#Ella Wiseman

[ot-hoe-me]

OCs as Planets

I was tagged by @stephschoices​ and @dakotawritesif​ to do this uquiz for any OCs of my choice. The free online banner maker I used is here.

I tag anyone who wants to do it!

Now, one OC for every planet, in order of creation:

Valencia Talward is my MC for @shepherds-of-haven​

Jupiter 

optimistic. hopeful. generous and compassionate. you are the guardian angel. you are 4:44 am and a sense of being watched over. you enrich the lives of others just by existing and caring for them. you give as many blessings as you receive and there is always more to go around. be careful not to become too over-confident in these abilities. what makes you jupiter is your belief that ego has no part in caring and love. you are softness and the smell of almond coffee.

Dorothea Fairchild is my MC for Perfumare: Avulsion by @pdrrook​

Uranus 

innovative. unpredictable. resourceful. imaginative. creativity in science and disruption. oh, uranus. you were dealt the cards that don't have much to offer, but luckily you can always make them work. you are acrylic paint that has been plastered over the same canvas so many times that it is starting to have those little grooves of texture. you are ever-changing and suddenly it stops. and starts again. keep moving. nothing is wrong with not wanting to sit still.

Ella Wiseman is my MC for Mind Blind by @mindblindbard​

Mercury 

clever. intelligent and witty. wisdom, sharpness, anxiety and indecisiveness. you are the comedian. the "make someone laugh if they are crying" kind of lover. you don’t want to think too much about anything because that stops you from just having fun, but your brain doesn't ever shut off. you are curious and never ending. forecast and shadows. the smell of clean sheets.

Evie Amell is my MC for The Fernweh Saga by @lacunafiction​

Earth

nurturing, generous and caring. introverted, tolerant, honest and trustworthy. you are "my phone is always on, call me any time." you are "i feel like i'm everyone's therapist." you are impressive with your stability and peacefulness. you are wallpapers of cows and fields of ever-growing seeds. you are the best friend. mother nature. ice cold water and the smell of rain.

Cynuise aka The Harbinger of Calamity is my MC for Fell Star by @justpked​

Saturn 

patient. stable. reliable. persevering and diligent. your capacity to hold focus on something you choose to is unmatched by all other planets. you were made for hard work that you love and that you know is rewarding. you are the shoulder that everyone wants to cry on, so remember you can lean on yourself when it seems there is no one else. there is nothing wrong with being self sufficient. you are justice and evenly balanced scales.

Asteria Violette Gaudare is my MC for Beyond the Spider Lilies by @justpked​

Venus 

passionate. romantic. loving to be loved. courtship. adoration and taste. you are your own personal aesthetic. you are hand written love letters in copper ink. you are "let me show you just how much i can love you." you are royalty and class. love has no bounds with you. your heart is wrapped in chocolate tin foil. you attract what you manifest so keep believing in love. it is you and you, it.

Evandra Vailia is my MC for @reapersbayif​

Mars 

passion. energy. drive. determination. you are in tune with yourself and your body and if you don't already feel it, please try to tune into it because it is so powerful. you are at war with yourself and life and it doesn't always have to be so hard. anger is not a useless emotion but do not let it control you. love is more powerful than hatred will ever be. you are the smell of fresh cut grass and the satisfaction of a job well done.

Fallon Rose is my MC for Underfell IF and Mafiafell IF by @darkpetal16​

Neptune 

mercy. kindness. sweet. forgiving and compassionate. you are second chances and sometimes third. you are "its ok because everyone makes mistakes." you are "i forgive you as long as you are learning." you are not held down by the demands of your ego. you believe in right and fair. open mindedness and friendship. you are mystical and magical, observant and the smell of warm bread in the morning.  

