i actually despise the "dark humor because im mentally ill" jokes so much of my generation does. the perpetuation of negative self talk as a way to be relatable to others and bond with people is so fucking harmful? the constant negativity, the eternally glum disposition towards everything, it literally makes you feel terrible even if you think it's "funny". it will lead to a cycle of negative thinking and your brain will believe what you're saying and it will reinforce itself. i wish we could make positive self talk a trend. love yourself bc life is tough and MIs can be hard, but hey look at the positives in life. bond with others over the smallest and most trivial but positive and loving things. im sick of seeing this disease spread. negativity isn't a cure for anything, ever, honestly.
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I know Dood is played as being rather young mentally/emotionally in comparison to the Teens, with them being very curious and impressionable. But part of me really likes the idea that they're holding back a little and in the back of their mind they're like " I can't fucking let these guys know I ate their great grandparents. And if they find out about the NeverWinter Incident I'm FUCKED."
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Xam im dying to know what are some of your ‘sexy’ headcanons about our beloved bird milf?
(He is not objectified enough honestly)
His tits totally bounce when he lands on a surface in hybrid form, gravity and just weight in general causing a nice titty movement
He walks sexy, he has the hip sway, why do you think the sash and the gold bedazzled condom belt are wrapped around his waist, its to emphasise that, cuz his ass phat too
The way he rubs at his jaw and presses a pen/quill to his mouth in thought, imprinting the nib into his lower lip is sexy too, he doesnt get why Ace has an oral fixation, not just for himself but obsessively enjoys making remarks about Marco and his mouth too
His neck, specifically his sternocleidomastoid muscles are really prominent and create a powerful hollow in his throat that aesthetically is absolutely stunning, Marco absolutely has a fuckable throat, with prominence framing the bulge of a cock that could be there yknow yknow
Idk
Hands? Nice hands bc obviously
Like his silhouette and stance is sexy, the phoenix influences an inhuman animalistic grace and attitude to his posture so its very attractive when hes just standing there arms crossed
Marco puts all the positive physical traits people have observed in him as a result of his devil fruit
Ace suggests offhandishly that perhaps no, actually, what if you’re just hot as fuck ?
Marco exe has stopped functioning, impossible lol
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it’s obviously important for ppl to criticize misogyny particularly transmisogyny in trans male communities since thats a trans community issue but if ur also tme and the only thing u ever exclusively talk about trans men for is talking abt us as bigoted misogynists (usually there’s a ‘binary’ slapped in front of it) i genuinely think you need to put the phone down go outside and remember that whatever insane misogynist guys online are saying is not a necessarily a reflection of like things adult men outside of a weird fringe group of freak transmisogynist dudes on tumblr who think the boys should get our own word JUST like the GIRLS or its NOT FAIR!! or whatever (and one coined by a fucking terf at that..) are saying, or justification for behaving weirdly about an entire diverse community of trans people.
again i do not say this to like dissuade ppl from discussing legitimate problems but like a couple points- 'binary' trans men r capable of talking about it ourselves, and we do, and we’re not the ones whose posts get shared about it. and second: if you’re only bringing us up to talk abt how shitty particularly TRANS men are you might have a problem you need to deal with? this is not a shocking statement. like at some point someone has to point it out to you and sit there and take the shit and patiently explain to you it’s that the problem comes when its literally the ONLY thing you bring us up for and act like we're not capable of talking abt this ourselves, and that its a problem how comfortable ppl r for letting ppl speak over/for us if the only similarity they share w trans men is.. an agab and not being cis (yikes!). or if theyre transmasc and male aligned in some capacity but dont have any interest in engaging with or considering themselves a part of like trans men, THEYRE the ones who need to talk abt it, bcuz the (usually 'binary') Trans Men wont (not saying those ppl cant or shouldnt but they may be treated differently for doing so)
first ppl liked using transmeds existing to throw up justification for treating us like a bigoted monolith you (uniquely) Just Dont Feel Safe Around and its normal to make assumptions abt us being transphobic especially if we don't identify by labels deemed 'safe' and Inherently More Radical, and now its pretending we all collectively cant recognize our privilege thru our intense blinding hatred of women and its up to you to save us from ourselves and beat some common sense into the inherently bigoted stupid about gender patriarchy dicksucker boys. like i dont know im tired of it when trans men being accused of only existing bcuz we want to be patriarchy bootlickers i guess is always what radfems have thrown at us, so its not like this negative perception of trans men filtered thru a supposedly progressive lense is new. a lot of adult trans men dont talk abt like particular hot shit thats discussed a lot on here rn (the 'trans misandry' shit for example) bcuz its was not a problem in the spaces we're in and we knew it was stupid as fuck right away and barely worth talking about to say 'yeah you know that thing we all know is stupid and bullshit? its stupid and bullshit'. bcuz we're not fifteen years old or weird misogynists. we have brains, don't hate women, and we dont all know and hang around the same people.
anyway dont take this post as a stand in for serious discussion and calling out misogyny (again especially transmisogyny) w other men, those posts do need to exist, i am not trying to say this stuff shouldnt be talked about. what i'm specifically pointing out is a frustrating pattern in the perception of and discussion of trans men that ppl probably dont realize theyre participating in. i do think it is very important to talk abt community issues and criticisms but if its literally the one thing you bring up trans men for i think being aware of that behavior has no NEGATIVES here. also do have to bring up i specified other tme ppl early on bcuz this isnt smth ive experienced or seen from transfems and their position as like the affected party of transmisogyny is automatically like .. if they have issues w trans men it is pretty inherently coming from a different place than like, a cis womans, or a tme nonbinary person, or a transmasc person with issues with trans men, or a cis mans, etc. tme ppl who are on a very different ground here, whose behavior is straight up different anyway
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