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happy pride everybody!!

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Shut up, she’s trying her best.

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Shut the FRICK up imma bird and you cant tell me otherwise

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We used to spill the beans, now we spill the tea. What prompted the transition from legumes to leaf water?

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So uuuh flags... amirite?

I feel like being aromantic and asexual is difficult in the sense that there isn’t really a widely accepted flag or symbol that we are all happy to gather under. In my experience, Due to the unique attraction-less meaning of a-spec identities, I feel that simply using the aromantic or asexual flag feels like I’m ignoring half of my identity, while using both at the same time/merging them seems somewhat impractical and clunky at the best of times. As kind of an example of what I mean is that when someone identifies as bisexual, it’s kind of implied that they’re biromantic as well unless otherwise stated, but when someone is asexual or aromantic it seems a lot more common for people to have more that one label to adequately describe themselves. That probably doesn’t make sense, but I guess it doesn’t really matter.

Anyway, I decided to make one!

I’ve seen a few great design concepts already, and I was actually inspired to make this by a lesbian flag redesign I saw (I’ll try and remember to link it). If nothing has really become official and accepted as an aroace flag, I may as well give it a shot and see if people like it.

The first image is a 5:3 ratio flag, while the second is the expanded image of the flag’s creation, which you are able to crop if you don’t like the current placement of the 5:3 flag. It also looks pretty nice as a symbol, seeing as it’s made from upside down hearts, implying that we don’t experience love in a ‘normal’ way. The arch is also triangular, suggesting the ‘A’ prefix that defines the ace and aro-spec communities. What’s more, it forms an ace of spades shape, which was completely unintentional on my part.

Since colours are kind of important in the memorability and symbol status of a flag, I altered some to make it look nicer. But hopefully their symbolic meanings are still somewhat apparent.

Dark grey—representative of a lack of sexual or romantic attraction. It isn’t quite black, so I like to think it’s also there for the grey-A’s and Demis.

Hex code: #172935

Purple—this is kinda obvious. Supposed to represent the wider asexual community.

#5A4677

White—representative of trans and non-binary aroaces.

#FFFFFF

Light green—representative of the greater aromantic community.

#9AC489

Bluish green—representative of the oriented aroace community, the flag of which this colour was taken from. (Link)

#36AEA0

If you like it, feel free to use this for your own blogs or other social stuff. I would appreciate credit though. Remember, I just made this for fun so if you’re angry about something I said or have feedback just let me know like a respectful person and I will answer you the same way!

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Actually yeah, who are you?!

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“Yeah right, when hell freezes over.”

Means once a year, when Satan celebrates anti-Christmas.

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Proving a point to my boyfriend.

PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry

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Reblog if you want a terrible, 3 sentence fan fiction in your ask, based on your url

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Wrapper, free to a good home

This is Bernard, and he is looking for a new home!

A sweet boy, up for adoption due to no fault of his own, the stresses of my classes as well as my new job mean that I can no longer give him the attention he deserves.

I am unsure of his breed, he was a stray off the street so I do not have his breeding records, although I am sure he has some candy roll bloodlines in him.

I am also unsure of his age, but I estimate it to be around 1-3 weeks.

Fully vaccinated, desexed, registered with the council. Does well with other pets, but can become anxious if separated from owner for too long.

If you are interested in adopting this lovable boy please let me know. I am willing to pay for delivery to a decent home. Serious enquiries only.