[carriehobbs]

I saw you tagged Ellery Wiseman on that poem and am dropping into your inbox to ask for anything you'd like to share about your Button!! (Do you have more than one? Who do they romance? How is their relationship with Nick?) -wayhavenots

omg pd tysm for asking!! 💕💕 there is absolutely nothing in the world i love more than having an excuse to talk about my ocs

i (with some rare exceptions) am the kind of if player that makes a new oc for every romance route i play, so i actually have 5 buttons 🫣 (technically 6, rip elliot wiseman who was from my very first mind blind playthrough, when i just wanted to see if i liked the game. you were very depressed and never became a fully-realized button, but your sacrifice is remembered and your name is retired out of respect). i have a page with very, very brief details on my buttons (and also my detectives for wayhaven) and links to their tags here, but if you use tumblr mobile you've probably never had the opportunity to see it.

this got so very, very long, so the rest is under the cut

my 5 buttons are: ella, ellie, elle, ellis, and ellery (can you guess what naming convention i lifted from the game's default names? lol). what's universally true for all 5 of them (though with some nuance, they all have slightly different feelings about their relationships) is that they're as close as they can be with their parents (because i like john and hope as characters and i find "i really love these people but our relationship became incredibly complicated and we now have to find ways to reconcile our disappointment/anger/etc. with our love for them" to be really compelling. i love mess) and with nick (because i'm a middle child and i accidentally projected my feelings about my siblings (and especially my older sister) onto the button&nick relationship. i physically can't be mean to nick because i cried for about 45 minutes the first time i read the end of chapter 3/chapter 4 and for the first time really considered my sister's mortality, and that changes you).

for a (not really that brief, whoops) rundown of my buttons' whole deals:

ella: equally humorous and confident, very high insightful stat, romancing ambrose. she's independent, intelligent, ambitious, loyal, great at compartmentalizing, and, quite frankly, arrogant. she can be really abrasive sometimes (while she can be a kind and compassionate person, most people don't get to see that side of her and so she can come off as really rather unpleasant - think that know-it-all kid in your class that everyone kind of hates). ella naturally is rather funny/confident/intelligent/etc., but i think, after the incident with hope, she ended up amplifying these inherent traits of hers and making them into a sort of armour that keeps her safe, but also isolates her. i think she's afraid of showing weakness and i think she feels this subconscious need to prove to everyone (including herself) that she's capable. her relationship with nick is the worst out of all of my buttons (but is still incredibly high, think 160/170-ish approval), mainly because she and nick clash the most. she's very independent and knows what she wants and will pursue it (even if it's a boyfriend her brother doesn't like or a career her parents don't want for her) no matter what anyone else thinks, and nick can be a little hover-y (though this improves over the events of the game). she does really love nick (and does actually care about his approval, even if it won't stop her from doing things she knows he won't like), even if she finds him kind of annoying sometimes. she views the incident with hope as a horrible accident that wasn't anyone's fault, and i think she sees better than my other buttons how everyone in the family was affected by the fallout. fun fact: several years post-game, she and ambrose have identical twin girls (ella jokes that she wanted two kids so she and ambrose had twins because "we're efficient". they have girls because ambrose is a girl dad. i am not accepting notes) that share a birthday with nick (because i need ambrose to be forced to participate in a large yearly party that at least partially involves celebrating nick. do you know how many years nick rented a bouncy castle and then proceeded to bounce on the bouncy castle with the girls? it's every year until they decided they're too cool for it. nick's heart broke that day)

