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Hi little ones, I missed you all sooo much <3

I have been having a lot of reflection, douth, mental difficulties and stress lately. I was thinking way too much and I needed a break from caring about littles and pets for a while so I can care of myself.

My point is, after trying, learning, reflection, I don’t want to be a teacher.

Now I still enjoy caregiving and babysitting and ocassional teaching. I am still figuring out what life has in store for me so for now I will keep this blog as just a caregiving blog with esthetics that shift around until we find something we all enjoy (you all as my ex-students and me).

Don’t you all forget that we can all change and that it's not a bad thing, it just lets us try to find something we might enjoy even more.

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Really need to hear this right now so I guess I’m saying it to myself. And posting it in case others also want to hear it. Because I’m kind of on the verge of breaking down.

To the asensual/touch-averse/touch-repulsed age regressors with fictional cgs, your cg would never…

-Hug you, cuddle you, or even hold your hand without explicit permission

-Expect hugs or cuddles from you in return

-Try to guilt trip you into agreeing to hug them because “they deserve a hug after helping you”

-Shame you for a reflexive reaction to physical contact (ex. nearly punching someone who puts their hand on your shoulder)

-Otherwise break your boundaries around touch and physical contact

I wanted to write this because when I go looking for caregiver headcanons for certain characters, I stumble across so much “they love giving you cuddles” and it just makes my skin crawl as someone who can’t be touched without feeling distress. I just want to know that they care about my reactions and don’t think I’m broken because I act like a lunatic at the prospect of being hugged.

Here’s hoping this helped at least one other person.

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who up feeling caregiver—less :(

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Happy New YEAR 2025

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◇Miss/Mister/Mx caregiver flags◇

@bunnelbaby

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Storyteller Caregiver

Storyteller Caregiver, a caregiver who tells stories to their little and or a caregiver who makes their own stories and shares them with their little. This can be original concepts or just concepts that already existed.

(another flag inspired by one of my caregivers)

Flag Versions, First with Book, Second without book

Icon version, first with book, second without book

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I also recently lost my puppy. It's all going to be okay, even if you don't think so. I promise

You don’t have to respond, it’s not selfish to need some comfort every now and again, you deserve to eat. Your friend would probably really love if you did buddy

vent, tw pet loss, tw eating disorded stuff

i dont feel good. i wanna fight someone, i wanna hit and throw things, i wanna hurt, scream and kick. just get to be a bad dog and kid

i dont wanna really wanna talk to anyone but i want kinda wan attention. i guess i want stuff where im not expected to respond. but that seems mean? like selfish

my puppy is gone. the house is quieter without her here, and life just keeps going 'like normal.' ive got her collar and the favt that ill never hear the tag on it clink as she jumps around excited to see us makes me wsnt to scream.

i wanna starve again, i dont need food, its not good for me right now, itll just make me feel heavier and grosser and i already dont feel very alive

i hate it, i hate everything, i hate myself, i hate the world and time and growing old and illnesses. i want my doggy back

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◜ 🕯️𓂃 Happy Diwali! ‧ 🪷◞

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Happy Diwali to those who celebrate ! I hope your diwali was filled with laughter, joy and love! I wish you all a prosperous year full of health, and prosperity. Whilst this post is a little late, i would like to tell you all what diwali is !

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╰╮What is Diwali? ﹕✦

Diwali [or Dipawali] is India's largest holiday, The festival gets its name from the row (avali) of clay lamps (deepa) that Indians light outside their homes to symbolize the inner light that protects from spiritual darkness. . It's as important to Hindus as Christmas to Christians and is enjoyed by non-Hindu communities.

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╰╮How is it celebrated? ﹕✦

Diwali is celebrated over the course of 5 days:

⧼ 1 ⧽ Dhanteras

During this day, many are focused on cleaning the home and shopping for golden items which is thought to bring good fortune. Lakshmi is the focus of worship on this day!

⧼ 2 ⧽ Naraka Chaturdashi or Choti Diwali

On the second day, People begin to decorate with clay lights, and designs called rangoli on the floor with sand or colored powders. Prayers are also offered for the souls of ancestors

⧼ 3 ⧽ Lakshmi Puja

The main day of the Diwali festival! This is a time for families to seek blessings from Lakshmi, light diyas, candles, and fireworks. They also will visit temples on this day, and have bountiful feasts

⧼ 4 ⧽ Govardhan Puja

Also known as Balipratipada or Annakut is the fourth day of Diwali ! This day commemorates Krishna's victory over Indra[king of the gods] and the start of the Hindu new year. Friends and relatives visit with gifts and best wishes for the season.

⧼ 5 ⧽ Bhai Dooj

Also known as Bhai Tika or Bhai Bij, is the last day of Diwali. On this day, everyone celebrates the bonds between their siblings, and sisters will pray for the prosperity, success, and well-beings of their brothers

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╰╮Diwali Fun! ﹕✦

Before finishing up, i would like to give you guys some diwali worksheets ! The top one is Diwali vocab with pictures !! Which will help you in all the rest 💗

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18+ blogs // DD!LG, AB!DL and variants [even "SFW"] // 27 and older // DNI

Fact OTD: The Chamber of Knowledge used to be called the Chamber of Mysteries.

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Please reblog if YES so your followers will know!

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Photos of kids online

Please do NOT use photos of real children online!!!

Children (in this context being 15 and younger) do not understand what the internet is. That it can’t be errased. They can say they do but the idea is way too wast for someone this young! Most of these pictures and photos are taken by their parents/guardians and I need to say this loudly CHILDREN CAN’T CONSENT TO THEIR PHOTOS BEING UPLOADED ON THE INTERNET.

Sharing photos of children is only okay if it is YOU in that photo and you UNDERSTAND what kind of people can look at it and use it once it's online (and they will not be asking for consent most likely).

No, that you found it on pinterest doesn’t make it okay

No, that it is YOUR child doesn’t make it okay

No, that it is a "famous" child doesn’t make it okay

Think of the kinda of people who would want to click on a profile of someone who has a profile picture of a real child...

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All of my friends that work at wildlife rehab centers have had to untangle animals from this stuff, or had animals brought in that died in it. This is especially nasty for small owl species.

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It’s soooo close but we are sticking with the school theme:3 Hugs to all!

I wanna change my theme but also I will only do that if you guys are up for it:33

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agere daily affirmations!!

⋆˚⊹ i am allowed to regress.

⋆˚⊹ my regression is not gross or weird.

⋆˚⊹ i am not a burden.

⋆˚⊹ my regression is a healthy and safe space for me.

⋆˚⊹ i am taking care of myself when i regress.

⋆˚⊹ i am giving myself the love and support that i need.

⋆˚⊹ being sensitive and soft-hearted is not wrong.

⋆˚⊹ i am protecting myself by choosing who I tell about my regression.

⋆˚⊹ i am allowed to use & like the things that help me regress.

⋆˚⊹ i deserve to regress.

⋆˚⊹ my regression is valid no matter what it looks like.

⋆˚⊹ its okay if i can't regress as often or as little as i'd to.

reposted blog ~ credits

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I wanna change my theme but also I will only do that if you guys are up for it:33

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