#anon do you not know I'm delusional >:( /j

[hwanghyunjinenthusiast]

let me indulge in some college bestie hyunjin hc bc i’m not over The Look:

- you always save him a seat at the 8am lecture bc you know he’s always late. you don’t even comment on it anymore.

- sometimes still hungover from the night before, he just rests his head on your shoulder and "rests his eyes" as he says, and your heart swells.

- one day, bc you keep pestering him about being late, he arrives on time and it happens to be a day where you’re like 5 minutes late and he gets real antsy. looks around the huge room full of faces, his knee keeps jumping, taps his pen on the desk, decides to spam you with texts "where are you" "good god the ONE time i decide to get there early-" "i’m leaving" "i swear if i don’t see you in the next 30 sec- oh wait i see you"

- won’t admit it but was actually really worried that smth might’ve happened to you

- in exchange would save you a seat at the library. suuuuch a tease tho. you’d get there and whisper an apparently too enthusiastic "hello!" and he’d go like "SSSHHH" dramatically pointing at the silence sign, earning an eyeroll from you

- "omg are you serio-" "SSSHHH" "stop tha-" "SSSHHH" "you do know you’re being more noisy than me, ri-" "SSSHHH" paired with his index right on your lips

- you’d mumble behind his finger "hwang hyunjin, you’re the worst" and he’d just give you an endeared laugh, tickling you under your chin as you would do a cat

- you guys hyping each other up in the areas you’re lacking in

- on the day of a particularly nerve-wracking presentation hyunjin has to do you’d go front row and whisper to him "just like we rehearsed ok? :)" (he really is nervous, eyes unfocused, and he looks like a lost child, cute) you give him a thumbs up and mimic taking a breath in and out, which he does. he gives you a little smile and starts his presentation, adjusting his glasses. you softly shush anyone who tries talking.

- hyunjin is much less subtle but just as supportive. would literally spin around in his chair when people won’t stop talking "shut the fuck up, were you raised in the jungle"

- would actively participate in the post-presentation debate like "as __ so brilliantly pointed out-" you’d hide your face like "omg hyunjin….." but you’re actually so grateful for him

- sharing ear buds and snacks sitting next to each other on the floor of the corridor inbetween classes. once again, falling asleep on each other, at times.

- people knowing that you’re basically attached at the hip so your classmates always asks about the other when one is not there.

- people obviously being all over hyunjin, he’s quite the popular guy, but so confused about what you guys are so they ask him. you never hear the conversations but you know you’ve never seen him come home with one of them.

- him putting you in a headlock while you’re walking to your next class to mess with your hair. sometimes you wonder if he does that just so he can have an excuse to keep his arm slung over your shoulders afterwards. he really never pulls away, doesn’t he?

- late night talks about your dreams and ambitions, lying on the carpeted floor of your shitty studio apartment.

- "where do you see yourself in 10 years?" "in 5 years?"

- your faces are so close, your noses almost touching and it’s silent, you can just hear your synchronized breathing. it’s so comfortable, so cozy, so right. he’s your best friend.

- a whisper: "__, where do you see yourself in 10 seconds?"

Oh my god, anon. These are so sweet and so fucking cute 🥺😭

Bye I love the being attached at the hip dynamic so much. I can visualise him being the type to "glance" over your notes just to make sure he's got everything (he's basically just copying you). Supportive, hype man Hyunjin </3 Always looking out for you and making sure you're not running yourself into the ground because of coursework.

You're so sick for the last half. Lmao, not him yelling at people to shut up so you can explain why you think The Tempest sucks and is Shakespeare's worst, popular play. The lecturer looking on in a mixture of confusion, amusement and annoyance </3. The last bit UGH.

[iovesia]

hi pookie I’m so happy today, it’s my birthday and I’m wondering how Keanu’s characters would pamper the reader on their birthday? Would it be giving them gifts? I feel like jw would do that as well as physical touch, ACTUALLY JOHN CONSTANTINE WITH BIRTHDAY SEX HELLO???? I’m delusional but gosh he would be feeling nice on that day and just let into the reader and treating her nicer than usual (which must include eating her out in the morning cause I swear this man probably gives the best mf head!!! :((( ) John wick on the other hand would probably give her massages no??? Ted Logan would shower her with his cheesy nicknames

(I NEED THEM NEOWWWWWWWW :((((( )

honestly today I need John C. SO BAD THE BRAIN ROT IS REAL ☹️☹️

-🥖 anon

☆ — HOW THEY ACT ON YOUR BIRTHDAY.

[ content. fem!reader! fluff! smut— brief somno! ] ・happy birthday, nonnie! ♡🫧 here's my little gift for you. includes: john constantine, john wick, ted logan.

john constantine.

♪ it's your birthday, so i know you want to rideeeee out ♪

it's damn near out of character how affectionate constantine is with you on your birthday.

MORNING!! AFTERNOON!! EVENING!! ALL NIGHT!! NO BREAKS!!

okay kidding.. kind of.. not really...

he wakes you up with head. you stir awake in the early hours of sunrise to the feeling of soft kisses on your inner thigh. his hands wrapped tightly around your legs, spreading them apart and you can feel his hot breath on your cunt.

"con, what are you.." your words die in your throat when constantine's soft lips meet your wet cunt. arching your back, a whiney moan escapes your throat as his tongue moves faster against your bud of nerves.

"happy birthday, doll."

totally irrelevant— but his raspy morning voice 🧟‍♀️😵‍💫 !!!

he's not very good at actual gift giving unfortunately :// he'd probably pick up some occult trinket or a pretty antique thing that he'd think you like.

constantine would write you a birthday card!! or letter!! he's better with his words. although he's never mushy and sentimental with you all other 364 days of the year— this one day he has an excuse to be extra sweet to you.

it'd be short, but you treasure it like it's your child. even with his cool-i-don't-care-persona, you don't miss the way he's scanning your eyes and your reaction as you read the letter.

