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So I never really pay attention to biphobia right? I'm a Pansexaul woman and I vibe. I laugh at some bi/pan jokes because well thier funny. But I was watching a queer tiktok compilation and the rampant biphobia by queer people is insane. I keep seeing the "when your gay besti falls for a "bi" guy" or "the bi girl with a straight boyfriend " like that's kind of hurtful. I'm a pan dating a pan guy and like we aren't any less queer because of it. Why is it ok to villianize or normalize bi people as sluts or experimental while gay/lesbians do the same exact things but aren't really made fun of for it? And I swear if yall come at me barking about bi privilege and the ability to pass as straight I will scream. Does trans people pasing make them any less trans? Does straight passing gay and lesbian couples make them any less gay? NO! So why is it that bi people get shit on for it? Love is love and we can't choose who we love, even if it's a straight man. (Which why are we villifying all straight men? Can we chill with the terf rhetoric?) We should be untied as a queer community and not nitpicking and bullying people for thier queernees. We all stand under the rainbow.

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Alright imma hop on my soap box so if your going to be fathphobic get the fuck out. I LOVE crochet right? It's fun, it tickles my brain, it's a great stim. So why am I mad? BECAUSE! 99% of video tutorials are of small or medium sizes. I'm a large girlie! Big titles, big ass, big bellie. I'm like a 3xish or 4x. I'm sure your saying "just follow a pattern!" WRONG! I'm dyslexic and struggle with understanding written instructions. Which also means I struggle with messaurements because get this- I also got dyscalcula. So why can't I make the cute tops of my dreams? I'm fat and can't follow directions. And like I'm not mad at my fellow crocheters pop off my fellow crafters! I'm mad at a society where plus sizes are demonized and I have to buy so much more yarn than smaller bodies and it's aggravating. Yes I get it. I'm not blaming anyone else for these issues. Could I lose weight? Yes. Would I ever be anything smaller than an XL purely because of my tits? No. Infact my belly isn't even what makes me need a 3x. It's my tits. Plus I'm like 5'11 so I would need more yarn than my 5'5 peeps anyway. I'm mad because our society layers problems (learning differnce, Body shape, financial problems) and it gets in the way of the things I love. I hate it!! Let me make cute tops god dang it! Can we get more plus size people making tutorials? Can we get YouTube to promote those people? I just want to make cute things 😭😭

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Pansexual taco bell

go ahead.... heal up

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Y'all ever realize your alone? Like really alone? My boyfriend of 2 years might end our relationship and I have no one to go to and just sit with. I'm feeling so alone and frightened and I can't even have a hug.

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I have daddy issues 😭 I just want to be praised for doing something well ok? Is that too much? I just want to exist for a while with no thoughts just vibes is that wrong? Like if I had a gf I'd let her do it to! But I don't I have a bf. And so yeah I let him Dom me

sorry but I never get the girlies who wanna be dommed by men in the bedroom. aren't y'all tired of doing as men tell you already by simply existing in this world???

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I had the Tumblr brain rot and I thought the title of the video was

"What are Dan and Phil?" I was waiting the entire video for them to hard launch until I looked at the title again and realized

"What's next Dan and Phil? "

Like ik the it's a whole thing in the phandom I'm just vibing on the outskirts but I was so shocked before and after that.

New Dan and Phil promo pics from their discontinued project!

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"cringe culture is dead" ok but does that include ppl you find ugly, ppl who are into hobbies or fandoms you find weird, ppl w kinks you find odd, autistic people who dont fit your standards, mentally ill people who dont fit your standards, 12 year olds having fun, 30 year olds having fun, furries, fat ppl who dont fit ur standards, or is it just conventionally attractive alt ppl who fit the beauty standard. answer quick

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hoping this makes everybody’s day a little better! especially @bluemerakis @gibson-g1rl @soldiersgirl <3

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“There’ll be peace when you are done” my fucking ass. There’s no peace and I’m not even sure it’s done.

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I think now that queens dead they should have her stuffed and put on display in Cairo for the next 150 years.

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official elon musk hate post reblog to hate like to hate reply to hate

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I unironically want to know the plot of Supernatural:the musical bc like it sounded AWESOME

instead of jack becoming god at the end of spn they should have brought back marie from fanfiction and made HER an authorgod. the final shot of the show should have been salmondeancas and their new robot driving the impala through outer space (which now exists in supernatural)

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There is something so dear to me about supernatural. I started watching it around 14. I had moved out of my mom's house into my grandparents, my older brother up and left not telling us anything and I was figuring out my identity as a Pansexaul person in a woman's body who wasn't quite sure of she was a she (I am.) And watching a show about two brothers who loved each other no matter what dealing with the after affects of neglect an abuse while driving a cool car and being in general cool, soothed a part of my heart. I got to season 4 pretty quickly and seeing dean and cas fall in love was the most beautiful thing I've seen. As I aged I tried to catch up but something always prevented me from finishing until it ended in 2020 and I was heart broken. The first 3 seasons have such a comfort to me because it's like having my brother back if only for a moment. It's watching two siblings reunite as adults and work through their problems. It's about an older brother helping his younger over come addiction. It's about found faimly and finding your own idea on what's right. I love supernatural and I know it's not perfect but it's like my favorite blanket, or stuffed animal. It's worn and broken but it's mine.

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Quietly losing my mind over the fact that Elon Musk has straight up orchestrated a coup of our executive branch and like....I don't even know what, if any, system we have in place to fix this. Like... He's just taken control of the money and locked out the actual appointed officials. What the fuck.

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on the one hand yeah sure 'social media traps you in your own bubble slash feedback loop and nuance gets squashed' etc

but on the other hand i dont have to lay my eyes on one of those 'ao3 needs an algorithm/shipping is bad actually/the art you consume for fun makes you a bad person' rancid takes and honestly thank fuck for that

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The ONLY reason I'm even considering posting my works (some original some fan) is because of how much positivity I've seen around fandom. If people started disliking and being rude to me I'd quit. I don't have the mental health to deal with bullies

'ao3 needs a like and dislike button'

what you need, my algorithm-rotten minded friend, is a grip