eleanor/ellie: more humorous than confident (with confident stat increasing through the game), but has a decent morbid stat too, very high insightful stat, romancing grayson. ellie fulfills my need in every if game/rpg i play to have at least one character who is so, so nice to everyone (my detective alina fulfills this need in wayhaven). she's kind, considerate, forgiving, has a strong sense of morals (except at work, where she's very expedient), and tends to blame herself when things go wrong. she really feels just unbearably guilty about most things: the incident with hope (if she'd acted differently, if she'd been different, etc., maybe it wouldn't have happened), nick's accident in chapter 3, nick having to take care of her through high school... she really struggled after the incident with hope because she needed nick and depended on him so much, but then hated herself for how much she needed him and feeling like she ruined his life (she did project this onto gray when he started hanging around, which is why she didn't like him at first, but over time she realized it wasn't his fault and moved on. and then she got goopy feelings for him). she's not blind to nick's faults, but she adores him (200 approval easily). i think a lot of her growth over the course of the game comes from learning to trust herself and to believe in herself. fun fact: she once made a joke to gray after they started dating (in front of nick and sally too 😬) without thinking about how there'd be "no kids or dog until we have a house". it was way too early in the relationship to be making a joke about having kids or a house. they didn't even live together yet. she's still a little mortified that she said that

elle: confident, very high insightful stat, romancing kent. i love elle because she's kind of relentlessly forward-thinking. she doesn't really dwell on the past except to figure out how to improve the future. she believes strongly that it's what someone does that matters. she's my button who's the most interested in trying to get herself into the npo program. like ella, i think she views the incident with hope as a horrible accident that isn't really anyone's fault, and i think she really makes an effort not to dwell on it or assign blame for what happened. she also has terminal foot-in-mouth disease (talking about bondage with kent in front of your brother, best friend, and instructor after revealing that you'll probably get tortured together, anyone?), which is the bane of her existence. while i think all my buttons struggled with some agoraphobia post-the incident with hope, i think elle really struggled with it: she loves dogs and used to volunteer at an animal shelter, but had to stop because she couldn't handle being outside of her home without sally or nick (she could go to school if she spent the entire day with sally, and then would go straight home) and it took several months for her to feel like she could go places without one or both of them again. once she was able to leave her home independently, she started volunteering at the animal shelter again, and is still there. fun fact: post-game and further into their relationship, she ends up accidentally moving in with kent. it starts by just spending a lot of time at his place because it's so close to nick's (i think a lot of her and kent's dates just involve hanging out together), then more and more of her stuff migrates over, until one day she realizes she's been there for two weeks and all of her clothes are in kent's laundry. she formally moves in after that. she's also my button who's most likely to elope!

ellis: humorous-morbid (slightly more morbid than humorous), tentatively more innovative than insightful (i keep swapping the stats), romancing sally. he's "just some guy" (affectionate) to me, if "just some guy" had gallows' humour. he's been kind of desperately in love with sally since he was 13 and figured out what love was. ellis is the kind of person who looks fine on the surface but really isn't. whereas elle doesn't dwell on the incident with hope because she wants to move forward with her life and not have this one event define her, ellis doesn't dwell on it because doing so will wreck him. he was the closest with hope growing up, since they shared a sense of humour and he felt that she really understood him, and it profoundly hurt when she started to pull away as he got older. he trusted her more than anyone growing up and it hurts a lot now to think about how the people he relies on most now are nick and sally instead. he's not as forward about the guilt he feels and how it affects him as ellie or ellery are, but it's still there. he's also very close with nick and really admires him: nick is ellis's model for what it means to "be a man" (more so than john, but i don't think ellis is really aware of this). ellis also views gray as a sort of quasi-older brother figure and is actually more likely to ask gray for relationship or life advice than nick (mainly because he'd feel a little awkward talking to nick about stuff like relationship advice - also look at nick's relationship track record, gray's probably the safer bet). fun fact: ellis is either the same height as nick or one inch shorter than nick (i can never remember), so if they're out together and the topic of height comes up, he tells people that he's at least two inches shorter than he actually is. this is because nick will lie about his height to make himself taller if given the chance, so ellis gets there first and forces nick to be 5ft9 for an evening (nick hates this).

