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#made myself a worry stone with spikes to try snd stop myself scratching my skin. so far its kinda working. i just need to make sure i keep#it where i can easily get at it. it has smooth spikes ahd hooked spikes so i can properly pull at it. i still itch to scratch but this is a#better redirection#i have a patch on my neck that i keep scratching raw. and my forehead has been bleeding. so i need to do something.#its odd as my other compulsions have been pretty chill. saw a spider and didnt chrvk my whole flat#but i guess bc ive been concentrating on that ive been less on top of thr scratching to feel smooth and clean. so this is what happens#tw skin picking#i have dnd on Monday. i am. anxious. it will be fun and okay but i am pretty deeply scared of fucking it up#its a good first character though. pleasant and superficial to speak to. which i can do. i want to do more in future but this is a good#start. ill take this for now. my friend is helping me. she walked me through combat today and i feel better about that now. the rest i can#make sense of.#im gonna make myself a tracking sheet so i know when i have done/need to do things#bleh. itll be okay. itll be fun! chances are i wont fuck it up! bleh!#OH YEAH i also bought an ear stretching kit so thats exciting. i want to get to a 10 guage as i love the look of tunnels abd want to wear#multiple sets of earrings properly. deeply exciting. lmao my birthday money has gone on a tattoo and an ear stretching kit#sorry grandma 😂😂😂
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Camille Saroyan master of autism accommodations
#half her job is listening to and redirecting her employees when they’re infodumping#where it’s not necessary for there to be bright lights they’re Always dimmed#strong perfumes and colognes are an unspoken no go#ok might be projecting my hatred of scents there#it takes her a while to get used to working in that type of environment#all the behaviours she was taught to hide away are so prevalent at the jeffersonian#but by s4/5 she’s better at understanding what the team needs from her as their boss in term of accessibility#(even if they won’t say what they need cough cough Brennan)#these accommodations seem to help her too but she’s not gonna think about that too much#bones 2005#bones tv#camille saroyan
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"The last thing I want to say: on our journey you kept saying how you and the Mighty Nein were assholes, or not good people. I don't know much, Mr. Caleb, but I know that is not true at all. My blood, the way I look, makes people hate me. They fear me, tried to kill me, call me a monster, a freak. Even the people I try to help sometimes turn on me when they see me for what I am. But when I met you and Jester and the Nein, you didn't do that. You helped me. You made me laugh. You apologized and assured me. You were kind to me. You are not assholes, Mr. Caleb. You're strange and a bit weird. You protect the people you care about. I'd give 1,000 treasures to have people like that in my life. My friend, Magda, tells me that every time I say something bad about myself, I am putting iron weights in my pockets. Sooner or later, you'll drag yourself down and not be able to get up. Be kind to yourself, Mr. Caleb. I don't want your pockets to get too heavy.
Thank you, Calianna"
#anytime anyone tries to tell me the nein suck or are mean or whatever again i shall simply redirect them to this letter#especially compared to bh in a lot of ways#*cradles the nein gently* you're all my beautiful princesses with disorders and lovely transformative plots about how kindness#and support can make people better and thereby make the world better in turn#yes another c2 rewatch#cr2e71#i just really love this letter sorry for copying down like. most of it
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[COMMUNICATION / TS / NPS
Hello, this is Nine Poisoned Skies, if you're hopefully seeing this, I have a question.
Have you somehow found an abnormal amount of supercells/strong storms near or at your location? A iterator in my group has released metric tons of silver iodide in the atmosphere and i'm really feeling it. You are probably a ways away from the incident ground zero, but I still want to know if you can see it. You can send the telemetry data back to me.
The skies are very poisoned here. Ironic.
