#BeThereForThem

[kinaisalwayshere]

What about me?

I'm here to talk about wanting to be put first. I know this may sound selfish, but sometimes speaking of your truths is good. All my life in any friendship or relationship I've been put second, or no one helped me in any situation. I have always looked out for people out of the kindness of my heart, I sat and listened to people's problems and encouraged them in tough times, picked up my phone in a hurry whenever someone called, or even checked up on people. But when it comes to me no one cares to help me, listen to me, or put me down.

Right now I'm tired of people... I don't want anyone using me for their own benefit and then acting like they can't help me. People will leave me for another friend, and won't return my texts or calls. People don't listen to me or even cut me off while talking... I've always been shy yes that's true but when I decide to open up no one respects me. i will be 31 November 14 and I will still have no friends or a significant other because I know I will never be put first. I will never be heard, I will never be worried about or thought of by people.

I stay to myself to make myself happy or at least try. I say I enjoy my time alone but in reality, I hate being alone. I love my family to the moon and back but sometimes I want a friend to share a laugh with, to have deep conversations, and connect on a deeper level. But I already know people are just going to use me for the time being because no one else is listening or talking to them. When you have a good heart people really use it and throw it in the trash after use.

Sometimes I wish I was heartless... I wish I didn't care about some people. I wish I was like others... Use people's minds and hearts and throw everything away like it is waste. But I will never ever stoop down to that level because I can't imagine being just like them... I could never use someone for my own benefit. If I see that you can sit and listen to me, give me advice, convince me to do greater things... you gotta be my friend for life lol.

I never used tumblr before but tonight I decided to post this because I wanted to share something I'm tired of feeling. I'm in school four days a week, and then I work at night at the post office. And this week I felt like I was going to explode and give up on everything because I was feeling stressed. I wanted to talk to someone just to vent... and I couldn't do that cuz I knew no one would listen.

Please be there for your friends or loved ones. Don't use them just for advice and then go weeks without talking to them... ask them if they are okay. Ask them how they are feeling and what new journeys or adventures they are doing. Just be there.

[meerasrivastav]

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[lostsoulgrl]

Depression is a illness just because you see people smile and act normal around others doesn't mean there not suffering ! Half the people need comfort and kindness and to made to feel wanted no pushed aside and told to get over them selfs ! No one knows what goes on when people shut there doors over !! #Thoughtoftheday #bethereforthem 😔

[mitikovacs]

200/365 - Be a Good Friend

Friendship recognise faults in friends but does not speak of them.   True friendship acknowledge imperfections, accepts them as part of our individual makeup, and focus on our positive aspects instead of expounding upon our faults. Your friends don't like you to comment upon their failings any more than you like them to criticise you. When your friends are discouraged or disappointed in themselves, a word of encouragement will serve much better than a sermonette.   To be the kind of friend you would like to have, be a good listener, offer advice when you are asked for it, and treasure the trust that your friends have placed in you. Praise them for their achievements and sympathise when they fall short, but avoid offering "constructive criticism" or playing devil's advocate. Most of us expect more from ourselves than anyone else ever would, and we are painfully aware of our shortcomings. We don't need to be reminded of them by our friends.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

[bike4peace]

If you have a call with your friend and you understand during this call that time does not matter. What matters is the way how you talk, what you talk and that you talk out of pure love. Best 3 hours this week. #callyourfriends #listenwithyourheart #bethereforthem #thanksCorona #Bike4Peace #wildmintcosmetics #timetothinkaboutwhatmatters (hier: Love) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-RqdoLKI-Z/?igshid=mb0qqu31996u

[tawshadawn]

