickers and embezzlers among the industry protected by the Council of Fashion Designers of America. CFDA's primary error is that it only wants to defend the designers broken visions instead of the whole industry's aspirations to forward interesting art-as fashion. The Androgyny fad is a lie; its an artification of the female body by MALE models and designers to wear.. without concern how its prescriptions are unhealthy to her. The Fashion industry and HHS are going to retort “ anorexia” is a mental health problem.. not an employment/labor problem. So it happens uniformly in all industries then? Its image is promoted in fashion but not taking fault for? A female prescribed to look as though her growth curve recessed on itself.. to a size she was at age 12 or 14 is not only unhealthy.. its negligence and injurious damages owed to her by the brand and the agencies defending it.
Again. If you have any questions or wish to hash out more of a detail about these matters, do not hesitate to contact me. However.. after these many years that Department of Labor has done nothing to protect women from the fashion industry's bad actors.. its about time the whole executive branch find a conscience. Where there is a gender wage gap there also exists here a lack of care whether any industry abuses women or the public of females. There is only the President and the Vice President to conference on this .. I can tell you first hand the Labor OIG have failed repeatedly to act in forcing OSHA to perform its duty in adopting and enforcing HHS/ CDC health guidelines whether developed by NIOSH or otherwise. When Howard Shapiro was acting OIG legal he exclaimed “ we have no mandate to regulate fashion modeling by Bmi because its not in the 1970s founding of OSHA”. Of course it wouldnt be if BMI was adopted in 1998. Here I have to emphasize Shapiros lame excuse wasn't just that he didnt want to address BMI as a health metric but that he was refusing all health research and standards that were available ever since OSHA and NIOSH were founded. Shapiro owes the government his salary back. I hope your service in US LABOR determines you deserved every dollar of your office salary.
the regulation of the fashion industry is a necessary act of responsibility for all workers and to protect women. If the equality of women is a central pillar of President Biden’s campaign , this is not a matter to ignore. Please recognize my effort carrying on ever since 2008 has always stated “a prescription upon women that makes an ideal of a male cut/toned physique will not be healthy for a female to sustain. In the cause of artified androgyny and not accurately presumed gender swapping,, the female model is being physically abused for a norm ambivalent to her health” And this is why the gay male fashion designer is not credible to be designing for women in the frame of presuming himself gifted to those ends. The cult of personality around Dior and Balenciaga are not merely poorly aware of the female body. Couture is actually stubbornly refusing a majority of women in its pathetic aversion to sewing around curves. They are selfish to actually recognize any curvy female frame as it takes attention away from the slim “androgynous” ideal .. most like their mirror. Cosmosexuals vanity is toxic.
Cordially , Michael Bench , MEP, WGSGC
Exercise Physiologist
Gender Anthropologist
Author of Native Supremacy
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An address of the similarities to Beauty Pageants and use of women as cultural capital.
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Introduction to Regulating of the Fashion (Model) and Casino/Luxury Industry
By Michael Bench, MEP WGSGC
Exercise Physiology Masters, Gender Anthropologist
Author of Native Supremacy.
In calling for the regulation of the fashion industry and fashion model sizes; there is a freakish pushback by the victims themselves:the models The models still believe they are indebt to a talent agency network. The talent agency has signed them on, sent them to events with a positive initial experience to remember.. and subsequently start charging them outrageous fees. Fees that ultimately keep a model quiet about the unhealthy conditions of the industry. She's mistaken that her earnings are somehow supposed to be diverted to the talent agency instead. The fashion industry borrows a common strategy used by Russian and illegal immigrant sexshops; confiscating their girls' passports and identity until they 'pay off' visa costs and other miscellaneous compounding expenses.
The talent agencies are further bold in their exploitation of the models that they would start sending her to unpaid events while holding substantial debt against her. They would send her to accused rapists and molesters in the photography/marketing industry for it is the photographer that holds the industry bottlenecked no matter what abuse he might choose to visit on his lesser known clients.
Very little research is conducted on measuring fashion model, porn actress, or pageant model intelligence. Definitions of intelligence are hotly debated to rid Science of once accepted credentials of the First World, the Third World and Civilization spheres as they were known to the Early British Empire. I will here address this debate in brevity: the pageant models and runway fashion models are a multiracial collective. Those who have previously experienced lives devoid of privilege tend to reward and guard their modeling experiences with higher levels of positivity than her Anglo coworkers. This does not mean (she) also regards modeling more positively than her coworkers. I propose across the board those with suspicious objective perspectives as underprivileged/oppressed races and ethnicities before new academic challenges will be much better educational prospects in quality learning environments.
In a Google Scholar search, no declared IQ research had been conducted on fashion models. I then searched for pageant model education levels with the same level of results. They appeal to girls working on a bachelors degree or younger. What material I could find revealed that one could not ask a fashion model or pageant model how smart she was. Her answer would reveal a skewed proposition that her model experience was a type of specialized skill This is first a paradox since females only enter pageants as temporary affirmations hoping to build from it. Some want to go to veterinary colleges, others still dont know. They just know they love the attention (Tonn) A Narcissist does love their attention. They make facts bend all around what they want to do.
The model and the abuser share this in common; In order to not sound foolish for justifying global attention at the expense of their health, safety and sans protection from financial crime and perverts.... she avoids admit the industry is a craven fraud scouting out young people to steal their commercial identity profits. Less so in the pageant environment where parents have a watchful eye on their children. In fashion modeling the parents try their hardest to avert their eyes from the quo sexualization of girls as young as ten. Thylane Blondeau's mother was already in modeling and celebrity culture. Its norms skewed her sense a photographer like Tom Ford could instruct her child to assume poses of actual adult erotica in posture and manner. The pictorial was displayed in Vogue.
The first pageants were meant to extend tourist season. Tourist season tends to revolve around hotels and casinos; the only venues large enough to have a pageant. Pageants like Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria(MBGN) have a mission statement to be a competitive event on the global stage. Silverbird, the managing company of MBGN, admits it grooms female contestants in all aspects of the competition (Balogun). The grooming isnt only about the pageant competition but of contestants gender roles and sexual norms for conquest. “They are the virgins of newly found cultural capital”. Predators observe 'fresh (unrefined) meat” for their own; the casino's high rollers.
Mr. Oke, a staff member at Silverbird, commented, “I’m always scared of these girls. They are powerful. That’s why I’m always nice to them. They’re all going to dump their boyfriends after this is over. You’d be surprised, one of them might be the future wife to a minister [head of national ministries]; they might just be the one to make that phone call to make or destroy a deal.” Newly formed relationships with business leaders, celebrities, and politicians were touted as signs of emergence into new elite circles centered on transnational culture and capital to which most contestants would otherwise not have access. ( Balogun)
This quote simultaneously exposes the pageant staff starting the courting process of the upper class and defending the experience as an opportunity. The pageant presents celebrities as the appropriate bachelors to set them back in their traditional roles as housewives. Business executives, actors, and politicians are of the few occupations that can sustain a single earner household. If a pageant is the updraft for young females to bridge their social network with the social elite, then pageants are nothing more than a sterilized abonne meeting area along side the European ballet. Males of the aristocracy would solicit select ballerinas with sexual advances in return for funds to afford her ballet costumes, slippers , makeup ; her career. What makes anorexia such a common place norm in ballet is females of the aristocracy are not allowed in the backstage area of the ballet. Conclusively to shield ballerina mistresses from suspect infidelity with married men, her extreme thinness intends to stop her menstrual period and so too any chance of pregnancy. The waif is an invitation of sexual solicitation and harassment left over from European tradition.
Mr Oke is not the only pageant staff to approach contestants with sexual and relationship comments.Donald Trump is the target of many accusations. One, walking into his Miss America Pageant dressing rooms without concern to the contestants' privacy. Contestants were either naked or topless “ theres a man in here”. Again, intelligence lacks see the narcissistic pervert. Tasha Dixon reported that Trump's pageant staff were encouraging the girls to get Trumps attention.An all too common occurrence in fashion modeling photography sessions. Assistants normalize and enable the sexual/erotica/perversion repertoire of their boss while the models protest or question his professionalism. Male and female fashion models are expected to submit to photographers 'to get ahead in the industry”. This is covered in much better details with names named in the External Motivations of Anorexia Nervosa paper.
Dixon presumed Trump stayed in the pageant business because there was no one that could limit or prosecute his behaviours.(Revesz) On separate occasions Trump would approach 10-14year old girls telling them that he would one day be their boyfriend. (Zimmerman) He was so into himself that he wouldn't hesitate to tell the press he would be his then 16yo daughter's boyfriend too.(Winthall) Pageants/ couture designers feel they are the creator spectacle over models instead of aiding them. Mere contestants seem to require their favors and services to groom them and culture them. Toxic persons can't help temptations to elaborate the model's empty stock worth as a marionette puppets to their sexual lusts. What agencies are not coldly brothels exercise a minimizing collection of exercises.. including severe diets just to keep the models loyal and working for pennies. Alexia Palmer, a model from Jamaica sued Donald Trump's model agency for not finding her enough work and being underpaid. She “felt like a slave”. (Mosk et al) Allegedly dignified contests such as those run by Cory Quorino in the Philippines choose a role as what could be described surrogate philanthropy.”Beauty in Giving” The Models advertise charities and get credit for the sums of money they raise.(Alzaga) this is a clear difference between the two realms. Pageants value women as spokespeople while luxury fashion dismisses its models only by its choice not to advance the gender role of the model to be a brand spokesperson. This is partially out of a selfish spotlight hoarding by the head designer taking a lot too much credit in fear of sewing around curves of whatever plus size statures he feels are label relevant. Haute Couture is selfish of its credit toward the feminine by restricting it from the female.
Haute couture designers of the fashion industry don't register that their homosexual male preferences and recontexting 'phemininity' is not healthy for young women to sustain for themselves. Male and female couture models are said to equally oblige an androgynous look. The female is still required to be smaller than the male in order to be a suitable to simulate heterosexual relations in ads. In a true androgynous circumstance the females would be larger and butcher than the males. If Androgyny was truly nonbinary the females would be fortunately advantaged in muscling her earnings from the corrupt agency system overseen by the Council of Fashion Designers of America (Tom Ford ,president) and the New York Department of Labor. An agency system that wont protect the female employee force from norms of the waif and “Parisian Androgyny” is an agency that injures female consumers. Shaping the young female into a mold of frail vulnerability is the industry's asset of exploitation. Their return to tradition and nod to sexual coercion. A girl cant stand up for herself if her unfit legs snap in ankle breaker heels.
And lets not ignore even if Dolce & Gibbon’ah or Chanel could argue elite athletes are just as small as the runway waifs; same body mass index; their perspective is infantile at best. The elite athlete requires an offseason to recover. Athletics is not a form of health even if it provides some measure of ideal vanity. If a female distance runner chooses not to have an offseason, she does so at the expense of her bone density and emotional health. Both influence race day competition. If a ballet dancer chooses to maintain the same size from age 15 to age 27 , she is malnourished. Sport does not recontext the abuses to the body as 'fair'. Elite ballet is not a functional skillset for the real world. Flexibility can have a posterchild like yoga that doesnt require eating disorders for its practice.
