#amab problems
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perisex people!!! please read and apply to your active daily actions if possible. dont like this post— reblog!!
the binary AGAB/ASAB terms were created with the intent of describing how doctors would mutilate newborns into being "proper females" (afab) or "proper males" (amab)... you dont wanna be using these! they're inherently tied to the medical malpractice involving newborn infants, toddlers, kids and teens. be mindful of that!
i hope that this can be taken lightly and in a "cmon guys this is no good to say" tone. please do take this seriously all-together because its something that irks a plethora of intersex people. have a lovely day!
#perisex#intersex activism#intersex awareness#intersex people#inter#anti agab#agabpunk#agab non conforming#neo agab#xeno agab#afab problems#amab problems#intersex genital mutilation#intersex inclusion#intersex issues#intersex education#intersex erasure#intersex visibility#intersex community#intersex liberation#intersex history#intersex discourse#intersex stuff#intersex ally#intersex thoughts#intersex things#intersex resources#intersex rights#intersex experiences#intersex
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15 and AMAB maybe
This looks like hundreds of people who need punching bags.
*reads tags
Ageism. The answer is internalized ageism.
y’all remember being 15? That was fucked up
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atab: assigned tired at birth
#tired#memes i guess#memes#social justice#human rights#leftist#afab problems#afab#amab#amab problems#being human is exhausting
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My entire family would be pissed off, but I am fine taking my spouse’s name.
*by this I mean like using one name for work/business and using the other in your/their personal life or in private
**meaning if your names are AA and BB you'd change them to AB and BA
I'd appreciate it if you'd reblog to get further teach and more results!! 🙏
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going against the crowd by headcanoning a canon nonbinary character as amab and not afab for once
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yes mutuals i am doing super well don't worry about me
#hastily covers sketchbook filled with drawings of jamie miller#as if drawing him enough will make me feel better.#as if drawing him enough will change some part of our shitty reality.#as if i can fix the problem with these doodles.#big weird long vent here ->#i see a lot of myself in jamie miller. i see him as a mirror of what i could've been if i was born AMAB.#i also grew up with not quite outright abusive; but neglectful parents#i grew up with a father with terrible anger issues and a mother who was emotionally neglectful with a facade of caring.#i grew up with not enough attachment to either of them.#i was never shown how to open up to adults. every time i was never valued or supported. and so i stopped.#i grew up not knowing how to talk to adults about my feelings. i coped by dumping all my things on my child friends.#things i really should have gone to adults about. things i should have gone to a counsellor about.#things i needed help for. many of my friends were in similar situations and thus did the same thing.#and when i was ostracised from irl social groups i too turned to online communities.#i didn't end up in the manosphere#but i did get abused multiple times. i did get myself into toxic places and mindsets. i stayed for longer than i should've.#i am a trans man#i want nothing more than to have been born AMAB#(my personal experience - not all trans men!)#but i wonder what i would be if i was. would i too be a murderer? would i become that?#i feel a certain fondness for Jamie that i can't describe.#he is no sociopath and he is no saint. i do not think he should be idolised or demonised.#i want to hold him and cry. for myself. for him. for Katie. for the real people this happens to. for his family. for my own.
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ok, there is this thing where just like Textbook Autism: The Kind That Gets Diagnosed Early keeps being read at the volunteer space as being anti-community by other people. I don’t know what to do about it because it’s really obvious to me that these volunteers are trying very hard to be part of a community & just communicate in ways that are recognizable as autistic (all self-disclosed!), & I get along with all of them except the one who can’t listen to explicitly-stated boundaries no matter how many times you say them, probably because my dad and several other people in my family also have Textbook Autism: The Kind That Didn’t Get Diagnosed Because The Modern Diagnosis Didn’t Exist Yet, plus Textbook Autism: The Kind That Gets Diagnosed Early. like what do you do besides say “I think this person is actually very community-oriented and that just looks different for them than for you, but you can tell because they are constantly doing things that are obviously a challenge for them as part of choosing to be in this community”??????? and also “you can literally just talk to them about whatever it is you’re worried about and then when you’re done talking about it, if they keep going, say, ‘let’s be done talking about this for xyz reason’ and they will respect that because they’re like…community-oriented?????”
