Sabella, 92
“I'm wearing thrifted clothes.”
Apr 13, 2023 ∙ Upper West Side
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My name is Lew Wentz.
I am a 68 year old gay criminal defense lawyer. I have been keeping journals for 46 years. I am writing a book based on the journals.
I came out as a gay man in 1984. I was married to a woman then. I left the marriage after telling her I was gay.
My younger sister, Zoe, who I was very close to, died rather suddenly of pancreatic cancer in May of 2023. She gave me permission to blog the last two weeks of her life. Those blogs run from May 1 to May 14, 2023.
I journaled my journey through the turbulent 1980's and 1990's. During that time, I was pretty vocal about being gay. I volunteered to help people with aids through their illness and death. And, I believe because of this, I was fired from my job as a deputy Public Defender in Modesto California. I also documented the 12 year relationship I had with my partner, Jim, who died in 2009.
I wrote pretty much daily about these events and many others. I never intended for the entries to be made public. But, I now think they should be, as they weave what I believe to be our common story of what it's been like to be out, human and gay in the past four decades.
And, as I journaled, I developed ideas and ways to journal and wrote about them in the journals. I discuss the impact journaling has had on me. And, the amazing revelation reviewing journal entries for the blog and book of just how incredible our lives have been. Memory fades. The journal details do not.
My hope is that , after reading the blogs, and maybe some day the book, you too will become addicted to journaling. Your life on paper will amaze you down the line.
My blog turned one year old on February 5, 2024.
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MARRY ME! OR BE MY WIFE!
From 1934's "She Wronged Him Right", one of my favorite Betty Boop cartoons. That line just sticks with me for just how stupid (intentionally) it is. Link to my favorite version, colorized just doesn't do it for me; the line in question is about at ~3:20.
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i respect kendrick lamar as an artist for using his medium to make his allegations because it's obviously been uber-sucessful in getting blown up as he intended, but i wish like. people were actually engaging with it for what it is and not just "celebrity drama".. like... the pedophilia and human trafficking allegations are legitimate allegations with base, bro didn't through a dart at a wall of his peers and pick one to publicly insult.
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