Second, the paper mathematical Body Mass Index (BMI) chart comparing only height to weight is not a clinically relevant definition of body mass index or body composition; AT ALL. It should not be used by general physicians to deduce patient health statements. At the very minimum skin fold measurements and hydrostatic weighing are two representative standards of truly investigating what a persons real lean body mass is. New clinical means of deciding body composition also recruit specialized radiology. The only group that can be easily spotted are the underweight. A female underweight for her size has not adequately resistance trained her body for strength. Without strength her bones become weak without enough tension on the tendon insertions. Without enough muscle built (hypertrophy) her metabolism and immune system are damaged. The normalcy of the waif to females (models) is an abuse of their body whether they sign on for it or not. Ergo they are damaging the public to allow diet and sport supplements to broadly advertise the thin look as an all encompassing good thing. Its not. Disinformation hurts a nation. Eventually it leads to unnecessary antidepressant use; a spectacular racket also assaulting the female American public.
The homosexual male designer relies on his photographers to emphasize his clothes. His imprint on the Waif. .. the cult of personality around Dior and Balenciaga is body modifications (ie piercing,tattoos).. not merely shape. Christian Dior started his fashion fame trying to bring back the waspwaist. Body Modification , not merely body sculpting. Body abuse, not merely the pyramid of haves and havenots. Would an industry profiting on the most rare of female body types of its stars be so cruel numerous times to sexually abuse, verbally abuse, minimize, and ignore her safety? They dont care about the models image for she is a product of misery. Very young models of 14-17 are sent over oceans without any chaperones only knowing if they dont oblige the event or photo session they'll have to buy their own ticket home. They'll be stranded. Embassies should know of every contest involving Americans and make themselves available to the industry workers so they know all their rights.)(The contracts are not legit) .
Surprise limo rentals and clerical/courier fees are sprung on her. Services anyone would presume are complementary are actually extra charges and not optional. That alone is grounds to call on state and federal government to investigate the industry. Agency services operate as such: You order a single gift basket from Harry & David . Harry and David take your credit info and data mine your Facebook account and charge you for and send gift baskets to your whole friend list. This is not a Harry and David practice. All I'm saying is Harry and David's product push is unnecessary while ordering. Unlike the seasonal gift firm the fashion agency health negligence against its staff and its financial dealings are criminal and embezzling.
If the model is raped behind the scenes or dies from dieting the public asks the family and industry, why didnt you say anything? If a model is having all her earnings withheld by her agency the public asks “ Why didnt you report it to IRS or US LABOR?” The very short answer is... the fashion and pageant industry attract unsuitable examples of females who choose fame before substance. The temporary state of that transaction seems as cheap and unbecoming as the credit she must lack to stand against them. The short answer is, the pageant and fashion models are not intelligent, know very little about the business or her rights before she arrives to the business and see the pageant or modeling only as a temporary stepping stone. She should always have a lawyer and first read the contract for conflicts with state and federal law. If pageant contestants find themselves in as ruthless a pit as fashion.. they protect the pageant for short term humiliation for long term benefits of advancement. This also means models enable zero-integrity pageants, designers, and agents to prey on new entrants financially and sexually in their silence. But are they smart? Considering the sizable preparation and expense for a pageant contestant to be touring or out of school, the trueyoung intelligencia would be at home studying knowing she was preparing for an academic future rather than get-rich/famous-quick scams that only selectively privilege the obedient marionettes of a pageants/genre's grooming.
I should not be misunderstood that any contestant in a beauty pageant represents the lowest of intelligence in the community. They are not all one demographic. Pageants tend to feature the middle class specimens of a society on the presumption they have some cultural capital appreciation and enough education to be spokespeople of the campaign. The middle class are prone to believe they can become the wealthy class in good circumstances. Being middle class is one most important stigmas the pageant models want to overcome.
What would separate this new model from her old middle-class origin?
Feeling they are respected/ envied.
Are a contribution of upward movement for her family(Alzaga)
“The wife should be both parent and supporter”(Wu)
“Goal Oriented, Independent , Committed to Individualism, Assertive (Larsen)
“(According to Williams) In this way women's bodies stand in for and manage difference in a nonthreatening way”(Crawford)
'(About Texas pageants) Big Hair, flashy jewelry, wry wit, shoulder pads, artificial fingernails, confidence, (Mosel-Talavera)
What I found tying most contestants together is the belief public speaking with poise and confidence (as the pageant trained her) is the equivalent of having intelligence. Its not all bad a belief. People are not good at public speaking. Most could tolerate the tasks of directing their child's birthday party, telling a story at a campfire or summarize a prewritten essay. Public speaking before a live TV audience or academics asking to be impressed by 20-40 minutes of supported keynote address is very difficult. It's objectifying but it's objectifying uniformly. The audience hears the word choices, speaking tone, the speakers body undulations, quirks , the moles his neck or chest hair peaking out of his polo shirt. Do his clothes fit well? does his scalp have a full fill of hair? Did he shave? Did he use teeth whiteners? Are his shoes cool? Do he have bow legs? Is his ass firm while he turns around explains the powerpoint graphic? The objectification of the male body is as unspoken of as the females is abundantly. My explanation for objectification and especially censorship of the breasts sits with the immaturity of male based community standards to still sexualize his relationships through his relationship with his mother. Freud didn’t get it. The Male regards the breasts as a service instrument the same way traditional females are called Betty Homemakers. He hasnt grown up even if there’s too damn many missing dish towels balled up in the house corners .. surprisingly holding their pleats and reeking of salt deposits.
Opponents of pageants believe that females are being sexually objectified by the swimsuit contest or the ball gown event or softball questions like “ Are cats soft? Support your answer with three points. ” I feel objectification happens to everyone especially in cases of academic keynote speaking. Simultaneously, there is nothing perverse about sexual evaluation. All good things face defilement and misuse by bad people. The confidence that pageant contestants correctly identify is that they are not victimized by the circumstances and spheres of objectification because they chose the event. They endured the experience because they were prepared to see and evaluate their attention instead of being blindsided. As for the Miss New York pageant contestant exclamation “ Its all so fulfilling. For the first time people were asking me for my ideas. I liked the attention.” Indeed. The attention included in the pageant entry fee,huh? Perhaps pageant contestants don't connect being in front of crowds as a test and more of a 'gathering for their attention. “Its so Pageanty” N.A.R.C.I.S.S.I.S.T.
Observers of pageants rely on the pageants mission statement to validate a so-called finest mix of brains and beauty. The observers and TV audience are the precultured hinterlands pageants hope to save their contestants from. When very young girls are imprinted with pageant themes, they mistake their own dreams of being a beauty queen as a long term event. Pageants and modeling are not a lifelong career. Strike Two: The intelligencia would be working toward a career directly and not be misdirected by shallow endeavors; especially ones with negative reviews, accusations of sexual harassment, and limitations on her speech.
In my Equal Employment Opportunity correspondence to the US Department of Justice during the Obama administration I addressed the problem in the Fashion industry. No real female could be hired because all woman exercising responsibility for their wellbeing would not diet herself to a size she was last at age 14. What females are hired are vulnerable to victimization because they already cast their lots for fame at any cost. The thinness standards in the fashion industry for international models are not a legitimate middle ground for anyone. Androgyny is not a middle ground between male and female when male can parade it as a fetish while females must oblige an abusive tactic to become perpetually young. Perpetually young is what couture is selling retail patrons. Buy our clothes and you will be young too.. Buy our face cream and you too will be ready for our dress. The face cream doesnt stop the aging nor does models diet to flat concave chests for the 'predeveloped' look suppressing the aging process. She's actually aiding deterioration. Is the fashion model smart? No. She's constructively ignorant to become famous.
My EEOE correspondence also relates to the clamp pageants have on women's behaviors and promotion of their personal beliefs. A Miss Michigan candidate was stripped of her title for defending then Vice President Mike Pence on Twitter. A tweet consisting of “ STOP KILLING BLACK PEOPLE!!!” directed at the Vice President caused Kathy Zhu to respond in kind ��Did you know the majority of black deaths are caused by other blacks? Fix problems within your own community first before blaming others”.(McClaughlin) If this is a cause to dethrone a current pageant winner then the Miss Michigan pageant should probably spend more time in the interview section vetting the political biases and outburst potential of their contestants. Even if Zhu had promoted disinformation, it would be her lack of composure/delivery that made the tweets sub-beautyqueen-standard. “Dear Sir.Madam, The seriousness and sorrow for Black people's losses also must face their own in-race exploitations among many types of daily criminal victimization. I'd like to talk with you more about it. Sincerely Kathy Zhu. ,Miss Michigan. Tra la la deedah.” There's a difference in delivery here.
Zhu is not the first pageant winner to be stripped of her title and probably not the last. Vanessa Williams was crowned Miss America in 1994. Her title was removed when it was found the African American singer had nude unauthorized photos of her sent to and purchased by Penthouse magazine. The title was given to Miss New Jersey. A scandal like this in the pageant business is unsurprising. Allegations of sexually exploitive photography surround Terry Richardson. The fashion industry claimed Richardson was just being a scapegoat. If he is, that means of rigging pageants are as simple as which photographer the pageant staff send each contestant. The also-rans get sent to the molester so he can create a pool of unfit evidence for the smut mags or tabloids.
Compensatory beliefs motivate some contestants to enter pageants. One respondent said her interest in pageants is she was mocked by her family. She was treated as though not beautiful enough and instead nurtured to be a geek. She was sent to quiz bees instead of pageants(Alzaga) For youth attention has a quicker reward than good grades or college acceptance by her 4th-9th grade peers. Out of frustration she sought out pageants because their marketing supported her affirmations she was as beautiful as she was smart.
A detriMENTAL circumstance when the overly smart become attracted to pageants is they can be excessively competitive to destructive ends. Said destructive ends come of any competition being about narcissism which is not always 'nerds' strong suit in displaying, controlling or suppressing. This could well explain archetypes like the “librarian nymphomaniac.”
“Miss American represents the highest ideals. She is a real combination of beauty, grace, and intelligence, artistic, and refined. She is a type which the American Girl might well emulate”. (Larsen)
In the fashion world, the overly competitive female will choose to race to be the thinnest girl available for ad shoots. “Even if it kills her'. It will. So far its the model forced to take blame for her voluntary choice to be thin. But is it actually voluntary? No. The fashion industry welcomes the girl in the door, starves her down to size to get working (she is the industry while conforming to the industry) and then she is stolen from while in a dizzy state of malnourishment and physical fatigue. Fatigue: 16-20 hour work days without food/breaks so the photographers can snort oodles of cocaine, have a scone and yell at them “ You're not giving me enough!!”. In a month or so , the model is working on 15% of her real earnings holed up in a crusty apartment with either 10 more models or the agent himself as his live-in burlesque show; at best. At worst she might die of starvation a day before or after Elite Models Gerard Marie rapes a live in model next to his own sleeping daughter. And she might not even have the strength to report it let alone fight it off.
