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Motivational Video in Difficult Times of your Life

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[lipstickoffapig]

Complain, Complain, Complain... Then Find Your Goal. It’s a Gift! Write it down!

If you find yourself repeating the same complaint over and over again, and people are asking you to stop, maybe you should. Stop. Write down that complaint and take a look at it. What are you unhappy about? Your job? The weather? Your spouse? Write that down.

Now, take a look at what you’ve written because there’s a gift in that complaint. Yes, you read that right, there’s a gift in every complaint, a special gift, just for you. It’s called “a goal.” The goal is what you do want. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves what we don’t want before we arrive at what we do want.

You see, we’re told not to complain because other people don’t want to hear about it. Complaining can make us and everyone around us feel pretty bad. Who wants to listen to how bad things are all day long? Certainly not me.

However, complaints can be very helpful if you look for the gift within them. It’s the gift of knowing what you don’t like about the world, about your world. Unhappy with your job? What kind of job would you like? Not sure? Not sure what you want out of life? Well… Take a look at your complaints. In fact, complain away! Yes, I’m suggesting you complain! Not to other people, of course, but to yourself.

Write that down. I mean, write down that complaint. If you have lots of complaints, then great! Write them all down in as much detail as possible. In fact, write them down everyday if you need to. Keep writing until you find the gift. The gift is… THE GOAL.

Ta-da! You thought I was being facetious or silly when I suggested you  complain, complain, complain, didn’t you!

Nope, I’m telling you what you need to hear if you are genuinely suffering in a life that you don’t want, a life you didn’t choose. Maybe you are working at a job you hate, living with others with whom you are not compatible, in a city where you’re very unhappy, or, heaven forbid, your health is not what you’d like it to be.

Complain away! (But not to other people. Complain to yourself.) Why? Because when we complain, we’re telling ourselves what we don’t want, and that can be very useful because it leads us toward finding what we do want. It also informs us that we’re unhappy with something, so we’d really like change, but we feel powerless to create that change. That’s why we complain. We complain because we don’t think things will change, and we’re hoping someone else out there will help us by, at least, giving us some sympathy.

Honestly, I wish someone would magically appear and help you if you are unhappy so that you could be happy. Not just because I’m a nice person (although I am… but then I’m also pretty biased in this self-judgment. Ha ha!) But I personally believe that when people are happy they are at their best and are less likely to cause problems in the world. Frankly, the world is a better place when most people are happy. (This should be common sense, but, judging by the many injustices of this world, it is, apparently, not common sense, so it must be stated here.) A happy person is not likely going to burn down another person’s house, or to rape, rob or kill anyone. Happy people tend to be peaceable people. For all you people out there who value money over people: Happy people save our society money! Yes, a happy person is more likely to take care of her health and not to cost our insurance companies or hospitals as much money. Happy people are more likely to work honestly and do the best job they can. They make better employees, better spouses, better neighbors, better friends. Happy people are easier to be with because… ehem… they tend not to complain. 

Huh? But you said...

Okay, just hear me out. Read on, my virtual friend.

So… how can you be one of those happy people? I don’t know, sorry. But I do know that one way to achieve the goal of being happy is to complain to yourself with a good, old-fashioned pen and paper. Taking the time to write it down on paper forces us to slow down our thoughts and to ponder them in more detail. We can really get down into the nitty gritty, narrowing down the cause of our complaint. This could take an hour or so, but it could also take days, weeks, even a year or longer, of writing, writing and writing out our complaints.

Remember the diary? Does anyone keep a diary anymore? Have you ever kept one? How about a journal? It’s the story of your life. For some people, it consists of lists of things done that day: Today, I went to the store; I bought a pair of nice boots; I saw a friend I hadn’t seen in months; we had lunch together, etc. For the complainer, it could be a pouring out of heartbreaks and disappointments: He cheated on me! I asked her out and she said no, and she said it in a nasty way, too! I hate women/men/invisible aliens/my green shoes! That b*tch! My boss is a #$*&^!!! I hate myself! I hate my life!