ellery: humorous, higher insightful stat than interpersonal stat, romancing (m!)glitch. she's such a smartass. she's all jokes and has a quip ready for any situation, but, like ella, i think these are inherent characteristics of hers that get amplified as a defense mechanism. i think it's in chapter 1 of the demo that there's the line that says it's better to have people laughing with you than at you, and that really fits ellery. ellery blames herself for really everything to do with hope and nick, but if she brushes it off with a joke she can pretend to be fine (she's incredibly not - her guilt defines a lot of her relationships with other people and how she views herself). she's also incredibly devoted to her family (to the point where she can't listen to someone criticize them professionally because like. that's her dad. this sometimes causes issues in her and glitch's relationship, because glitch is unafraid to criticize unity when appropriate, but they figure out how to manage it over time). speaking of glitch: she is such a loverrrrrrr 💕💕💕 they really are intolerable together because they're that couple that's just all over each other. everyone around them hopes they'll tone it down after the honeymoon stage ends but they do not 💕 i imagine them moving in together incredibly quickly too. i don't know the exact timeline of the game so far, but even this early on, ellery knows that he's it for her. ellery makes me think the most about what it would actually be like to not only grow up with people who are able to hear your every thought but to never live with someone who can't read your mind. i always imagine ellery as being very comfortable communicating telepathically when she chooses to (she almost got held back from preschool because she didn't speak until she was 3/4 - not because she had speech or language delays, but because why would she speak out loud when she could communicate telepathically? eventually telepathic communication had to be (temporarily) banned in the house to get ellery to speak verbally, and once she did the ban was lifted). telepathic communication also means an entirely different way of communicating between people: visual jokes, jokes where the comedy isn't in the punchline but in the way the joke is constructed before it's been told, being able to rely on the person you're talking to picking up subtleties from your thoughts if you're having trouble expressing yourself in words, etc. and glitch is the first person she's ever lived with who can't read her mind (sometimes she'll be in another room half way through a conversation with glitch in her head and she'll ask him for his opinion on something she thought, only for him to have to remind her that he cannot hear her. luckily glitch finds this funny when it happens and lightly ribs her about it). she gets incredibly frustrated with herself sometimes because she doesn't know how to explain to him how much he means to her or how much she loves him. she tries, but she never feels like it really encompasses the depth of the feeling (it's the one time she wishes he was a ment, so he could hear it). fun fact: about a year into their relationship, ellery wrote glitch a really bad love poem to try and express her feelings for glitch in a way that's meaningful to him. glitch loved it and insisted that it was beautiful, but she thinks it's amateur and is kind of embarrassed about it because he quotes actual love poetry to her all the time. this poem does actually exist because i wrote it to try and get in her head space and figure out what she'd say, and it's mid at best (i am not a poet)

[wildmelon]

Just wanted to say first, I love your lookbooks, you're so talented! This is kind of a long ask, I hope that's ok! From your daphne wiseman post, WCIF: everyday 1 hair, top, and jeans; formal 1 dress; athletic 4 skirt; hot weather 4 skirt; cold weather 4 jacket. BTW, your post got me into Mind Blind, and wow it's amazing! I'm inspired to make a sim of my version of Ella Wiseman so I can get a clearer picture of her in my mind. tysm for all you do <333

thank you!! omg i'm so excited you enjoyed mind blind, i'd love to see more simmers get into if and make their mcs, it's like my favorite thing to do lol 🫶🏼 answered about the jacket here, here are the rest:

hair | top | jeans

dress

skirt

skirt

[artist-assassin]

ok i need to know more about ellaria STAT. and your thoughts on rosy + the rosymance !!