Is the pageant model smart? There's no sure answer but she is an opportunist. She an opportunist invited to a cultural framework where she is near or distant to the pageant industry's Caucasian tradition and norms. “I think this is a problem within European society because to make themselves fit, thin, and lean they take lots of medicine and so on which really does no good to the body. “ Said a Nepali resident of Kathmandu. (Crawford) . So without being Secretary of Health and Human Services Azar or US Labor secretary, or a George Washington University Professor in Public Health like David Michaels or a New York State Commissioner of Labor.. a Nepali adult living in a part of the world regarded “backward” finding transparent clothing hard to digest for ad consumption still identified drug related crash dieting and Western themes of thinness unhealthy.
Former US LABOR OIG legal counsel Howard Shapiro could not. He would not adopt the Body Mass Index as a health standard from the CDC/HHS because the 1970s document founding OSHA and NIOSH made no mention of regulation of industry by Body Mass Index. In fact the goal of OSHA is to accept and enforce all and any health standards arising from NIOSH and HHS so that the industry is made safe for all Americans of any status of employment. In the market today Americans are concealed from safety behind walls of contracts (or as nonemployee contractors) instead of employees. Employees privatized and subjected to informal harassment, threat, assault, exploitation and intimidation. This situation is illegal. Americans in any form of employment must be protected from illegal and unhealthy work environments. Former OSHA director Edwin Foulk Jr believed I should be calling the Council of Fashion Designers of America... as if I hadn't considered their lack of regulation wasn't a fit enough reason to ask them to start now. I called the government and the US government protected the ongoing abuse of women under George W Bush.
Another respondent from Nepal is quoted “ To get a good figure [some teenagers] go for starvation, thats anorexia as far as I know. I dont think it should be really promoted actually, yeah. Um if they want a good figure, they should really work hard, they could exercise instead of starving themselves. (Crawford) This Nepali has noticed that the sense of beauty is absent in the results of starvation and when people exercise and develop muscle tone with a healthy relationship with food; they look better. Amazing. So far Nepali peasants have more credible public health policy than the past three US Presidential Administrations, including Obama.
Locals observed the effects of the Kathmandu beauty pageant event in girls from 10-12. Suddenly they were very obsessed with their appearance. In other research about Pageants events in Chinatown, San Francisco and among Latin Americans came to identify some polarizing differences. Larsen raised an observation in the first thirty-five years of Miss America pageants nonwhites were banned from participating. “Latina characters in television and movies are lusty and hot-tempered objects of desire.” In this frame the pageant wants to downplay sexuality as a component of beauty.
“dressmakers modified the design of the Cheong-sam to emphasize the cleavage area, creating the “poured-in look” so high desired. Furthermore, the slit up the side of the dress was increased “to endow the basically simple Cheong-sam with a touch of intrigue..., a tantalizing suggestion about the beauty of its wearer. (Wu) The Chinese American researcher felt that beauty and sexuality are entwined correctly in race -tradition contexts. It seems objectified as the west's definition of beauty invaded the Chinese culture's traditional dress. In my valuation the Latina represents the intimidating female forceful of her will. She's obedience to misogyny. The Chinese female is profiled in western terms no greater than Vietnamese village teens/ preteens some of the US military took indulgence in raping between 1955 and 1975.
Cynthia Gouw investigated the pageant field with the intent to deconstruct and criticize it from a Leftist Feminist Viewpoint. ( Wu) Having entered the pageant as a contestant she remarked “I didnt feel exploited at all. I want to show people I can be very articulate and assertive as opposed to a stereotypical beauty pageant winner.. What I want to represent to the Asian population is that I am very concerned about the community. “One benefit pageant contestants have in events distant from western norms is they are protected by their community's unique priorities and cultural norms. Pageants in Nigeria had abusive staff that heavily enforced classism. If a contestant wasn't walking with the elegance per his commands they would accuse contestants of being mere “market women”. The Queen Nigeria pageant didn’t want their female contestants at all comparable to market women, a slur for rural laborers having stereotypes as 'rough and brash”. (Balogun)
I took a moment to type in “brash” to the Google search engine to see what definition it would offer.
Brash
self-assertive in a rude, noisy, or overbearing way.
“he could be brash, cocky and arrogant”,
Strange, the pageant believes it is helping young Nigerian girls to be empowered but suppressing and denouncing parts of the Nigerian culture that are already assertive. In the west we tend to understand this brash concept as 'a ratchet bitch” of low class. In the pageant's sense of empowerment , the female is empowered to simply be a better mate but kept from being so confident and wordsmithed that she could tell off a guy in terms on an even turf of vulgarity, insult, belittling, aggression and verbal abuse.
Chaperones affiliated to the Queen Nigeria pageant remarked of contestants”Each year she comes back cleaner and cleaner”. The comment was investigated for its inner meaning. “ Each time (contestant) returns to audition her skin looks fairer” and was to mean a physical change in the condition of the contestants skin from makeup treatments. (Balogun) Balogun found other research suggesting that this skin change was also a lightening to improve chances of upward mobility. I reference this quote especially because it is an absolute parallel to the arrogance haute couture designers and runway specialized model agencies have in objectifying their models as a property of creation rather than the individual within of blood, bone, estrogen and diet coke. Maybe the fashion model has never been an individual and why all the reason more she chases having a meaningful identity. She takes the pageants brand, is milked for her camera appeal, moos a few times for the question/answer bit and heads off to slaughter as an aged and spent heifer short of the aristocrats desires. The fashion industry has value because it attracted contestants in magazines and television to make it a goal in their lives; A superfluous goal too often.
The female icons in magazines like Vogue must then be empowering too. Said of a magazine with Emma Watson on the cover:”Like in Neon you have some inspiring series . But when I look through women's magazines I dont have a role model for my life (Informant A). (Put) Ellen Put's research on womens magazines revealed some other criticisms about the periodicals. Informants regarded them “flat and uninspiring”, “it was bullshit”, “it was boring when they say this is all about makeup and what to buy..”, “sometimes I read it just for fun just wondering what they are saying”, “Men are always dark, taller, though” . Ellen Put's article revealing these views was titled “ They Think We're Stupid”. We can dovetail the pageant social effects on Nepali teens, the magazine reactions, the whitening and sterilizing of the ethnicity from Ethnic specific beauty pageants and reveal a tame appealing factory of creating the ideal woman out of real women's dreams and then normalizing the ideal woman as a public health nightmare. By creating an international norm among pageants and modeling, the luxury market announces it is deaf to the anthropological heritage, biome, diet and geography that appreciates and carved out natural beauty of each continent's peoples and subgroups. There is no similar basis of lifestyle to normalize a common shape. Ever. The commonality is as the pageants product of “Female in a Can” nested on shelf among all other pageant's new talent.
What can be shown here is if the ideal female of poise and elegant, confident public address can also be trained to be shallow then she will be an ideal elite mate to be whisked away by a dominating male , possibly of a dark complexion. What could a dark complexion signal if the ideals of beauty are Caucasian-Western centric? Perhaps the fashion media have found a new way to wear Black face. I'd say they signal to ladies their obligation to the marketed Caucasian gender role rewards them with an ideal males lust and African Americans large..Luh-arge penis stereotypes. A proper pageant contestant, such as those in Nigeria, and frequenters of upperclass cultural norms are required to retire secondhand and counterfeit clothing/accessories that flood the market. Only authentic (Nigerian) couture is allowed while they are representing the pageant as winner or groomed contestant. (Balogun)
Winners of the Nepal Pageant were not allowed to marry for one year , the year representing the pageant in Miss World and at events ( Alzaga). For a pageant that allegedly“empowers women”, taking away her right to relationship seems a premium failure in respect of their freedom. (Crawford) A premium failure by contestants to oblige as well. Standards in Texas pageants also had stipulations against marriages, against having children, tolerance for annulments and further expectation that the contestants would be in high school.(Mosel-Talavera) Not all requirements related to the same pageant.
One author was also a Texas ex pageant model. She recounted her experience,.
“I am standing on stage in my highschool auditorium wearing the most expensive dress I have ever bought from Foleys, waiting for the announcer to call my name. Everyone told me I was a shoo-in to win the title. I was not even nervous as she called out the runners-up, still thinking my name would be next. “ And the winner is … What? Not Me?” Texas is also known for its biased education dept materials, being an origin of many christianity inspired sex cults and race supremacist camps. For a female to believe her high school preparation is the best source for speaking in any form to the intelligence of all women, especially here, is bald faced mockery.
A highschooler of a single mother saw pageants as a means to get money for college. Through her experience contacting attorneys and other professionals for sponsorships, building a website, and being visible to the public she was contacted by teachers to speak to their classes about her experience. “Emma” as the article infers her name.. said
“ Now I work for two different attorneys. I didn’t expect that you know. All kinds of things people messaged me about my platform and how they feel about my on-stage question, my website got a lot of people to notice it. So, I had teachers that went and saw my website and messaged me about coming and speaking to their classes and like I wish I knew all this stuff going into it. It was like I really set a foundation for myself for next year I think. It’s pretty cool. And I know that sounds cheesy or cliché but
it is honestly the truth and basically pushing myself because once I found
myself around other females who were just as ambitious as I was or as I am.” (Bowers)
The concept these females are experiencing is known as habitus. By meeting other contestants who have found meaning in pageants they too have a common vocabulary and ladder of goals neatly set before them. For women who feel baffled and smothered under the weight and anxiety of being objectified, pageants do have experiential benefits along with the potential among bad actors to be experientially sexually assaulted. That a female knows and can identify a ladder of goals may be a model of education that can be implemented elsewhere and more productively. If pageants have a credible impact on a females life, that impact is offset so severely with removing ethnic markings and norms. The pageants really just brand their contestants for events further up the hierarchy like Miss World, Miss Universe, Miss Infinity and beyond.
What I've concluded from these readings is that pageants reward the Grant Cardone proverb “ Best Known Beats Best”. A former pageant contestant working for an attorney makes the legal field seem beautiful. Wealth and fame is not just wealth , its vanity. If the lifestyles of the wealthy were papered over with ugly people, nobody would want it. Why is a good speaking 'broad' an appealing take for the Hollywood and Vegas bruno's? They need a good girl who'll manage a maid to clean the house good, sound intelligent in public, have some loyalty to criminal organizations, and announce her husbands name for all sorts of functions, awards and novelties her pride can glow alongside. Meanwhile the crowd can either respect her poise or be among the low classes remaining low class regarding the guest of honor's subtle associate. ' yeah , I'm banging her”. Perhaps its more the audience needing poise. Donald Trumps association with First Lady Melania spoke clearly of his personal codependence on her first as a White House nude centerfold. How pageants are accepted in a community is an age, state , local and national chaos of sexual maturity imbalances and education gaps.
On another angle I have captured the subtext of the pageants brand. Pageants are a measure of the females acquisition of themes from the community that are specifically dedicated to making her a good mother. “Critics from the political right, on the other hand, tend to focus on what they view as a loss of women’s purity, submissiveness, and modesty, virtues identified with nationalistic representations of ‘traditional’ cultures”(Crawford) The conservatives have made a complaint about their own side far behind the lines of rhetoric. The female is still submissive with shallow appreciations of her luxury stake. She is surely kept modest with abusive manners training and remaining under the thumb of pageant officials or talent agents for the remainder of her career. The rhetoric doesn't match the reality. Conservatives conceal that norms of oppression are not absent from the gender roles of rich couples either For each class a different type of submissive female for tradition.
