#creatingboundaries

[severelydistinguishedturtle]

I'm loving myself even more as I age and am better at saying no to those who want to use my skills, time and expertise without proper compensation. PAY ME! #opalpalmeradisa #knowyourauthor #selfworth #creatingboundaries #payment #jamaicanwriters #creativeprocess #creativeproperty (at Kingston, Jamaica) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp-9g6EOILJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[drmarr]

If you look at nature, anything that is giving more than it is receiving, is dying. Trees. 🌳 We plant them. We give them water. 💧 They take sunlight. ☀️ They need nutrients from the soil. And we HOPE that they GROW, as big as they can possibly grow 🍃… And we hope they take up space. And that their roots are going far and wide and deep…soaking up everything that they can… or they die. And the bigger they grow, the more they need… And we would never begrudge that tree for taking what it needs to survive. Yet how many times do you feel guilty for having needs…? The people that you love and the people that genuinely care for you (the people that MATTER), will be thrilled to see you taking what you need to take care of you. Because the more you can grow… the more you can give, and continuing caring for others the way that you do. #fullcircle It doesn’t make you a hero to give all the time. It sucks life out of you. #boundaries There is a saying that says “We’re either growing or we’re dying.” It makes so much more sense when I compare it to nature, like this. You are nature. You have needs. Do you even know what those needs are? Maybe that’s why you feel so drained. #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #selfdevelopment #selfworth #selflove #wearenature #growordie #internationallifecoach #notselfish #itsnotselfishtotakecareofyourself #itsnotselfishtoloveyourself #selfawareness #creatingboundaries #healingjourney #proactivementalhealth #meaningfullife #meaningfulwork #meaningfulrelationships #guilt #guilty #noboundaries #feelingguilty #unapologetic #theinnerwork #innerwork #insideworld #mentalwellness #mentalwellbeing (at Spittal Pond Nature Reserve) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjwNB96O3pL/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[metapoetic]

Listen to Episode #011 of the All Love No Fear Podcast hosted by KayBee & Metapoetic. Episode 11 has come upon us. This episode we talk about Toxic People and Relationships and Establishing Boundaries. If you have questions for us, email us at alllovenofearpcast@gmail.com. Podcast Sponsored by the Bonafide Lyrics & Marketing, LLC (http://ow.ly/cbye50uMXe6); Listen at http://ow.ly/sB7550uMXe0 #alllovenofearpodcast #ALLLOVENOFEAR #metapoetic #kaybee #joebiden #racistbones #toxic #toxicrelationships #creatingboundaries #loveyourself #relationships #theblm #marketingtips #victoroladipo #BET #Content #juneteenth #rihanna https://www.instagram.com/p/BzO5ojOhaVu/?igshid=yg2vxx4ynmb6

[somethingsabher]

Thank You @silvykhoucasian. __ This quote by Derek Hart hits home. “Unconditional love is a wonderful way I have watched people for years do several things: become martyrs, hide their true feelings and wind up resenting each other later, and "unconditionally" love their partner as a way to keep the peace and avoid conflict.” ~~~ It’s wonderful to (want) to be unconditional. There is nothing more precious than to want to offer our partner the best version of our love no matter what they do. But we have to be deeply careful here. We have to be careful that we don’t try to spiritually bypass our partner or (ourselves) in the process. . . We are still human. We can have spiritual experiences. We can taste moments of unconditional love. We can grow our tolerance to get to compassion more quickly and approach our upsets with more kindness. . . But what we absolutely can (NOT) do is override our feelings and our hurts under the guise of unconditional love. No functional relationship can exist without boundaries, without healthy agreements between two people. . . Be very weary of anyone that tries to bypass your feelings and your hurts. Set a boundary with them and explain how that action hurts you. Then step back and watch their response. . . If they are not getting it, they simply may not understand. But hear me .. it is NOT your job to to help them understand if they continue to dismiss you. If they are stuck and want support and you can see that there is a (genuine opening) to understand your boundaries .. then you can choose to proceed more deeply. . . But if you continue to violate your (own) boundaries because they are (not willing) to understand, then you will become an enabler. You will end up tolerating behaviors that will ultimately destroy the relationship in the long run. You will end up minimizing the importance of (YOU) feeling heard and validated. And no healthy relationship can ever thrive in that space. #coachingwithsilvy #somethingsabouther #trustingtheprocess #lovingyourself #creating #creatingboundaries (at Avondale, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/BqpFyrUF0kS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=10poxfruo7c9l

[kipton]

Some highlights #bestof2014. Thanks for the #memories people! 😍🎉. Ready for #2015! 👊👊👊 #shitgettingrreal #creatingboundaries #mytime

[metapoetic]

Listen to Episode #011 of the All Love No Fear Podcast hosted by KayBee & Metapoetic. Episode 11 has come upon us. This episode we talk about Toxic People and Relationships and Establishing Boundaries. If you have questions for us, email us at alllovenofearpcast@gmail.com. Podcast Sponsored by the Bonafide Lyrics & Marketing, LLC (http://ow.ly/cbye50uMXe6); Listen at http://ow.ly/sB7550uMXe0 #alllovenofearpodcast #ALLLOVENOFEAR #metapoetic #kaybee #joebiden #racistbones #toxic #toxicrelationships #creatingboundaries #loveyourself #relationships #theblm #marketingtips #victoroladipo #BET #Content #juneteenth #rihanna https://www.instagram.com/p/BzJ-tV_g0t3/?igshid=yh8o2pt0mvvd