Okay. Good job. Now, take a deep breath.

You see, “complainers” have been given a great gift—the gift of knowing they’re unhappy. If they take the time to probe into their unhappiness more deeply by writing in their diary/journal daily about how unhappy they are, then maybe, just maybe, they’ll discover that gift of knowing why they’re unhappy. You see, some people don’t know they’re unhappy because they’re in denial. They’ll insist, “I’m happy! I’m happy!” as if trying to convince themselves, and everyone around them, even when it’s painfully obvious that they are not. Other people know they’re unhappy but don’t know why. Such people often take antidepressants. Sometimes they’ll say the “meds” are helping them too, but the thing that is making them depressed often remains. Maybe it’s a job that’s not quite right for them or an unhealthy relationship or dreams never realized. The antidepressants might give the person energy and the ability to make it through the day without complaining or having a negative attitude but then the gift is never discovered.

Of course, we are not complainers. Oh no. We never complain. Not us.

Ehem.

Sorry.

One moment, please. I must clear my throat because there’s a frog in it. I mean, a clog in it. No, there’s smog in it. Bah! I just need a pause to force a moment of reflection upon the reader. Thank you.

But we can choose to complain. Constructive complaining via a  journal or diary can be very healing once we find the gift of positive solutions waiting deep, down inside all of us.

Gift? “Is it really a gift when I’m powerless to change the situation?” you ask, knowingly. And yes, I see you lifting that right eyebrow, as you tilt your head to one side and look at me as though to say, “Aha! I’ve got you!”

But no, you haven’t gotten me, silly. Only I can have me, for better or for worse. But you do raise a good point, virtual friend. Sometimes situations can seem pretty hopeless, and I’m not claiming to have all the answers. I’m still trying to figure out this whole life thing myself. However, I will say this: The first step to solving a problem is to acknowledge the problem exists. I’m all for emphasizing the positive, but positive thinking that causes people to go into denial and pretend that problems don’t exist is damaging our society in some pretty serious ways.

Sometimes we need to complain, to protest, to fight back. Doing that effectively and productively is not easy. One way, is to write it all down in as much detail as possible then to take a look at it. What do you see? It’s hard to look at it, isn’t it? Much easier to take the antidepressant and tell yourself everything’s okay.

Once we uncover the gift of knowing what we don’t like then we’re challenged with the gift of the goal for making things better. Once we admit that we hate our job and that it’s making us miserable, then our goal must be to find another source of income, right? Easier said than done! What if deep, down inside we really want to be a movie star? Or a champion wrestler? What if we’re married with children and realize that we never wanted to be married nor to have children in the first place? We can’t just walk away from a life. That would be irresponsible and hurt too many people. So… what to do?

This, I believe, is the reason why so many people say they “don’t know” why they’re unhappy. Deep, down inside we know, but we don’t want to know. Problems are not easily solved. Life’s challenges can be complicated. Further complicating things, we may have character flaws we don’t want to admit to. Maybe we get angry too easily, judge others too quickly, assume others are attacking us when they aren’t due to our own low self esteem or past experiences. Oy vey! What’s our problem anyway?!

The hole just gets deeper and deeper, the more we dig into ourselves, searching for this hidden treasure--our life’s true goal. The cause of our complaint translates into goals we need to set for ourselves. It can take years to figure this out, but if we’re lucky, it’ll only take us a few weeks of soul searching via journaling out our complaints. Then the real work begins (another reason why some people would rather not know their life’s true purpose.) Sometimes it’s so much easier to maintain the status quo, giving other people what they want, even when it means denying yourself what you really need.

Don’t be fooled by people who want you to be happy, happy, happy all the time. If you’re unhappy, use that energy. Find the root cause through smart complaining then set those goals. Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither were you (or I… or anyone.) This won’t change your life overnight. This is not a diet that lets you lose 10 pounds in 10 days while eating whatever you want or a get-rich-quick scheme that brings money to you even while you sleep. But this is a method that will lead you down the path toward real change.