Pageant and fashion event locations are hand in hand with the promotion of luxury and recreational items like sports cars, wine, cigars, yachts, boxing/mma fights, These items are considered to have high cultural capital relative to the western world. Wealth is often presumed to have high cultural capital.. Wealth is also presumed to have privileges.. like raping a girl and then threatening to humiliate her with a tabloid smear and a legal battle she couldn’t afford. Ask NFL lawyers what services their players require when police reports surface. Wealth has such cultural capital that the justice system allows criminals out of lockup based on their word to return to trial. The pageant is an advertisement of women inviting them to feel impressed by their changes when the most extensive modifications are still very above her awareness.
The only advantage a female has from the pageant developed microphone skill is to be free to say whatever wise viewpoint elevates her credibility and by whatever lengths she finds necessary to bring down anyone else.. Her voice of empowerment must be on her own terms and not under anyone elses by contract, marriage prenup or otherwise. Well, as long as she's making good decisions and prioritizing the public health ahead of her own vanity and fame. If she chooses to trade even the smallest of her rights of federally guaranteed self protection and safety then she has traded the entirety of her dignity and her own respect of being a female.
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The Toxified Estrogen War Against Progressive Women, Feminists and American Society,
by Michael Bench, MEP, WGSGC
We are told these days the quote "Let Them Eat Cake" was not original to Marie Antoinette nor was she ever supposed to have put it forth. The History channel suggests the phrase arrived much earlier with Marie -Therese, wife of Louis XIV.. and presumed the anonymous princess of Jean Jacques Rousseau's memoir, Confessions. Antonia Fraser, a scholar of period French history concludes no famines occurred during the regime of Louis XVI when Antoinette was at the peak of her regal celebrity. Marie Therese was starkly ignorant and callous in her words by as many degrees as Antoinette was not. Here separates today's mistake in conservatism..To be conservative and republican in America does not have a range of behavior but is an act of radicalization to show loyalty. To be the majority the republican party refutes all wrongs and accusations made of it;.a defensiveness all American women cannot be a generalized by.
Another quip we have over the ages is " Every great man has a great woman behind him". Conversely Eva Braun is said to have tried committing suicide twice during her early relationships with Adolf Hitler. I argue the wedding night is a confirmed factcheck about the sexual companions anyone keeps nearby. Dear Diary. Suicide was successful, took the brute with me on our wedding night. I really feel like I broke down the Reich. More active in the anglo dominion politics are Shala and Natasha Fross, twin sisters in Colorado who were arrested for a racist tirade and physical altercation against a family of Hispanic Americans in their neighborhood. "Look at yourself compared to me, who are You!!?". Many of the comments were size shaming the female residents. Other phrases in the attack included "Old fat Mexican bitches"
Evidence is mounting each day since the January 6th trumper attack against the capitol. If the impeachment and terrorists' banners read trump then they are surely trumpers. Could this have been avoided if Melania had departed with Baron much earlier as she threatened to the press she would? Donald could've been more enfeebled to care whether he lost, or won. Should we partly blame the First Lady for being so weak? Should we blame lawyers who knowingly prize the stage of defending the negligence of the 45th president while suspecting they might join the ranks of the unpaid? Melania's favor for the spotlight-before-integrity is a bad signal to American women while we have so many female trump supporters ready to throw away their vote but keep their racist henpecking for the neighborhood. On January 15th,2021, those who rode in on trump's coattails are declared a cliq without integrity.
We have the evidence beyond allegations Congresswoman Boebert was complicit in aiding the trumper mob that the misogyny label against GOP is not correctly deep enough. The republican party's factitious war on all women is it's act of denying its own problem with their loyal radicalized women. The conservative base have proven themselves a toxic nozzle that when mixed with estrogen..becomes a blaze of screechy voices ready to leap into any flaming building as long as the cause is trendy. Conservative women , if successfully repealing their own right to vote, would have few means to correct their failure in the short term even when waking up.. So many others would suffer and be discriminated against for their failures in judgment and values. It needs be said now: Feminism cannot be the umbrella for all women when the umbrella for all women must defeat the stupid-among-everyone first. Actors of anglo dominionism cannot be protected as women. Their outlets of seeking scapegoats out of rage enables republican xenophobic terrorism platforms and defames Women and the Majority of 'Whites'.
The mainstream media has a bad habit of following Criminal Psychology's errors broadly normalizing very small sect's actions among the majority. Republicanism is not white politics and surely no sign of supremacy. And women, women are not bad drivers or terrible people on their own. We can draw linkages between audiences being trained to feel small and their bigotry toward others unlike them, Today the Fross sisters, "Karengeist" and Lauren Boebart's parasitism of Colorado political scene breaks another glass enclosure.. The floor on bigotry is not a large race problem. Its a shattered and splintered cell of low life narcissism.. Radicals the republican party and conservatives specialize in mobilizing for antisocial purposes.
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Kamala Harris owes women the responsibility to regulate couture fashion even in spite of Biden.
Dear Vice Presidential Nominee Harris. cc Media Editors
Rating : PG13/R
A premium cult tactic is controlling women; namely through their body; with the expectation this will indirectly control the men. In the past 4 years we have not seen Donald Trump make any effort to regulate the fashion industry. During the George W Bush Administration OSHA director Edwin Foulke Jr redirected me to market control at the Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA). A CFDA or NY Labor making no effort to protect the models from the distorted visions of a largely homosexual group of haute couture designers. They are a cult of personality behind Dior and Balenciaga.
Balenciaga began designing such small waif clothes around 14 year old girls reportedly because he could not afford models. The haute couture genre believes it should continue shaping adult women into prepubescent /tween statured females and maybe not pay them either. That alone is dangerous for their health; not that the diet and antidepressant industry are concerned. In that room of silence is a group of models so eager to get-famous-for-nothing.. they'll also protect their sexual abusers, the eating disordered behavior THEY engineer to stay employed and the lead agencies like Foster Fell and Elite who treat their modeling fleet like a brothel; personal use or otherwise.
The models also remain silent about a very anticapitalist condition that their likenesses are used in multimillion dollar campaigns but their agencies continue to embezzle their commercial estate actively and passively. For one, the models.. allegedly with a debt to the agency.. are sent to unpaid events in limos and hotel bookings that add to their debt to the agency. It's luxury goods, There are no free bookings, no free lunches... certainly not by management of an agency owed money. Women and men and every Citizen need to find fault in the model for not demanding her wages and being vocal in warning the public against the industry. Maybe she wont work again but the lawsuits of “owed debt” now are in the open and suspiciously put under a spotlight. Exactly why the agency does any unpaid work?
This is the trap. Magazines like Cosmopolitan and Vogue have continued to hide so the fashion industry could take its profits and its libido out on naive girls that they have no respect for. Haute couture is misogyny and it is prescribed anorexia .. whether be or not the only form/ practice of anorexia. Haute couture normalizes anorexic thinness through male designer's false ideals of androgyny WITHOUT account to any physiological knowledge or limits of the female body. The couture designers also draw with a distorted pen and attempt to make models conform to those stretched alien shapes. Karl Lagerfeld is an offender of both and handed the industry's microphone to dismiss anorexia emptily and selecting models by his preferences of narcissism. He's had lots of models that call him a friend but his gifts just a payoff. He can put on a generous face and still be wrong.
Its the model's silence and her low standards for fame.. across this 'work plan' ..providing a reason the public shouldn't have respect for them or for the magazines that picture them. And that brings us to the 8 years of Obama and possible next four years of Biden.. The democrat party will do nothing again? Probably. The socalled ' protector of womens health avoid put the Department of Health and Human Services and OSHA in motion to regulate the fashion industry and charge the CFDA with negligence to unhealthy work conditions, sexual exploitation, and address creating the imagery with teen women in pedophilia; an image of a preteen stature being sexualized in adult imagery. This debate is not to be offered to the fashion industry as ' fashion doesn't cause anorexia'. It does. It prescribes it on its models and its fans for ITS profit AND ITS attraction of new faces to abuse them. Fashion agencies thieve commercial earnings and refuse enforce payment on work.. from their clients and leave them with nothing but loyalty to their agencies/men.
Former Elite Models management admit they knew Terry Richardson’s photography sessions were lewd opportunities for Richardson to be an opportunist' to rape , to molest any model sent to him. Aiding Richardson was his NYU-dropout baby momma normalizing an environment of models treated as “an object” instead of a female. This is the same 'assistant' that knelt in a garbage can, photographed with the word 'slut' stenciled on her forehead just below her tiara while filating her boss. Some of Richardson’s tactics are actually Alexandra Bolotows trash level opinion of women. I choose be quoted here “Richardson shouldve stuck with inseminating the garbage can while it was empty to improve his quantifying of his family values.”
For the republicans, the whole base of you... when the time came to 'protect marriage' the GOP chose money and luxury goods over church and faith. You all poorly invest. Its the bases error to protect fracking. Fracking is their poor investing in family and social health. Choose another field. Strike two.
It seems every time regulating in the validation of government authority is a responsible thing to do.. republicans avoid it. So republicans, have no seat in government if you have no cause to believe in it.,. And for democrats.. Kamala Harris especially: If Biden tries to yield and avoid regulate fashion.. obstruct, make sure the people know. I didn’t vote for him and I didn’t vote for trump. I would’ve voted for you, candidate Harris if you were the headliner. Geezer Biden has to own up to his party's lethargy. Obama and Howard Shapiro(US LABOR OIG) and NIOSH(not SAMHSA) and NY Labor and NY Health have to own up why they believe in the industry of rapists and malnutrition rather than teen employee safety. And why is it GLAAD and The Advocate remain silent in LGBT- couture designers abuse of women just because its 'luxury Eurotrash goods'? The evidence of the 'mental illness case'.. sadism is in question. If LGBTQ is all about 'being yourselves' then let women be women and not faux transsexual norms still in a closet of the designers own insecurities? Eternal youth , blah blah blah. Hedi Slimane owned up his model for the thinness was himself. That’s a male physiology; long known to endure lower BMI.
Couture: Be your person, be your age, be your gender and let others be themselves BEFORE, DURING AND AFTER you choose them for a fashion campaign. End the Dior/Balenciaga standard , End Couture. Creativity doesnt die with it unless creativity was all in the crass bickering treasured in the fashion media's smear and self-entertaining mud. Female columnists abusing females (models) to declare their 'habitus' isn’t actually professional reporting. Its surely not yet called out a fleet of brands apparently not very confident or able to design around curves. The so called elite of 'haute couture' are rather remedial stunts still stuck on embellishing stickfigures. The wealthy ought be paying less for couture than strip mall prices.
If trump wins, well he's got a mighty bad blemish in his claim he loves women. Loves to watch them be abused by his and John Casablanca's part in the fashion industry. If trump doesn’t win.. I'm giving republican fair warning that if fashion isn’t regulated by the first term of Biden by the sharp pointy stick of their heckling.. we can surely see no god is with their word or actions. Certainly hasn't been with them so far either. .. Nor should they show up for further elections. If they don't believe in government , they're disqualified from being in it.. It is the crux of their oath. Serving country before party; despite what they actually do.