( Yes. The answer is yes. The data will be sent when they're done bickering- )
#rain world#rain world oc#rw iterator oc#rw oc#answered#oc ir#oc inevitable relativity#oc moti#oc mercies of the insolent#decided to bring them out before their introduction because the ask was too perfect :'3#sorry it's not TS-#it is in character though that he redirects messages to anyone more knowledgeable or better equipped to answer#low self-esteem and such~#also I promise this isn't a serious fight- these two get along quite fine actually XD#siblings bickering~
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Fucked up Mouthwashing fix-it AU where Jimmy is able to grapple with his homo/bisexuality properly but instead of this making him healthier or more normal it just causes him to noncon Curly instead of Anya. As a result he doesn't crash the ship and they all make it safely to their destination and Jimmy manipulates and guilts his way into living with Curly afterwards even as the rest of the crew goes their separate ways. Everyone is happy except Curly :)
#jimmy is also not happy but also he did this to himself#jimcurly#tw noncon#mouthwashing#nff#because!!! the whole game was about anya#the consequences of jimmys actions#he crashed the ship because anya was pregnant and he knew he would be found out one way or the other#forced to take RÊSPØNSÏBÍLÎTY#....but if you take that away#curly cant get pregnant (unfortunately). jimmy not redirecting his obsession means that curly gets the full force of it instead of anya taki#ng the brunt bc wanting a woman is 'better' (noncon aint good no matter how you splice it jimjam)#which MEANS that jimmy has no brakes to hit no limit to how much he can abuse curly without someone noticing#bc unless he does it IN FRONT of someone no one's going to notice. curly is expected to be their Strong Captain™#hed be even less obvious than anya—and anya was SUBTLE the hints were there but u def had to look she wasnt wearing victimhood obviously—jus#t bc no one would be looking for it#anyway#im going mildly insane you guys want anything
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im doing a lot better now!
#ace attorney#i love adrian :) i think abt her a lot#she's like 'you guys saved me and i feel a lot better now bc of you' like we didnt try accuse her of murder girl IM SO SORRYYYYYY#one thing i did rlly like abt her in 2-4#was like. phoenix's savior complex in putting all his faith and trust in his clients yea?#and well engarde betrayed that so it was like#this little sink of despair. but adrian ohh adrian she asks phoenix for help when everyone is at rock bottom and when it seems lost#and phoenix does. she becomes his new 'client' to redirect that faith towards#she's been through so much and was so so important to turning 2-4 on its head#IM GONNA GET YOU OUTTA HEEEEERRREEE#i was delighted to see her again when starting aa3 and so soon! im so happy for her. love her so much#definitely top 5 witnesses for me#she got her riza hawkeye fit on ...
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i did this and YOU can also do your own.
#aang#zuko#sokka#katara#azula#toph#mai avatar#mai atla#avatar kyoshi#ozai#ursa atla#ursa avatar#suki avatar#suki atla#atla#avatar the last airbender#iroh#he isn't a bad character but ppl overblow how good of a person he is when he does a lot of sus stuff#see: deserved better category. my good sir that is your 14 year old niece i know she just zapped you#but pushing your 15 year old nephew to FIGHT HER WITH LIGHTNING (he tried to teach him to use it b4 redirecting it)#traumabond coping with zuko bc lu ten died + the june stuff (i ignore they wouldnt make that in the show if it was made now but still)#MY GUY FIGHT YOUR UGLY PDF FILE BROTHER HE DISFIGURED YOUR NEPHEW/CHILD BASICALLY
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Feeling really frustrated with rhubarb today/ this week.
#hopefully I can fix it#I just put SO MUCH EFFORT into making her life enriched and she spent all of her time out today trying to nest on all the bird room shelves#the couch the table#her food bowl her foraging bowl#and I can’t redirect her successfully#I feel like I’ve tried everything to help her be less hormonal#I know I’ll feel better in the morning but#/ negativity#the reality of parrot care
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in light of the Roll From The Hip announcement, here's something that I've been concerned about for a while:
(p.s. if you answer no it'll also be great if you let me know why in a reply or reblog :])
#shoot from the hip#I know that there are some people in this fandom who are completely unfamiliar with d&d#and like I feel like it could be useful? but also idk if it would be better to just have a link redirect to an actual d&d website#(I've been obsessed with d&d for the last couple of years now so it's not a matter of knowledge lol it's just idk if it's worth the effort)#I'd love to hear y'all's opinions on this :]
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Parashat Pəqudei: עָשׂוּ | asu
My very first year in undergrad, I took a course in philosophy, which impressed on me, among other things, the ease of critique compared with the difficulty of construction. Poking holes in others’ work is much less challenging than building something sturdy enough to resist such poking. Skepticism is safe: If you don’t commit yourself to an idea before you’re convinced it’s flawless, you’ll never have to commit to anything, because nothing will ever be that securely established; by never going anywhere, you avoid the danger of crashing along the way.
[I’m putting on a reading of the first act of my new opera this May! It’s got a rad cast, and I’m really proud of the music I’m writing for it. And there’s a livestream!]
