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Please ignore how infrequently I post 🍂🍂

Anywho, I like the name saoirse !!! [pronounced sur-sha]

From the movie the song of the sea !!! [10/10 movie btw]

Anyway that’s all bye !!!!

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[image ID: A flag representing the gender “PinkGhost”, it starts with two layers of ruffled/bumpy stripes going from pale pink to salmon pink. There is then a plain darker pale pink stripe and a lighter stripe after that. the middle has a an almost white simplistic ghost with a slightly more saturated stripe behind it. This pattern is mirrored on the bottom half. /end ID]

Hope this was ok, I’m not great at Image IDs !!

Pinkghost- Coining Post

[PT: Pinkghost- Coining Post]

Pinkghost is a gender in the genderghost system related to being pink and a ghost, pink with ghost-like qualities, and/or a ghost with pink-like qualities.

Genderghost - https://www.tumblr.com/identitysystemarchive/735765355402772480?source=share

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Heya, I know you already got quite a few responses, but we enjoy to talk about this stuff!!

1. Like others said, paraphilia is defined as an odd attraction or love for something out of the ordinary, it doesn’t even have to be sexual or romantic. Yes there is a lot of overlap between kink/fetish and paraphilia, but when it comes down to it, it’s up to the individual to decide which one better describes them. Also kink, fetish, and paraphilia are not exclusive to adults, being 18 years of age does not actually have a detrimental impact on you and your identity. Teens and children can have a very complex and genuine understanding of sex, kink, and paraphilia. so I think the term paraphilia/paraphile and paraphilic spaces are generally more open and accepting to younger beings.

2. You know it took me a while to learn to fully accept and support the big three. However now I consider myself to be a close ally to them, paraphiles [unless they’re transparaphiles] do not choose their attraction. Just like how a gay person did not choose to be gay, paraphiliac attraction is barely different from “normal” attractions, so no you cannot recover from them. Also, though it does happen, most victims of sexual abuse or assault as a child are not from pedophiles, they come from people who are looking for an easy target. Child predators are not the same as pedophiles, and that is a common misconception I see all the time. Plus let’s say a gay person SA’d someone, that doesn’t mean all gay people are horrible or have intentions of hurting others. Same goes for any paraphilia, including the big three.

3. Having the stance of being anti-Radqueer, transid, para, etc. isn’t really a problem in my opinion. As long as they are not harassing anyone, saying horrible things about them, being generally disrespectful, trying to take away resources, etc.. it isn’t really about the stance itself, it’s about the beings who use it.

4. How would it genuinely affect someone who is cis whatever disability or disorder? I am autistic, have GAD, potential bipolar disorder, and recently my doctor is starting to suspect I have POTS. Not once in my disabled and disordered life have my resources been “stolen” from me by transabled beings, nor have I felt disrespected by them. It’s their life they’re living, not mine. The reason I don’t get the accommodations I need is because of the government and beings in power, not those who identify as something other than they were born as. Discrimination and disrespect against transabled beings is ableism and it is transphobia.

5. To me it means to be free of the burden to be perfect and pure and a standard I can never live up too. It is about refusing purity and accepting those who have been outcast from where they should’ve been safe and those who are learning. It is to be safe and to find community, to be open and not keep secrets from each other. For me it has always been a place and identity to stop sheltering people and present them with the facts as they are. For me it has always been love.

6. I mean I will never tell someone that who they are is wrong but something I can’t support is beings who are non-consensually harmful, and beings who tell others to off themselves because their beliefs are different. I will always try to be kind to those I don’t agree with, I must admit it’s something I’m working on. I guess I also cannot support rage baiting, inducing fear on others through media and actions when they have not consented to that, and other such acts.

Much love to you, we appreciate it if you took the time to read our response <3

if you're easily offended, please don't read this post, i can accidentally do just that

i want to learn about radqueers

now, if you chose to click "more" and read further, i want to say i'm anti rq... was anti rq? still am??? i don't know. the thing is, i realized i never really listened to any of you guys, nor have i ever encountered you personally. i think that's wrong, and i want to know more about your views

i don't guarantee i'll change my mind about this, but i promise to stay respectful in discussions. if i say something you find offending, please politely explain this to me, i genuinely don't understand you but want to

you can reply (but i can't reply in comments, technical issues), reblog and add something, send me asks (you can do it anon). please stay nice to me, i'm coming from curiosity here and not judgement

tonetag for all listed questions: /gen

1. i saw a carrd about paras. beside the big three, those are just kinks? am i getting this right? why would you choose a paraphilia label if you know you'll probably get hate for that, if you can easily pick a kink label and you'll be safe among adults?

2. what's your views on big three? i'll be honest, i hate pedophiles and zoophiles, it's obvious reason - they're harmful. i was a pedo victim too, still heavily traumatized. why would you support them? do you actually support them?

3. if someone's anti radqueer, are they hurting anyone? if yes, then how exactly?

3.1. what if they're against transIDs?

3.2. what if they're against paras?

