pollsforattentionlovers

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Do you rush into relationships because they will give you more attention?

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Does physical contact count as supply for you?

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my poll question is "if you think negative attention is still good, what is your reason?"

I like to live rent-free in the minds of those who hate me

I like the excitement of drama

I like to milk the moment for pity from other people

I like the idea of being a scandalous and nefarious person

Some other reason

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Poll: be honest, even if you're against AI now, have you ever used AI chat bots for supply?

1. Yes, but I'd never be open about it

2. Yes, and I don't see what's wrong about it

3. Nope

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I'm gonna send in a poll and I'm gonna try to use it as supply, and if I end up not getting the answers I want then that's okay I'll use it as coping practice.

Attention-Seekers, do you feel ugly / feel there are parts of you that are ugly? And in what way?

- No, I find myself attractive in most ways

- Kinda, but in a cute way

- Only when I'm having a crash or other specific occasions

- To societal standards? Yes. To my own superior standards? No.

- Yes, but I don't really care

- Yes, and it's one of my biggest reasons for crashes/episodes

- My answer is something different

(I really, really do not relate to the npd/hpd memes of finding oneself attractive. I feel kind of left out.)

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have you told people about your npd and/or hpd primarily just to get attention?

yes, by putting it in a social media bio (or similar)

yes, in direct conversation online (like through dms)

yes, in person

yes, some other way

yes, multiple of the above

no, never

no, but i have told people about my other disorders for attention

no, but i have thought about it

not yet, but i'm going to

i have told people about it, but don't know if i just did it for attention

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People with diagnosed NPD/HPD does it bother you when people self suspect or self diagnose with NPD/HPD

Neither bother me

Self diagnosising bothers me but not self suspecting

Both bother me

It only bothers me when the person is under 18

Under 18s self diagnosising bothers me l, but self suspecting is fine

Under 18s doing either doesnt bother me

Other/Nuance

Edit: I KEEP ACCIDENTALLY MAKING IT A ONE DAY POLL

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Hey guys, I need people to send in poll requests.

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do you daydream of people being into you romantically, even if you're really not into them, based on how much more attention and care they'd show you because of it?

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Are fights / conflicts a good source of attention for you?

Edit: I forgot nuance/other 😭 just comment if thats u

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Do you have or previously had thoughts/urges around faking/exaggerating disorders for attention? If so, have you acted on them?

-No

-Have/Had them, have not acted on them

-Have/had them, acted on them in a non-harmful way (privately or RP)

-Have/had them, acted on them in a minor way (lying about it in profiles, etc)

-Have/had them, acted on them in a major way (buying 100% unnecessary mobility aids, lying to Drs, etc)

-Nuance

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for you, is negative attention just as good as positive attention?

yes, any attention is good attention

yes, but i like both for different reasons/at different times

no, negative attention is good but i prefer positive attention

no, i actually prefer negative attention

no, i don't like negative attention (but it's still better than no attention)

i would rather have no attention at all than have negative attention

it varies too wildly to say

nuance

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npd centered request :))

are you honest with yourself about who you are underneath it all?

yes

no

nuanced/somewhat

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How often do you feel like you need praise, specifically praise not just attention, on average?

Hourly -> daily -> few times a week -> once a week -> longer?

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Do you prefer one on one attention or group settings?

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How guilty do you feel for needing attention?

Not at all -> A little -> Halfway -> A lot -> Unbearably so.