Michael Bench , MEP WGSGC
Exercise Physiologist
Gender Anthropologist.
Author of Native Supremacy. & 2nd US Constitution
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VergaraCakeConspiracy
Mainstream media ‘s coveting and objectification of women hurts us all with misinformation.
by Michael Bench Coveting models and famous women (in general) has surfaced its symptom today. Coveting women makes bad stories. Sophia Vergara's cake consumption isn't news and its not important. Since women pollute themselves with a pecking order vanity of perfection, the society around them .. and who grow to become society react to artificial paradoxes like the Vegara cake conspiracy. Cake has no beauty secrets and there's no reason for Vergara to admit this except to have just a little humility between herself and the interviewer. A useful press would ask what her favorite health foods are save but to damn them either way for promoting an actress that has no nutritional credential to be quoted in the first place about this matter.
Maybe cake is what helps her feel normal and among people while tabloid led fans talk to her like she's an alien. The fans are an issue. They don't talk to their favorite artists like normal people. TeenBeat led troops of heart-throbbing maniacs are taught to gluttonously patronize their 'idols'. They go to school and they treat each other like trash. “Look at that girl, where'd she get that dress.. the Hefty trash bag 50 pack? At least the hot mess is already bagged.” The duality caused by socialized female coveting extends into kids. Perhaps getting them unlimited access to college is healthy for more reasons than education. The “freshmen 15” might really represent the same weight the dissatisfied throngs of teen fashionistas have been depriving themselves no thanks to girl mags. Its still should be muscle. Today the VergaraCakeConspiracy came to me through adult news; 69 News Lehigh Valley. It has to be corrected. This has to end. Why are people overweight? It depends what region you live in. Vergara may as well be Ethiopian if she's to be put on a pedestal for Caucasian European descendents.
What is “over weight” and what is media center friendly 'figures' have always insulted the Caucasian race. Are we going to expect Alaskans to look like Floridians? The American Supermodel delusion covers too large an area with too small ; and too sickly a number of somatoform examples. Following the geographic-familial lineage is the uncomfortable truth of being slobs. High school underperformers who settle for semi skilled 9-5 jobs don't have the work ethic to stay in shape. Unless the job is literal physical labor that burns lots of calories, the intellectual slob shows on the outside of their figure. Vergara maintains her figure because she burns probably near 3000-5000 calories a day and can afford to have just a little cake. Cake isn't the news here; its Vergara's capacity to burn calories with real muscle. The same muscle New York and Paris fashion cults 'victorian-shame' models for having. Frankly the cake probably isn't something Vergara should be eating either; no matter how much cash she makes a year. Sophia’s assertive behavior as an onscreen house wife and desirable female is only justified by the racially depressed status of South Americans in Western culture. No offense to her, its a feral vanilla.
Alot of us in the eastern Pennsylvania region are going to look like Cameron (from Modern Family) because its cold for much of the year. Yes, yell that conspiracy too:Cold weather causes homosexuality . (Not really). Where Winter exists, we will retain body adiposity. There's nothing unhealthy about this. How we get and keep that adiposity is what’s a tragedy; Grocery stores full of fake nonnutritive food. I call for all nonnutritive items to be removed from stores. Flavored seltzer water such as Polar brand is acceptable for a beverage and its pretty good at this point. The Walmart stuff gives me a headache and I usually like some of Walmarts other generics. Just not whatever preservative is in the seltzer. Imagine how many minerals and plastics and calories we save getting rid of that crap. We are pampered shoppers who covet good looking Amazonians.
We're pampered workers allowed to be underachieved thinkers. We're pampered adults who buy namebrands like “Pink” instead of wearing our own identity. Don't covet models, its a dumb field. No sane parent should be supporting the model career. Its an act of neglect and self neglect. There's no oversite, no protective actual private sector organization for the workers, no longevity, no retirement, CFDA is an utter scam ignoring the child abusers and predators. I regard Vergara an actress only, here. She reads her lines, she works out and she goes to bed. Despite being known to show couture brands.. she doesn't have a relatable life but its the life that enables her to stay in shape. Imagine if she admitted part of her beauty secret was a raging cocaine addiction? Why doesn't the media help you know that side of model life? The secrets of cocaine/PCP, the mystery cure for fatness.. or is it just age? Yesterdays millennial teen girls acted like drug lords about the turf of looking important and pretty. The fashion district satiate social discomfort for being mortal. Age happens. Embrace it, care about yourself while you experience it.
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When Hindus yell racism at a White Majority and Find out they’re a Race Supremacist; situationally.
Dear Editors at the Eagle
and AU President's Council of Diversity and Inclusion.
The conflict over the depictions of India'n characters being depicted by a mainly Caucasian cast should not have been so eagerly charged a microaggression. I did read the oped written by Ms Krishnan where she suggests Hindu'ism is not widely practiced by European ancestry persons. However, it is not "NOT" practiced by 'whites'. We ran upon this problem of racial supremacy back a few years when a San Francisco State University student, Bonita Tindle, chose to assault a Jewish student for wearing dreadlocks. She incorrectly stated dreads were a Black thing, whereas as a Jew, Cory Goldstein has even less reason to wear the likenesses of the Egyptians. Yet he does! Yet Asians also have dreadlocks but how did they negatively appropriate them? The world is not so simple and enabling as to say appropriation. There are negative appropriations and positive appropriations.
The play Ramayana occurred on India Day at American University's Viva Kultura. It was an appropriate day to have the play and doesn't have any relationship to the physical exertion of the rightfulness of any person to practice yoga as a physical conditioning. By this same concept, Ms Krishnan ought be ejected from any gym or student recreation center for attempting to train with the 'Russian Kettle Bell". Don't mistake that for marginalization. No. Krishnan will have her say and I will debunk its difficult, uncomfortable and mistaken sensibilities of loud large women womansplaining on topics they "feel about" but don't truly educate (us) about.
Ms Krishnan is judging the play Ramayana with racial supremacist goggles; we shall not ignore this moment to be clear on that unacceptable trait happening in a nonwhite. Krishnan is setting her standard of Hinduism being inappropriately depicted by a non Indian/ South Asian caste. Did she try out for the play? Was she aware of the play? How many South Asian and ethnically relevant students of the material were interested to either apply for a role or see the play? In the explanation of discrimination, Krishnan emphasized the same point in three parts; they were not three points.
White people do not widely practice Hinduism, Europeans do not widely practice Hinduism. South Asians practice Hinduism and are discriminated for it. Huh, discriminated by Buddhists as well. Buddhists and Hindus are often at each others throats more often and both Hindus and Buddhists discriminate against Muslims. Krishnan believes the 'there is only the white oppressor narrative' can play where she feels reason to feel discomfort. "Womansplaining racism". I'm not eager to put down reasonable accusations of racism and I don't intend to defend white racists or Proudboys.. if the leader of the AU Kultural board had a hobby in collecting artifacts without a (self educated) background, that is a good point.
In conflicting that 'good point', Maya Krishnan has to take a mulligan on why she didn't feel represented. What is her denomination of Hindu?What is her Denominations interpretation of that story,in detail? Where's the sectarian err? For that reason alone Ramayana might mean something different to her. Was she correct that Hare Krishna Hindu was the only denomination feeling identified? She is not necessarily an expert outside her own comforts and traditions. THAT, is what I am emphasizing. She can feel insulted as a particular Hindu but not mistake yelling racism for 60% of India and Hindu Students that felt unscathed about it.
Another point I felt was understated was Maya's annoyance "White Vendors' were selling culturally appropriated/imported items. I feel this might be the trigger of her anger at the play. Rightful anger; It get that. It's cool. Were the White vendors equally selling other culture's wares? Which days of Culture fest were students of the aligned ethnicity most active in selling their own wares on the quad? What is the real truth while many readers (currently now clued in by Professor Jonathan Turley's Blog) are not American University students or present on that campus to see what really transpired? Are Hindu and India students being outpaced by the white capitalist or are they slovenly in getting in on the act of merchandizing on par with other Ethic Student Demographics? If you don't try, you can't make money. "I am President of the South Asian Student Association" she declares. Alright! Alright! So that means Maya is at least one of the officers setting up a booth at this Culturefest and selling items. So is it really about the play? OR, IS IT ABOUT THE MONEY? I don't mean to be ultimately critical here.. however, the topic would rather instead be the American soil capitalist reality of competition decided markets. What were the products at the South Asian Student Association's booth?
By no means should this have closed the AU Vegetarians and Bhakti Yoga Club. Look at the name of the club. It doesn't exclusively promote itself a specific religiously infiltrated India club. So for those reasons I charge Maya Krishnan a race supremacist declaring Hindu a Brown-only religion in a reach of attacking a denominationally specific interpretation ACROSS the Hindu denominations and NOT across the raceline.
I realize the celebration of Pongal is coming up for Hindus. I wish the American University student body a wonderful Pongal. Here seals my point on the matter. I don't always remember Dwali but when I do and I see a Brown person that works at the local Walmart.. I say "Happy Dwali". According to Krishnan, its only authentic if another Hindu greets them for only they could know what it 'really means'. There's at most 100 Brown Citizens//India Hindus in our area of approximately 6500 people. There's a reason why Bollywood is a play on Hollywood; being a minority on a campus can also lend to agree there's even less talented actors available or that any of the 5-6% of AU student body would bother to be among the insulting Bhakti Yoga club to start with. OOPS. *DyingPacManMusic . Whites are not fools for misportrayal as the token racist when such a rapist problem in India is either a defamation or honesty of that culture's identity. I wonder loudly if Krishnan would be so loud as to accuse the catholic molestation scandal a negative Hindu appropriation as well?
Have a great holiday season and new years,
Michael Bench,
Gender Anthropologist
Author of #NativeSupremacy <Amazon>
Carbon County PA //correction, the spelling is ‘Diwali”, not Dwali.
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The communists that dress as republicans.
Traditional Americanism and the Insincere christian acts of oppression,
How the Gavin McInnes’ call for a white revolution-
by Michael Bench
Ever since Reagan called on Mikael Gorbachev to tear down the Berliin wall,the west lived by a rhetoric the Soviets had given up on communism. I tell you now that even if there is no sign of communism in Russia, you can bet on the J Edgar Hoover voodoo doll I keep in my underwear drawer, there is communism in Russia. In fact, J Edgar Hoover will not rest to prosecute any conspired communist existing in contrast of the United States government for they are perpetual agents of the Soviet Union. They are perpetual spies for the communist revolution. J Edgar Hoover invented Febreeze 3 years after he died.
In Hoovers 1960s book “ On Communism” he describes the communist as a perpetual threat to the American way of life. They have no morals and are being prepared for a revolution that overthrows the government. A Communists “ goal” is to throw a monkey wrench into all function of capitalism and at times when civil rights are being demanded by Americans; they are insincere pawns and puppets of the Communist interest. J Edgar Hoover identified all iterations of “ A New Left” as nearly inseparable of of a communist conspiracy. This leaves a glaring problem for sincere critics of poorly steered freemarket capitalism. When completely unregulated, capitalism moves away from competition. And what do we arrive at without competition? The Communist result of tyranny under a master class of oligarchs!!
