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that one anon saying to prove it... bro they r so dumb. ignore the haters cuz i love ur blog -🐾

thank you very much!!

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ADHD

THIS IS SO REAL

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the cycle of a yan4darling relationship

#yan4yan

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HOW AM I THAT UNPOPULAR.. *melts*

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(Note: Just in case you found my reblog post judgemental and hateful, I didn't have those feelings while writing)

hey im the anon that sent the one about kink, i dont know why i even sent that i feel so embarrassed now and i regret sending the ask because i feel like people are gonna hate me and judge me for my coping mechanism, do you think you could delete the post with my ask in it? i wanted to vent how i felt but that was a stupid decision because now i'm freaking out over it and i wish i never sent it in the first place. i just wish more people understood how i felt and wouldnt judge me for being hypersexual and viewing myself as the thing that other people hate.

I will delete it, but please think before you send something.

If you're afraid you'll be harassed for saying something — don't say it or go somewhere where you can say it, that's a safe space for similar topics.

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Maybe if you were a real yandere you wouldn’t be scared to admit the things you do for love. If you’re not killing anyone then what’s actually the problem with openly admitting? Are you a coward or is there actually just nothing to say because you’re a fake

how did it go from being 'you are not a extreme yandere' to "you are not a real yandere'?. Do you also really think murder is the only crime-. And If I wanted to, I could make up stories about let's say stalking someone and blackmailing ppl if I was a "fake" and what does it have to do with being a coward. If I was trying to fake it, why wouldn't I like lie? Here is a fake version of the previous reply if I wanted to fake it: "Hmm I would find my previous partners home address and then blackmailed them (I threatened to leak their address and personal pictures everywhere) into removing all their friends and family and through loneliness induction made them only crave for me and my love. In the end I killed them and ate them up" or wtv (Note this is a fictional example that was used for the argument)

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Why do ppl hate u man 😭😭😭 ??

Some people know nothing other then genuinely hate on ppl for any reason or no reason. Those ppl got bullied or hurt when they were young and they are passing that down on others. I have experienced this stuff alot in the yan community. I mean it could also be kids who thinks it's edgy or cool too but yeah (I got another anon ask while writing this that's making me lose brain cells)

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“Extreme yandere” ok prove it. What “extreme” things have you even done for the love you don’t even have.

I hope you realize how stupid it would be for me to answer this on public tumblr. Ignoring any extreme things i've done which were 100% legal, i've been in past obsessions before. But even if I was in a situation where I never haven't dated before, it doesn't invalidate me having the capacity to be extreme or be a yan. I don't use "extreme" as a excuse for non-yan related thing that alot of "extreme" yans do either (Talked about it in past post). I am logical so it depends on circumstance and situation. Also like are we also putting strict boundaries of being a extreme yan? like do I have to kill everyone that looked at my partner in their lifetime or smth? If you consider extreme as the one you see in anime then I am def not that stupid.

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Why have friends when you can give all your time and effort to your partner?

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(I need this)

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you’re genuinely annoying nobody on yanblr enjoys your posts😭😭

Why do I get 180-200 likes/reposts a day then?

(1 day report)

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fire music

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"I don't even consider internet stalking as real stalking"

Some people genuinely just hate to use their brain before typing. Most stalking (even by private professional stalkers) are done on the internet. No need to shit on internet love. There are so many people that found their soulmates through the internet that they never would've found cause they are half the world away. And also alot of yans nowadays only date other yans and the chances of finding another yan irl is pretty low so. I acknowledge a couple being together irl is one of the goals of a couple on the internet but no need to act like a unintellectual and have a bias against the internet when it is literally you using your brain to express your mind through it which is pretty much what you do irl cause you are stuck in your brain and you are pretty much communicating with your body to do stuff rather then you being the body. Does that mean everything you do with your body is meaningless or is kissing someone meaningless cause you are not actually touching them at the atomic level cause atoms can't touch each other? What happens in the future if we develop tech for people who destroyed their body to replace it with a mechanical body which is controlled through the cloud/internet? Love happens in the head. It doesn't make it less valuable cause it's in the internet

i wish there were more yans on yanblr with irl experiences with their darlings rather than everything being online and through anons. i always love yanderes who talk about their irl love interest and what they do irl to prove their love beyond just stalking someones blog on the internet because i dont even consider that real stalking.

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It's more complex than that. I mean I don't think kink is hated in the yan community and I mean id say we are very unhinged in sx stuff and the average people would probably find us as "creeps" so I don't think saying that yans hate kinks is logical but nobody wishes to talk about it openly I guess(I think)? People that fetishize us only looks at us sexually with ignoring our personality n things associated with obsession n just true love n stuff. I don't think there is anything wrong being into like wanting to be f*cked in a obsessive way or doing sexual stuff in a yan way or something but it's way different when not understanding what a yandere is and what they go through and just using it to satisfy themselves. Alot of them also treat us like we are from a anime and all the other weird stuff that comes with it. I don't think you should be tryna fill your void through that, it is fake love n they are using u for your body n their fantasy without love which tbh in this way is worst than going to the bar n hooking up. And tbh talking about sx stuff on the internet in general(specially yan related) brings out all the weird ppl on the internet out n all the fetishizes so that's probably also why nobody talks about it too. Overall though I mean yeah yans are sexual and they are gonna have that mixed with their obsession for their partner n stuff.

i don't get why kink is so hated in the yan community, is it just hatred towards people who fetishize us? if so i kinda get that, but to be honest i use kink to fetishize myself to make it easier to cope with my issues because my issues are stemmed from sexual trauma so i turn my harmful and destructive behaviour into something i can be attracted to do i dont completely hate myself :/ i fetishize my own yandere tendencies more than others do because it is a kink for me as well as a result of my mental illnesses and trauma. but i feel so bad feeling this way because i know a lot of other yans hate kink and fetishes when i personally like it AS A YAN myself i also dont mind when other people fetishize my disorder and find me attractive for it because like... i just want to feel wanted and i feel so unattractive hurting myself and being so obsessive. so if someone likes me for that? thats fine!!! as long as they like me.. in fact i've found myself wishing my darling could be a yan fetishizer so he can feed into my obsessiveness and i wouldnt feel so alienated. i might just lack self respect idk

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Leaving someone in absence needs to be a crime against humanity /j

I miss u so bad I feel physically violated by ur absence.

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Ahem. *joking aside* Sometimes lockpicking is a good skill to have in case you lock yourself outside your house or you just want awareness for safe locks to put so you don't get robbed