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PSST if you liked the jayvik home renovation saga i have the best news ever that there's a fic about it now!! and i love it so much that i had to draw some bits from it :3
thank you @thenootshoot you're a star <3
#arcane#arcane league of legends#jayvik#jayce talis#viktor arcane#i am biased but it is one of the funniest fics i've ever read#it's so cosy and so Them#and the last chapter broke me so i'm coping#i nearly had a glass of wine to get through it#also i'm very pro viktor with tattoos#as someone whose body fails me constantly!!! it's nice to claim it back
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god i need to write more fics that at least tangentially get into gender. because i know that timkon are t4t in every fic i write but it doesnt always come up. and god knows its just me peddling my little rowboat alone in the t4t timkon waters. 😭 i gotta... i gotta keep kontributing... the trans tim and nonbinary kon tags, they need me...
#rimi talks#deeply unfortunate that the trans tim tag is full of bat/cest ships and also transphobia.#what about people (me) who want tim to simply be a trans guy who's simply a freak and it's not bc he's trans it's just his nature#and then theres the nb kon tag. which like all kon tags is populated by people who havent actually read konmics. sad#at least it's better in there than the trans tim tag but still. low bar#BUT HES LITERALLY KONBINARY.#theres a whole saga in my mind about kon's gender journey inspiring tim to actually stop holding onto --#-- the kinda rigid boxes of gender labels and ideas about presentation that he holds himself to bc of his dad's influence#like tim at age 30 is much more comfortable being gnc than tim at age 16#tim at age 16 would see tim at age 30 lounging around in a skirt and legwarmers and feel so betrayed#tim at age 30 is just like im a dude no matter what i wear and im comfy and i stole my husbands skirt. cope#its about the growth they go through together. and making each other better. and also about transgenderisms. and#(and then i peek outside my bubble and remember that jesus god the trans tim tag is a nightmare!!!! AUGH!!!)#i gotta write more t4t timkon. its just me and my little rowboat against the world
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ORV is about enduring the horrors in real time.
(for @everyonesfavoritebastard)
#omniscient reader's viewpoint#kim dokja#yoo joonghyuk#I read a few arcs of ORV a few years back so I am at least loosely familiar with the characters and premise.#ORV dares ask the question: “what if you finally met your beloved blorbo who helped you cope through the horrors - and he *hates you*”#The reversal of what most people feel about some of their blorbos (love them but would never want to meet someone like that in person)#I would love to keep reading orv but it is very long and I already promised to finished like...3 other shows and several books.#my gesture of affection is consuming the media my friends care about. Alas I have none who are into orv to motivate me.#Also hey there raffle winner everyonesfavouritebastard - you gave no prompt at all so I took a random swing based on ur pfp and blog#I hope you like kim dokja! I am terribly sorry if you meant to leave a prompt and something glitched#EDIT: Found out raffle winner everyonesfavouritbastard didn't know it was a raffle. Homie...I'm So Sorry.#Now I *really* hope you like Kim Dokja.#You're so valid; I too would be mesmerized by the beauty of stackedbird's lovely little apple art.
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tanith low being given as a child to an assassin cult and coming out of all that trauma silly and lovely with a strong sense of purpose and identity and being able to hold down healthy relationships
#i love her so bad she really doesnt go through any significant development throughout the series and that's so fun to me#possession arc notwithstanding#shes so good at coping nothing bad even her boyfriend dying doesnt change her#and i love that valkyrie gets to have her goofy ass best friend who's always happy to read and trip sit her#theyre the og mia and winter omg... silly goofy girl and sad girl who wants to kill. no better dynamic#says kenna#skulduggery pleasant
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i only really like the "grumpy x sunshine" trope/dynamic if it's done in a particular way, and it goes like this: the grumpy is emo over their trauma, and the sunshine one also has lots of trauma but their sunny disposition does not mean that they're any better at coping with it. which is to say that i am enjoying the golden raven so far. thank you nora sakavic
#haiz reads things#halfway through after I started reading it yesterday and left my kindle at home today. it goes so fast ???#i assume most people playing with this trope DOES add dimension to the characters -#my distaste with it played straight is that it gets too manic pixie dream girl-y for me to tolerate#if the sunshine one is just there to make the grumpy one better and happier. like i understand the power fantasy of it#but none for me thanks.#anyway it's probably unfair to jeremy to say he's just as bad at coping since he has clearly worked on his shit#and jean started his cult deprogamming arc just a couple months ago and is like#90% soldified trauma and 10% french disdain#(and i love him)#but if there's something that keeps me reading. it's clearly two guys yearning for one another finding it impossible to#talk straightforwardly about their past and their feelings.#also super disconcerting to not fully remember every detail from the last book#with the original aftg trilogy i didn't have to wait between books. i read it all in one go and then once again right after
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The incandescent rage I felt at being fooled by Helena was so intense I don't think I've ever had a piece of media do that to me. I had a thought, an inkling of a thought when she came out of the elevator in episode 1, she ran out, she didn't fall or look like she had been tackled. We know even from Irving entering in that episode that the innies will still complete the action they are doing at the time of the swap. It was there the whole fucking time and I'm mad I didn't listen to my gut instinct and now imagining Mark going through that too, because he wouldn't have caught the elevator thing but maybe he did have a inkling something was wrong? Maybe he didn't. Maybe he was so fooled by it it didn't matter in the end or maybe the thought never crossed his mind and he really didn't know her after all.