At this Moment the collaboration between Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin raises the concern of corruption in the traditional communist scare Hoover was familiar with. Trump is accepting help as a gullible sod believing Putin is an agent of a free and capitalist Russia. Communists are allegedly deceitful and will do things for the big picture 'cause”. The communist cause alarms westerners for as a philosophy alone... the American government and Europe have never encountered a pure philosophy they could not mangle into propaganda. The west is scared by a people with a stable formal philosophy; it runs marketing.. Philosophy's role to westerners is insincerity for their own needs. They accuse the communist of being godless. They themselves have only ever used religion, religious books, government constitutions and the snake oil of 'rule of law' to weave a tangled mess of translated morality.. subjectively.. in such a dim setting that god is named but cannot be present; if an integer at all. At the time of Hoover's living author career, he indicated 'Party-line' ism was a very new communist understanding of loyalty. Today the privatized political sector has a high polarized redstate propaganda machine hiding behind the masks of Jesus, god, humanity, womens fertility politics all in the name of megalomania.. And. If Soviet communism is the root of evil we all should be concerned about.. lets also recognize communism is a WHITE RACE SCHISM by which the most misled of christian evangelicals serving their own wants of majoritarianism.. have sacrificed faith message for politics. They live for the cause but they do not know their cause. Consider it; the most significant threat of communism is not “leftist” Progressivism. Instead White traditionalist fundamentalism.
FBI doesn't want to admit this correlation of Race based diversification among whites. The FBI alliance and overlapping interests with conservative xenophobia can't risk breaking up the white majoritarianism card. In that strength is also a failure. Law Enforcement also inherited the bad seed of Willy Rehnquists 'Nonpreferentialism”. Nonpreferentialism invited zionist-christian theocracy to the table to meet the “government”'s interests of regulating the people. Nonpreferentialism also defeats an entire religion like christianity by allowing its political zealots to act outside dogma as artifices of the state. Evangelical (communists) are their own pandoras box of majoritarianism for power's sake; not religious authenticity's sake.
The Newt Gingrich's have faithfully employed the government shutdown to get their party donor's ways. The republican primary vitriol promises their base they will not compromise and they will not permit regulation of the family or business by the government. They do allow regulation of the family by church however and this is quite foolish in its subjective application. Did not the Jews welcome the money lenders into the temple? So firstly if Satan is a fixture of evil and misguided morality, then he certainly seems to arrive with greed in the temple. I promptly rebuttal this matter for the evil of men is its own institution founded with the seven deadly sins of his behaviors; not Satan's. Let's go on here still that even if it is Satan to wonder about.. Communism doesn't believe in that angle either. Communism is atheological. Westerners blame Satan for their shortcomings; their unwillingness to be better people. If today you asked your priest or your pope what would be the policy for regulating the economy.. if a blank stare and silence blasts back at you... Well, the ill prepared clergy were more interested in keep up their own buildings, erecting new buildings and stoking the fires of lying that penalizes our people as the dirty trash of creation for having gender at all. Without sex shaming the church's work is nearly robbed of all fuel in a furnace too cold to harm market malevolence. You would just be an individual body denied your individual purpose seeing the church is only for shaming the poor and middle class as other than sufficient donors.
Communists allegedly have no individual interests or preservation. A Unique lie Hoover spit into his ink.Whites are not the vest bombers and suicide terrorists that Muslim radicals are. The state of violence and shootings rising should signal to us maybe there was a threat of communism. What if there is a threat of two communism strains? That's what I warn you about/. The sincere socialist radical who fights for labor rights and civil rights... The Leftist you all know as smeared and too progressive for American Traditions comforts.. And, there is the new communist redstate.
The Gavin McInnes clans and White Nationalists who even name themselves socialist labor clans. The Proudboys leader went on video proclaiming in so many words the need for a revolution even if it meant his hooligans lose their jobs. A move like that surely isn't white supremacist in nature. It creates a profile for white workers being prone to partisan vandalism and unreliability. Hired one day and gone the next. “Yeah boss, I 'm in jail. I didn't sleep late; I was beating up a tranny that never wronged me. Some guy on the internet told me to? Its Not Slenderman.. No, he had a beard and an Irish sounding name. . Sorry.. I 'm out of time. “. Lack of individuality. Gavin McInnes is trying to throw a monkey wrench into those young men's work career. He's trying to throw a shadow on any White male who even looks like they might be confident about their person.
A new communist redstate has bank owners/lenders approving thousands of subprime mortgages and expects the government to bail them out of a toxic loan scandal. During that Scandal the Federal Reserve dropped the rates to criminal lows and allowed banks like Wells Fargo to be the best earning sector in the market during the 'great recession' quarters on end. Wells Fargo also raised its expectations of quarterly credit revenues to such a ridiculous level its workers were coerced as ' TEAM MEMBERS” to commit identity fraud and credit information defamation to meet their expected goals. Those workers were ejected while John Stumpf avoided any accountability. John Stumpf was applauded however for any manuever of his bank (Wells Fargo's) performance on Forbes' February 2012 Cover “The Bank That Works”. Apparently there are sectors of Stumpfs bank working against the bottom line; inefficiency should apparently be wasteful.... but... helping the bottom line? How does that not prove synchronicity with corporate wishes? Forbes magazine et al; Steve Forbes also bangs a gavel for an unregulated market. This is foolishness. Unregulated market will choose against competition and merge, acquire and seek efficiency toward monopoly: a direction that is synchronous with monopoly.
A poorly regulated and unequally accessible political system will veer toward monopoly, A system that offers money a political speech identity but cannot assure that money maintains a domestic anchor is assuring the appearance of corruption and the accessibility of communism.. if communism is in-fact the influence of the Soviet Communist Republic. What might be most difficult for people in the FBI to understand is they've ignored see the proliferation of communism is a result of their own molefarm bias toward republican ideals. By the very manner demanding torte limitations and a return to limited liability judicial settlements,,, the feudalism that once marked America a republic of the wealthy must also not ignore the theoretical communism at work in the Forefathers want of independence. They enlisted men without their consent to the revolution. The Upper class stood above all men of poverty, of Blackness, of unfamiliar immigrant status. The lower class FBI sees as insincere pawns creeping up on capitalism's reputation. Capitalism for the United States is meant to be Democracy 2; the masculine version of it; the uppity well-to-do translation of what Democracy really meant to be.. a distraction from the electoral college's assured continuance.
In the western framers' plans they draw in the 'poor huddled masses' for that's all you'll ever be to the United States government (while you're poor). The west is consumed still by its own oppressor- oligarch staples. Communism didn't invent that. When your tax revenue and interest in party donations send such zeros and commas that can only be mistaken for a bribe; you are not a huddled mass. You are the bribery level, feeding your views into the teleprompter and assuring the Usgovernment doesn't forget who it's a bitch to. It's all oppression and privilege. Still, it can take on new forms. It can take on communism rather easily when operating as a two tier system. Some Americans will argue there are three classes but there are just two. Binary social systems assure poverty and they assure privilege. Capitalism assures a drift toward monopoly and Communism assures there will be a minimum of two classes; It is most susceptible to the feral privileges of the mammal Sapien. It is weak to infighting and corruption as binary systems like the United States also are.
If we were back in the 1960s right now, J Edgar Hoover's spill of communist-hating would further distract the American public with the problems it made Russia out to be instead of addressing it's own likenesses as a class-privileged republic. He defined communism all encompassing;being about objective study, sport and art. Capitalism fights and is protected by our domestic partyline government as if a social system. Western political sectors press adversarialism and rivalry until people actually believe apples and oranges can be compared. When that becomes the case, the society behind that foolish gimmick of Washington DC congressmen and lobbies begin thinking profit is the only thing society exists for.. Not just profit, mind you. Power.. and here we are again passing Go! On the Communist board game of “Monopoly!.”Cheaters edition. What will horrify freemarketers is capitalism is only one property on the larger board of communism. The Labor Rights , when finally seen in a psychological perspective improved workers willingness to work.. insofar as they weren't oppressed to be only machines of the state. Capitalism had to change to be less communist even if Hoover's definitions demonstrate United States Labor ignorance reputation that cannot be escaped as a domestic policy matter.
What you must not ignore in J Edgar Hoover's red scare is not that communism was tyranny and oppression.. but instead that J Edgar Hoover feared a tyranny whose playbook was unfamiliar and an oppression that would likely benefit and vindicate those Citizens who were previously oppressed by the former order. What you must see is at all times these elements of communism and capitalism are a rather small farm of philosophies the present and past only allow us to see as options. The society of the west is stupid on binary thinking. Male or Female, Jesus or Satan, Profit or poverty, Democrat or Republican.... the American propaganda is an oppression by binarism and yet you've never heard of this enemy while being made fearful of one communism and being corrupted and toppled by those redstaters in Freemarketers clothing.
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Michael Bench is an Exercise Physiologist, GenderAnthropologist, A Musican, etc.and Author . You can find his newest book ‘ #NativeSupremacy” on Amazon . The Kindle Text contains the unabridged version. The author has provided the citations and extra portions not included to the paper back on his author facebook page and twitter acct .814pgs
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//..dear Ms Elspeth Reeve...
( this is a private convo peeps so just keep it low key if you happen to be browsing)
Hi Ms Elspeth , Great work on your piece confronting Joel Stein on his 'me me me generation" piece. I've included it to my book (soon to be released), These Joel Stein and .....Charles Blows that are so misguided in shaming whole generations instead of the urban ego of sports teams and other factors like the fashion industry that they just want to prove their story and not look what things really are. It was this evening I found reason to contact you now 11 years into demanding the federal government regulate the fashion industry and ban haute couture. Couture is itself prescribed anorexia among the designers and the desperate models. CDC themselves refuse to admit there is more than one cause of anorexia and its by consumer emulation. The actual definition is cleaving of the female fat stores as to appear other than a matured female; which is exactly what the couture androcentrism expects. The middle way of female to male is MORE muscular and thicker like an MMA fighter. Perhaps a bulldyke even. Apparently the gay male designers aren't good at fractions even in genderstudies.
Its particularly this evening, Saturday, I was watching PBS which airs British Comedy like Mrs Bucket and Keeping up Appearances, Still Open all Hours, Vicar of Dibley and a now a few murder mysteries. Well this particular night was a murder of a nudey mag patron and the 15yo pregnant model he had photos of. I didn't find out who the father was because I started writing you. “She just wanted to be famous' the photographer said, assuring the detective he didn't know her age and he wasn't the one that she climbed the maypole with. Joel Stein and Charles Blow are among this egotistical beltway i-95 crowd that know these fashion models are complicit for the attention; yet neither dig deeper on uncovering the problem of the fashion anorexia is the models themselves abiding unreasonable standards for their bodies. Standards that if their parents tried to compel on their own, would be arrested for neglect. The charges of abuse against minors in the fashion industry must exist through the sadist necessities of staying employed under their parents approval. For the above age models, they are faulty of not reporting the industry by their own cultish need of attention by making an ill set bar for each fashion show no female should be attempting or idolizing.
