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#cishet i’ve met. ESPECIALLY considering she’s in her 50s
mars-ipan · 9 months
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y’know i think the most annoying thing about trying to discuss reproductive rights with cis people is the complete and utter refusal to include trans people in the discussion. like they will only ever say “women” and if you dare to point it out it’s “well this is all being done to control women” or “‘people with vaginas’/‘people assigned female at birth’ is way too wordy” it drives me fucking crazy
like first off do you seriously think that the people who seek to remove bodily autonomy from women have nothing against trans people. do you think they hold zero ill will towards us. also do you think they view trans afabs as anything other than women.
secondly. NOBODY IS ASKING YOU TO USE BIG WORDY PHRASES LITERALLY JUST SAY “PEOPLE” INSTEAD OF “WOMEN.” WE LITERALLY JUST DON’T WANT TO BE EXCLUDED FROM THIS BECAUSE WE ARE ALSO BEING HURT WE JUST WANT SOME GODDAMN SOLIDARITY IN THIS BITCH. LIKE ACTUALLY JUST FUCKING SAY “PEOPLE” IT SAVES EVERYONE FROM WEIRD LOOPHOLES AND ALSO ENFORCES THAT WOMEN ARE PEOPLE FOR FUCK’S SAKEEEEE
#marzirants#my mom would say shit like this sometimes and it drove me fucking insane every single time#with her i truly feel like i have to pick my battles#bc 90% of the time she fully understands where i’m coming from! she understood the weird nuances of my queer stuff way better than any other#cishet i’ve met. ESPECIALLY considering she’s in her 50s#but every now and again she says some shit that drives me up a WALLLLL#i remember once i was talking about the language around it#and my mom brings up that she ‘disagrees’ with saying like ‘people with uteruses’ or whatever#and this kinda surprised me (she tends to catch me off guard with it) so i had no actual explanation for her#but i tried anyways i was like ‘well trans folks are affected by this too so it’s important that we’re included in the language’ right#and THIS WOMAN. someone who i know would fucking lay down her life if it were the best way to keep me safe#SAYS TO ME.#‘well this issue is about women. it isn’t about being trans and i don’t think the discussion should be derailed to trans issues’#WHAT????? W. WHAT HUH????#first off. this bitch goes hand in hand with trans issues we are talking bodily autonomy that is a huge trans issue#second of all. WHO THE FUCK IS DERAILING????? WE’RE ON YOUR SIDE WE’RE LITERALLY ASKING TO BE INCLUDED IN THE FIGHT#WH??? BITCH????#my mom is so fucking smart. but sometimes the cishet nonsense overrides her smartness and she says the dumbest shit i have ever heard#don’t tell her i said that she’d get mad at me. even tho it’s literally smth all cishets do
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inkk7 · 9 months
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Orchid and Serenity have finished their picnic on the ground, and decided to move to the communal picnic table to continue talking.
Serenity: So, tell me more about what happened after you moved away from Newcrest. I know you met Arianna and Rae and you all became fast friends in high school, but what else?
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Orchid: Oh, there’s not much else, I developed my love for plants and nature though! Dad’s job in Conservation became his whole life, he was taking on lots of hours to cover the hefty living expenses of Sulani so it was basically just me around the house (except when Rae or Arianna came over). I spent my spare time gardening or flower arranging. Actually, lately, I’ve gotten into cross-stitching because of a gen ed I took freshman year! What about you? What happened to you after I moved to Sulani?
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Serenity: In all honesty, not much. I continued to be in love with you for a few years. Once I got a phone I considered reaching out to you on Social Bunny, but I didn’t want to bother you or something, especially if you were with someone.
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Orchid: I felt the same way! Not about the being in love with you part, but I didn’t want to bother you or reconnect without being able to see you again. I thought it was best to leave the past in the past. I guess the universe just wasn’t done with us yet.
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Serenity: *takes Orchid’s hand* I think so too…so tell me about Felix.
Orchid: *pulls her hand away immediately* What?! Felix? What about him?
Serenity: Oh please, you said you were fresh off being in love with someone, and I saw how awkward you two interacted at the juice-kegger. You were in love with him, right?
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Orchid: Uh, yes, but I–I think I like you now, why do you want to know about him?
Serenity: Well, normally people who like each other share about their past relationships, right? I haven’t been in a relationship before, I’ve only ever loved you. I was just curious about how you fell for a 50-something-year-old man seemingly out of the blue.
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Orchid is hesitant, struggling with how to share the story without blowing Felix’s cover.
Orchid: Well I…okay, I guess I should share. I fell for Felix a little before Freshman year. He was living in Britechester well before we started school. I…scoped out the city before I decided on the University of Britechester. I came across Felix in…the library. He seemed to be doing the same thing I was, scoping out the university before attending.
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Orchid’s brain feels like imploding after trying to explain how she fell in love in a discrete way. How can she explain that she fell in love with a stranger over a biography about him?
Orchid: Um…he was different. He…was so incredible.
Serenity: Incredible? How?
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Orchid: Shit, uh, he…I fell in love from a distance. Not in a stalker-y way. More like a secret admirer way. I noticed little things about him. It felt like, like we had our own secrets between us (though of course, he had no idea who I was). He would…drop something and only I would see and that would be our little secret. He would joke to himself and only I would hear, and that also became a secret. No one else knew about–I mean noticed him, he was largely forgettable I guess. Just another middle-aged cishet white man.
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Serenity: So he had no friends?
Orchid sighs and takes a second to gather herself, struggling to create falsities to cover up Felix’s ghostly past.
Orchid: Uh, not that I saw. I said he was largely forgettable? Double that and that’s how much people remembered him. He was almost…*hesitates*...like a ghost.
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Serenity: Weird, but okay…
Orchid: Haha yeah… 
Serenity: So you fell for him over a distance and being in a library? That’s oddly the most innocent and creepy thing I’ve heard.
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Orchid: *Pouts and crosses her arms* It wasn’t creepyyy, it was sweet!
Serenity: *Puts hands up in defense* Whatever you say, honey, hehe.
Orchid playfully juts her face out, closing her eyes, waiting for a kiss. Serenity answers her unasked question with a quick peck. Serenity grabs Orchid’s hand and the two jaunt off into the Henford-On-Bagley woods.
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