#severance#severance spoilers#I'm too like... mad to go through the tag because of this one thought#I cannot BELIEVE well I can but ya know FUCK#literally reading sk8 fanfic to cope with this go my gay skater boys give me joy
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!! crucial !! piece of hilson lore confirmed - they're fucking LOSERS honestly? so affirming to me. this isn't news i know but to get this explicit piece of interaction about being a lonely child and now being weird adults who don't know how to make friends or have "normal" conversations or connections like this is the shit i eat for breakfast, especially accompanied with the complete and utter sense of surrender to this fact that wilson displays. there's absolutely no reason whatsoever for him to defend himself or act as if what house is saying isn't true bc it is and they both know it and knows the other knows it even if they've never actually talked about this once which is very likely but they know cause they're the same and they only have each other and and and
#they're so lame#hilson#hatecrimes md#to be clear i do think they had pretty different childhoods in many ways#but very early on feeling alone and different and/or misunderstood is the common thread running through both of their experiences#they almost definitely handled it very differently but just ended up on the same miserable bastard boat in the end#and no one can save them except each other. but they're actually unsaveable. and the only way for that to be okay is through each other#blahdi blahdi blah they're doomed either way but they need each other to cope blahdiblah fucked up losers solidarity#they're the worst<333 they would've bullied each other if they knew each other as kids. in fact the bully each other now aghjdfkdsfs#also honestly. wilsons response to house reading him to shreds being to play along and make a dry joke?? very cunty. love him to bits#house md#james wilson#gregory house#hmd#mypost
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Chat it's oc time
Let me present y'all with sketches of the two people responsible for Mia's existence
The one on the left is Mia's funky dad, Silo (Psilocybin)! He's a lazy overachiever and strato's renowned chemist (with a phd in organic chemistry)! Also besties with Geranium and his ex-plug
The one on the right is Mia's chronically bitch-faced mom, Sera (Seraphim)! An ex-soldier and the physical embodiment of "if looks could kill", she's also a stellar doctor and also worsties with instance?????? old woman yuri???????????
#FINALLY finished their designs after putting them off for MONTHS#lemme yap abt them a little#Silo is transmasc! also kept his breasts because he's perfectly happy with his body#he's also the one who carried Mia!#He's a silly man that likes doing his own thing without getting disturbed also yaps abt his chemistry stuff like theres no tomorrow#Sera is a.... specimen#She's an ex-soldier and ofc mentally ill from the shit she went through and saw#she practically self-isolated until she was encouraged by Silo to get treatment#she's better but doesn't tolerate ppl and everyone is a little too scared of her to bother her so shes mostly chilling lol#Silo is the only person along with Mia that she can tolerate for long period of times then its her quiet time#a very fun fact abt Sera is that she's a writer in her free time! She writes a variety of thing but mostly psychological horror and the mos#delectable anguish you'll ever read then posts it on the holonet anonymously#It was a coping mechanism learnt and encouraged by Silo's twin sister that got out of hand since her books became suprisingky popular admis#the colony#Also Silo has a twin sister! she boarded the stratospheric along with him and his mother#ill get to drawing those some time later#i was a teenage exocolonist#iwatex#iwatex ocs#iwatex oc#Sera exocolonist#Silo exocolonist#art#my art#sketches
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I Know Your Name as My Brother: Adopting Echo
Sharing this again because it's been a while and it's my favorite!