"oh my god, this is so sweet!" you gush and he rolls his eyes, a faint smile on his lips. "i love you, john, thank you— really."

he presses a soft kiss to your forehead; "i love you too, dollface."

this might be the first time he's spent a whole 24 hours with you that didn't involve arguing, or running off to battle demons from hell.

⠀⠀⠀

john wick.

two wOOORDDSS: SUGAR. DADDY.

okay i'm joking.

BUTT!!!

he loves to spoil his special girl on her special day :') he's the most thoughtful of the keanu boys. john always pays attention to things that you like or admire at— and would literally run to the end of the damn earth to get it for you!!!

he also gets you a pearl necklace, or some super expensive jewelry to wear.

"john, oh my god," you gasp, holding the golden chain around your neck. the shiny 'j' charm hanging at the end was less than subtle, but made your heart swoon nonetheless. "i can't take this, baby :(( it must've been so expensive—"

"don't worry about that," his baritone voice echoes in your ear, his beard tickling your cheek as he stands behind you. his chest to your back and hands resting on your waist, gazing at your reflection in the mirror. "happy birthday, honey."

john is so sweet to you on your birthday (not that he isn't every other day but he's just so much more doting). he'd spend the whole day with you, doing whatever you want to do.

he feels so guilty that he hardly ever sees you because of his job— and his own internal insecurity that he thinks he doesn't deserve you :(((

so john will go out of your way to make you feel like the only girl in the world.

⠀⠀⠀

ted logan.

oh my sweet, beloved ted.

he's so cheesy it's crazy. ted has that Romcom Rizz™️. most of his moves are from your favorite movies.

he's more excited for your birthday than you are.

like he's just lying down next to you with a goofy smile on his face, waiting for you to wake up. the second you open your eyes, its:

"happy birthday, babe!" he grins, and he gives you a soft kiss on the nose, and then another one on your lips.

"ugh, ted— morning breath!"

he takes you to the arcade!! that's fun!! right? well anything's fun with ted. he spends the whole day making you laugh, and taking you on a wild goose chase around san dimas.

and his gift to you? a song!! what kind of bassist bf would he be if he didn't write songs about the most excellent babe in all of san dimas?? 🤨

"dedicated to the most bodacious babe, my girlfriend!" he winks at you, and picks up his bass— and bill's, of course, standing in the corner recording the whole thing.

you watch as his eyes light up with excitement when he plays his song for you. aside from the occasional off-key note or questionable lyric— you can't stop the dorky grin growing on your lips.

he's a blushing mess, you're a flattered babe, i mean talk about a match made in heaven.

you're the coolest girl ted knows— of course he goes all out for your birthday!!

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[mosviqu]

could u assign ur moots as a particular fic you’ve written??

ANON this is the most fun mutual game ive ever recieved thank u 😋

@csenke is definitely how we make sunny days. her vibe is very much sweet and calming and very very comforting. this fic is very golden hour late autumn vibes which fits her a lot hhh. but also i feel like i should say liebestraum bc....duh.. 🙄

@zzoguri is sympathy subtraction. and mon now, this fic is special to me. but i somehow think you have the same comforting vibe but also you and your work kind of radiate the same longing as this fic does?? also u are a really great friend to me and u kind of fit the vibe of vernon in this fic but also the whole friendgroup.. idk it just fits okay

@satoruly is annoying (derogatory) and listen NOT because you're annoying because youre NOT! but i rlly enjoy the vibe of this fic and somehow i think it fits you...? its kinda fun but also kinda silly but also kinda sweet and i think thats a perfect mix for you

@sungbeam is potential. i dont even know why ?? maybe its the dynamic of the friendgroup and also yn and chenle that kind of reminds me of beam. there is a lot of care in the relationship they share and also a lot of identity crisis in chenle that reminds me of u beam NOT IN A BAD WAY THO its just that i see you as a very complex and interesting person and i think chenle in this has a lot of depth. also just fyi this fic is my top 5 ever and i adore beam a lot so

@decembermoonskz is i'm not angry anymore (well, sometimes i am) for the band vibes idk TT but also there's something about the time i wrote this fic in that reminds me of you. it's my comfort fic in a way and you izzy are my comfort person too

@flowerjun is you're not the only one !! this fic is somehow wholesome but also bittersweetingly sad and something about that is very kyuzu to me :,) also kyu i miss u and i love u. this fic has little sister vibes and thats you to me.

@injangism is all is on my side. a lot of love and longing and missing someone went into this fic and the way mc and jeno love is the type of love we have to each other - never ending, selfless and pure (in my opinion... idk if it shines through in the fic haha). ily sm xx

@kimsohn is sweet like candy :p cool but lovely vibes, very much maya. mc of this has your vibes in my opinion?? also this fic was very fun to write and i always have fun when i talk w u !!!:pp

@winterchimez is the storm's fury and now do NOT ask me why... it's literally league lore...? TT but again the vibes kinda fit and it's one of my only fantasy fics and i think this genre kind of radiates your vibes for some odd reason

@heemingyu is lee felix's guide to hating you. idk i wrote this fic a LONG time ago but i remember it as being very fun but also kind of personal to me ?? i don't really have much reasoning for this becuase sometimes i speak vibes only but if this fic had a trailer/moodboard/something it would be sana vibes for sure

@justalildumpling is just saying NO ARGUING idk for some reason j gives me yangyang vibes in this fic especially. very real, very fun, very self-aware, very silly and very adorably delusional (that fits you as a sunwoo stan). altho i will say you are cooler than yang AHAHA.