We saw the NXIVM cult get caught among the fashion starlets. The FBI didn't totally rip the root out. The Sadism is the cult of attention among the models themselves, protecting their stake in famous pathology/nymphoid fetishes looking like an underage sex symbol. Now NIOSH must oblige evaluation and demand of OSHA their regulation where cowardice like Jon Howard, Frank Hearl , Julia Gerberding all hid before in their bureacracy. When fashion wasn't regulated, a sex cult sprang up among the models and celebrities. FBI currently excuses the anorexia as an employment allowed risk in the hiring contract. Well, That doesn't mean the public emulating them are made aware of it nor that their model-to public advice is valid for ideal conditions; or licensed. Its the model to public ; and fashion media-to public communications that proves the invalid demands of the designers on females bodies.
The youth narcissism surrounds economics. While I totally agree and emphasized your points that older people seeing youth will naturally observe narcissism, they are not further narcissist. Its all perception except for congress. And, when I came to that conclusion, I decided that the Charles Blows and Joel Steins are part of the sludge media working for the government to make the young feel ashamed so they throw down their lives for unsanctioned wars .. and thats why this ' me generation crap' keeps appearing. Putting bodies on the war wagon; the ' ultimate sacrifice for gawd and country”.
Now I do certainly want women to have equal opportunity and equal pay but I do not accept the fashion models pleading themselves innocent and victims of the couture fashion disease they perpetuate as harmless and their own fault. No, see these models have no license to be telling young people about eating when they themselves indulge eating disorder imagery to stay employed. They are narcissists for anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa are both narcissist personality disorders. Their designers, demanding a males body with just enough female attribute to fake hetero appeal is the homosexual/cosmosexuals error and exposure as a mental illness of the gay community. I now have NIOSH OIG currently unresponsive after a second effort and campaign beginning in 2007 to demand they initiate a regulation of the fashion industry over at OSHA. OSHA has sat idle and idiotic ignoring so many regulation calls on women specific employment that its sickening LABOR OIG Legal employees like Howard Shapiro or former OSHA director Edwin Foulke Jr could continue to practice as lawyers.
When I see narcissism, it is infact a female criminal error that the fashion models themselves are both hailed as celebrities and mourned as victims for the fake standards of anorexic thinness THEY oblige for New York and Paris. If there is any proof to the 'me generation' narcissism , need we only blame the very binary gender role set on us by creationists that expect men to ogle and compliment women for looks and then become their adult child-dittohead after marriage. The creationism is expressing a mangled factor thats never been addressed by our biblical thumpers. Egyptians were a matriarchal society. When Hebrews borrowed only 10 of 42 of their laws , they let the corruption slide and then Science would eventually soften the patriarchy into a shallow soup of powermongering until a satisfactory trophy wife satiated a males rather infantile place in his own masculine development.
(wish it were shorter but the expertise is that which nobody has enough background in to make those points stick apparently, certainly not David Michaels, former OSHA and George Washington University 'public health professor' . What a waste of an Obama administration to let him stagnate there. ) My newest book hasn't been yet released so I actually have to get back to editing it. Will be glad to send a copy.
Michael Bench, MEP, WGSGC
Exercise Physiologist
Gender Anthropologist
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The shame of groupies, Jimmy Bennett; and why American remains not so great.
by Michael Bench
Today America is less great and it happened on trump's watch. Today America's groupies are defamed and I put Jimmy Bennett on trial for ungrateful opportunism. There is a difference of willfully being a groupie and being molested by a senior person you were expecting to guide you. A teen of age of menstruation asking their teacher for assistance should not have to concern a dick being stuck in her mouth asking how the teacher arrived at counting to 11 on her fingers. A young person shouldn’t have to concern asking their priest about being bullied at school only to be bullied into a confession booth for sodomy. A gymnast shouldn’t have to expect being fingerblasted as part of the process of inspecting her sprained ankle. The professional guardian of minors is always wrong to take sexual advantage of them.
Adults are not owed to be children's perpetual guardians in all walks of life. Not in the civil sphere. Their parent's job is to guide them and that’s to assure the parent is actually doing their job and not pawning their kids off on other people with excessive babysitting. Employers of minors owe them a safe workplace so there again is a formal guardianship (the fashion sector doesn't abide). Entertainers and athletes are not owed to children to be role models. Should an entertainer open a camp expressing ideals and values, then the guardianship role is implied.
I feel necessary to draw that line. Athletes and entertainers are specifically on stage and on court to perform. They perform, they get fans, and they get groupies. Groupies as to understand 'sex kittens' are part of the merit of being an entertainer. Groupies volunteer themselves. And, regardless of law, young groupies from 13-16 see their special moment getting dick from a celebrity as type of special devirgination A fair primae noctis, if you will. The females got along just fine going along with the process. Not Jimmy Bennett, Bennett failed the institution of gratitude. Where are his parents to teach him some manners?
Thank you Ms Argento for a lovely evening.
I so appreciant your caring embrace and sharing a bed with you.
You're so beautiful I can't believe I was able to spend some of your time. All your personal fans are really really fortunate.
Try those for example... and then... THATS IT. If she wants to spend more time with a fan/friend, she will. And if not.. Understand she has a pick of a lot of people so know your place here, Jimmy Every Land of The Dead Fan and XXX fan should be so lucky
And if Jimmy Bennett went in on Asia Argento raw, come on! How much more of an opportunity is that at any age? Bennett is on trial for slut shaming and then monetizing his own celebrity crush with a game of playing the victim as conservatives always attempt. Who gains most from #MeToo being shamed? The conservatives certainly have a motivation to call on Bennett to spice his story up. I personally don't know his political affiliation. What I do know is that no matter how people might not like the 1980s music, groupies respected their celebrities and rock idols. They ripped their clothes off and flashed their titties just like it was any other era of free love. If an underage teen ended up with an STD from Bon Jovi or Duran Duran, it was a memorable one, like an autograph. This Jimmy Bennett seems to need his selfie in the location not many males are getting postive space. Its one thing to be the first boy to get on the girls high school softball team or cheersquad. Trying to get publicity for an acting career by backstabbing your own celebrity crush is REALLY LOW, I say groupie in the sense that among two celebrities the senior career in a hookup gets regarded with fandom.
In Italy the slander of Argento is all Bennett has done. US law in concern of sexual maturity and social maturity is in a backslide to market interests. American law has tended to be far behind the curve on saying equality and being otherwise. A Puritan interest in worshipping freely doesn't require the entire new western world to backslide in revalidating christianity and other mid east sexism. Creationism is just unjustifiable sexism and thats all it will ever be. Argento wasn’t cradle robbing. How Bennett wound up on a bed, as a seventeen year old, either suggests mental disorder or some scheme of regret. First he wanted sex, then he didn’t. Regretting a sex enounter isnt a blame of a partner. You live with it and make better choices. I tend to see the celebrity world as the adult table and if you want to sit at it then owe yourself to adult decisions.. like not blaming other people for your own choices.
Argento isn't in the wrong to check out a 16 or 17 year olds. Those ages are also on the plate of the dating pool in Europe. She wouldn't see this as unusual. Bennett had a choice to not drink. He surely didn't drink enough to not perform. Just do the math: minor is on bone= screws celebrity=not drunk. A seventeen year old in America is determined competent enough to drive a car and see an R rated movie.
And on this point, American scheming and opportunism has hit a new low using a sexual harassment and rape awareness movement in the entertainment industry as some sort of moment for Jimmy to get his attention. Didn’t movie roles gratify him? If he's checking out older women, I also point out he's narrowing his groupie pool that could possibly not take advantage of him at 13-16. Now that he's 22, my gosh a whole range of 18-25 year olds are available and he's worried about crying wolf in his post shagging Argento era? Trying too hard means desperation and being desperate for someone isn’t honest interest; not even with buff underage nude pics.
The spectacle that Bennett puts on here is just absurd. Is this guy a joke or what? “Help, help, I've been traumatized by blueballs.” Not traumatized enough not to take a memory photo. Not traumatized enough not to leave a smiley face note. Not traumatized enough not to send under age photos of his body to Argento; numerous counts of underage porn. So who really is the bad person here? Bennett. He's a con artist extorting cash: that’s his game. Jimmy Bennett makes America less great since he doesn't respect his place to be a happy groupie on the side. On the side is where groupies accept their place not raging with jealousy about Bourdain or any other guy or girl Argento can opt to take primary interests in.
Bennetts using this underage line to twist the story like he was a wee lad of 10 being pegged by Argento's mighty Ferrari strapon or something. If he was sober enough to get his dick in her, resenting their uncommitted status is just slut shaming by a young celebrity feeling owed exclusive attention. The younger pool is available, Bennett. It works for Argento. Maybe take a lesson and try it once in perspective with the situation.. Groupies are groupies by choice and posing as a groupie is being a groupie by ignorance. Part of the reason I wrote this was to make some opaque lines on the matter.
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Lead up questions to find out what might be addressed in DC Rally of Richard Spencer race Supremacists.
The enclosed questions address current events that I feel responses are owed to the public, Regardless of republican/ conservative talking points.. any group titling itself “White supremacist” has to answer to the majority of that race to assure its beliefs and views of leadership are openly admitted and in line with the norm of that race.
1.The airwaves were awfully silent in the afterhours of Steven Pladl killing off his daughter and their incestual granddaughter. Did the white supremacist collective decide this type of bloodshed shouldn't be made example of? Will incest be addressed a social problem in DC?
2.What are the top four priorities White Supremacists want all governments to confront on the behalf of Caucasians?
3.How many children is too many children for a White male to father in seven year period as time expenses are concerned?
4.Would you mandate a religion? Which one?
5.Do you plan to be more active advocating for people whose water wells have been polluted by fracking?
6.What % of White supremacists you know compete in obstacle races, running races, crossfit games, cycling, triathlon... etc? What number would you want to commit to in the next 6years? Have certain supremacist group members ever been told to stay home because they were too fat and ruined the vibe of a fit race?
7.What percent of White supremacists have been abandoned by their white biological father?
8.There are White motorcycle gangs that proclaim themselves 1% clubs and get into turf wars with other White motorcycle clubs. How is this different than nonwhite street gang violence? Do you tolerate Whites fighting over territory because they share a hobby in riding vehicles with less than four wheels?
9.Do you accept Adolf Hitlers enthusiasm was a mere coincidental result of being a repressed gay?
10.When you identify White Supremacist , a)how can you be sure you are well educated enough about that race to speak for most of them globally? For example, In use of the hoax phrase “Blood and Soil” the Third Reichs incursion eastward to harass the Slavs was literally revisiting land they had abandoned earlier in their history. Thats not particularly respectful of the real and Original Caucasians to come claiming another groups farmland. b) True or False::Making those Slavic farmers more moody should land all the require the upcoming Washington DC rally participants to martyr themselves in a trench.
11.Pan European Nationalism rejects Americans; What is your best approximation of issues that divides European White Supremacists from White Supremacists in North America?
12.Have you ever masturbated to a nonwhite? If you did , on average do you treat them akin to your usual repertoire with White women or did you treat them more as a slave? Do you ever treat white women as sex slaves in your fantasies and do you feel thats appropriate for supremacist conduct?
