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Divorce seems to radicalize american men in a way that needs to be studied
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ahhhh so the guilt is NOT supposed to be neverending and haunting and constant and persisting beyond a doubt over even the most menial of things that i would not be upset at someone else for. i understand now.
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you ever get assigned something as a project in school and for the rest of your life you have a strange attachment to the subject. in like seventh grade i had an assignment to make a poster about the elemental propoerties of osmium and to this day everytime someone mentions it im like 'YEAAAAAAH OSMIUM MENTIONED!!!!!!!!'
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Leucistic Red Tail Hawk
real.life.is.art
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[Me, at my doctor's appointment, trying my hardest not to murder him....but only because I need my meds]
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unpopular opinion i prefer the tumblr app experience
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In 2021, my country debated on a law to open medically assisted procreation to women couples and single mothers. When it was debated we asked for it to broaden the conditions to include trans men and transmascs since the only mention of women excluded whose who had changed their gender markers.
We were consistently told by cis and trans women alike to stop making reproductive rights about men, that it was their fight.
The law passed. And we celebrated, and they celebrated, and we held back tears, we'd never be fathers.
In 2024, my country debated on putting abortion in the constitution.
The minister of families received 2 renowned TERFs and tried to change the law go forbid professionnals to refuse an abortion to "women", so trans men whose gender markers were changed could be denied. And we fought, and we fought for the definition to be changed and we won, and we celebrated in
Deafening silence.
“If men could be pregnant it’d be in the constitution already !”
If only you knew.
After I got assaulted, I wanted to take a self defense lesson.
They were “cis and trans women only”, because a man like me shouldn't know how to hit. I went to the gym and I punched a dummy until my knuckles turned purple.
I got a sleep exam. Under anesthesia, the doctor asked me if he should say “sir or ma’am”. I’m tied up on the bed. I asked him to say “sir”. He tells me “I guessed so, you’re such a pretty boy” and he stroke my arm. I want to scream and cry. When I recall the scene to people I'm stealth with, they say I just dreamed, he wouldn't do that, I'm a man. I'm a hysterical woman with extra steps.
I catter to my wounds alone and I wonder
If I got to the point of being hatecrimed
If people would argue on my grave
For it to be called
A feminicide.
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abt to spend 3 hrs watching a 90 min movie 🤓
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Chronic suicidal ideation is your brain’s response to having no other coping skills. Your brain is trying to keep you safe with the comfort of knowing you can just opt out of [your problems] life at any point. Equipping yourself with better coping skills, better options, is the only way to combat this defense mechanism.
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original flavor deadpool is the disabled and mentally ill representation we needed in these trying times
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If you think having uncomfortable conversations is hard - wait until you see the result of not having them.
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Quick what are you doing RIGHT now (besides scrolling Tumblr)
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"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as my family are all considered carers for me,
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i receive disability benefits for my autism
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i have special needs so severe i cant even attend school
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i am nonverbal
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i can't regularly dress, bath, do grooming tasks without help or at all
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me after I've spent months of my life requiring 24/7 1-1 supervision
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i am housebound
"Autism isn't a disability" you tell me as i am officially diagnosed with nothing other than autism.
Maybe autism is a disability, and maybe you just don't want to accept you are disabled because of the stigma around disability? All autistic people are significantly impaired in areas of functioning, even if that makes you uncomfortable, that is the truth. And maybe you should spent 1 minute to go and read the diagnostic criteria for autism. That all autistic people meet.
Autism is a disability, and when you advocate that it's not, you are making real world harm, especially for people with substantial support needs.
They don't give disability services to non disabled people, so please, when your advocacy includes limiting services for those of us who need them the most, is it advocacy or are you just harming people who are already in positions that they can't advocate and be as loud as you.
#i experience my autism as a disability#i don't get why people want to say it's not#knowing that i had a disability finally made me feel like i could ask for help and stop hiding all my struggles from everyone#the diagnosis and its status as a diability was really meaningful for me because i finally had proof that i didn't just feel disabled#now people look at me and ask if i need help and after a lifetime of struggling alone#it's kind of wonderful to have people look at me and see someone worthy of help#instead of seeing me as a weak person they see me as a person with valid limitations#for me being disabled means that i'm allowed to stop injuring myself just to look normal
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This is only asking about perceived skills, not whether you would kill someone.
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#the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak#i couldn't dispose of the corpse i think#i could totally poison someone though
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does anybody else realize they have a Responsibility and go ah. yeah i’m gonna need at two or three business days to even think about touching that shit
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being happy is so scary because there’s this underlying feeling of anxiety like when are things gonna go wrong. is this gonna be taken from me. chat is this normal
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