[ask-serendipity-sky]

*different anon*

we all see what we want to see, we all shippers are the same

not really

in most groups of people there are the more deranged ones (toxic, delusional), but that’s NOT the whole group, usually it’s the minority.

with tkkrs, it’s their majority (damn near their entire group…)

we may make fun of tkkrs, but we shouldn't blame them for celebrating their ship moments. because if that was jkk, we'd be celebrating too.

yes, people are happy when people they like interact, that’s normal

i like when bts interact with eo bc i’m an army, i like when my bts bias line interact bc they’re my biases, and at times i’m happy when jkk interact bc i support them as a potential romantic couple

but jkk is not the pairing/duo i look forward to

and when they interact it’s not that big of a deal to me (unless they’re doing something crazy… gfct, hickey, shirtless live or photo)

i just happen to think they’re romantically involved/dating, but it’s not bc they’re my favorite duo (not that there is an issue if jkk are your favorite, as long as you like them as a duo bc of their bond and not just bc you think their dating!)

a problem a lot of tkkrs have is they either bias tk or tk is their favorite duo, so that is why they "feel" like they should ship them, even if they don't see anything romantic between tk

the amount of 'non jkk' biased (ex: ym biased or rap line biased jkkrs) jkkrs i've seen get questioned on why they don't ship their biases...

and no if the moments are based off mistranslations or stalker content, i don’t “celebrate” that, also bc i don't see it as "winning"

all shippers tend to give excuses to the other ship moments and try to reduce their ship value, but secretly we all wish it was our ship who did it, like tkkrs with jk's thirst birthday wish, they kept making it a friendly thing between bros, yet they were waiting and hoping for jk to do something similar for tae.

tkkrs are insecure losers, ofc they want other moments that others have (mostly jkk) bc they can see tk are not like that

i don’t care about other duos, and honestly if tkkrs left jm and jk alone, i wouldn’t have to even interact with them as much

bc most of the time, it's me protecting jm and jk AS PEOPLE, NOT BC OF SHIPPING BS

and pointing out non significant things isn't just something we do to tkkrs or vice versa, we do it to ourselves (jkkrs to jkkrs). bc we're aware of bts' culture, language, and jkk's history/bond

everyday, a different ship win and other lose, sometimes it's a good day for jkkrs, other days for vminers. and the members know that, that's why they keep feeding those moments.

the members having normal interactions is not the problem, it’s fans not being able to differentiate between a cute friendship and actual romantic relationships

using skinship or basic normal friendly interactions as a basis for romance, explains the whole they're all fcking/dating eo/poly jokes or only excepting queer members if it's bts as a whole group together or certain 'fan approved' ships (tk...)

but it's not something you should really be doing

and sometimes, even if another ship didn't get a moment, it's our ship that don't behave as we anticipated.

jkk don’t behave like we want bc they are potentially actually dating

it’s why so many fans find it hard to self insert and feel like they're third wheeling, and feel uncomfortable/don’t want to see that

what i'm trying to say, is that we are all the same. we all get hurt by other ships or we wish for more moments for our ship, and it's normal because we have no certainty we're right.

you only get hurt if you are basing a potential romantic relationship off of others and their interactions, and not just the two people you think might be involved romantically

i did not care that th didn’t post for jk’s birthday, and the only reason i would care is bc jk is my bias and i like when his ANY of members interact with him and are nice to him (especially for his birthday)

my basis of jkk being real is bc of jm and jk, not any one else

maybe it's different for you because you have evidence, but for the rest of us, we're just sailing not knowing where the ship will land and it can get sad and frustrated sometimes.

if an idea of a relationship being real or not is enough to affect your emotions negatively, then you need to detach anon, before you project those feelings on to jm and/or jk

you need to learn to love jm and jk as individuals and their bond as it is, not just the idea of them being romantic

Hi anon,

I agree with your answers.

For tkkrs, the absence of proof is proof that Jk and Tae are together. There are no maybes for tkkrs. And then they wrap everything up with hate.

We really should learn to not expect particular behavior from the members or jikook. They are real people who sometimes decide to share stuff with us. When they do, we appreciate it and when they don't, we appreciate that as well and move on.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[brekker-by-brekkerr]

Hi! I was looking through tumblr’s “best of” 2022 and couldn’t believe that Stancy apparently didn’t make the ship list? And I guess Nancy didn’t make the characters list, either. I mean, how can people have talked more about J*ncy? I know that for some weird reason locals were obsessed with them in s1 but wow, it blows my minds that after all the pathetic mess their ship has gone through they’re still that delusional about it? I don’t want to be mean but also it’s just so sad that Steve is there with people shipping him with someone like B*lly… I just think Stancy deserved to be there and to be more acknowledged since, you know, unlike most ships on that list they are canon. We need to talk more about Stancy and what will happen to tumblr antis in s5 when they’re endgame? What then?? I hope I’m there to see it, that’s for sure!🥹 Love your blog & wise opinions btw 🤍

Hi!! Thank you for this ask because I didn't even realise the lists had come out yet. Wow. I'm blown. How are H*rringrove and j*ncy on the list but not Stancy? Two objectively messed up ships (especially h*rringrove. like j*ncy is more subtly wack but H*rrngrove is just straight up messed up) made it over a ship with two people who care about each other and want the best for each other and support each other. like, the ship where a guy non-consensually took pictures of a girl naked and had them developed at a school where others could see, and the ship where a racist guy who abused his little sister almost beat a guy to death, make the list, but not the cute little second chance romance?? Again, why are people so offended by Stancy???

Also on the note of Steve, yeah, it's so sad that he was on the list of most popular tags and he's so well-loved yet people would want him with someone so toxic. It's like, do you really love him at that point? Idk about that.

Also, Nancy not making the character list is disappointing because this is the first year people have started to really like her and talk about her but it's not super surprising because so many people are misogynistic about her. It's disappointing but not unexpected unfortunately :(

I feel like the list can't be real because there were Stranger Things ships on there that I haven't seen talked about as much and others I'm surprised I didn't see. Like how was jargyle on there but not stancy?? (no hate to jargyle i think it works I just never see people post about them)

You're so right, anon. Stancy deserved to be on that list. "We need to talk more about Stancy and what will happen to tumblr antis in s5 when they’re endgame?" I'm with you bestie let's make this happen. Let's put Stancy on the 2023 list. And then we can all scream and cry and dance around together when they become canon.