Suicide will end your life completely—no change there. Denial can lead to addictions or insanity--no change there either. Neither of those things will help you or your family. Confronting your complaints head on, face-to-face, though extraordinarily difficult, will lead to real change, eventually. Just don’t expect instant gratification. Accept that it will take time, and enjoy the journey. You are growing, evolving. You are a work in progress.

Of course it’s hard to do. Of course it seems impossible. That’s why most people don’t do it. Most people never change. It’s painful to change. It hurts to change because it involves recognizing and correcting our own flaws (not the flaws of others.)

You’re headed toward something better and have a lot to learn along the way. Let’s learn together, you and I.

As motivational speaker Les Brown would say, “It isn’t over until I win!”

Musician John Lennon once said, “While there’s life, there’s hope,” then he died... And the original quote was first uttered probably centuries ago.

But the truth remains. Life is constantly changing, and if we’re not constantly working on changing ourselves in positive ways then we’re not fully alive. So complain in your journal then turn those obstacles into challenges then goals so that you can make a positive impact on the world around you. Happy people usually do.

[alliswell0fficial]

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[silveredwood]

Thank you is not enough

These days,

It have been difficult. Everyone always down to judging and pressuring a lot. Maybe we live in different environment, but what makes me say this thing is just kinda frustating.

Every now and then,

They always told me to do this and that.

To do well.

To do better.

To do my best.

Okay, I don't see anything wrong here. In fact, I should do that. But what I don't like about the world is, when I just thought all that pressure pushing me towards edge.

I know, it was something everyone does, supporting for the better of me. But really?

Do you all know the pressure down on my shoulder?

Do you all know the feel when what you expected are so high and you can't even reach it?

You still try your best with what you could, but people judge down and just close their eyes,

"YOU SHOULD DO IT BETTER"

"YOU CAN DO IT"

"OH YOU'RE STRONGER THAN YOUR LOOKS"

"YOU SHOULD DO 'THIS' RATHER THAN 'THAT'"

Light pressure. Light move.

Bit by bit, you make it pill.

But soon you found, it was too heavy for you to carry it out all by yourself.

I do not always complained like this, but this.... Now... I feel just so fucking tired with all of this. With this and my world, where I have to live my life.

Many.

There are a lot of people asking the same questions, maybe repeated this on their head, "Why the fuck my life are all so miserable?"

"Why in the world this happened to me? It wasn't my fault!"

Oh, of course. Everyone here want to have a happy life, a good one. Where you guys could enjoy and devour your soul in.

Then... This thought... I still have it now.

I don't know this little note here means anything.

But, I did just pour all of my emotion here. Because, I'm tired already to act like everything is okay. I'm worn out IRL I have to be just good, just perfect.

Well, got lucky or maybe even just mere coincidence.

Not related with any of my problems, but I do like K-POP.

I just forgot, why I started liking them in the first place? And most of all, from all those group, why obsessed with this seven boys.

All other groups are great too, no kidding. They trained so hard, giving they all might to achieve everything. Their songs are great too.

But these boys here.

Damn, I don't know why they can put a big impact on someone's life. I personally just a girl with a weak shell. I never like or love myself to the most. And when everything came down hill I just started blaming myself. That's why, everything felt just SO HEAVY.

I don't know really, but I caught on them.

Listening to all of their songs even though I don't understand what all are the meaning of it. But I get more attached when I read all of the translations. Is like, they just speak to me, comfort me in the best way. And it make a big impact to me.

Believe me, all of the groups are handsome have their own charms.

But I really want to thank all my heart to these seven boys-- (obviously is hard to do so, 'cause I even can't send any letter to them. I'm not even a ... Membership or like VIP like those people out there who can access to their chat. And of course, what does one "thank" mean to them. They have countless of them) I do really want this message reach to them. Were they understand or not, I feel like just have to thank them to save my life. To enlighten me in a new light.

