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Exclusionism is NOT bigotry and hostility !
Labeling every one as "lesbian" is like labeling every fruit as "apple"
I have a question:
Is everyone who says "we should not label orange as apple", enemy of orange?
Do everyone who says "we should not use the word "cat" for "dog", discriminating against cats?
So why do some of us, think that people who say "men can not use lesbian label for themselves" , are enemy of men ?
Why do we think that assigning the word lesbian to women and female-aligned non-binaries, means enmity with those who are not women or fem-aligned? Please understand that the use of words and labels for certain things is to prevent words get meaningless, not to discriminate against those who are excluded from these words. I believe that the term lesbian should be used only for women or fem-aligned enbies, because otherwise words and topics become meaningless, and I also believe that insisting on including men in the identity of lesbians is a form of heterosexualization of queer women, although some ppl think it is the opposite. According to many, this issue will de-radicalize the lesbian community and not radicalize the lesbian identity.
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Child neglect and hatred is as bad as child abuse!
Hatred, dislike, neglect and emotional abuse of children is as toxic as sexual abuse of children ...
Unfortunately in most societies people define power and violence in its conventional and stereotypical way and reduce meaning of "abuse" to acts like rape and sexual violence often ignoring other sorts of abuse such as: emotional, verbal, passive aggressive and subtle ones!
Because most of mainstream social activisms have conventional and objective definitions of power and violence, and have a phallocentric theoretical Framework ...
Believe that violence, abuse, power and joy have subjective meanings and every individual person has its unique and distinct meaning of abuse and power!
#child neglect#child abuse#child hatred#pedophobia#ephebophobia#passive aggression#subtle ageism#ageism#adultism
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I try to fights against cis/het privilege when it comes to their liberation from toxic masculinity
I feel that some feminists and gender activists try to support gender role equality between men and women, but they unconsciously ignore transmens' right to be liberated from toxic masculinity ... This exactly a kind of bias and a form of transandrophobia ...
#transandrophobia#transmasculism#transfeminism#gender roles#toxic masculinity#feminism#pro feminism#intersectional feminism
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Accusing others of being perfectionism, when ....!
Regardless of whether perfectionism is good or bad, remember that people know very well how to accuse others of being perfectionists, especially when it benefits themselves 鈥ften those who tell you that such and such things should not be important to you! exactly that thing is important to them, and they are not ready to miss even a bit of that thing. If perfectionism is bad, then it is bad for everyone, and if perfectionism is good, then it is good for everyone Before you tell someone: "Don't be hard! something should not be so important to you", ask yourself that: if I were in his shoes, would I be willing to settle for less and not be perfectionist in that matter?
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Introduction
Hi I'm new here with my new account... I'm NOT troll please be human!
I am:
Pro paraphilia
Pro transid
Exclusionist MOGAI
Nunchuck non-binary:
-boygender
-twinkgender
-Pro xenogender
-Pro ace
-Pro aro
-Pro polyamory
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mazophile
Trans-age (trans12-16)
permateen/permatween
twink
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DNI if: (seriously I can't tolerate your insult if you want to say thing such as: "wtf is this queer stance" or "you have toxic beliefs" or "you are troll .." or some shits same as these... I'll block those who think my bizarre queer stance makes your bullying legitimate)
*anti-paraphilias (of any kind)
*anti-transid (of any kind)
*tucutes (people who think a totally masculine man can identify as trans only because of his cuteness or his softness or his passivity or his slight lipstick on his overall hairy masculine body)
*TERFs
*Lesbophobes
*RadFems
*Anti-bimbos
*Skinny shamers
*Anti-freaks
Note: I'm NOT enemy of Mspec lesbians and gays, but I prefer to label them as multisexual (bi,poly,pan) instead of lesbian and gay!
#my weird DNI doesn't let you attack on me#queer stances should be unique and I hate conforming to common and prevalent queer stances in tumblr#queer stances#exclus leaning
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