#ForgottenButNotGone

[kileyassists]

FORGOT TheyAllHateUs

Feeling like a total boss when you forgot about the haters.

[dhplover]

#OTD in 2001:

Martin: “Niles, I want to talk to you.”

Niles: “Dad! What happened, is there something wrong?”

Martin: “You're damn right there is, it's about you and Frasier! Good God, you wear a sash?!”

Niles: “Frasier sent you down here, didn't he?”

Frasier: “No!”

Martin: “Frasier, get in here now!”

Frasier: “Dad, this isn't necessary.”

Niles: “Yeah, we can talk about this some other time.”

Martin: “Zip it up, both of you! I just gave up the best meal of my life to come down here, so listen up. Niles, let your Brother play.”

Niles: “Dad, this is not a game, this is a club & Frasier broke the rules!”

Frasier: “Technically, I…”

Martin: “Well, then you write a new rule so that Frasier can come back.”

Frasier: “First, I want an apology…”

Martin: “I said zip it!”

Niles: “He did, I heard him!”

Martin: “Don't get smart! Now, are you gonna let your Brother play?”

Niles: “Dad…”

Martin: “Are you gonna let your Brother play?”

Niles: “Why…”

Martin: “Are you gonna let your Brother play?”

Niles: “I…”

Martin: “Are you gonna let your Brother play?”

Niles: “Fine.”

Martin: “Am I gonna have any more trouble between you two?”

Frasier/Niles: “No.”

Martin: “No, what?”

Frasier/Niles: “No, Sir.”

Martin: “Good. Now shake hands. That's more like it. Now if you don't mind, I've got a big plate of Gewerzplotzchen waiting for me at home with my name on it.”

Niles: “Uh, well, let's get back to the wine, shall we?”

Reynolds: “You got yelled at by your Dad.”

Niles: “Well, be that as it may…”

Endicott: “Zip it!“

#Frasier #ForgottenButNotGone #DHPLover

[tic-loud-tic-proud]

[image: multiple screenshots of a post by marcthelad and comments on r/breakingbad.

Post reads

who is billy. its been a long time sinse i saw old breaking bad so i dont remember

Comments read

Pellegram: I have no idea what your talking about. Where did you get the name Billy from?

Marcthelad: saul godman sed hank shod go on trip to billys.

Forgottenbutnotgone: Belize

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just remembered one of the best breaking bad subreddit posts

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Ways you can cut out the single use plastics in your life!🌍

[pointsincase]

Father, oh Father, why hath thou forsaken me? After my years of faithful service you’ve condemned me to the back of the dresser drawer. But if I am to be condemned, what is the charge? Do you punish me for slipping past your ankle while on a run and causing a truly horrible blister? This surely cannot be divine retribution for soaking up every drop of the melted ice cube by the refrigerator in the middle of the night. . You refuse to wear me because of my stale odor but you refuse to wash me for I have not been worn! This chaotic torment threatens to tear my mind asunder. You leave me to rot at the back of the bottom drawer with bootcut denim jeans your dad gave you for Christmas three years ago and a woman’s belt you refuse to throw away. With this refuse, I suffer. . I believed in you when the masses turned their backs. When you were late to work, it was I alone at the front of the drawer. I saved you from a stern email from your sales manager Kyle. Is this truly my final reward? I refuse to believe my Father is so cruel. . LINK IN BIO . Article by @thedevinwallace #sockdrawer #forsakenlove #forsaken #menssocks #lostsocks #lostsock #forgottenbutnotgone . A write-up of the piece also appears in this week’s Newsletter of Humorous Writing by @brianagler, Luke Burns, and @jamesjams. https://www.instagram.com/p/B_D0gxdAUnl/?igshid=9b15lp1v3nzt

[djjfell]

And then we found a door propped opened in the back corner of the house... and a staircase going into the attic #toysintheattic #childsplay #creepy #abandonedhome #forgottenbutnotgone #decayporn #savethedecay #keepitcreepy #abandonedplaces #urbex #urbexphotography (at Boring, Maryland) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs138LOg7YX/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=5h0c2yj04ot7

[theladymissfortune]

Been super busy with work and conventions recently so I really haven't had time to decompress and draw. It was nice to have a bit of inspiration to this morning so here he is in his glitchy glory.

