#sfw agere caregiver

[vannycami]

Did a drawing of a dinosaur exploring space

Feel free to download and colour it digitally or print it to colour it! Feel free to show me if you do! Whatever you do with it, have fun~

And feel free to ask for any other drawing you might enjoy! Don't be shy, even if it can be scary to write to people, you're welcome here <3

[stuckinthe-2000s]

♡ I am allowed to regress.

♡ My regression is not gross or weird.

♡ I am not a burden.

♡ My regression is a healthy and safe space for me.

♡ If it gives me peace and joy, that's all that matters.

♡ I am taking care of myself when I regress.

♡ I am giving myself the love and support that I need.

♡ being sensitive and soft-hearted is not wrong.

♡ I am accepting myself by accepting my regression.

♡ I am protecting myself by choosing who I tell about my regression.

♡ I am allowed to use & like the things that help me regress.

♡ I deserve to regress.

♡ My regression is valid no matter what it looks like.

♡ Its okay if I can't regress as often or as little as I'd like to.

♡ It is okay to want to be taken care of.

♡ Its okay to not want to be taken care of.

♡ Its okay to need/want extra attention and care.

♡ My regression doesn't always have to be positive.

♡ My regression doesn't have to look a certain way.

[cg-mia]

by the way . . . 🐣

it isn't weird or creepy to have a job and still regress!

it isn't weird or creepy to be an adult and still regress!

it isn't weird or creepy to have or look after actual children and still regress!

it isn't weird or creepy to do adult things while regressed!

lots of adults with responsibilities regress, you're doing what you can, and that'll always be enough ! 🧡

~ mama mia 🍥

[mother-athena]

🌼 Caregiving Tips 🌼

For my first time caregivers who are completely lost on how to start caring for their little one 💛

🌼 Research! Read as much as you can about age regression whenever you can. The more you can understand how regression works and what it is, the better you can support your kiddo.

🌼 Read Safe for Work fanfiction on regression. It can give you lots of ideas on how to care for and talk to your kiddo when they're regressed. Ask them if they read works on any specific fandom and try looking it up yourself to get an idea of what they like.

🌼 Read blogs on Tumblr and stories on Wattpad for regression advice too. Lots of information is written by regressors and caregivers themselves.

🌼 Ask lots of questions. Your little one's probably already established how their regression works for them so asking what that looks like can be super helpful to you. (Examples: How small do you feel when you regress? Or What do you like to do when your regressed?)

🌼 Your kiddo may feel a little apprehensive at first so patience and lots of reassurance will do wonders. Remind them that you want to be there and don't rush the process of including this new dynamic in your relationship. It will take time.

🌼 Encourage their regression! As often as you can, do things that encourage their headspace. For instance, asking if they want to color with you or watch a cartoon. The more you encourage their little habits, the more comfortable they'll feel around you.

🌼 Don't talk down to them. There's a balance when it comes to talking to regressors. You want to baby them (unless they ask otherwise), but not in a way that's patronizing.

🌼 Be curious. Ask them simple questions and be interested in what their doing/telling you. Most kiddos love to explain things and feel like they're showing you something cool, so it'll make them very happy to know that you're paying attention to them.

🌼 Try not to be harsh. Most feel like harsh discipline and a firm hand is the best way to handle a regressor, but most kiddos listen better to a gentle reminder than a harsh reprimand. So be patient with them, treat them as though their learning everything for the first time.

🌼 Learn their little habits. Lots of times, kiddos don't want to ask to be babied because they can feel embarrassed or like a burden, so they'll give little hints in hopes you'll notice them that way. And it can be something as small as being a little more clingy, to pouting and whining over something that seems minor.

🌼 Become their guardian. Check in with them often, ask if they ate, help them put their seat belt on and remind them to pick up after themselves, little things like that. Some regressors even love to have a certain set of rules laid out for them to follow (or break).

🌼 Avoid ignoring or verbally wounding your regressor. Sometimes emotions can become much more difficult to process when regressed, so a passing comment or action done in frustration can cause deep wounds to reopen, so try to think twice before acting.

🌼 Don't cross boundaries! Just because you're the caregiver, don't abuse your authority and force them to do anything their uncomfortable with.