RRRRR OK OK but ive only played the public demo so far i havent paid for the patreon/closed demo yet, so i have very little information about the Rosymance in general. info dump and stats below

Ellaria is the humorous / cheerful kinda Button, about 5'5", and she calls her brother Nick-Nack in the game but I imagine she will call him any random number of names off the top of her head (based off of when I played Fallout 4 and I would often call Nick any random nickname like Nicki Minaj, Nickle Pickle, Nickolodeon, Nickaroni and Cheese, etc lol). She has some insecurities because she compares herself to her brother a lot, but she tries to tough it out and beat up her bad thoughts bc she's an unstoppable optimist!!! Stubborn to a fault she refuses to back down once she sets her mind to something. Is a very nice person but gets very socially awkward in large groups, and sometimes lashes out when she gets frustrated by how fragile people treat her (the first thing that made her like Instructor Kim was that he didnt beat around the bush abt her zero but didnt treat her like a kid either!! shes like damn finally some respect around here)

Loves Nick so much (i got like a 160% relationship with him in the open demo lol) looks up to him like her personal hero + mentor. Loves her dad even though it's a little bit strained, has not seen or spoken to her mother in 4 or 5 years after The Incident(tm). but she misses her mom a lot she, she's half scared of her mom hurting her and half scared she will hurt her mom.

I chose the pre-prepared name Ella when I first started playing bc I didn't know what the game was about so I wasn't prepared to like.. make an OC for it until I decided I liked it enough lol. But I compromised by just naming her Ellaria and Ella is her nickname. Here are her stats by whatever chapter is the last one in the open demo (8 i think?)

I LOVE AMBROSE KIM... i played as bisexual in my first go as Ella so i had no idea the genders for some charas changed until I checked the Ambrose Kim tag on tumblr lol. but im way more into rosy as a man than as a woman... Mr Kim u can instruct me any day,..

Like I said tho I don't know a lot about the Rosy romance because I only played the open demo, and I know the author says his romance takes the longest to flower because of the whole teacher/student aspect so he's actively trying to NOT fall for button.. well too bad bitch I'm gonna be so respectable and hot he's gonna have no choice.

anyway im gonna get the patreon this week (friday probably) so i can update u on how i feel soon jhgjhlks i also love all of the characters ngl. i would romance all of them in separate playthroughs.

and u didnt ask but ill mention Kali also, my 2nd Wiseman. shes NUTS. i made her to be the exact opposite of my first humorous, cheerful, ready-to-take-on-the-world girl Ella - so Kali is grim and not nice at all and technically still ready to take on the world but more in a "the whole world is my enemy" kind of way instead of the "i wont let anything stop me" ella way. She's VERY resentful about her zero and is one bad look from a ment away from strangling someone

sorry for the long ramble jhagdwj youre the first person who is talking to me about this game that has become my newest obsession (and u were the one who got me into it so UR responsible for this mess) and im happy to share it w someone :3c

pls feel free to tag me in any mind blind stuff u post, whether fanart or oc art or just rambles n stuff i dont care ill love it all. thank u

[docrotten]

MONKEY SHINES (1988) – Episode 235 – Decades Of Horror 1980s

“You killed my Bogie! Not with your hands. You had your little demon do it for you.” Her “Bogie” and his “little demon?” That’s a new one. Never heard them called that before. Join your faithful Grue Crew – Chad Hunt, Bill Mulligan, Crystal Cleveland, and Jeff Mohr – as they go talk-about with Monkey Shines (1988), one of George Romero’s studio efforts.

Decades of Horror 1980s Episode 235 – Monkey Shines (1988)

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A quadriplegic man has a trained monkey help him with his paralysis until the little monkey begins to develop feelings, and rage, against its new master. 

  Director: George A. Romero

Writers: Michael Stewart, George A. Romero

Makeup Department:

Special Makeup Effects: Tom Savini

Special Makeup Effects Assistants: Greg Nicotero, Everett Burrell, Mike Trcic

Special Effects: Steven Kirshoff

Visual Effects: Alexandra Menapace (motion control graphics) (uncredited)

Stunts: David Meeks, Tom Savini, Patricia Tallman, Judy Zazula

Selected Cast:

