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[felinefractious]

🐱 Suphalak

📸 Notre Dame de Joye

🎨 Chocolate

[xiaq]

It was a good trip. 🥰

[ruhumbipolar]

[cmonbartender]

Hayley Williams performing in Paramore (2007)

[bthump]

what draws you to homosexual relationships in fiction as opposed to heterosexual ones? I noticed I prefer them as well but I don’t really know why. Or maybe it’s just in the media I like the homosexual relationships are written to be much more compelling, I don’t know. This isn’t hate against het relationships btw I support all sexualities

Probably a million different reasons honestly. Off the top of my head, some of my personal reasons:

-- I'm bi but more interested in gay relationships in my personal life, so my fictional interests reflect my irl interests.

-- Removes misogyny as a factor both within the romantic dynamic and, if m/m, the depiction.

-- Relatedly, I hate how 99% of hetero relationships in media have a built in lowkey unacknowledged d/s vibe due to that misogyny. Woman passive man active, woman pursued man pursues, woman weak man strong, woman soft man hard, woman fucked man fuck, woman object man subject, woman prize man winner, woman small man big, woman puts in work and money to make herself attractive man gets to live at his default state, woman desirable for looks man desirable for personality/money/skill, woman financially dependent on man, etc etc etc. Turns me off.

-- Like at least when that's the dynamic in m/m or f/f it's deliberately someone's kink and a gender norm is being subverted by one of the characters.

-- Gay relationships being more equal is something I've seen cited a lot, rightly or not, but it isn't one of my reasons lol, I like unequal relationships in fiction. That said, gender not being a factor in that inequality is definitely a draw for me.

-- Subtext is more engaging than most textual romances, and gay relationships are more likely to be subtext while het is more likely to be textual.

-- Gay sex (m/m and f/f) turns me on, straight sex rarely does.

-- Specific to m/m, but men in fiction are more likely to have compelling, complicated, deep relationships with each other than they are with women.

-- I enjoy gender nonconformity which is much more plentiful in gay ships and fiction than straight media.

-- Heterosexuality is oversaturated in media and I'm exhausted and irritated by its ubiquitousness.

-- As someone who grew up in the 90s, the existence of casually gay popular media still blows my mind lol, the shine has not come even close to wearing off. Heterosexual media just can't compete with that.

Anyway yeah, those are a few of my reasons, and maybe they align with some of yours as well.

Ultimately though I don't think it matters and it shouldn't be something you feel the need to justify imo. Enjoy whatever you enjoy for whatever reason, or no reason at all. But if you enjoy soul searching, then maybe this list is a decent starting point.

[puppybong]

why is bruce wayne helping janet drake give birth at a gala you people are starving dogs

[spaghettibolonyese]

Anyone remember three steps to become a rockstar fic in 2017 or something it’s deleted forever

[sunshineintomyveins]

highlights of idkhow last night:

- he played visitation of the ghost !!

- when I was crying at one of the songs he made eye contact with me and WINKED

- also looked at me several times when he was singing

- BREEZY WAS THERE AND HE SANG KISS GOODNIGHT DIRECTLY AT HER

- got cute sticker that says “I got sued by Dallon weekes and all I got was this sticker”

- we’re his favorite and least favorite city

- HE WINKED AT ME. BTW

anyway I won sorry and it was the best night ever live laugh love dallon weekes

[venusimleder]

The Face, March 1997.

Ph. Sean Ellis

[zeebreezin]

Succumbed, time to start B’s run up

[felinefractious]

Samanta Fleur Catori & Francesca Dixie Catori

🐱 Oriental Shorthair

📸 Ekaterina Vasilyeva [Catori]

🎨 Black, Chocolate

[boybolt]

[mamatater]

The spouse is getting curious about tumblr

[kiiraes]

LINK TO THE SPREADSHEET

[arataka-reigen]

King of staying on his lane