[cerealkiddie]

having a clumsy little baby and getting them those dishes that don't spill. bowls with a slotted silicone top that makes snacks hard to fall out of, sippy cups that tumble and don't drop anything. reassuring your butterfingered tot that everything's okay!

[pummoosun]

Sooo, I made an Caregiver Moodboard! With an outfit for them, the diaper bag for their little one and stuff they put into the bag. The stimming/fidget cube is actually for the Caregiver btw! Everybody deserves and needs their own ways to stim!

Also, additional snackies for the baby too!

[darlalcoveadores]

Another late night ramble of thoughts; tears with littles.

Little darlings could and would cry for a hundred and one reasons and I'd still have a special place in my heart of them— because they're so utterly human. The sweethearts who have unfiltered emotion when regressed because really does get too much and their heart is too big. I'd want to cup their face in my palms, brush away the stream of tears that flow every so often and whisper "It'll all be okay soon, my lovey. We'll fix this, we'll learn how to deal with it." The darlings who bottle up all their feelings to the brim and burst the moment the slightest thing goes wrong or bad— making them drop hard into regressing, making them feel triple of what they're used to. I want to be sat next to them, letting them press their face to my side and mumble to them "You're overwhelmed, and I'm here with you through it. Nothing will harm you now, let all those tears out, darl."

And oh, the dears who even when regressed, cannot bring themself to cry or wail. Wanting to desperately use their voice to tell you whats wrong— or maybe they don't even know what's so wrong in the first place with all those muddled thoughts— I want to pull them up onto my lap, wrap both my arms around them and have their head settled on my shoulder. "You're not broken for not crying. It's so hard, it's scary even. Momma's right here for you, and you're so precious to me. Even if you don't think it or mumble back. You're adored, so very adored, my little starlight."

[mossysmolboy]

Heyo!

I don't normally make posts like this but if you see a user called dasylveonrosen

Don't bother interacting with him! He's acting like a child and harassing people because "it's fun" don't give him the time of day like he so desperately wants! I wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire!

Just ignore him like a bratty 2 yr old and let him wear himself out! As someone who grew up with 2 brothers I know how to handle myself, so don't worry about me if somehow gets around me blocking him!

[rose-smoke]

If any littles need a cg then here i am:p

Info abt me:

Name: Sammy

Age: 13

Sexuality: bisexual

Gender: bigender

Pronouns: he/they/it/xe/ink

Names u can call me: dada, Sam or anything else masc, check with me first if its ok(probs will be ok)

Littles ill "adopt"(not adopt but be the cg of): any honestly, any gender, etc, just age limit is 14 under

Fun facts: im autistic and my special interests are fnaf, cryptids, cats and eddsworld I will send u sanrio memes to cheer u up if ur impure regressed, I respect most things unless its abelism, racism, homophobia, etc

[stuckinthe-2000s]

🌙 Agere Ask Game!!! ⭐

🖍 Who is the first person you told/would tell about your headspace?

❤ If you had a fictional caregiver/little who would it be?

🩹 What do you experience when you regress? (i.e fuzzy feelings, motor skill or speech struggle, etc.)

🧡 How often do you regress or try to regress?

🍬 Do you read agere fanfiction and if so, about who?

💛 What school grade (if any) would you be in according to your headspace?

🧸 Are you an older sibling who regresses/caregives or a younger sibling who regresses/caregives?

💚 Were you considered an "old soul" growing up or were you more "childish"?

🧩 What was your first piece of agere gear or what would you want as your first?

💙 What's your regression/caregiving aesthetic? (kidcore, babycore, altcore, etc)

🍭 How long have you been apart of agere tumblr?

💜 What are you obsessed with right now in your headspace? (sanrio, sharks, bluey, etc)

🍼 Do you include your personal nostalgia in your regression/caregiving or are you creating new memories?

🖤 Have you met any other regressors/caregivers in real life?

🪀 Have you ever regressed in front of someone or has someone ever regressed around you?

🪁 Is your headspace affected more through traditional or alternative regression? (bottles & cartoons or horror & thrill)

🎨 What's a piece of agere gear that you really want to have/try?