Jason Beghe as Allan Mann

John Pankow as Geoffrey Fisher

Kate McNeil as Melanie Parker

Joyce Van Patten as Dorothy Mann

Christine Forrest as Maryanne Hodges

Stephen Root as Dean Burbage

Stanley Tucci as Dr. John Wiseman

Boo as Ella

Janine Turner as Linda Aikman

William Newman as Doc Williams

Tudi Wiggins as Esther Fry

Tom Quinn as Charlie Cunningham

Chuck Baker as Ambulance Driver

Patricia Tallman as Party Guest

David Early as Anesthetist

Michael Naft as Young Allan

Tina Romero as Child Playing

Mitchell Baseman as Child Playing

Lia Savini as Child Playing

Anthony Dileo Jr. as Vandal (as Tim DiLeo)

Melanie Verlin as Vandal

Dan Fallon as Allan’s Friend

George A. Romero writes and directs Monkey Shines, an adaptation of Michael Stewart’s 1983 British novel of the same title. Despite the monkey with the clapping cymbals on the poster, this movie has nothing to do with Stephin King. An excellent cast (Jason Beghe, John Pankow, Kate McNeil, Joyce Van Patten, Christine Forrest, Stephen Root, Janine Turner, and Stanley Tucci) and detailed storytelling that crosses all the t’s and almost dots all the i’s, might just make this work. And beware if you have a phobia regarding monkeys with sharp objects! You’ve been warned.

At the time of this writing, Monkey Shines is available to stream from Tubi, Pluto TV, and multiple PPV sources. 

Every two weeks, Gruesome Magazine’s Decades of Horror 1980s podcast will cover another horror film from the 1980s. The next episode’s film, chosen by Chad, will be The Incubus (1981) from the novel by Ray Russell [Mr. Sardonicaus (1961) and X: The Man with the X-Ray Eyes (1963)] and starring John Cassavetes.

Please let them know how they’re doing! They want to hear from you – the coolest, grooviest fans – so leave them a message or comment on the Gruesome Magazine Youtube channel, on the Gruesome Magazine website, or email the Decades of Horror 1980s podcast hosts at feedback@gruesomemagazine.com.

Check out this episode!

[leanstooneside]

Short-arm elbow smash

ELLA'S

GARAGE

JON'S

PAP

INTENTION

JENNIE

EFFECT

MR. CLARK'S

CUSTOMER

APARTMENT

LEADERSHIP

SONG

PRESERVED

WISEMAN

BALANCE

HILO

CLASS

TAXIS

SOMETHING

POPULATION

SECTION

[eatingyarn]

day 3 of @interactivesummer - sunset

ella and grayson having a lazy evening, because why not!

[eatingyarndraws]

damn, who raised you?

happy bday to the fave brother!

[dist4nt-shores]

meet my mind blind MC, ella wiseman!

she/her/hers

brown hair & hazel/light brown eyes

5’5” (“i’m not short i’m an average height nick shut up”)

dog lover

snickerdoodles will forever have her heart

(and so will gray)

mini playlist:

pancakes for dinner - lizzy mcalpine

gold rush - taylor swift

graceland too - phoebe bridgers

like real people do - hozier

people watching - conan gray

london boy - taylor swift

rainbow connection - kermit the frog

bonus: zero to hero from hercules :)

mind blind is by @mindblindbard (go check it out!)

[ot-hoe-me]

Reposting this art without the wall of text because I refuse to let my girl flop. Behold ✨💖Ella Wiseman💖✨ my Button for @mindblindbard

Once again, I commissioned the art from Kiki on Instagram.

[griffin-wood]

“It's nice to have a friend.”

Happy birthday Maia Wiseman <3

Thank you @eatingyarndraws for this sketch of Ella and Maia! Adore them 💕 Happy New Years everyone hehe! ✨

[rusty-swamp]

La sexualidad humana es innatamente perversa. Slavoj Žižek

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Muchas feministas políticamente correctas desestiman agresivamente a Freud y al psicoanálisis en general como anticuados. Yo mismo fui atacado recientemente en Austria como un anciano blanco que no ha leído un libro en 30 años. Lo que están haciendo efectivamente es reprimir la visión básica de Freud, la del sujeto dividido y la del inconsciente - el hecho de que la gente en general no sabe lo que quiere y no quiere lo que desea.