Salon day for me today 🤗 #favoriteday @jigsawforhair⠀ Are you a leader or do you just “think” you’re a boss? I question this because I see a lot of amazing boss babes being held back for their fear of being copied or falling behind. A true leader wants to inspire .. and when those you’re mentoring rise above, you rejoice and you celebrate their accomplishments. This is what separates the leaders and the “boss wanna-be’s”. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Listen— as a leader it is the biggest compliment to be “copied” until they find their own. This is your opportunity to step up and teach more. Help them learn and guide them. This is not to be feared.. this is what it is to lead them, help them, mentor them. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Look at our idols. Brene Brown, Oprah, Ellen, Rachel Hollis. Please remember to be kind and share your knowledge, share your story, separate yourself from the wanna-be boss babes and LEAD! ⠀⠀ #bealeader #lovemysalon #helpthemgrow #bethereforthem #wishicoulddomore #wishicouldgivemore #jigsawforhair ⠀⠀ ⠀ (at Jigsaw for Hair) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8wPtAwA3GW/?igshid=1cy8x9j413ckb

[nysnicole4]

This week, it’s already been established that children will be a huge part. And this morning, children showed up again. So, where in your life do children play a roll? Where can you show up for children more if you are not a parent or do not have children in your life? Can you foster, adopt, become a “big brother/sister”, how can you serve kids? How can you play a bigger role in the lives of children as an auntie, uncle, cousin, etc? If you are a parent what needs to be brought from the shadows and worked on or seen, how can you be of better service to your children? Maybe some of you have been thinking of changing your profession to help children more, child psychologist, child counselor, social worker, pediatrician, teacher, etc if that’s the case, this is your sign! Children are our future! How can we make this world a better place for them?! #DailyGuidance #DailyEnergy #IntuitiveGuidance #CollectiveGuidance #CollectiveEnergy #EnergyWork #SoulGuidance #DivineGuidance #CardOfTheDay #Children #ShowUp #StandUp #BeThereForThem #RaiseYourVibe #VibrateHigher #MindBodySoulSpirit #NYS #NYSNicole #NourishYourSoul https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz8jAnDHo2H/?igshid=ic7xo28hc2ri

[deltamoonsoap]

Sometimes there are no words, just #BeThereForThem. https://www.instagram.com/p/ByJcElzh-q9/?igshid=jqyf9ulckkjx

[kenvranaart]

Do what you can to help and support the people in California. My friend Robert Hays lost his house, many other friends I waiting to hear from. #art #artist #kenvranaart #artistsoninstagram #artistsofinstagram #artistoninstagram #artistofinstagram #californiafires #pleasehelp #support #firefighters #police #rescuers #people #giveback #bethereforthem https://www.instagram.com/p/BqGDMQEA6KE/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=e77hwfqbi99t

[boogievibes-blog]

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There are children among us right now that are burdened, broken, and hurting. Are we do our part to be the light, positive energy, listening ear, warm hug, and safe haven for them. Some these hurts go DEEP and require RELENTLESS LOVE and COMPASSION and PRAYER over there lives and their families! Even when we feel like we aren’t making a difference on the outside seeds of love are being planted on the inside. Let us never lose hope and keep sowing into the lives of all God’s BEAUTIFUL children! #lovebyexample #realtalk #speaklife #bethelight #lovewins #leadbyexample #bethereforthem #bepresent #keepplantingseeds #positivevibes #dadvibes #teachervibes #heartforchildren #wemakethedifference #betheblessing #believeinthem

[vaulttechie]

I see you. I hear you. I appreciate you.

It is not a bad thing to wish to be thought of, or asked to join in on plans, or checked up on. I am in the same exact boat and have made my peace with being alone - but it would be nice to find someone that gave us the same exact effort we give them.

What about me?

I'm here to talk about wanting to be put first. I know this may sound selfish, but sometimes speaking of your truths is good. All my life in any friendship or relationship I've been put second, or no one helped me in any situation. I have always looked out for people out of the kindness of my heart, I sat and listened to people's problems and encouraged them in tough times, picked up my phone in a hurry whenever someone called, or even checked up on people. But when it comes to me no one cares to help me, listen to me, or put me down.

Right now I'm tired of people... I don't want anyone using me for their own benefit and then acting like they can't help me. People will leave me for another friend, and won't return my texts or calls. People don't listen to me or even cut me off while talking... I've always been shy yes that's true but when I decide to open up no one respects me. i will be 31 November 14 and I will still have no friends or a significant other because I know I will never be put first. I will never be heard, I will never be worried about or thought of by people.