And thank you so much!! You're so sweet!! Whoever you are ily💛

[strangertheories]

I don't want to raise any false hopes/expectations but do you think there's the possibility they are just slow burning for Ronance? Robin obviously has a thing for Nancy, and I can't tell if she's still into Vickie or not. I don't see J*ncy lasting after Jonathan lied about his college apps, even if its not important. Nancy's smart, she'll find out eventually. Then there's St*ncy which I'm not even going to get into right now, but I'll be very mad if they decide to go in that direction.

Thanks for the ask. Those of you who follow me will know I'm a massive pessimist so I think deep down Ronance probably isn't going to happen... but I still have a smidge of hope. I'm mildly delusional about the ship and nothing can convince me that they aren't in love. They share bras, they hold hands, they have the world's most intense eye contact, they are clearly both girl kissers. I love them so much together that I literally have dreams in which they are canon and have big love confessions which I would turn into fanfic if I could creatively write. And I think narratively it could easily happen as a slow burn ship and it would be amazing.

Johnathan and Nancy are heading towards a break up at full speed so instead of having her fall into the arms of a dude who told her he has a dream of them having six kids despite the fact she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to be a typical suburban mom (look I love Steve and it was a funny haha moment about the mom meme, but that was weird writing), she should fall into the open arms of the world's coolest lesbian, one Robin Buckley.

However, they're really pushing this Johnathan and Steve love triangle annoyingly as well as the fact that Vickie exists to be Robin's love interest. At best, we'd get Robin having a crush on Nancy because of the way she acts around girls that she likes is the same as how she acts around Nancy. I really hope the Duffers get Natalia and Maya to write Ronance interactions because it would be so good and they both ship it but as Natalia said, the romantic tension was not the Duffers' original plan.

HOWEVER as I said, I really do see them together. Like the show could end with Steve and Nancy running away in their RV and having six kids together and Robin and Nancy would have some intense eye contact and I'd believe she loves Robin more. So whilst I don't have faith in the Duffers that they would actually write such a good slow burn queer ship, I still will always believe that they are girlfriends. And you all should too! I'm not trying to ruin the Ronance is canon parade because I really think it would work very well and be great sapphic rep, I'm just a huge pessimist.

Let's pray the Duffers make them canon for now! But even if they aren't, nothing can stop us from shipping them. I'm sorry if this isn't the response you were hoping for, anon. And if someone in the reblogs or replies has some Ronance optimism, please share it!

[mbti-notes]

Anon wrote: I know that I should focus on what's good for my type, but sometimes is makes me sadder than usual.

I'm an INFJ, and my aux Fe has given me a lot of struggle, I can't really grasp it and then I make other people feel bad or feel pity for myself for my emotional incompetence. I know it's just me being defensive and deep down not wanting to open myself to the Fe dimension. Everyday I'm making an effort to be more receptive of what's going on in my surroundings, to be more present so I can be more adaptable to the needs and things that are happening in the moment, to belong to my family and reinforce the relationships I've damaged out of elitism and resentment.

When I started to work on my Fe, things became more depressing: the positive side is that I was slowly being in the same page as everyone else, knowing the things that close people had in common, being more involved in activities and things everyone liked and being more preoccupied to help when there were issues to resolve and collaborate, but the negative side is that, although I was happy I could feel connected with someone that wasn't myself, the days passed and I slowly got more depressed to the point of becoming suicidal.

Out of the blue my head gets filled with cutting, burning and overdosing ideation but I'm not truly able to attempt them cause I despise physical pain, and now I'm starting to get nightmares of people being abused and tortured which is so strange cause my environment is not violent. My family notice all of my erratic goings and doings though I don't wanted to be the person that used to cling to them and dump my negative thoughts as when I was a kid/teen. I feel so bad for them cause they're suffering for my attitude and my inability to articulate what's wrong, I notice they're starting to become more serious/numb and now talk in a cause-effect way (which is clearly how I've been talking all the time, or just emoting like a 7 years old and feeling sorry for even existing).

Two days ago I had a breakdown with my father and it was my opportunity to open up about what's happening (cause he was more receptive that usual) but I couldn't find the words/didn't know exactly what I needed so it stayed the same.

I should be feeling happier than before, but I'm aware it's impossible cause I've implemented wrongly the function use. I kind of know how it's the appropriate way to use it (by being sincere in how I feel and communicate my perspective and how we can solve conflict, in a way the other person can understand. By being genuinely present with people and sharing what we have in common… this could be a reason I don't get along with anyone, cause I don't know what I have in common with others in the moment we engage. My mind is always blank).

I graduated from school 3 years ago and since that I've been at home thinking of what I want to dedicate myself to. It was clear I wanted to do Arts or something more "intuitive" since the beginning, but now I know it won't bring me the stability I need by being a J. I always feel alienated as if I'm doing something wrong by being in that community cause my approach is so "Do it like this cause it's the correct way, not the way you are doing it cause it isn't the correct way" as if there exists a universal way of doing art. I've been in small groups/workshops doing ideas for crafts and I loved them so much, but I kinda feel discouraged when I'm the only one who thinks the way I do. I still don't know how to cope with that.

Once I made a hole for myself by searching for the perfect kind of art (ah, yeah, those pretentious tastes of inferior Se) and it was the beginning of this "I shouldn't do this", I got into things that directly provoked my Ti loop and made me a compulsive consumer of stuff I didn't even wanted for myself, but just to built a façade of a well-knowing person. At the end, I quitted and still trying to quit everything related to art out of fear of becoming delusional again and now I made my panoramic be "what can I do to give a helping hand and contribute to my family and the people I could be relating to everyday?", though it seems more aligned with what is living well, it was still a hollow purpose cause I did it just for redeeming myself, and it leads to the topic I started this ask.

The reason my mind is always blank is because the things that I "like" can't really be connected to a common ground, so it's another reason I restrain myself from joining it. I haven't found a way to make common ground in art cause if I do, it loses the essence I was drawn to in the beginning, it becomes tainted by opinions I don't know how to handle. I don't have anything that outstands. I just sit there in some corner and don't know what to tell other people cause I don't know anything that could contribute to the conversation in the moment. There actually should be a way I can share things I do actually love with people, but for now it sounds better to move on and persevere in searching for something that does feels right for developing my auxiliary Fe, even if I don't know what it is.

