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controversial opinion but top surgery and other trans healthcare shouldnt be trans exclusive. so what if an autistic woman wants top surgery because boobs are a sensory nightmare?? good on her. she isnt "mutilating" herself any more than anyone else who gets cosmetic surgery for anything.

it doesnt have to be exclusively "trans healthcare." maybe a cis guy just wants boobs or a cis girl wants a dick. who cares. your bodys yours. customize that bitch. the more normalized it is to just do whatever with your body for any reason the easier itll be for the people who need to do it to actually go through with it because they wont be socially pressured as hard or harassed afterwards.

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Happy Wednesday everyone!

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Shameless plug to help back my friend here's publishers and in turn their gay fantasy romance set in the glorious North East of England! The wonderful being pictured also has some published short stories you can read for free if you click on their stuff; I recommend!

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A good friend asked this week how many band tshirts her aquaintances had, they themselves having 62.

I was sad to realise on reflection that my own two band tees probably got donated to charity last year during my epic health crisis; we had to get me a profile bed, which meant clearing the stuff from under the double bed I had been using, and make the house generally less cluttered so family could stay to care for me.

I'm particularly concerned about my customised Blink 182 tour tshirt from when I saw them in 2004. I owned it for 20 years and almost never wore it, but I loved it a lot.

Anyway, I put a shout out on my town's fb group asking if anyone had come across it in a shop or maybe even bought it.

So far 5 of my fellow citizens have commented, each with a different Blink182 lyric.

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Posted this yesterday after recording it for family and friends only. Got scared that I'd said too much about my carers and took it down.

Also you can see I've just plucked my left eyebrow, have my classic lesser flattering angle going and I had a real slight of hand fail on the demo of the new deodorant 😆

But fuck it, we ball. I put it back.

Will I look less of a mess next week? Doubt it.

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Every Wednesday I make a short video about my week for my friends and family, and they send me catch-ups as well.

It's a way to keep myself entertained in my mostly bedbound life, and hey maybe you'll enjoy it too.

Welcome to The Wednesday Waffle!