4. if someone claims to be transdisabled, transautistic etc, any transcondition - don't you think it's disrespectful to people who actually live through those experiences, don't have any choice and face ableism no matter of how they identify?

5. what does your identity as radqueer mean to you?

6. what's your hard taboos? what/who you'll never support?

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thank you in advance. i appreciate anyone who might spend some time to answer

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aesthetismoker

a term for beings who smoke for the aesthetic, smoke aesthetically, find smoking to be aesthetic, their aesthetic is smoking, etc. this flag is inclusive of trans, tris, and cissmokers.

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1. change all the e’s in your url to “3” 2. change all the o’s in your url to “0” 3. change all the i’s in your url to “1” 4. add some dashes everywhere 5. put “Xx_” and “_xX” at the beginning and end 6. your new emo chat forum url

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there's something so rewarding and satisfying about reporting comments by antis on Pinterest telling us to k!ll ourselves <3

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I HATE "RADQUEERS" WHO HAVE PEOPLE WITH CERTAIN CHRONO AGES IN THEIR DNI. FUCK YOU. I HATE YOU

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yk when I first joined the Radqueer community I didn't feel like I could call myself Radqueer so I went with TransRadqueer instead. However this doesn't really fit right anymore as I've grown and changed...

I can now confidently say we have transitioned to Radqueer and while we may still use other blank queer terms; we. are. Radqueer.

- 👁️ + 🪐

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found the original on Pinterest. decided to spread kindness and understanding instead of yelling at them in the comments :) also I included biasto because having noncon desires is ok actually as long as you harm no one

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0k we MIGHT be just maybe perhaps by chance be a physical shifter- 0r like at least TrisPhysicalShifter...

d0n't yap to me ab0ut h0w "that's n0t p0ssible" and y0u are fully all0wed t0 call me delusi0nal if that's what ya need t0 d0 /lh [I'm pr0bably PanDelusi0ns anyways l0l s0 I'll take the validation and scamper int0 the woods with it :3 /gen /silly]

- 🎈 + 🍭♠️

[Plain txt bel0w]

ok we MIGHT be just maybe perhaps by chance be a physical shifter- or like at least TrisPhysicalShifter...

don't yap to me about how "that's not possible" and you are fully allowed to call me delusional if that's what ya need to do /lh [I'm probably PanDelusions anyways lol so I'll take the validation and scamper into the woods with it :3 /gen /silly]

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Goodnight paraphiles<3

Goodnight transid users <3

Goodnight radqueer tumblr <3

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"my trauma wasn't bad enough i can't be a system"

whenever I hear people say this I always wonder, what metric are you using? your tolerance for how things affect you now as a teenager, or adult?

something that you experienced as a child is going to use a completely different metric! a child's brain is much less developed than an adult's and what they're able to handle is much less. for instance maybe you like horror movies? you probably can watch them without even getting scared! but if you watched the same film at 7 years old it would likely be a lot different!!

you don't need extreme trauma in order to have DID. it just needed to be extreme enough to YOU as a child, that's all. You got bullied at school? that's enough to develop DID! you had a disorder from an early age that made life hard? that's enough to develop DID! your parents were neglectful? that's enough to develop DID!

there's no such thing as gold star DID you don't need to have gone through the worst of the worst. there's no need for trauma olympics, if you have DID you have DID and that's all!

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Turning the water gay?

why no, I am turning it radqueer.

with my #RadqueerActivism

RAHHH

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Bah blog culture is relying HEAVILY on Fandom/Wiki for every single fictive<<<<<<<<

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My name is Act. I use She/They/It/Neo pronouns. I have been a radqueer since the original coming, and a part of the pro-para and proship communities before that. This is not a usual pinned post. This is a letter to my community. This blog is designed to support, uplift, and announce all forms of activism for our community and encourage each one of you to begin the revolution. For our identities, for our pride, and for our loved ones.

My call to action is under the cut. I ask you to take the time to read it. Thank you.

For too long, we’ve lived in the shadows of a world that dismisses, marginalizes, and oppresses us. Many wouldn't say oppression. Many downplay what we go through, saying that we’re just trolls taking up minimal space in the digital era. But we have been oppressed. In our own spaces, we’ve had civil wars, fighting over one thing or another, specifically designed to divide us! In spaces beyond our community, we’ve faced not only hostility, but outright discrimination. Told to kill ourselves by cowards who hide behind anonymity, many people who simply desired to be themselves, driven to suicide. Are you not angry? Are you not driven to the brink by what these people have done to us, justified by hatred and misinformation? I'm angry!

We’ve carried the weight of a world that refuses to see us for who we are, and we’ve endured the pain of invisibility and injustice. I refuse to accept that the identities in this community will endure that pain any longer. No more.

This is a call to every single one of you. Whether you’ve been part of this community for years or you’re just now finding your voice, know this: you are not alone. Our strength lies in our connection, our shared experiences, and our collective will to change the minds of people who hate us, to educate, to bring a new era of peace where radqueer is the norm. Everyone thinks the future is radqueer, and I agree, but to make it that way, it takes a community willing to change the present.