ALEXII ANTEDILLUVIANOVICH PRELAPSARIANOV, the world’s oldest living Bolshevik: How are we to proceed without Theory? . . . Change? Yes, we must change, only show me the Theory, and I will be at the barricades, show me the book of the next Beautiful Theory, and I promise you these blind eyes will see again just to read it, to devour that text. . . . If the snake sheds his skin before a new skin is ready, naked he will be in the world, prey to the forces of chaos. Without his skin he will be dismantled, lose coherence and die. Have you, my little serpents, a new skin? Then we dare not, we cannot, we MUST NOT move ahead!
— Tony Kushner, Angels in America (Perestroika, Act I scene i)
My very first year in undergrad, I took a course in philosophy, which impressed on me, among other things, the ease of critique compared with the difficulty of construction. Poking holes in others’ work is much less challenging than building something sturdy enough to resist such poking. Skepticism is safe: If you don’t commit yourself to an idea before you’re convinced it’s flawless, you’ll never have to commit to anything, because nothing will ever be that securely established; by never going anywhere, you avoid the danger of crashing along the way.
This phenomenon is hardly limited to the ether of academia. You may well have encountered it yourself on social media: people whose accounts seem solely given over to pointing out the failures and limitations of this or that proposed solution to some crisis or other of the many in our current moment. Nothing goes far enough, nothing runs smoothly enough, nothing accounts fully enough for the immeasurable complexity of the world. These people are often not wrong — their points are often incisive and rigorously argued — but they leverage their truths not in the service of making the next action better targeted, the next legislative bill better written, the next change more systemic, but instead in the service of rejection, condemnation, inaction. All human action is imperfect, and thus all human action is open to critique; if you refrain from acting until the perfect, un-critiquable action presents itself to you, you will never act. In smug, skeptical stasis, you will be immune from the failures of flawed attempts at bettering the world, but also you'll never better the world. Prelapsarianov would be proud.
This week, the Israelites finish making all the stuff for the Mishkan: כֵּן עָשׂוּ בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אֵת כׇּל הָעֲבֹדָה׃ | Kein asu bənei Yisra’eil eit kol ha’avodah | “So the Israelites made the whole service” (Shəmot 39:42). Asu — “made” — is plural here; this was a group effort that the whole community made happen together. And also, asu is not necessarily a verb of completion or perfection. At its heart, it is a verb of doing, of acting and making a change in the world. The Israelites didn’t just think about the Mishkan, they didn’t wait until everyone was perfectly ideologically aligned; they just made things for their most sacred structure.
It was probably not perfect. Mosheh’s instructions are, in places, somewhat bewildering, and even where they make sense, there is always a gap between design and fabrication — an uneven stitch here, a splinter of wood there, an impurity in the bronze tucked away on the back out of sight. It was certainly not permanent. If the Mishkan even ever existed to begin with, it’s been about three thousand years since it was replaced by the First Temple and then lost to time. In all likelihood, the spinners didn’t really understand what the metalworkers were doing, and neither would have been able to do the woodworkers’ tasks. They may all have had their parts to play, but that doesn’t mean they all got what everybody else was doing. I don’t think I’ve ever prayed in a bare minyan where everyone agreed exactly about the nature of G-d, prayer, and Holiness; it seems hard to fathom that all two million of those the text places at Mt Sinai had no points of dissension between them. (And, indeed, we’re not that far past the Golden Calf incident, hardly a high water mark of social and theological agreement.) But they built a sacred structure anyway.
This is, I suggest, a useful model for us. We are in a moment when much needs to be done. It’s easy to come up with reasons not to do things — many of the available courses of action for most of us are limited, flawed, insufficient, uncertain of success. It’s risky to try any of them, because trying opens up the possibility of failure. Much safer to hold out for a sure thing.
But there will never be such a sure thing, such a perfect action. There will only ever be the partial, the faulty, the human. It’s that or it’s nothing. We must act with what we have, as we are. If it was good enough for G-d’s dwelling, it’s good enough for our moment too.
This isn’t to say there’s no room for critique. If we want to be most effective, we have to learn from how past and present efforts fall short. If we want to do the best we can, we have to be open to learning how to do better. But there is a difference between critique for the sake of improvement and critique meant only to silence and stop action. If we want to get anywhere, we have to heed the former while setting aside the latter.
Perhaps no one will ever be able to look back and say of us, “So they made the whole world good”. But only by acting, however imperfectly, will they be able to say we made any of the whole a little better at all.
