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do me a favor and reblog this and put in the tags what time it is for you and what you're currently doing/thinking about

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Oakworthy doodles…😢

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Oakworthy I did Omw to the dndads Amsterdam show,,,, :33

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this ep was so funny oh my god

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at the insane stage of character obsession where i start getting the urge to post pngs of them every five seconds like im showing ppl a picture of my stupid ass boyfriend that nobody likes but me

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Hi hi hi! I don't know if you're still taking doodle requests, but if you are. Can we have a Hermie? Pls pls pls pls

thanks for the request!! i can never say no to drawing a hermie

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goodnight, sweet prince.

[lyrics are from last words of a shooting star by Mitski]

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After visiting the hospital and seeing the doctor, it became clear that Ahmed needed urgent surgery, but the cost was expensive and we didn't have enough money. I don't know how long Ahmed will be able to endure the pain. Please help me get the surgery. Ahmed was born through IVF and was admitted to the incubator due to holes in his heart. He was exposed to artificial oxygen, which affected his eyesight and caused vision problems. You are my only hope with your donation and sharing this post.

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We need your help. The situation is very difficult. You are our last hope. Food, clothes, milk, rent, everything has become very expensive. My son Ahmed needs heart surgery and eye surgery. Save my son so he can complete his treatment and undergo the operation. In addition to my family in Gaza, my father, mother, brothers and sisters are living in very difficult conditions as a result of the war and continuous bombing. We hope you will help by donating and sharing the post 🙏🙏

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The Close/Swift tradition of losing body parts fucks so hard like. An entire lineage of characters losing pieces of their body just because they care so much. Glenn losing his eye as a direct consequence of wanting a good life for Nick. Nicholas losing his arm because he won't let anyone hurt his family. Cassandra losing her hand because of a goddamn wedding ring. Something something "I can't regrow my arm" vs. "He will never be your son again." The family art of inexorable loss being represented by literally losing parts of themselves. The tradition of losing and losing and being stitched back together and making the best of what you have left. The Close/Swift family being the guardians of the anchor of love.

It's also canon that they are all genetically predisposed to arson.

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please tell us more about your normal oak bpd headcanon!! very curious to hear your thoughts

HI HI!!!! okay so first im gonna list the symptoms and stuff ^-^ then i’ll talk about more details with my headcannon:)

this is the list/criteria I’m using:) I will link all sources used at the bottom of the post

To be diagnosed, you have to have five out of nine symptoms. I'm gonna go through each one and discuss it + how it applies to his character!:)

Another note,, i also personally believe normal has autism! This does relate, and i might talk about the overlapping traits

“Avoiding real or perceived abandonment, such as by jumping into or out of relationships quickly”(1)

For normal, we don’t commonly see him outwardly express this, but i feel like it's very implied in some points. Normal’s relationship with hermie shows this a LOT. esp near the middle/endish, normal would do almost all the things hermie would ask of him, which comes off as an attempt to both a)get a date with hermie and b)have hermie still like normal. While hermie was 100% manipulating normal, we see normal somewhat recognize this and do it anyway.

I feel like there was more,,but rn thats all i can remember for that off the top of my head. I think you could also view normal and sparrow’s relationship similarly, however the daddy magic situation makes it a little harder to analyze.

“A pattern of intense and unstable relationships with family, friends, and loved ones”(1)

for this one, i dont think that the viewer knows enough about normal’s mental process (+thiughts about his relationships) to have a say on this one, so it’ll count as a no

“High sensitivity to rejection and feelings of alienation or isolation”(1) Once again, this falls under ‘emotional instability’,, already defined.

Honestly guys for this one you just gotta trust me. i swear this is mentioned before somehow but right now icannot remember. Im marking this one as yes

“A distorted and unstable self-image or sense of self”(1) defined as, “People with BPD often have a distorted or unclear self-image and often feel guilty or ashamed and see themselves as “bad.” They may also abruptly and dramatically change their self-image, shown by suddenly changing their goals, opinions, careers or friends.” (3). 