What are your thoughts on this? What does this says about me? Am I terribly lacking something crucial? and what should I prioritize in my situation?

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Your way of using Fe comes at your own expense, which is unhealthy. Fe grants you the necessary tools for gauging the emotional balance (or imbalances) between people, but it doesn't magically grant you the social skills for establishing the right balance. It is up to you to learn better social skills for using Fe properly. This topic has been covered in previous posts, so do a search.

What is the purpose of developing aux Fe in the first place? Is the purpose to become a false and unhappy version of yourself? Certainly not. It's understandable to feel different when you are in fact different, but it's not healthy to be fake to fit in or take difference as superiority/inferiority - these are the wrong interpretations of "difference". Healthy Fe should be welcoming and inclusive of differences. It is unhealthy Fe that villainizes difference.

You have to learn to express yourself authentically and handle what comes after that. If people validate you, great. If they don't, talk through it or move along. The problems you're describing come when you can't move on because you've taken the differences and invalidations too personally. You feel hurt, and instead of facing up to the hurt maturely, you channel it into the poor judgment of Ti loop.

Overindulgence of the auxiliary function tends to happen when people forget that the dominant function should come first. Aux Fe is there to serve dom Ni, so what is it that Ni needs from Fe to feel as though you are going in the right direction? If you can't even answer the question of "what" you need, the question of "how" to get it shouldn't even be entertained yet. The Type Dev Guide explains that you should ideally develop your functions in the order of the functional stack. Doing things out of order can lead to unexpected and undesirable consequences.

[zgvlt]

Hi👋🏻I'm here to say that I'm ABSOLUTELY ADORE your Riddle x Reader fic ❤️❤️❤️

vdoabsiwnshj I didn't expect my ask to be this long. Sorry(?)🙏💦 This is kind of embarrassing so I'm going anon🙈🙈

The way you portray Riddle and Reader is not really something I often seen in the fandom.

Instead of the quite common "Troublemaker x Rule Sticker" or "Slacker x Hard worker", it is "scholar-lord x scholar-lord", two people who have chemistry with each other, but put their first priority on studies instead of relationship is just🤌🤌 hsabpwycdkpshsvsjskskskwhwpb

Therefore, the ending is very satisfying for me🤭🤭 "Maybe more than friends, less than lovers"=my fave trope💁‍♀️ I'm so lovin' it~♡

About ur characterization of Riddle, I really like how his need of having to be the dominant one/in control is there and also very on point😭😭😭😭 He couldn't bear being looked down on/underestimated, to the point even something so small, like the reader sitting on desk would look like towering over him sorta irks him in a way---one of the reason why the 'empty classroom part' is my fave scene🥺🥺🥺

Listing other stuffs I like below. Or else, this ask would be longer than it already is🤣🤣🤣

the way you write Riddle thinking he is subtle with his thing, but is actually not😂

Riddle's lab coat voice line reference😆😆😆

Stages of feelings development from Riddle's side [jealousy/respect👉🏻adimiration👉🏻appreciation👉🏻adoration]

Riddle being 'dense, but not too dense'+"But why would you want my attention anyway? Because you wanted to be my friend?" Idk why this cracks me up so bad🤣🤣

The way Riddle goes from refusing the idea of like-like to as I interpret subconsciously(?) accept the inevitability coming and his jealousy dyed down at the end😲😲, to which his feelings is now "not yet on the crush phrase, but the fondness is there(?)"👀

Riddle refusing to use the L word🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jealousy from both sides are stemed from respect of the other person

"Jealousy won't just disappear because you befriend someone or end up loving them" Feeling sm resonance over this😭😭😭

How Reader seems calm and nonchalant, but can be quite emotional(?) I've always love the idea of Riddle's s/o being an emotionally mature person that would cool themselves down or both of them whenever thry sennse their argument is seemingly escalating

The argue part, plus I totally agree with you on the "Riddle would be good with someone who could argue with him."

Extra note on (10)

As I think arguments is not 100% a bad thing, clashes and conflicts can serve as a way of knowing each other on a deeper level+broaden perspectives (which I hc Riddle' would learn to appreciate), just careful the words not to hurt the other too much+properly make up

[talking about this fic]

oh my god you know when when the ask notif popped up i went to click it and my phone crashed i was like (!!!) is smth wrong with the ask? nathya getting hacked era? but no it was just my phone

anon who are u do i know u 🤔 you type like people i know but i'm also delusional so 🤷‍♀️ but also ANON not to be parasocial right now UR MY NEW BESTIE YOU GET ME YOU GET ME!! i thrive off of feedback like this so scrumptious while reading i went from 😴🤒😷 (i was feeling ill) to 🤩🤭😳 i was smiling and all!!

riddle... when he brings up the friend part he's sort of like, "i mean, if you were also jealous me, then maybe you wanted to be my friend. that was what i was going through"

(8) is me @ my own experiences 😝 since i like dumping my emotions and turning them into fics, but it's true! the people i've been most jealous of are easily my closest friends so yk! life advice from nathya HAHAHA /j

And yeah on (10) i agree! Of course there are healthy ways to go about it, as long as they remember to take a step back to properly communicate, but yeah to better phrase it I see Riddle best with someone who can challenge him, not just academically but in general (but academics is a good way to start)

[minkkumaz]

what songs do you associate your moots with ?!