🍬 Have you ever experienced vent regression?

🦋 Are you comfortable with your regression/headspace?

🧚‍♀️ What is age regression/caregiving to you?

🧦 What's something you like & don't like about the agere community?

🦇 Have you ever regressed in a dream?

🌸 Who do you headcanon as a regressor or caregiver? (fictional or real)

🐈‍⬛ Do you think you're represented enough in the agere community? (poc, boys, under 20/over 30 yrs)

🧃Which animal best represents your headspace?

🐇 Has it been or was it hard for you to find a little/caregiver?

🎀 Does your headspace match the gear you use/want? (i.e. regresses to 10 years but loves pacifiers)

🎮 Do you struggle to play pretend or are you super imaginative?

🌈 What mythical creature would you rather be? (Hybrid, Fairy, Dragon, etc)

👾 What's the quickest way to get you in your headspace?

💭 What's one thing you often daydream about doing with your little/caregiver?

[cg-mia]

appreciation for regressors who want to get messy !

appreciation for regressors who want to get messy but can't because of sensory issues or other conditions !

appreciation for regressors who want to stay clean !

appreciation for regressors who want to be clean but can't help being messy due to their sensory issues or other conditions !

it's hard finding a balance, right honey?

~ mama mia, xoxo 🍥

[mother-athena]

it's morning and you're working on something at your desk when your little one quietly shuffles into the room, looking for you. "Good morning, angel. Did you sleep well?" You spin around in your chair as they come up to you.

quietly, your baby whines and lifts their arms up. "Are you feeling too little for words this morning?" You smile. "You wanna sit with me until you wake up a little more? Mommy just has to finish this really quickly and then we can have something yummy for breakfast."

you easily lift them into your lap and they immediately latch onto you, gently resting their head on your shoulder while you went back to finishing your work.

[babyblueagere]

PSA for SFW Agere & Caregiver Blogs: Check the accounts that like your posts!

Hey guys, just a heads-up that some HIGHLY inappropriate accounts have found their way onto our side of Tumblr.

The other day I made a post and I noticed that a non-agere/caregiver account liked my post, and when I went to check the account to see if it was NSFW (which it was) there was a full-on UNCENSORED you-know-what video playing on the account, which I have no idea how it was even allowed to be posted considering that (as far as I'm aware) NSFW-content (both drawn and with real people) has been banned on Tumblr for quite a few years.

If you aren't sure an account is SFW or if it has content you or your followers are sensitive to, look into it right away. And if you're scared to look into it, ask someone you trust to look into it. I'll even look into it if you're nervous about it! All you have to do is DM me and give me the account's username. I'm still fairly new in this community, but I will absolutely NOT tolerate these bots (or in some cases, real, nasty people who don't understand/care about DNIs) trying to hurt our safe space.

[cerealkiddie]

boy regressor + mama carer concept

being a boy mom? taking my lil kid to the park and building sand castles?!? picking up cicada shells and running after each other with them ?! jumping in rain puddles and tossing mud at eachother ?! playing minecraft ?! singing so he can fall asleep ?! dashing in the beach waves and passing a beach ball ?!

[starrysib]

welcome friends !!

i’m tk, and this is my caregiver sideblog !! i’ve been running an agere little account ( @tiny-tk ) for a while now and decided to branch out n make a cg style one as well, mainly for asks since people seem to like those :D

ask status :: open :)

agere is a nonsexual coping mechanism :] here’s a link with more info abt what it means n how it works: everything agere carrd

i’ll take asks for advice, comfort, or if u just wanna talk abt ur day or anything u like !! i think of myself as a big sibling style caregiver rather than a parental one, although i’m not really sure what that means yet to me. also, this account is kind of inspired by @cloudscaregiverservice and that whole subgenre of cg accounts ^^ they’re so cool and i wanted to make my own :]

name :: tk or star

pronouns :: they/them or star/stars

age :: 20

claimed anon sing-offs :: ☁️, 🪴, 🖥️🎨

i tag asks i’ve answered with #ask

i tag my non-ask original posts with #tk.txt

i tag reblogs with #reblog

dividers by @saradika-graphics, 'sfw interactions' banner by me <3