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tired of this bs

hi we haven't posted in a longass time for reasons but just needed to express how disappointing it is to try to go look at system memes to distract ourselves a bit and seeing endos just talking shit about "sysmeds", we just wanna chill and look at memes man, keep your dumbness to yourself please

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hey!

u didnt deserve it.

u didnt deserve ANY of it.

none of the abuse, neglect, or anything else that made u a system

u didnt deserve that pain

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Gummy Shorks

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choose your fav puppy

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they are best friends

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they have flowers for you!

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Hi, just because I don't feel sexual or romantic attraction, doesn't mean I don't understand it or pick up on it, I just don't feel it and have no interest in it, thank you for coming to my ted talk

~🫐

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Ngl saying you could be a system without a cdd is like saying you have a special interest without being autistic or a FP without having BPD

Yes, You could be experiencing something similar but it’s not, and will never be, the same thing.

^^^ THIS!!! YOU CANNOT BE A SYSTEM WITHOUT A CDD, PERIOD!!!

[ID: STOP! this blog is a strictly anti-endo space! pro-endos and endo neutrals, shoo! shoo shoo!]

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dear people with OCD: the next time you have spiraling & intrusive thoughts, what-ifs, or catastrophizing scenarios, I am sending a cardigan-wearing 46-year old NYU professor directly into your brain and he says "Aaaaand scene!!!" and he claps his hands slowly. and he says "Wow. Wow. Powerful stuff. Evocative imagery. A little bit post-modern, a little bit hysterical realism in the vein of Don Delilo but let's pause right here." and you will recognize your thoughts as a perplexing avant-garde film shown to an audience of 15 liberal arts students who are now trying to get a good grade and sleep with their professor.

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“don’t let it bother u” baby i’m gonna be bothered by this for the next 10 years

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we stopped using the custom front option on our sp (with the exception of one for when we're offline and one for when we aren't sure who's fronting)

because it was actively harmful to us

we rarely had the energy to activate the custom fronts for it when we were in crisis, feeling disphoric, didn't wanna be interacted with, frontstuck, etc etc

this is a reminder that every system works differently and you shouldn't compare the way your system works to the way it works for other people!

if you have a bunch of specific custom fronts for every situation, kudos to you! that's awesome!

if you're like us and don't have the energy for it, kudos to you too! do things the way that is best for you

things like SP are supposed to be tools that help your system

don't feel pressured to use it in a way that you feel doesn't help you and your system! :]

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hi idk who needs to hear this but ur sexual persecutors r and know a lot more thna u think they do k? specially if theyre hypersexual

good day loves 💋❤️‍🔥

~ 🌙

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1hr ago me was wrong btw

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we have vague memories of staring at a wall talking to her and her taking care of us, reassuring us and guiding us

Sys culture is finding out that the imaginary friend that took care of you as a kid was definitely an Alter that formed to protect you from the trauma you were experiencing at the time.

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to this day have no idea what happened to the imaginary friend we had that was an angel called Elise

we haven't an angel alter but he's male and has a completely different name

what happened to her? was she an alter? yeah probably

do we have any idea where she is now? nop

do we have the energy to look into that? not really tbh

Sys culture is finding out that the imaginary friend that took care of you as a kid was definitely an Alter that formed to protect you from the trauma you were experiencing at the time.

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