[psycheguy]

It creeps in every word. It sits in every silence. Lingering beneath. Blackened roots of forgotten days felt in moments of new found mind. They listen to see, yet mind still froze. From who do you hide? From who do you run? They will know when free but till then must be.

[amomforgottenbutnotgone-blog]

The Call

Last night a received a call from my son’s grandmother (my ex’s mother). To say I was shocked, is an understatement. It’s been almost 6 years since I have had any contact with them. I did send a letter at the start of the custody dispute, but I didn’t nor did I really expect, a response. My ex is their son after all. Now that the legal stuff is over, and our son is 18, there isn’t any ramifications for them. I clearly have no ill will towards them as it was such a difficult situation and if I were in their shoes, I am not sure what I would have done. 

It was a lovely almost three hour conversation. Not all of it about the situation either, which was nice. We used to chat periodically for an hour or so at a time, so it was nice and familiar. I have missed talking to her because she really is a no nonsense woman. She will tell you if you are acting like an idiot, but she also has the kindest heart, always sending our son care packages for random holidays or just because she was thinking of him. She was like that with everyone. If she saw something she thought you would like, she would buy it. That is how I started my milk glass collection, with her seeing them at an estate sale and thinking I would like them. I still have the pieces she bought me. 

I know it wasn’t always easy for her, listening to me, complain about her son or vice versa and I do feel bad that I put her in that position. I just didn’t know who else to talk to that understood where I was coming from since she knows her son better than anyone. So while we didn’t talk for years, I did still send her Christmas cards with our son’s school picture, the few years I was able to get them. Just as a way to let them know I did think about them. Interestingly enough, she told me that she spoke to my son on his birthday a month ago and kind of chided him a bit that she received his Senior picture from me and not him. She did tell me that when she talks to him she does on occasion mention me or remind him that he wouldn't be here if it wasn’t for me. I can’t even express how beyond grateful I am for that. For five years I have wondered if anyone reminded my son he had a mother that loves him very much. I know my ex certainly wouldn’t do anything like that as he was trying to erase me from his life. I know my ex’s older sister wouldn’t do that either as she has her own issues. Coincidentally, it amazes me that she, of all people would have some kind of relationship with my son. She, who would send Christmas cards to the house addressed to my ex only, despite the fact that my son and I lived with him. She was the cause of so much turmoil. I have an email from my ex when we broke up that he had it out with her and wanted nothing to do with her and he was sorry he never defended me or our son, to her. So I find it pretty disgusting but not really all that surprising that he would allow her back in his life, yet still keeps me from our son. But they have very similar personalities, so....

It came out in the call that she hasn’t talked to my ex in years, that while she talks to our son a few times a year, she has no contact with my ex. Which is sad and pathetic. I am not sure how much of it is because she kind of disagreed with what he was doing to me or because of other issues he has. It doesn’t sound like his new relationship is all that great either and seems he has caused some issues in that family where he was fighting with her brother. His mother and I chuckled a bit over that, that he just hasn’t changed. It’s his way or no way. And that if you slight him in some way, even if you didn’t mean to, that you were then dead to him. I know that full well!

Clearly I am not trying to get her to pick sides, because at the end of the day, as I would as well, you are going to defend your child. But I think finally, for me, it was the validation I needed to hear from someone on the other side of this, that knows my ex very, very well, that it really wasn’t all my fault. Last night was the best night of sleep I have had in a very long time.

[rusty-spoke]

Some junk just belongs :) I spied this on a walk down a dirt road by my place. #forgottenbutnotgone #iphone5 #reflection #art #field #farm #antique #oldtechnology

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These plastics will be here long after we leave the planet unless they’re recycled🌍

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We can all make the difference if we cut out single use plastics!

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Look how much of the marine life is affected by our waste👎🏽 this is why plastics can enter our food chain, potentially getting us sick😷

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Don’t forget about the impact you have as in individual! Make a difference for sake of the planet🌍❤️ 

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Try a reusable carrier bag instead of a plastic bag

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There are often paper alternatives to our single use plastics , which is a far more renewable source🌳