I stay to myself to make myself happy or at least try. I say I enjoy my time alone but in reality, I hate being alone. I love my family to the moon and back but sometimes I want a friend to share a laugh with, to have deep conversations, and connect on a deeper level. But I already know people are just going to use me for the time being because no one else is listening or talking to them. When you have a good heart people really use it and throw it in the trash after use.

Sometimes I wish I was heartless... I wish I didn't care about some people. I wish I was like others... Use people's minds and hearts and throw everything away like it is waste. But I will never ever stoop down to that level because I can't imagine being just like them... I could never use someone for my own benefit. If I see that you can sit and listen to me, give me advice, convince me to do greater things... you gotta be my friend for life lol.

I never used tumblr before but tonight I decided to post this because I wanted to share something I'm tired of feeling. I'm in school four days a week, and then I work at night at the post office. And this week I felt like I was going to explode and give up on everything because I was feeling stressed. I wanted to talk to someone just to vent... and I couldn't do that cuz I knew no one would listen.

Please be there for your friends or loved ones. Don't use them just for advice and then go weeks without talking to them... ask them if they are okay. Ask them how they are feeling and what new journeys or adventures they are doing. Just be there.

[iwillgotoheavenforyou]

I feel you..... Seriously this is what i felt too. That i am always helping but who is helping me? I am always the one noticing small things, hiccups in voices and gently asking whats wrong. Nobody does that for me. I have called my friends crying out of my mind but i made sure to ask hey, are you busy? When they answered yes i said well okay i just called to chat. Nvm. Lets talk later. And then i cried my heart out all by myself on the roadside.

I feel this. But also, I have 2 best friends who do care about me. it took me a while to get out of my own mind to see that maybe majority of friends may not care but these 2 ppl do. Even if they don't notice things unless i point it out but when i tell them something is wrong they make sure to try and make me feel better.

It hurts. Ik. Even when i have these two friends, i feels hurt and sad by the behaviour of my other friends. I hope one day, you will find at least one person who does that for you. One day, you will havea friend who will take care of you too. Have faith .

What about me?

I'm here to talk about wanting to be put first. I know this may sound selfish, but sometimes speaking of your truths is good. All my life in any friendship or relationship I've been put second, or no one helped me in any situation. I have always looked out for people out of the kindness of my heart, I sat and listened to people's problems and encouraged them in tough times, picked up my phone in a hurry whenever someone called, or even checked up on people. But when it comes to me no one cares to help me, listen to me, or put me down.

Right now I'm tired of people... I don't want anyone using me for their own benefit and then acting like they can't help me. People will leave me for another friend, and won't return my texts or calls. People don't listen to me or even cut me off while talking... I've always been shy yes that's true but when I decide to open up no one respects me. i will be 31 November 14 and I will still have no friends or a significant other because I know I will never be put first. I will never be heard, I will never be worried about or thought of by people.

I stay to myself to make myself happy or at least try. I say I enjoy my time alone but in reality, I hate being alone. I love my family to the moon and back but sometimes I want a friend to share a laugh with, to have deep conversations, and connect on a deeper level. But I already know people are just going to use me for the time being because no one else is listening or talking to them. When you have a good heart people really use it and throw it in the trash after use.

Sometimes I wish I was heartless... I wish I didn't care about some people. I wish I was like others... Use people's minds and hearts and throw everything away like it is waste. But I will never ever stoop down to that level because I can't imagine being just like them... I could never use someone for my own benefit. If I see that you can sit and listen to me, give me advice, convince me to do greater things... you gotta be my friend for life lol.

I never used tumblr before but tonight I decided to post this because I wanted to share something I'm tired of feeling. I'm in school four days a week, and then I work at night at the post office. And this week I felt like I was going to explode and give up on everything because I was feeling stressed. I wanted to talk to someone just to vent... and I couldn't do that cuz I knew no one would listen.

Please be there for your friends or loved ones. Don't use them just for advice and then go weeks without talking to them... ask them if they are okay. Ask them how they are feeling and what new journeys or adventures they are doing. Just be there.