Even without Mosheh’s divine instructions to guide us, we have to spin the thread and hammer the silver and plane the wood and build the structures we need, however flawed, however patchy, however human. The work waits; let’s get to it.
[This has been an installment of one-word Torah. You can read the full series here.]
#real talk i am thinking about Alexii Antedilluvianovich Prelapsarianov all the time#show me the THEORY#and yet#the world just keeps on spinning untheoretically forward anyway#the circular equine#one-word Torah#Torah commentary#Parashat Pəqudei#pekudei#pequdei#Jumblr#my life got a lot better when i stopped worrying about maximizing RightThought and instead redirecting that energy#to making actual people's actual lives actually better#i no longer write with one ear towards what the meanest worst-faith people will say about my work#anyway#w/e#hi#here is this#let's get to it
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fic ive been working on for two months with slowburn (kind of background) stancest.

#stancest#fic#absolutely a lovechild character even if ao3 tags redirect it to 'Original Child Character' like. my character is a whole adult person.#adult!lovechild character would be better#its intended to be a mystery but obvious for stancest fans#35k words im DONE.#not posted on ao3 yet bc im a pissbaby and am scared of feedback. but its a fun adventure i thought.#BOKN fic#dariusspeaks#dariuswrites
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Well that was a bit naff. Nevertheless, I live
#definitely was spooky#by 'a bit naff' i mean possibly the worst essay i've turned in for this course. but better than not turning it in!#anyway. time to think about spies to make me feel better. or worse idk i think my feelings abt this essay might get redirected#not too mad abt that though lmao#yes i am imagining owen saying the text of this post what of it. that's what a comfort character is for right? he can be one of those#as a treat
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im still thinking about that white girl who interviewed megan thee stallion saying her music made her want to fight people when megan's music is mostly about how she's too pretty and feeling herself to fight anyone
like please tell me why you immediately associate black women and rap with physical violence ♡
#not to mention she talked over megan as megan was trying to redirect the conversation!#anyway. sighs. megan thee stallion you deserve sm better
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Sometimes I still think about The Owl House Gang all trying to watch ATLA together but then Zuko's backstory in The Storm retraumatizes Hunter so bad they have to stop
#luz is too young to have grown up with the show she just heard it was good#SHE DIDN'T KNOW GUYS#they all get super into it and the gaang and maybe even make some jokes about how Zuko reminds them of Hunter#and then suddenly it is Not Funny Anymore#they just straight up stop watching it because it was So Bad#and then months later Hunter is like '....... i really want to know where that show goes'#so they pick it up again#everytime Zuko makes a bad life decision Hunter is just dying inside#'your dad DOES NOT LOVE YOU YOU CAN DO BETTER'#season 2 is such an emotional rollercoaster#like zuko is figuring stuff out and seems like he's gonna redeem himself and everyone is getting so hype#because at this point they NEED to see this character get a happy ending because they have been throufh WAY TOO MUCH over him#and then in the season finale he regresses#the BETRAYAL#they are like wailing and rending their clothes like dudes in the bible#hunter just sitting there with his head in his hands#season 3 storyline with zuko at the fire palace is also massively triggering for him but he's being so normal about it#the rest of the squad on the copium like 'he can still turn this around guys'#secretly several of them have given up on him at this point but they can't admit that there's too much riding on this#and then zuko DOES IT but the scene is so tense that no one even feels like they can celebrate because they're all projecting way too hard#and then zuko redirects the lightning and they're like 'FUCK YEAH!!!!!!!!!!'#there is much crying at the finale#luz and amity kin assigned eachother as aang and katara so they're really happy when they get together#hunter like 'mostly this is making me glad I didn't have to become the political leader of The Boiling Isles as a traumatized 16 year old'#'can you imagine'#these tags were not supposed to be this long lmao#toh#atla#avatar#my rambles
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I could've radicalized Tomura
#no i am not taking criticism at this time#I could've turned him into the fucking joker for my causes i swear#I actually already agree with him on most things#but i could've redirected his rage i just kno it#hey tomu baby i know a building where men make podcasts wanna destroy it#lets go touch a jp morgan tower#i know where a ceo lives that would look better ashy
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Oh, Greg’s birthday party was great, right Greg?
Greg, deflecting:
So how does the audience like you?
#carl palmer#keith emerson#greg lake#jim stafford#chip monck#nice redirect Greg#the audio file is even better!#elp#emerson lake and palmer#emerson lake & palmer#emerson lake palmer#a greg a day (or two or more)
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