Status: Complete Word Count: 25,972
Summary:
Echo didn't escape Skakko Minor unscathed, and his new limbs are the least of his problems. When he walked onto the Marauder, he had no idea how he was going to make a place among the four brothers who had rescued and then adopted him. Slowly he realizes that he might not have to. Maybe he just needs to accept the one they've already made for him.
Tech: Call Sign (The Bird Story) -- The Batch's resident genius asks Echo a strange question. The cyborg gets a lesson about birds and his new squad's way of doing things.
Crosshair: Silent Words (The Sketch) -- Echo is brooding and he thinks he'll find camaraderie in the other sulky Batcher. But Crosshair is more than meets the eye.
Wrecker: Midnight (Lula and the Cyborg) -- Echo can't sleep. He ends up getting a chat, a tooka doll, and some surprising revelations.
Hunter: A Quiet Morning (Tea and Terrors) -- The sergeant and the cyborg have a rough morning and tea is the fix, paired with plenty of cadethood stories about his brothers that Hunter is willing to share.
Broken Pieces (Somehow Fit Together) -- Echo thinks he's stable enough to sleep without his prosthetics. He isn't.
Reflection (Peace on Pabu) -- Home at last.
#the bad batch#star wars#sw tbb#tbb echo#tbb hunter#tbb wrecker#tbb crosshair#tbb tech#tbb fanfic#Adopting Echo#Skakko Minor#sibling fluff and bonding#it gets a little dark but not too bad#Echo's been through a ton and needed to work through it#His brothers are more than willing to help#lots of hugs to help the trauma#the batch are the bestest siblings#tech lives#reading as a coping mechanism#snuggles snuggles snuggles#brotherly love#Echo has been adopted and he's just figuring this out
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Been cleaning up and rearranging stuff a lot lately in preparation for moving, and I'm getting a bit emotional about my first TF figure/toy...


I've had this Jazz for like, 10+ years, and I used to take this guy everywhere. He's so scuffed from being dragged across driveways and playgrounds, and he sits and stands a bit wonky because the plastic cracked along one arm, and both his legs tend to pop off, and he doesn't really transform well anymore because of that. I forgot him in a drawer some years back, but nowadays he gets to sit front and center atop my bookcase ;-;
#he was my favorite as a kid bcs of the games and G1. i cant believe i just left him in a drawer like that for so long#augh. my guy <333333. i need to see if i can scrub some of the dirt off and clean him up some. poor dude#ive always admired other people's like. collections and stuff. i mean. having a bunch of pristine or rare figures is super cool. but-#-but I've always loved the sorta charm that comes with people sharing their real personal collections-#-the sorta ''me and this guy/gal go way back'' kinda figures and toys#ones that are a little wonky. or were shared or passed down. or are super special to just the person that has them. fav blorbo type figures#its like. this jazz was my childhood buddy. we had adventures. he fought off monsters. was a giant in lego world. he held my ipod#and its like. yeah. teen years went kinda shit. and i put away a lot of things i loved then. but looking back now-#-the love i have for transformers is bcs of this one little scuffed dude#man. moving again was bound to make me emotional. and its going a lot faster than my family planned. so the stress is kinda piling up#but ough. the memories that come with sorting through stuff 😢#sorry lol. just going through it a bit rn ig lmao#thought id have more time before things really picked up. but the deadline got changed. so. a couple projects are getting pushed back again#its a lot. but aye. getting to be emotional over little plastic dudes is part of the coping process apparently lmao#if anyone read this far. What was your first tf figure or toy? if i can ask?
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I keep seeing so much fanart of Daan in a BunnyMask or even worse a Sylvian tramp stamp and I have to double take cause like.
Y’all know he was TRAUMATIZED by BunnyMasks right ? Y’all know this marked him so badly that he reacts with nothing but immediate discomfort when he sees Sylvian’s statue in the district dedicated to her in Prehevil, right ?
Now Daan being sexualized himself isn’t fundamentally bad, don’t get me wrong. But why are you sexualizing him SPECIFICALLY by relating him to the very same thing that traumatized him when he was a child, when in canon he is expressively uncomfortable with it ? He expressively dismisses Sylvian’s sexual attributes being ever pointed out ?