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omg i am blushing i have my first anon AHA i wasn't thinking about adding a list but if you're gonna be here often i'd love to have u! i love this question so much cause i've really met so many lovely people through tumblr since i made my account! woonhakist : broken melodies or best friend ever by nct dream - jordan is literally the sweetest person, and my best friend despite not knowing eachother for awhile. - when we first started talking we very easily bonded over these two songs. - broken melodies reminds me about how whipped we were when this song first came out. - but best friend ever is literally us. we will be singing along n shit! - our lyric is "we are the two as one." skullverse : better (with you) by crying city - i'm going to be so for realsies, it's quite hard for me to explain to anyone the reason behind this song. - and to be frank, i've barely even listened to it. - just know that we have the biggest inside joke about this song that has been going on forever LOLL. - whenever i hear the title i am immediately looking over to vix with a smirk on my face. adorhannie : she had the world by panic at the disco - pearl gives me the biggest like... - she gives me aesthetical vibes. like she's just so kinda and laid back you know? - her profile is as cute as her and shes such a little sweetie. - i love this song because it gives me major comfort vibes and thats honestly what i get from her. woon2u : stupid for you by waterparks - ah, my most delusional moot /j. - a lot of our interactions have been about bnd, and i know they be going CRAZY over these boys. - but honestly im right with them on that LOL. - i think this song is really good and i don't know why but it just gives me vibes yknow. - em is definitely a hopeless romantic and i feel like they genuinely would go great lengths for someone they like. - hence why this song choice.

[strawberrybabydog]

why are non delusional and/or psychotic people so. Rude?? like LOL be nice

like i’ll go ”hey, i have delusions & paranoia around X, please don’t and they’ll go ”oh cool do X more? get my friends to join in? and justify it bc of mildly-squint-in-the-right-light-problematic stuff you did as a child <3”

the intersection between mob mentality cancel culture snd sanism is so strong and fucked up

- clownie anon on the wrong keyboard again rip

sane (and abled) ppl tend not to take mental illness nd disability very seriously. typically if they can make a joke about something (especially something that makes them uncomfortable) they will do it 10/10 times, because they don't care about us, only themselves/their own comfort. i tend not to tell people i'm schizophrenic because, well, it's rarely relevant to them, and also because they often react poorly; "you're not ACTUALLY psychotic, i know psychotic people, they kill people" "REALLY? (thinks im lying)" "[insert some intrusive question]" "but you don't look schizophrenic? (sorry lemme just *shapeshifts into a werewolf*)" "a mutual friend of mine in highschool had a psychotic break and [something horrible happened to them]" basically just... equally unwanted reactions. super inappropriate stuff to be saying to me - implying i'm violent, faking my trauma, shouldn't be alive/should be institutionalized, etc.

however, when the day comes that a republican-christian tells me the devil is inside of my head/i need an exorcism/theyll pray for me.... i am going to whip out slushpuppy at the speed of light and tell them to look into the devil's eyes. satan is real and he is my plush dog /j. i mean seriously, my plushes talk to me, are u really gonna tell me my pink, glittery plush snail is a demon? LOL!! i also have a spiritual delusion of being a messiah so uh. ironic that ur praying 4 me... LOL /lh

i consider myself lucky to have never encountered this sanism, and i personally attribute it to never sharing my triggers (absolutely not victim blaming! it is not anyone's fault if they get harassed because they share their triggers!! sharing triggers =/= invitation for harassment, just talking about personal my experience) but even so, internet culture has a big problem with fake-claiming which i think plays into this sort of behavior a LOT. their perception of psychotics is... the things people say to me, above - we're violent, visibly psychotic, etc. even if someone is faking psychosis on the internet (which doesn't happen on purpose, i see misinformation leading to mis-self-diagnosis every once in a while but its not malicious or purposeful) it's still not justified to harass them or try to trigger them on purpose. it's not the funny joke they think it is, obviously. triggering people on purpose is evil /srs.

TLDR, i'm angry with you clownie. i'm sorry this happened to you, and every other person it's ever happened to. whether someone is "faking" psychosis or not, they still deserve safety and kindness. this sort of thing will probably continue to happen until non-psychotics start to take us seriously and listen to us.

[whengeorgiawentblue]

The people right now sending ridiculous and offensive anons about things they know nothing about just need to grow the hell up.

They don't seem to realise that saying shit like Misha is in rehab is just outright disgusting. Not because rehab is offensive, I've got major respect for people who realise they need it, but because he's not fucking in it and it's not something to joke about. Though I'm sure they're happy to make fun of it and forget their precious J*ared was in there and you know that's brave.

Others saying Vicki was the one who wanted a divorce. So they're prophets as well as prats now are they?! And again, it doesn't concern them what happened. Not their marriage or their choices or what those two people are going through.

This isn't about who ships who. It's about growing a brain that these people clearly don't have and realising that these people are celebrities, strangers and have literally nothing to do with our lives. We're not their friends or family, we're people who support and like them for what they show us. They need to understand that all they're doing is spreading hateful rumours about a good person.

I will say this though, for people who are sure Cockles shippers are so delusional, they certainly spend a lot of their life targeting Misha with these shitty comments. I wonder who it is that they feel threatened by 🤔

Your rant is perfect, nothing else to add 👏👏👏👏

[hologramcowboy]

You’re responses to that last elta stan and Jared hater are honestly amazing. You’re so patient with having to repeat the same thing. Literally, couldn’t be me, but I realize you have to have patience with those types of people. I’ve also notice that once you and many others called Danneel out on her bullshit, they just have to bring up Jared and Gen. I think somewhere deep down they know you’re right so they have to start hating on J/G, because compared to the Ackles, they have the best parenting styles and their marriage is more authentic. All they have to do is watch their AD tour and the way Jared talks about her and the kids compared to the Ackles. Like I said deep down they realize the inconsistencies and discrepancies between the Ackles, they just don’t want to admit because that effects the perfect picture they painted of the Ackles.

Yes but people, instead of engaging common sense, prefer to engage in delusional tirades and attacks just because someone expresses an opinion. I know I am wasting my breath cause these people are out of range when it comes to logic, reasoning and empathy but I also think that maybe if they stop to actually communicate instead of acting like walls then they can see that no one has bad intentions and that people can co-exist even if they have differing views. And I'm not always patient, sometimes I respond in fairly bitchy ways especially If I have reason to believe people are coming at me with certain agendas trying to turn this blog into a battleground for their nefarious objectives. Thank you, Anon, your comment moved me. ❤️❤️❤️

[theangryjikooker]

hii, since your posts are a bit different from usual jikook blogs (i find it more realistic and objective), i would like to know ur opinion/thoughts about the JM tattoo on jungkook's hand (because i keep thinking that's related to jimin, then i think that maybe it stands for something else) so yeah i want to know someone else's thoughts about it.

idk if you have talked about it before. if u did, can u please share the link of the post.

thank youu!

