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Me: I spent six hours stalking my crush to find out if she’s gay

My friend: ok, is she?

Me:

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So I was dating this girl for a few months, nothing too serious. She basically ended it with me very abruptly in front her friends I had only just met because I’m not all over her like I am when it’s just me and her. She calls me crazy, rude, disrespectful etc etc which none of which I am. I had to get my stuff from hers and I basically walk out... that’s how it ended. And I’m heartbroken. She’s blocked me and I miss her. What do I do?

She’s a complete jerk, honey! Breaking up like that is really rude and I don’t think it’s that much of your fault there. You deserve someone better who would treat you right! Unfortunately, we never know when our relationships turn into abusive one, but it’s good that it came to end for you. We’re here to give you all the support you need!

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Hey I’m the one who asked about the 9 month girlfriend and not feeling comfortable with the pda. I’m getting better at it, holding her hand in public, kissing. This is my first relationship, and its gay and I’ve always been a nervous person. I mean, I might need the reality check, is all of this me being a dick, and like, will the public comfortability come with time, or am I just not a pda person or whatever? I also literally have no gay friends and no one to talk to about this I’m sorry :(

That’s why we’re all here-to get support we need :) it’s ok to be not a pda person, I can’t say that I like kissing in public or such things. You can’t blame yourself for who you are, right? Don’t mind it, your gf should understand that you just don’t like it. It’s completely ok :)

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heyy!! HOW DO I ASK THIS GIRL OUT? also ive never kissed a girl. so 1.) tips on how to ask a girl out. and 2.) TIPS ON HOW TO KISS A GIRL ?!?!?! PS: I LOVE YOUR BLOG THANKS

Hey, thank you cutie! It all depends of the place where you usually meet her. If you want it to be an officials date, you can write a note to her, it wouldn’t make you as nervous as if you said it in person :) and yk when we call our friends to drink a cup of coffee with us we don’t mind about how to do that, so if you just ask to go to the exact place and she will be interested in it, she won’t mind that. And it’s not that scary, come on! :) first kiss in 90% cases is lame so don’t be afraid to do smth wrong, she won’t notice. It’s only the first one haha! Just take all of your courage and do it! If you live in a homophobic country please make sure you’re safe to do that also!

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Hey, I have a girlfriend, we’ve been together about 9 months. I love her. How do I feel comfortable being publicly with her? Like I’m always so nervous holding her hand and shit and doing like, pda, and stuff and how do I get past feeling like everyone’s judging and all that? Like we’re in Canada, damn. I shouldn’t be scared Thanks, I don’t really know who to ask about this. I don’t wanna ask my girl cuz what if she gets offended lmao. Thanks men

I think you should really explain it to her bc she’s probably really offended by that. i think its not about being in same sex relationship, but about being in it at all. love shouldn't always be public, and if you don't feel comfortable, you can just talk to your partner. i think she will understand. you're so lucky to live in a place where holding hands is not dangerous 

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Need gay friends

All my friends are straight and just want some lesbo pals don’t care where your from add my snapchat: katrinachatton hmu 😚✌🏼

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Going to finally talk to the girl in my class, kind of nervous. I only see her once a week and i have never sat with her. Do you think its weid that first do it now?

It’s not weird at all, you need to do this, waiting makes it better to no one

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do you believe in fate ? or true love? or soul mates? or just anything like that ?

I don’t believe in fate actually bc we see how our decisions change your life, and we can’t blame our fate in our mistakes. But I believe some people’s soul is so alike to yours that when you meet them, you would really hold on them. Some people understand you better, definitely. And love is a matter of time I think, if you go for a long road with someone and feel better and better with them its what called love :)