#Much to think about#I want to believe this is mostly either people who somehow don’t know about his trauma#For them to associate him with BunnyMasks in the first place they most likely read their story#So my faith in this is very little#That or it’s people coping through him#In that case that’s a bit more of a complex situation#fear and hunger#fear and hunger daan#vixx ramblings#might delete this later I don’t know
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Friday Training (Sep. 27, 2024)
#gavi#pablo gavi#fc barcelona#barca#fcb#6post#pg6#i dont have anything original or insightful to say here#i just want it to be known that i have the desire to let out the worst most annoying reeee sounds whenever i see gavi#he looks so strong and healthy and ARMSSSS for days thank you amen#anyways if anyone actually reads my crazy tags please pray for me im going through a really terrible and difficult time right now#and i could use the good energy/vibes/etc#literally have been using football as a coping mechanism (thank god they're winning otherwise that would be terrible for me)
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beginning to think that rick got really lucky with how pjo/hoo turned out and everything after has just been a regression to the mean
#this is a joke obviously#but I really can't explain how toa + wottg turned out so differently from his previous writing and making jokes is my coping mechanism so#I was expecting a fun read for wottg and then I found myself struggling to even get through the book#like I can read a book in pjo/hoo and even cotg in one sitting and actually enjoy myself#what happened to rick lol#percy jackon and the olympians#percy jackson#wottg#rr crit
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Dark Crisis on Infinite Earths:
I finished working my way through this as an event, and I've got to say that DC can't decide what it wants to do with the Multiverse. We've just gone from restoring the 52 Earths (Mostly around Convergence/Multiversity) to discovering the Dark Multiverse (Dark Nights: Metal, 2017), to rebooting the Multiverse at the end of Dark Nights: Death Metal to form the Omniverse (2020), but also restrict things back to 52 Earths only, to rediscovering Infinite Earths in Dark Crisis (2022), to the conclusion of Absolute Power being "we have once again cut off the Multiverse, but now we're going hard for Elseworlds instead" (2024). Make up your minds! Do you want to use the multiverse or not??? Please stop switching it up every 2 years!
Okay that rant aside, this is yet another event that cares very deeply about plot points and characters from COIE that have barely been seen in the intervening 36 years (and generally only in other events that reference COIE heavily). I don't have any emotional attachment to Pariah and the Anti-Monitor.
Structurally, it was an interesting event, in that there were about 4.5 plots going on.
Plot 1: the Justice League get trapped on dreamstate Earths born out of their subconscious wishes. In terms of commentary, Barry trapping himself in a 1950s comic book, Clark wanting to raise Jon (on the farm, with literally no other heroes from the Superfamily around), and J'onn J'onzz creating a future where he's merged humans with cephalopods/octopus so that they're psychic were probably the most interesting of the lot. Barry proves once again he's disconnected from the present, Clark is obsessing over his loss of Jon's childhood at the expense of everyone else, and J'onn...is once again mourning the loss of his culture and looking for a way to feel less disconnected from Earth. Still not quite turning into the sands of Mars tho boyo. Blah blah the League are feeling they're not communicating properly, they need to take a break and focus on themselves.
Plot 1.5: The Flashfam go to extract Barry and work out WTF is going on because they're the most reliable multiverse jumpers, and the Lanterns recruit everyone as bodies are needed (as all the heavy hitters are as stated trapped in dreamstate Earths).
Plot 2: Jon Kent forms the most underskilled novice Justice League since the early 1990s that largely consists of the latest legacies of various families, getting some direction from Black Adam. Their collective experience as superheroes MIGHT total 20 years active, and if it makes that it's because Booster and Ted are supplying most of that experience.
I am underwhelmed by this team, to put it mildly. There's a lot of "I need to be Superman as my father isn't here!" from Jon, and a lot of boring "Damian grows up to be Batman" foreshadowing where Damian outright insults people a lot, and Yara looks confused and irritated over why she's hanging out with them both. Jackson's trying his hardest, bless his heart, but because nobody really cares much about the Aquas they get that bit of the plot out of the way early on. I'm not sold on what this lot were actually trying to accomplish, despite once again being presented at the future of the DCU.
Plot 3: Dick and the Titans realise they have to step up to actually take leadership, because as noted Jon Kent's Justice League is out there competing with Justice League: Task Force days of "there are four warm bodies here, and only half of them are under the age of 18, we're good to go right?" for level of threat defence. Also Slade's busy trying to kill both Dick and Gar because he can something something dark forces corrupting him mad about Grant's death for the 87th time blah.