Not an anon! Hi there, and thank you!

My first reaction to analyses about their tattoos? ...HAHAHAHAHAHA. Please don't think I'm laughing at you for asking me this question, but it's the type of analysis that I just can't take seriously.

My stance on tattoos is this (and when I say you a lot, it's a general you): tattoos are a personal thing to the person who's getting them. There's some kind of self-entitlement going on to think that you somehow know and can infer what their tattoos mean, and then parading your theories around like it HAS to stand for [insert pro-ship reason here]. Like how fucking dare you, honestly.

Now, if I stood back a little and humored the thought a little bit, I've seen people try to legitimize the JM tattoo in that because Jimin's name can often be shortened to JM, and that Jungkook himself will put J+M together (e.g., that one Run! ep), it means Jungkook has some awareness of how it would be interpreted when those two letters are close together. I can see that logic as being valid, but it's not proof of anything. What Jkkrs are doing here is speculating, and it should be treated accordingly. Who's to say that the J doesn't just stand for his own name? No one can say it doesn't. If we want to go down the delusional rabbit hole, I can come up with some wacky theory that wearing rings worn on the ring finger in Korea (after some quick, but not thorough, Googling) represents a commitment, and that he's making a commitment to himself by getting permanent ink there. Maybe it's a way to honor who he is and his life choices to get where he is now. Maybe it's a way for his name to be symbolically close to ARMY that he has tattooed on his knuckles.

Really, honestly, truly--who has the right to determine what his tattoos mean?

Even writing and re-reading that, I sound fucking mental. That's also what people who explore the tattoo meanings sound like.

Don't even get me started on people who invert the A and start mixing up the letters in all sorts of ways to represent all seven members. Those people are pulling at strings and embarrassing themselves in the process (and inadvertently lending credence to JM standing for Jimin, which is hilariously ironic because these same people’s motivations in doing so were to invalidate JM in the first place). ARMY stands for ARMY, and it's the only obvious thing aside from his numbered tattoo on his hand. People need to leave it alone. His tattoos are beautiful as is, end of story.

And listen, if Jungkook himself comes out one day and says, "Yes, it always stood for Jimin," then at that point I'll eat my own dirty socks. But until that happens, it's none of my or anyone's business.

@kookieeez, a reminder that I'm not directing my irritation at you. You are lovely. It is, however, a topic that floors me when Jkkrs think they can adapt things personal to Jungkook as their own.

[xshazxx]

(I'm the anon who told about my sister)

I'm really sorry for her, too, and for you :(

seriously, it broke my heart so much because she was so happy to have found both Ro and Rafa. She didn't even know my thoughts on J (I don't like her, but it's mostly because something about her makes me uncomfortable) and before reading the interview she was just like "oh, the title says he found someone who loves him anyway. That's so nice:)" just so she could be disappointed after reading it.

And, sincerely, I get her. She was also cornered by someone close to us about her sexuality, and it made her feel so uncomfortable and somehow violated, you know? She told me she wanted to have her chance and do it in her own terms, coming out to people she trusted the most.

I guess it was what most hit her in all of that. She said "so he felt comfortable to come out to two friends, and then got pushed like that by the person who should respect him the most? That's painful and sad. Maybe it's because of actions like those that he didn't feel like telling her at all".

My sister also pointed, in her rage, that people would never be praising that attitude if the roles were reversed. If he was the one pressing her to come out? Monstrous. If he made a comment about how she shouldn't trade him for Taylor Swift? C'mon, what a jackass.

My sister also came up with the "do you think the question would've come up if he was making out with a woman? Or is only questionable when he is paired up with a man?:

This is not about whatever other ship might exist, but she also said that, with all her caring, she wished they would break up. My sister doesn't even know their relationship at all, but she said something after that that I just couldn't agree more.

"If she [J] can't respect his time or keep her possibly harmful thoughts to herself, and if she sees his work, his other relationships, and his friend as a threat, plus somehow makes his coming out about her, then something is really wrong. With her. And that's bad for him and the both of them".

(Sorry again about the rambling. Just tell me to shut up and I will)

No please keep rambling because I have so thoughts in common here; people call me crazy and delusional but the more people that can see it too makes me feel better

[ginmo]

How confident are you that J/B will actually happen? I have to say, I'm feeling a bit nervous right now, after more of the leaks get confirmed and Nikolaj talks so much about Jaime being monogamous and so openly about how he is pro-JB. It makes me fear he's being so open because he knows now it's not going to happen and there's no spoiling at saying that. :(

I understand how you can interpret the interviews that way, but I’m 100% confident that Jaime and Brienne are happening. Remember, Nikolaj and Gwen know the fates of Jaime and Brienne, and since season 3 they have been throwing “love,” “in love,” “confused,” “feelings” and amping it up every promo season. Nikolaj even use the term soulmates, bless.

If Nikolaj and Gwen know that they have to play this pairing as a slow burn romance between two stubborn as fuck characters, their comments in the interviews aren’t going to be disappointed and bitterness. Their comments are going to be setup so the audience knows how to interpret their scenes, and for Nikolaj, an inability to keep chill. Also, if you notice, during each promo season their comments are almost identical in every interview, indicating that this is something that has been rehearsed and possibly fed to them by the showrunners.

Considering how Nik and Gwen were paired together now, of all times, for video interviews and pretty much every single promo for this season, and Nik completely unleashing his shipper soul, I’d bet money that the showrunners realized how the Brienne and You Know Who thing got out of hand. I wouldn’t be surprised if they got a little concerned that the Jaime and Brienne story wouldn’t land with the viewers, so up the promos! Remind people that this story is still a thing because they’re probably coming back to that relationship again this season.  

