#actually hpd

[hpdcultureis]

HPD culture is loving the HPD flag!! look at it. it's so pretty

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[chronicallyqueercoining2]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)

[autopsyfreak]

tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

[3ntity56]

Tips for Cluster B Anger

~ coming from someone who has BPD and a psychology special interest Have you been feeling like your anger is completely uncontrollable and all encompassing? Do you feel like your anger controls you more than you control it? Me too! But here are some things I've found to be helpful: - Taking notes. Write down triggers for what causes your anger episodes (as well as other episodes e.g sadness or paranoia) once you come down from it and start looking for a pattern. Not only will this help you to slow down and self reflect, you can begin to either avoid those triggers or find ways to regulate the effects. - SLOW DOWN. If something is making you want to hurt someone else or yourself, slow the FUCK down. Push against the grain, step back and let yourself have a good cry or scream into a pillow. Do whatever you can to (healthily) process the emotions, no matter how long it takes, before making major decisions. - Avoid self harm, substances or unhealthy habits like disordered eating or emotional self harm. It's so tempting, believe me, but it will only serve to make things worse. You might feel like you want it to get worse now, but in the future, you WILL regret it. If you start feeling these urges, refer to the urge surfing diagram below this. - Get outside advice. Think you're splitting but you can't tell? Run the situation by a close friend or loved one and see how they feel about it. Try to relay it with as little bias as possible and see if they agree with the decision you're about to make or if you perhaps need to reevaluate some things. - Take care of your heart. I know this is cliche, but a good sleep schedule, hearty food consumption habits, hydration, exercise routine and mental health care go a long way in helping you succeed in the above tips. You are struggling with an illness, and ill people need as much care as possible. Become your own parent. This works for anger in all Cluster B personality disorders, as well as with autism spectrum disorders! Urge surfing:

[draculian-accomplishments]

Reminder for people with Personality Disorders:

You can be in therapy for years to be able to cope.

You can mask the difficulties you have.

You can cope well with your disorders.

You can function in daily life.

But the day you have a bad day, the day you're so overwhelmed that the mask slips and you simply say one thing, the neurotypicals will use it against you and use it to abuse you.

Abuse is a choice. Abusers make the choice to abuse someone. Not every abuser has a personality disorder. There are plenty of abusers that are Neurotypical. Plenty of neurotypicals will abuse those with PDs due to the stigma and misinformation around them.

Quit using terms like "Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Anti-Social Abuse"

Quit using "Narcissist" and "Anti-Social" as insults.

Quit justifying abuse towards people with PDs.

Quit armchair diagnosing abusers and assholes with Personality Disorders when you don't know the lived experience of people with them.

Stop fucking appealing to Neurotypicals.

[familiarplacedisc]

[histrionicfit]

can we talk about the darker parts of attention seeking in hpd? not just dressing up and being flirty.

let's talk about compulsively lying

let's talk about compulsively lying so much that you're not even sure if what you say is true or not

let's talk about wishing you were injured or ill for the attention

let's talk about faking injuries or illness

let's talk about purposefully injuring yourself

let's talk about putting yourself in dangerous situations by talking to sketchy people

let's talk about not knowing how to say no to those people

let's talk about involuntary trauma dumping

let's talk about socially ostracizing yourself by acting in an inappropriate way for the temporary rush of attention it gives you

let's talk about questioning your own personality, values, and morals because they get so easily shaped by whoever you're around

let's talk about how easily manipulated people with hpd are

let's talk about how easily abused people with hpd are

let's talk about vulnerable people with hpd are

let's stop this dichotomy of demonizing or romanticizing/fetishizing hpd

[npdvelvette]

accurate depiction of me

[gothicdollx]

POV: your most toxic relationship is with yourself

[dollystuffs-chiori]

low empathy people, I love you

no empathy people, I love you

amoral people, I love you

morally grey people, I love you

people who are demonized by others for not caring, I love you

people who unknowingly harm others, I love you

people who accidentally harm others, I love you

people who are deemed problematic for any reason, I love you

irredeemable people, I love you

evil people, I love you

[this user has no dni]

[adoraboy-moved]

"people with (disorder) not bad cause not feel empathy, can still feel compassion/sympathy/etc.!" but what about people who not feel those? i dunno, am just think, maybe not bad because choose not be bad people. even if bad, still deserve understanding, yknow ? to get better.

[hpdcultureis]

AuDHD and questioning HPD culture is completely forgetting my friends exist and therefore not interacting with them, then being upset they didn’t interact with me after I remember them

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[the-dino-system]

when your personality disorders are disordering

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

they should make a forum or something for pwHPD and pwNPD to post their works or their selfies and the only replies allowed are compliments. not empty compliments either, they have to be genuine or specific compliments and praises. for ppl who are writhing in pain from not getting enough attention or praise

[histrionicparanoidhell]

Histrionic Splitting and What It Means

Histrionic personality disorder is characterized by attention seeking and excessive emotionality. There are 8 dsm-5 symptoms-all of which can be viewed here.

I want to focus mainly on symptoms one, three, five, and eight-but don’t get me wrong, all of these are a factor in HPD splitting.

Let’s talk about splits that are histrio highs first. If a histrionic splits, it may induce a histrio high or a histrio crash. If one has a split that becomes a histrio high, it may look like:

Extreme euphoric behavior, causing one to act out

Very very easily suggestible

Hyper sexual behavior

Extravagant appearances

Not internally feeling anything at all, not even happiness

Extremely impressionistic and/or vague speech, may manifest as lying

Believing everyone is a friend

Sometimes, however, histrionic splits are histrio crashes. This can look like:

Erratic and unusual behavior and expression of emotions (to draw attention)

Will harm themselves or others in some way to achieve attention

Either hypo sexual or allowing of objectification

More time spent on appearances

Internally only feeling dysphoria with no other emotions whatsoever

Very vague speech

Believing even those unknown are betraying at the moment

I don’t really have anything else to add onto this, since this is an awareness post. But yeah, thank you all for reading.

[narcatsisst]

one thing about me is im genuinely a terrible person but im also hot and sexy and smart and interesting and funny and charming and talented so i honestly could not care less