Esta es la razón por la que el libre consentimiento explícito de ambos miembros de la pareja en un acto sexual no es suficiente para evitar la violencia. Incluso si no se requiere un contrato por escrito o la identidad de ambos miembros de la pareja, lo mínimo que exigen quienes se preocupan por la violencia sexual es el consentimiento verbal explícito, tal como lo exige una nueva ley propuesta en Nueva Gales del Sur. Lo que esta visión ignora es la violencia inmanente al sexo; el sexo "en sí mismo" no es un dominio de placeres gozosos distorsionados desde fuera por las relaciones de dominación y violencia, el componente sadomasoquista es constitutivo de ella.

En un comentario interesante sobre el papel del consentimiento en las relaciones sexuales, Eva Wiseman se refiere a "durante The Butterfly Effect, la serie de podcasts de Jon Ronson, se habló sobre las réplicas de la pornografía en Internet. En el plató de una película pornográfica, un actor perdió la erección en medio de una escena: para que vuelva a tener la erección, se apartó de la mujer, se dio la vuelta, agarró su teléfono y buscó Pornhub. Lo que me impactó como algo apocalíptico" - y, concluye: "Algo está podrido en el estado del sexo."

Estoy de acuerdo, pero añadiría la lección del psicoanálisis: algo está constitutivamente podrido en el estado del sexo, la sexualidad humana está en sí misma pervertida, expuesta a giros sadomasoquistas y, específicamente, a la mezcla de la realidad y fantasía. Incluso cuando estoy solo con mi pareja, mi interacción (sexual) con él/ella está inextricablemente entrelazada con mis fantasías, es decir, cada interacción sexual está potencialmente estructurada como "masturbación con una pareja real", utilizo la carne y el cuerpo de mi pareja como apoyo para realizar mis fantasías. No podemos reducir esta brecha entre la realidad corporal de mi pareja y el universo de las fantasías a una distorsión abierta por el patriarcado y la dominación o explotación social - la brecha está aquí desde el principio.

Así que entiendo perfectamente al actor que, para recuperar la erección, buscó en Pornbhub - estaba buscando un apoyo fantasmático para su actuación. Es por esta misma razón que, como parte de la relación sexual, una pareja le pide a la otra que siga hablando, usualmente narrando algo "sucio" - incluso cuando se tiene en las manos a la "cosa misma" (el cuerpo desnudo de la pareja amada), esta presencia tiene que ser complementada con fantasías verbales.

Volvamos a Wiseman, que concluye su comentario: "Al intentar entender los nuevos paisajes de la pornografía, podemos acercarnos a una relación saludable con nuestra propia sexualidad." Pero, ¿y si la sexualidad no es en sí misma muy saludable? ¿Y si los aspectos oscuros de la pornografía no sólo perturban desde el exterior la sexualidad sana, sino que son posibles gracias a su aspecto no-saludable?

En diciembre de 2016, al enterarse de la repentina muerte de Carrie Fischer, Steve Martin tuiteó: "Cuando era joven, Carrie Fisher era la criatura más hermosa que había visto. Resultó ser ingeniosa y brillante también". Hubo una reacción inmediata - Martin fue acusado de "cosificar" a Fischer, de centrarse en su físico en lugar de en su talento o en su impacto - contestó un usuario de Twitter: "Creo que ella aprendió a ser algo más importante que ser guapa. ¿Cómo quieres que te recuerden?" Así que Martin borró su tweet. La acusación me parece ridícula ya que Martin ubica claramente su fascinación por la belleza de Fischer en los primeros encuentros, y luego inmediatamente se mueve en "ingenioso y brillante" - el punto de su tweet es que ella era MÁS que simplemente hermosa. Sin embargo, lo más importante es que en nuestras (y en todas) sociedades existen nociones de belleza históricamente prevalentes, y es que si una mujer (¡o un hombre!) se ajusta de manera sobresaliente a estos criterios, se le considera bello o (lo cual no siempre es lo mismo, por supuesto) sexualmente atractivo.