drives me crazy. just fucking talk to them, they are people
#it’s happened to like four different people so it’s a definite pattern#all of them have been people of color and three have been AMAB#the latter three with varying non-femme/non-womanhood-oriented relationships to gender#which I think is relevant - it’s why I bring it up#the guy who can’t respect boundaries is a cis white dude & his problem is princeling disease not autism
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the things id give to go to a church that accepts lgbtq+ sigh I'm TIRED of being called a GIRL
#I would put this on main but I gotta keep on the act of being am AMAB#dear anyone who follows this account surprise I'm acct trans and not born a male💔💔#trans problems#logicalist.screamingcryingcrashingout
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being forced into the binary is truly inescapable but whatever
#‘amab or afab’ ‘transfem or transmasc’ ‘fem presenting or masc presenting’ i’m going to throw you into the river phlegethon#before some idiot finds this post like usual idc about the terms (except afab/amab stop using those) the problem is#presenting them as the ONLY OPTIONS.#ink says some words
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ngl every time i see the "cis" in michael's bio it feels. Wrong. like i see it and i go "i'm probably gonna non conform his gender one of these days"
#the problem i think is i don't know exactly in what way HE'S JUST. HE'S GENDER.#and i know not everything necessarily needs to be put in labels but for the sake of a character bio. It Kinda Does to a certain degree KJDF#i support the transmasc swag michaels the vibes are certainly there but i don't think that's the route mine is going down#MORE SO JUST. that rotting corpse is gnc af. all attachments to being amab are rooted in societal ideas (bc he DOES especially pre 83 get#caught up in seeming 'like a man' or tougher he did try to project an image reflecting his father (who was also constantly putting up walls#and masks whatever you think they may be but i digress) he will be initially hesitant (*cough* closeted) to experiment with gender roles)#but when you pull that back he honestly couldn't give a fuck less! he doesn't think about it all that much!#and yeah that's just. That's What Gender Is. Societal. but look i get VIBES.#or maybe i'm just nonbinary and desperately want to steal his look. who knows really KDFSHJGFHDJK#⁂ ・゚: i was looking for a job‚ and then i found a job‚ and heaven knows i’m miserable now ➛ ooc
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if anyone has any tips for growing out long curly hair (3bish) without it looking shit pls let me know
#my hair has alwats been rlly short bc amab things and i always felt like growing it any longer made it RLLY frizzy#last few years ive gotten a better routine of afro combing it in the shower and finding some products that work but it still feels like it#just grows Out and Up instead of ever going down#i think partially this is bc of not waiitng enough time?#idk tho my hair grows RLLY fast and rn I'm up to abt 6 months from buzzcutting it#as in 6 months of growth#but post shower it still looks VERY short and if i mess with it it just becomes frizzy#like there's no world in which my hair looks Both long and tight curls i guess is the problem?#but idk if i need to grow it out more#i probably should right? for st least a year?#i just dk bc nobody i know has my kind of hair:(((#enbyfication
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"Trans women go through literally all the same struggles as AFAB people and cis women in general-" Dang didn't know trans women could get pregnant
#not that at all afab people can do that but#unserious to act as if there arent some health problems that afaik dont really happen to AMAB people#like wow i had no idea abortion bans affect trans women#don't twist this as me saying they have it better cuz that's not what i meannnnn#like afaik trans women tend to have a harder time accessing other types of care if they DO want to have kids
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really wish more ppl didnt know what afab or amab means because if you called me a “afab, masc presenting non binary person” i think i would have to kill you
#there was something on twt about a new video game character coming out who was non-binary#but ppl were like ‘oh we should have more masc-presenting non binary characters’#idrgaf but a lot of ppl were saying ‘afab non-binary’ or ‘amab non-binary’#like why are you saying shit like this. do u see us as nb or not#also ofc there’s the exceptions when nb pick and choose on what to be called#thats not the problem#but there is a problem when u ppl decide to call nb fem-presenting ppl ‘woman-lite’#and then say a rep in video games could fix that problem. no thats a you problem 😭#i dont even know why im looking at twt anymore bro.#i know this site aint any better but i think twt is becoming the white suprem/acy app as time goes on#im trans-masc/non-binary. i dont think that rlly matters in this context
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kinda alienating 2 be in the trans community but not have your agab apply to you as accurately, if at all, anymore
#austin's problems#it's sorta all#oh you're afab? so that means you're ftm. oh you're amab? so that means you're mtf.#and that's it. just. y'know. the same gender binary swapped around just like. with agabs.#and then there's like. shrug. all trans hornyposting is either abt boypussy or girlcock#both of which are the bee's knees n i'm not shaming anyone bc i do it a LOT but it's like#limiting i guess#i barely see trans hornyposts abt people who have transitioned and i know it isn't as like. quirky and obviously trans to have#girlpussy or boycock but. y'know#and then in my case. i have a pussy but i don't like. Not have a dick either.? it's. a little complicated idk#i'm just rambling now but whatever#this isn't a vent post u can rb just pondering
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seen a couple human freshes that jave triggered the gender envy and idk how i feel abt that...
#some of those human designs just look like this one guy i knew in school#who. still kives on my street actually... we just havent talked in years..#who literally just looks like if id been born amab (people used to ask us if we were siblings)#andd yeah thats. thats gender envy ig. me but taller bigger squarer frame. amab#so many of my problems wouldve been solved if id been amab...
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Oh lort I may have overshared a bit and now idk I may soon be known as Man Cooch McGee 😳
#AMAB Gays if you wouldn’t go to pound town on some man cooch you are part of the problem.#that’s all i’m saying
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