13.Considering the rates of antidepressant consumption by females, body dissatisfaction rates of women and unrealistic standards of beauty pressured upon them by a fashion industry engineered by Homosexual Male Europeans.. it seems the media has done nothing to protect White women. , Is it more the models fault for abetting the designers wants, the governments fault for doing nothing, or the designer themselves that should be blamed for his dysmorphic visions?
14.Over the term of defending traditional marriage the Bush administration and now Trump administration have had the option of bringing the gay male couture designer fact of gay mental illness to the forefront. Why has both race supremacism and a republican party obsessed with traditional family values choked on regulating a venue that clearly hurts womens health?
15.There's a lot of poorly drawn Swastikas and rather disrespectful use of media to draw that symbol.. such as Swastikas drawn with poo poo. Is there a level of disrespect that should never be crossed when drawing a Swastika?
16.In your opinion, is the Swastika a christian symbol? Protestant Symbol?
17.Should Hitler be seen as a White Messiah?
18.What is your reaction to the summary of the Third Reich being: British Colonialism had dug a hole of karma so deep that eventually a more powerful foe would rise out of the continent; a usual creationist result; existing as a rival caliphate among protestants just as Muslims divided themselves.
19.Noting the vandalism that does occur with symbols such as the Swastika, its rather absent in grocery marts selling junkfood. I've not seen any White supremacist activism in the agriculture sector to punish factory farms selling cancer tainted meat into the food supply. Do these matters seem too politically liberal to be bothered with negligent trade practices?
20.If a Coal roller blew exhaust smoke in your face while you were out for a little bike ride, or walking your dog, What would you ideally do to address the driver? Since coal rolling coincides with domestic brand pickup owners like Ford , Dodge, Chevy and GMC, do you feel these exhibitions of pollution lead more people to purchase foreign brand vehicles?
21.Approximately what percent “too many” of White Supremacists do you feel are obese?
22.What innovations in the most recent decade can be attributed to White Supremacists living in the borders of the United States?
23.Are boobjobs antiCaucasian?
24.Do you feel the Kosher symbol is so overused on food that Rabbis give a false impression of nutrition on those who regard the symbol?
25.True/ False. Jews are 32 Laws short in their plagiarism of their 'commandments acquired by Moses”.
26.In a case like Bernie Madoff, do you feel the Jews should have excommunicated him publicly in the way Universities retract honorable degrees? Christians and Jews are rather cowardly to excommunicate criminals and scumlike individuals. Is this a flaw of White people being too timid or a flaw of christians being too eager for donations no matter the moral flaw of the people?
27.White supremacists: “gods gift to white people” or a collective so unlike the color of people they try to attract that by attempt of association are as much a portion of a dog as a tick (or vice versa)?
28.Adolf Hitler or Adolf Hitler's Father: the better role model.
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Chloe Dykstra:The Groupie that Expected Too Much Out of A Celebrity's Rebound Relationship
Why Women Are Not Above Bad Relationship Blame When Their Decisions Insist Bad Relationships for Ulterior Motives. The environment of the abuse
by Michael Bench
The scandal surrounding Chris Hardwick broke in the recent hours centered around a past relationship and a blog alleging itself a confession by Chloe Dykstra. What should raise your awareness is “Why” and “Who is she?” I don't mean like “Who is she to allege this?” I mean “Where do her wants choose compromise against what she wants.” In her post on Medium she said she desired to have a 1) a partner, 2) someone to confide in ,3) someone to share things with , 4)not be judged ( you're going to be judged , stop being insecure),5) “Someone to be there for me”, 6)”What I felt that this man wanted was a woman who would feed him, sleep with him and go to events with him”. In most of these, she's asking for a therapist. For the same reasons women are asked “Why didn't you leave”, they also get bugged out why men leave them. Judged:Not working out, snoring, adult acne, interest conflicts, not wanting kids, wanting too many kids, prefers wood heating, prefers Birkenstocks, White Inferiorist etc etc.
Alright, do we have that? 6 reasons that Chloe Dykstra says she wants. I'm going to alter number 6 a bit . Beings that Dykstra was attracted to the scenery around Chris Hardwick, we can rewrite that “ I want to go to events”. Further on in the blog we have the clarity moment “Nobody can save me but myself”. Exactly, So this is where female relationship checklists have to move into the new age of deciding when they aren't getting something, making sure they SPEAK UP as to whether it's available, or whether its time to move on ..even if the person is bound for fame. If a characteristic is not available or not changing, its not any females role to try to mother it either. It's their duty and responsibility to MOVE ON and not self induce frustration for no reason at all. These are hardset rules'; don't fuck with it.
Whether the person is bound for fame or not ..their fame isn't your fame and a lot of fame is a poisonous batch of the wrong people making it popular.. such as Dykstra's obsession with diets.
What aggravates me about Dykstra's so called confession is she admits what she wanted out of a relationship with Hardwick is an arm on his redcarpet moments. It goes without saying that if she didn't like anal sex ; which she is yet insecure of, that its the wrong relationship from the beginning. In a broader sense of the topic, people who desire celebrities must understand they should make no expectations of monogamy, make no requests of exclusive relationships , and let celebs be celebs as far as you are willing to be okay with what they want.
Dykstra accepted a condition of staying in a hotel during a San Diego Comicon? Are you kidding yourself? Did you want to go or not? This is why I started the blog “Who is Chloe Dykstra (for herself).This is your life Dykstra, you have to be willing to know what's more important to you:Codependent carpet rides or experiencing it for yourself. Nobody can “live you” but you. If being Hardwicks pet is what you decide on , that's on you. Congratulations on deciding to get out eventually. I'm not going to pat you on the back for airing his dirty laundry specifically for your revenge though.
Perhaps it's good his flaws are out.
If Hardwick is that person lets not ignore he didn't give his so called friends much time in his life either. I don't say that to normalize the treatment. I say it for females/everyone to realize your minimal treatment should be expected at least on par with (his) longer term friends. What seems to be outted here at least from this blog is Hardwick might be gay and the result of trying to play a heterosexual male is lousy treatment of women around him. If he's not bisexual , then his needs of dominance either suggest low self esteem despite his celebrity status (as alcoholics will be) or a flawed want of dominating people for his own sadistic impulses. This is usual for people with Narcissistic personality disorder; a factors which I feel both Dykstra and Hardwick share? Expect an apology? Not likely. Dykstra's blacklisting from the industry isn't something I can fact check.
There's a lot of reciprocity expectation in this Dykstra confession blog but she doesn't make expectations of reciprocity early enough. If you want a relationship, demand the same of it. Don't loiter for this random schmuck to roll the carpet out for you to walk on. Don't be the chick behind the scenes, Own your own fame, Dykstra. That's what I don't like .. seeing women awestruck with trophy dating taking a backslide to traditional underserving roles for their own conveniences.
Is it convenient to not demand a night of pegging Chris with your own strapon if anal sex isn't your thing??? Dammit Dykstra, a relationship is about self respect. The relationship with Hardwick was a task of disrespect according to you. So who's to blame for knowing what creepy and uncomfortable is and not walking away? Unlike many other cases of domestic abuse where we have no alibi for why women stay, this one was clear: Dykstra wanted her trophy Comicon star for the secondary flashbulbs and tabloid images. It's part of her own eating disorder. She wants to reinforce her presumptions being emaciated is normal when .. its not. And for the people at home, don't buy this “ I just didn't see the flags”. She saw the fucking flags .. she was in it for herself and as anorexics will be.. accepted the external pain for her wants well into an unhealthy casual relationship. Its a relationship she distortedly told herself was going somewhere. It wasn't . Are you a woman or a hermitcrab, Chloe? Do you have decency for yourself or just keep looking for shiny shells?. The “Confession”Concludes Dykstra was settling to be a sidegirl for her own life. Thats whats sad
I'm not sure if Chris Hardwick also wants a dick in the ass or whether its an obsession with his celebrity status. I'm suggesting the latter. Since I have a ref shirt on here for Gender Studies.. if the starfishing was done to be painful and perhaps even rectally tearing , Dykstra can elect a pitch hitter to settle that up. Flag on the play!!!!
Sex is physical love Hardwick. If you need dominance, get in the ring and have an even bout for the pain, to the pain. There's people out there that stick their gonads together with disgust and vile treatment of each other in roleplays. That's their choice. I suggest look at the whole relationship and decide if spicing it up is just prolonging something thats over by treating each other badly. In that case, Go to your corners. Go to your locker rooms. Leave the building from separate parking lots and begone with both of you.!! Still , I'm troubled but this accusation “Dykstra went along with a sexual assault. “ Went along with? Were you having sex and he wanted a rape role play you weren't into ? This is not clear. After 17 drafts of anger its thrown into the mix like a “whatever” situation. Like it was needing a “#MeToo coattail when it didnt. If it applies , it applies.
I'm not sure whether its better to speculate he cornered into her hotel room when he couldnt get laid by any famous other comicon celeb or whether this was part of his personal assault as a narcissist. Lack of details disservices the seriousness of the accusation/crime. Since I did suggest he brought along a backup sidegirl for his comicon appearances, it occurs to me this situation is a double fault outcome of how two narcissists feeding each other with nothingness and role playing come to injure each other. Hardwick is a former game show host and Dykstra is unknown to me; Both are not familiars.
This story deserves the attention of a new movement that does not excuse women for ulterior motives and loitering a relationship with nothing in it other than avoiding the fear of being single. It's a real tragedy.. The women who are owed respect cannot be offset by those that crawl along a sidewalk gutter looking for their quick meal ticket to fame. The Melania Trumps for example. Low an behold, they'll let themselves be treated like the gutter and thats no woman; They have to own up to their bad decisions, their lousy low bar for what being a female is and thats why I wrote it. “The #DontDefineFemaleLikeYoureAFuckingIdiot Movement”.
So as you ought clearly see. I apply blame to select situations where the female owed her person better of known wants and settled to be the codependent sidecar. Too long we’ve heard the term victim blaming instead of address the circumstances being raised. If we are a competent race then we understand that blaming a female for her assailant isn’t on the table. The assault behavior is by one actor’s own decision. Shout it out when you see the victims posse try and raise it like its a norm of the conversation. Its not. Females who will not face the blame of their issues will not seek to change the behaviors that enable male bad behavior. Its real, so don’t ignore the blame. The first one I can name is women who either “play hard to get” or endorse it when they really caved to unwanted repetitive harassment.
Final points:
Females.. before you decide on dating celebrities, read the various “Guides to Dating Musicians”.:Never invest time today you expect to get back tomorrow. If you have a spotlight, its you're duty to also not make it too easy for random groupies of your own just to slink in and out of. Be mindful of your own accomplishments or why the lack thereof is happening. All people have a right to hookup so just don't presume more of celebrities if you managed to hook up with one. The sea of sex partners is many. Choosing to settle for the “very next one', “being fed up with dating”, “looking only for someone invested in long term relationships”... are the people insecure and lazy for themselves. Long term dating rests on good short term dating. I can tell you why women don't leave bad relationships. They “feel above the bother” of meeting more people. Women settle, Men exhaust them for attention and thats the street level problem of the laymen dater too insecure to let things change.
Dating is like a Buffet, Not a Crowded Parking Lot. Get better at dating, not eating.
Till Next Time..
Sincerely
Michael Bench, MEP,GCERT
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