Prohibir hablar de esto, darse cuenta de ello, significa suspender no sólo la "cosificación" sino la sexualidad como tal. El triste trauma de los que son "feos" y tienen dificultades para conseguir parejas sexuales atractivas no sólo no se resuelve, sino que se ignora y de esta manera continúa su trabajo subterráneo, provocando posibles explosiones de envidia, frustración, etc. Los Incels son aquí mucho más honestos: admiten abiertamente su fealdad e intentan representarla de forma lúdica como un rasgo positivo.

Zizek

para The Spectator UK

https://life.spectator.co.uk/articles/human-sexuality-is-innately-perverse/?fbclid=IwAR2-MBukD-gmQeuJlqbSunwhr2v-BGn0SvEpsKx7VcYaRAfLc-dKdJa4TAw

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1, 10, 14, 19 for Ellie Wiseman for the oc meme please! :3

Thank you Ryley!

Asks - 50 Random OC Asks 

1.What is your OC’s most embarrassing moment?

So in high school, she usually worked with Sally for partner projects, but she had this one teacher who liked to mix things up and make everyone in the class socialize, and assigned her a partner for a project. (The teacher wasn’t stupid about it, the partner wasn’t a Ment, so nobody could complain about Ellie’s IEP accommodations not being met.) And they had to work on the project as homework because there isn’t enough time in class.

So the weekend comes, and Ellie goes over to this girl’s house. And it turns out they get along really well and have very similar interests and senses of humor and hm… there is definitely a spark there, so the girl asks her do you maybe want to stick around after and *ahem* watch a movie?

Hell yeah, Ellie wants to *ahem* watch a movie. The movie was duly ignored in favour of making out. Nice.

Until the following Monday, when not only does the girl proceed to act like they were still complete strangers, she also basically tells Ellie to fuck off, weirdo, in front of a good chunk of their year.

So that was pretty humiliating.

10. Do animals like your OC? Does your OC like animals?

She doesn’t dislike animals? Like, she’s quite happy to play with other people’s pets, and wouldn’t object to having one herself, but it wouldn’t be her suggestion. And animals seem to reciprocate. They’re fine with her, but there’s an equally good chance they’ll gravitate to someone else.

14. What made you choose your OC’s name?

Uh...I didn’t love the default options but Ellie still fit the Ella/Elliot/Ellery theme? And then I had to decide what Ellie was short for (Eleanor), why she goes by Ellie (Eleanor is pretty formal for everyday life), and a middle name (Betony - keeping with the obscure floral names to go with Nick’s Hyacinth).

19. How long would your OC last in an apocalypse?

Hm. 

She’s got amazing spatial reasoning and she’s pretty fast for her size, which is what made her such a good outfielder. And she’s also got very good situational awareness. So she would be very well able to navigate, keep in mind a half-dozen exit strategies and get out of dodge if it started to look sketchy.

But! If she ever faced a  “save this person or save yourself” choice, she’d be saving the other person. Every time. So, her survival would be contingent on using the above skills to make sure she never had to face that choice.

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The Death of Marci Wiseman The sisters at St. Willow Boarding School sent Marci Wiseman home as soon as she started showing symptoms associated with the Smallpox epidemic. Due to the close quarters shared by all of the students and faculty, they could not risk the disease spreading through the large halls of the prestigious boarding school. This was a very wise decision because it had not been a weeks time after her arrival to her childhood home before Marci took her last breath. She was surrounded by her mother, Ella, and father, Luca, at the time of her passing. Unfortunately, her brother Vincent arrived the following day.

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i had regency era on my mind since forever and finally decided to draw ella wiseman in a cute regency-inspired dress.

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