Just yesterday,

I already giving up on everything. Just tired and feel like broken.

I do try my best to feel much better by heard their songs repeatedly. But yeah, I just burst out crying.

Then, when I feel much better, I just feel want to watched again all their MVs back when HYYH era.

So I did.

Remind me of a webtoon just released, of course not related to my problems.

But I watched a theory explained all of them on timeline (I thought maybe I can look away a bit into this so I feel much better a bit, occupy my mind elsewhere, yea I know what a coward) it did help me understand better and understand the "feel" better.

Then the youtuber give a lot of quotes back in the video.

It just... Hit me.

It was written by them, to all the ARMY.

It was a message, from them.

Ask to live our life.

Ask to love ourself.

I know, maybe y'all just think, I'm just speak nonsense. It is meant what I just said.

But those, impact me a lot. Saving me in a better way.

They do not immediately approach like other could, but through what they make. Their masterpiece.

After that, it just remind me. Why I like them so much, until I not thinking twice about everything about them.

BTS make a little impact through their songs, that's why. Yeah, I don't deny their visual, songs, and music video are all great. But just little words is enough for me to go down from head to toe.

...

Thank you for lighten me up.

Thank you for your comfort.

Thank you for change my mind for who I am.

But, sadly... I need times to do that, to understand myself. Forgive it. Then love it. It is not an easy task indeed.

But at least, you 7 boys that didn't even know I existed move me, so I didn't give up.

From now on, I'll try my best. In my arts, maybe writing, in my life. I'll try to face it all.

Once again...

Thank you.

[jellybean-860]

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[gorandomthoughts]

Count your rainbows, not thunderstorms

Count your rainbows, not thunderstorms

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[ziam-com]

Just like you is really telling us something

Hi friends, here I am back again to rant about things people figured out years ago :) this sink going to be involved with the music video because that has a whole voice of its own. I am here just for the lyrics. This could be really long but I’m not in the mood so here is a straight to the point lyric analysis (I won’t be analyzing every line just ones that have me shook)

Whole world in my right hand- we have never seen an official like Larry walking down the street holding hands obviously but if the cigarettes in his left hand whoever he’s with would have to hold the right. All I’m saying is he could be talking about the literal world or... his whole world *cough* Harry, that’s all I have to say about that line (sorry didn’t do a reaching warning in the opening my bad🤷🏾‍♀️ dont have to do a reaching earning if it isn’t really reaching now do it...?)

Twenty-five and it’s all planned- ok well obviously celebs have like their lives mapped out career wise but he said it’s all planned and we all know how 1D management has always been and will always be and how all management is really, controlling. This is a bigger reach than my last one considering how broad that line was but still it’s all planned, his kids his wife the rest of his life all planned but not by him...🤷🏾‍♀️

Headlines that I can’t stand- well unless he wrote this song 3 or so years ago (which he could of I didn’t look into things that much before I wrote this) there hasn’t been a big Larry article in a hot second and when new music comes out the big headlines abt louis are always good, but. The other thing that are big headlines are him and Eleanor and Freddie, so... you tell me because he loves her obviously 🙄 (if you didn’t read that like louis get off my account)

Every heart breaks the same - gay or straight

Can’t I be the same, let me be the same - if you’re famous you might not have privacy and have a difficultlife espcially if it’s not something you always enjoy but those words are pleas ladies and gentlemen. He wants to be the same so his life can be easier. Aka he wants to be straight because being gay and famous is too hard, having to hide and pretend is hard. That’s all

If you only knew - I shouldn’t have to say anything this obviously speaks for itself. He isolated these words in every verse there’s always a pause before it. It is emphasized. He is telling us what we already know, there is so much we don’t know and probably will never find out.

Alrighty I’m done I don’t know why I wrote this because everything I said everyone already knows but this is what happens when you give me music and tumblr I stay up too late and then get too deep in conspiracies and write these pieces of shit. I am sorry for wasting your time on things you already knew Gn/gm/have a good day💓😂🤷🏾‍♀️