I think this mostly manifests with normal when regarding the teeny the teen costume. This does overlap with autism, so i’ll talk more about that later:) The teen costume hides normal behind a literal mask. Normal mostly has an unclear sense of self, which explains partially why he used the teen costume for a bit. After the dance, normal tries to change himself to appease his father. And through the whole season, normal kinda lost his identity. Will literally describes him as “a boy who doesnt know who he is anymore”. This one im counting as a yes.

“Intense and highly variable moods, with episodes lasting from a few hours to a few days”(1)

For this one it’s harder to point out specific times that normal has felt this, because he generally bottles his emotions. However we do see him have outbursts, not all of them anger. I think that based off of what the viewer knows about normal and his ability to express emotion,,, im gonna say this ones a yes

“Chronic feelings of emptiness” (1)

Once again, for this one we can't be entirely sure because of normals constant masking + pushing his feelings down. Based on the stuff ive said about his emotions before, i think its safe to assume this one is a yes

Inappropriate, intense anger or problems controlling anger(1)

Several times we see normal almost randomly snap and start yelling at people, then apologizing immediately after. Guys this ones a yes be fr.

also even if he didn’t meet the criteria HES FICTIONAL!!!

I also think that it also affected him trying to get better from the whole s2 stuff yk? I don’t think he ever realized he had it, and also heavily internalizes a lot of stuff with it,,,, yeah idk ♥️ THANK YOU FOR ASKING BTW!

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should have named myself normal oak I guess

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donations for marah have significantly slowed down! the balousha family is famished, exhausted, depressed, and desperate. i care about them deeply and i hope that you're able to share this post and spare a dollar or two! :)

I am hosting this campaign !! The money you have all helped raise for this family has kept them alive through this nightmare - please continue to share and donate if you can!

@mahrahpalestine @palestinian95 this campaign is vetted, please check marah's blog(s) out!

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Urgent Help for My Grandmother

My grandmother is an elderly woman who has lived through extremely difficult conditions. Now, in her old age, she suffers from serious health issues including a heart attack, heart disease, and diabetes. On top of that, she is experiencing malnutrition due to a lack of proper food, which puts her health at even greater risk.

She urgently needs daily medication, healthy food, and special medical care. But because of our very difficult financial situation, we’re unable to provide everything she needs.

We are trying to raise a small amount of money to support her, and every donation — no matter how small — can make a real difference in her life. If you can help by donating or even just sharing this post, it would mean the world to us.

Note, she has been living with us since the beginning of the war because her children live the life of tents and she is very difficult. She cannot live in a tent because she is elderly and needs care.

We need to save 200 or 300 dollars. To ensure her care for a week.

5818/6000 .

I wrote the number to alert and to know when the goal will be achieved 🙏 .

Campaign verification link

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Hello 🙋‍♂️

My name is Jaafar, I’m 24 years old and I live in Gaza City 🍉🇵🇸. I was shocked to find all my Tumblr accounts deleted and my main fundraiser post removed after it had gained many shares 😓. Now, I’ve decided to create new accounts and write this post with deep sorrow and heartbreak to start over again 😭💔.

Please, just as you supported me on my old accounts, support my new one and share my campaign post so it can reach as many people as possible 🙏🥺.

The situation here in Gaza is extremely bad. We’re facing insane bombing, starvation, and skyrocketing food prices—ten times the normal cost *if food is even available*.

In addition, there is constant killing, and our area is classified as a dangerous combat zone that must be evacuated! 😓

It’s a disaster, and any help from you could help us stay safe for just a few more days. Please, donate to my campaign even if it’s a small amount 😭🙏—your donation will mean the world to us 💔🫶.

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #299 )✅️

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some shitty notebook oakworthies because i keep getting distracted while doing my dm prep

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Hello :) do you take requests? Would you be willing to draw-

Teen-High-Binder Transmasc Normal? :D

Transed rights!

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Lyrics from: She Calls Me Back - Noah Kahan