Now for what’s seen in the show…

Nobody really knows why they are dragging out twincest and keeping Jaime around in KL, but imo the only reason why Jaime is still with Cersei is because the writers think it will increase the shock factor when he ends up with Brienne.

Jaime is definitely headed North by the end of the season, and that’s just always been my guess for his arc. Tywin had three conversations about him needing to leave the KG, be his heir and lead his House, then he was actually removed from the KG, and then Littlefinger in S6 made a comment “the Lannister’s have never brought their army this far North” and Jon said the same thing to Sansa in the first episode of season 7. Without a doubt, Jaime Lannister is going North, which means he’s away from Cersei. Unless Brienne fucks off to Tarth and doesn’t fight in the war (which I highly doubt), he will be in the same place as Brienne, and they will go through another life or death situation and… well, you can fill in the rest ;)

Some would argue that the writers setup plotlines and then drop them, but Jaime and Brienne are different because they are an endgame plot. How Jaime’s character development is handled is a whole other topic that people can debate about, but it in no way affects whether or not Jaime and Brienne will end up together. In other words, Point A and point B are determined, but how the writers get to point B is entirely up to them, and if you see it as messy and inconsistent or totally logical and consistent then that’s your opinion. In the end, Jaime and Brienne will end up together, regardless of the journeys that led them there.

If Jaime and Brienne were meant to remain friends, or end up as an dropped story, they wouldn’t have continued building it up in season 5 and season 6. I’m not even going to bring up the setup for season 2-4 because it would take an eternity.

S5

- The Memory

They finally introduced some sort of adaptation of Brienne’s horrible childhood. What was the topic of this memory? Romantic love. This isn’t some memory of why she admired Renly, it was why she fell in love with him. Why? Because prior to mentioning Renly, she talks all dreamily about how the boys said they wanted to marry her and take her to their castles. By including this scene, they are establishing three things:

Yes, Brienne is interested in men.

Yes, Brienne was in love with Renly (why people doubt this I just…..??? I mean it’s been stated many times she was in love with him butmovingon)

Yes, Brienne has a romantic side and therefore is a legit candidate for a love plotline. It wouldn’t be broughten up in the narrative if it wasn’t essential to her arc.

Brienne was introduced to us on a romantic storyline (Renly). The first couple of conversations with Jaime and Brienne were about honor/loyalty and her love life. Oh look, what theme has been playing out and getting resolved for Brienne in S4, S5, S6, and S7 when she was off finding the Stark girls and the moments she spoke with Jaime? Honor and loyalty. What other factor was there in the background, popping up randomly, like her childhood story to Pod in season 5? Love life. And what happened in S6 that the showrunners allowed through the edits? The Ship That Shall Not Be Named. In other words, Love life.  

People think Brienne’s story is to be this great warrior whose purpose is to just help “the good guys” out with a sword and that’s the only lens they see her through. They don’t see that being a strong fighter is just an aspect of who she is and has a small role in her overall arc. It complements her narrative, but it’s not the focus of it. The focus is questioning honor and blind loyalty, and finding reciprocated love for the physical “Beast.” The two go hand in hand (this applies to Jaime as well…slowly and eventually. Their arcs match.) 

- Tarth

They wouldn’t have gone out of their way to film Jaime drooling over Tarth. If you think about it, they had to spend money creating the set, doing the effects, and hiring a bunch of extras to stand around, all so that Jaime could stare and smile at this freakin island that is the residence of some woman he just respects…

Yeah.

S6

-The tent scene. 

I assume they were directed to act that scene as suppressed and confused romantic desire since a) Nikolaj called the sword his heart and b) the writers and the director said their relationship was “complicated” and that Jaime has “undercurrents that he’s uncomfortable feeling.”

Nevermind that they felt it important enough to speak about this specific scene and their feelings in an Inside the Episode segment, when there were dozens of other scenes to choose from. Jaime and Brienne are friends guys gaaaawd.

- The wave goodbye.

Yeah. Again. Same point as in the Tarth scene, but minus the extras.

If they had no intentions to get Jaime and Brienne together by the end of this series, they could have omitted the tent scene, or at least altered the tent scene so that there was not round three of extra long eye fucking…. for just friends.

So no worries anon. They will get together, whether it’s brief or for the long term. If there is one thing I am obnoxiously confident about it is that by the end of this series it will be known by even the delusional fans that these two fools are in love.

[strawberrybabydog]

I hope it's okay to send this ask, feel free to ignore it. I've been very confused lately. First off I guess I should mention I have bpd. I kin to cope, like I willingly choose characters that make me feel better and help me identify my emotions and whatnot. Sometimes I call these characters me. Lately, however, I've been getting involuntary thoughts, my brain calling a character "me", and it feels... weird. I tell my brain no, and I ask myself why I can't just enjoy a character without having to somehow make it about me. I feel these thoughts are very mild delusions, maybe a budding delusional misidentification. Do you know of anyone that's experienced this or do you have any advice/thoughts? Thank you in advance.

Yeah! You actually aren't [other]kin though (as "kinning to cope" isn't possible,) that's called a copinglink - some type of persona created or adopted to help [a person] cope in some way. It's really common to have a fictional character as a copinglink though, and I'm really happy to hear that you can identify your emotions through characters - that's a super important self-discovery! It's possible and also very common for copinglinks to turn into kintypes (or endels.) My own endelity started as a copinglink, but a few years after, my brain started accepting it as a reality.

My diagnosis /j? You've got a fictional copinglink thats turning into a fictionkintype!

Ultimately it's up to you whether or not you accept this part of yourself, and it's up to you to learn whether it truly is a delusion (endel) or not. I'd highly recommend learning more about psychosis and delusional disorder though, as they're complicated subjects and to call a kintype an endel would be spreading misinformation that can harm both otherkin as well as psychotics

Wishing you luck and sending you love anon <3