Plot 4: Young Justice get kidnapped into a further separate reality to keep them out of the way while the two generations on either side of them try to step up to leadership, and have a bunch of angst about being left out/left behind (I am going to discuss this separately. Spoilers: I thought it was one of the most interesting parts of this event).
My general impression of the entire event was the intended purpose was to showcase both Dick and Jon's leadership abilities. I think it achieved this, but not necessarily in the hoped for way. Dick showcased once again why he is the centrally trusted character of the DCU and can convince everyone and anyone to follow him. Jon showcased that he is absolutely not a leader, he needs to stop thinking that he is required to fill Clark's shoes, and DC need to stop trying to make it happen.
The bit where I most started rolling my eyes is when they decided that Jon Kent, half-Kryptonian powered by sunlight, from a species famously incredibly vulnerable to magic, needed to lead the team going into the magical pure darkness/demon dimension that has no sunlight "because his connection to the sun protects him". Jon's biggest weakness not starting with K is magic. So let's put him in a dimension consisting of magic and have him have to survive off the power of his sunlight...which he immediately wastes and burns off a lot of power by trying to fly. Power that he can't recover, because he's in said dark demon dimension with no sunlight.
Jon, sweetheart, you are not the brightest bulb.
My second biggest eyeroll was meeting Red Canary, Sienna, who accomplished exactly nothing when she accidentally got caught up in Damian's strikeforce that otherwise consisted of "a teleporter for travel, Peegee for her experience with the Cosmic Tuning Fork, and Dr Light because Kimiyo is both COIE linked AND has strong light based powers to fix the situation". I am still unsure of what the point of Red Canary being there was, because she mostly just snarked with Damian and got into trouble. Even if she was intended to eventually be revealed to be Sin Lance with memory problems or something she was not a convincing character.
The Flash storyline in and of itself was fun, but I'd actually already read it when I was reading through Adams' Flash run. It worked just fine in context of the event and it worked as a tie-in where you just skimmed over the event. Adams' Flash run is very entertaining.
As far as DC big summer events go, this one felt more about 'we want to reach these end conditions' (Justice League disbanded for a while, Justice Society of America back, Titans to step up as the headline team) than the actual content of the event itself. It was an event for the sake of having an event, you know?
I dunno. Maybe I would have cared more if I'd actually read COIE, but it felt derivative and like there was a lot of time wasting for the sake of referencing specific things that happened in COIE, whether or not they made sense for this storyline.
Oh and as a note, one other useful thing this event did do was specify that Supergirl: Woman of Tomorrow is supposed to be in continuity for Kara, and basically contemporaneously too.
#z canon read throughs#recent reads#dark crisis#honestly the funniest part of the entire event was J'onn inventing a world where everyone had Davy Jones from PotC's head#Good work there J'onn. As always I am in awe of your coping mechanisms over your loneliness#this was not the most heartwrenching version of it (see DC One Million and the sands of Mars) but it was a fun one
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Such a shame there's no solution
#my meme#the amount of ppl joining my server and complaining abt the game#and not knowing how anything works#and dont understand the stories happening#and then going “well i don't read/listen to dialogue and i don't read item information or anything”#is astounding#and then they come into MY SERVER and immediately break the rules and get mad and argumentative when redirected#and expect immediate help and for ppl to hold their hand through the game#nuh uh my dude not fucking here#if you are “literally incapable” of reading item info and dialogue and get mad abt it then learn to cope or go play some mobile game#i am on one rn#people are so fucking willfully stupid and make it everyone else's problem
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what if i wrote an essay about how the way the nimona movie is in conversation with the original comic. about the shift in dynamic between ballister and nimona from gen x-millennial to millennial-gen z. how the themes and conflicts explored in the story were changed as a result. and how every aspect of the movie was painstakingly adapted to perfectly communicate the new perspective and message. what if.
#nimona#nimona movie#ballister blackheart#nd stevenson#i fucking LOVE this movie#and i just read through the whole comic in one sitting#and i kept pausing to fucking stare at the wall#realising how extensively and perfectly the movie adapted the original scenes and story. for the new perspective#like there’s just SO many subtle details thag were changed that all add up#to make the adaptation so effective as a standalone piece#but also perfectly in dialogue between the POV presented by nd in the original#i cant. cope.
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