We need community and we need action. Not later, not tomorrow, not yesterday, the time hasn't passed and it isn't coming towards us. The time is now.

In the digital age, our voices can and do echo across the world. Activism is not just a tool; it’s a lifeline. It’s where we educate, organize, and amplify. Share your stories, challenge injustice, and build networks of solidarity. Every post, every comment, every shared resource matters. Together, we can flood people’s minds with truth and resistance. We can make a new tomorrow.

But I also recognize the power of individual action, even in isolation. Real life protest does not always mean marching in the streets; it can mean standing firm in your truth, no matter where you are. Writing “radqueer is the future” on a desk, on a bathroom wall. Scattering posters, flyers, stickers in the streets, putting them on benches in parks or sticking them into lamp posts.

Resistance is not a singular act—it’s a lifestyle. It’s choosing, every day, to reject the narratives that tell us we’re less than. It’s refusing to be silent in the face of oppression. It’s demanding change, even when the odds seem insurmountable, and believe me, they certainly seem impossible, but I promise you. They aren't. We have done this before, we will do it again, and again, and again, until we need not fight anymore.

Let’s not forget why we fight. We fight for the right to exist as we are. We fight for those who cannot fight for themselves. We fight for future generations, so they won’t have to endure what we have. And most importantly, we fight because we believe in a world where justice and equality are not ideals but realities.

So, here’s what I ask of you. A few actions, if nothing else.

Be loud. Use your platform, no matter how small, to speak out. Share resources or even create them, talk about your stories, and call others to action. Scream from the rooftops who you are, what you live for, what you fight for.

Be relentless. Don’t let apathy or exhaustion silence you. Take breaks when you need them, but never lose sight of the goal. I know. I know people who hate us break you down, try to make you tired, ruin your mental health. Take breaks. Always take that time for yourself. But a fight waits for nobody, so feel in your heart, even while you aren't fighting, we are. We’re fighting for you.

Be united. This community has shown itself to be a magnet for division, but do you expect to fight while shooting at those fighting with you? Differences in belief aside, differences in opinion on the future, what should be, what shouldn't be, who shouldn't and who should, put them away. We can come back to discuss those when the future isn't against us, when the enemy has laid to rest and we have made a life with them, where they do not want us dead or wish harm upon us. But for now, they do. Together, we are stronger than any force that seeks to divide us, so put away your issues with the person beside you and find that two make a better fight than one ever could.

Be bold. Challenge the status quo, whether it’s online, in your workplace, or in your personal relationships. Change starts with discomfort, and progress begins when we confront what’s wrong. A picrew says radqueer’s aren't allowed to use it? Use it. Make it your profile picture. Do it with flags. Identities. Terms. Pictures. Anything that says you, because of your identity and your beliefs, aren't allowed to use it. Anything that wants to oppress you. Do not accept it.

This is our moment. This is our fight. And we will not stop until the world hears us, sees us, and respects us. I will fight. I will fight for you, for this community, for all of us with identities we cannot share for fear of our income, our lives, our safety.

Justice is what I fight for. What do you fight for? Your family, your friends, the people you love? The right and ability to be yourself? To express yourself the way you desire to? To have the right to change your race, age, gender, species, anything at all, in the court of law? Do you fight for anarchy, for revolution, to tear down the status quo? Then fight.

The revolution begins with us—and it begins now.

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in honor of an argument i recently had, shoutout to transautistics. as a cisautistic, ilysm and you are SO valid. yes, you CAN transition. yes, you CAN develop autism later in life if you want to. youre just as autistic as the rest of us, welcome to the club.

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" why can't you just appreciate japanese culture without calling yourself japanese ? " = " why can't you just wear feminine clothes without calling yourself a girl ? "

" you can't change your race, you are what you were born as biologically. " = " you can't change your gender, you are what you are born as biologically . "

" I'm native asian and I don't think you're a real asian . " = " I'm a cis man and I don't think you're a real man . "

" By identifying as japanese, you're minimizing the struggles and racism us asians face . We're more than just uwu kimono . " = " By identifying as a woman, you're minimizing the struggles and misogyny us women face . We're more than just pink and shopping . "

*transrace person* " this is just some phase because of the internet and lack of attention, ignore it and it'll go away . " = *transgender person* " this is just some phase because of the internet and lack of attention, ignore it and it'll go away . "

" transasian people just want to invade poc safe spaces . " = " trans women just want to invade women's safe spaces . "

" you should appreciate your culture, you don't have to identify as japanese and mutilate yourself to get away from racism . " = " you should love your womanly body, you don't have to identify as a man and mutilate yourself to get away from misogyny . "

" if I saw a transjapanese person in Japan, I'd pv nch them . " = "if I saw a trans woman in a women's restroom, I'd pv nch them . "

*transrace person does it* " finally, another one off this planet ! " = *transgender person does it* " finally, another one off this planet ! "

You are no better than the transphobes you condemn.

"b-but it's different!!!!!!! being transgender is more socially acceptable than being transrace and so-"

You are no better than the transphobes you condemn.