#f/o reminder

[crowtechs]

hi fellow selfshippers !! <3

daily reminder: selfshipping is for you! its definitely only ever *for* you! i completely understand feeling self conscious or weird for having a f/o, or gushing about a fictional character because we were a part of an era where it seemed odd or weird; but i assure you, its not weird! its comforting, its safe, its fun. you get to gush about your f/os or even your most favourites, the ones that have been with you FOR YEARS or recently came to you from new things you got into!!!

i know its really difficult to get your mind off that and let yourself enjoy it, its hard when you told yourself you wouldnt selfship EVER AGAIN then you came back to it because it made you happy but you are so afraid to gush openly or talk about your selfship, or talk about your f/o in fear of it being weird or odd; again, its not! its totally ok.

its a learning process, but do whatever *you* wanna do with your selfship <3 even if it may be scary or you are so incredibly self doubtful that you shouldnt do it because its silly or dumb, its not but its ok to have those thoughts! push through it, because youll find yourself falling in love again or remembering why this was so fun to you. it takes time, sure, but you will get through it. 

again, its not silly, or weird, or dumb, or odd, or even stupid to selfship. dont let others cruel words decide your life, your f/o loves you even after years of not seeing you, they love you and are so happy youre back; they missed you.

[platonic-qpr-selfshipping]

your demon f/o feels at ease when you're around

[canineluvz]

you and your f/o are made for each other. youre their world and no amount of doubt or worries can change that. they love you unconditionally and they know just how much you love them too. nothing can come between you and your f/o.

[rexscanonwife]

Hey. I'm not really one to throw my hat into the ring over any kind of discourse or anything like that, it's really not my style. But it is really upsetting seeing mutuals, especially my friends, openly and honestly kinda viciously put themselves down.

I struggled a LOT with self love/acceptance, and I know how hard it is to achieve it, but I promise you the effort is SO worth it. Self shipping, whether it's a coping mechanism or a hobby, is something that should make you happy, not sad, and believe me it is detrimental to your health to constantly be making a mockery of yourself, especially through the lense of something that you LOVE.

I know each one of you has boundless love for your f/os and for each other, turn it INWARD. Make your f/os as crazy about you as you are about them, even if you don't really believe it at first and I promise you that over time you will and self shipping will be more fun than ever.

[ectoplasmer]

you guys ever grab your f/o’s face and just *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehead kiss* *forehea

[bobmckenzie]

women selfshippers who aren't stereotypically feminine, whether in physical features or personality or anything, your f/o loves you just the way you are 💚 you are their ideal woman ! :)

[dreamwinged]

selfshippers this is your sign to block that one canon x canon ship tag that bothers you. it doesn’t make you weak or a coward ok!!! your comfort comes first!!!

[selfship-confession-box]

I'm an Autistic selfshipper who gets tons of comfort from my F/Os, so some reminders for my fellow Autistic selfshippers!!

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you no matter how many textures, foods, or items you have issues with

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never pressure you to talk if you didn't want to

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and understand if you want to be left alone, no matter how long

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and wouldn't think twice about accommodating your needs, big or small

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would do absolutely everything they could to make sure you're comfortable and feel safe around others

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and wouldn't mind leaving an event early if you didn't want to be there anymore

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never judge you for your interests, they love hearing about what you love as much as they love you

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and think you're always enough for them, you could never be "too much" or "too little" for them, they think you're perfect as you are

❤️ Your F/O(s) love you and would never mind doing whatever they need to calm you down if you're feeling overstimulated

Just in general, your F/O(s) love you! They're very proud of all you accomplish, even if it's hard for you! They love to support you, and they want you to know that they love you no matter what! (They told me themself, you can trust me)

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[kaibaspuppy]

for selfshippers who have violent or taboo intrusive thoughts:

your f/o would never see you as dangerous, a threat, or a monster over the contents of your intrusive thoughts. they know you can't control them (they're intrusive, after all) and they wouldn't judge you for something you can't control, not even subconsiously.

they love you with all their heart and nothing will ever change that, i promise! <3

pro/ship please dni! (>_<)~☆

[crowtechs]

hi did you know??

your f/o adores your voice! they rather listen to it than their favourite song.

they shush everyone around them, making it a huge deal that everyone should be listening to you, because to them, you are their entire world.

they adore listening to you talk about your interests, asking questions along the way. your f/o would listen to you speak about your day even if its the most mundane thing ever, it becomes so fascinating because its coming from you

your f/o could listen to you all day. they listen to your voicemails you send them on repeat for hours because they miss the sound of your voice. sometimes, on rare occasions, your voice lulls them to sleep.

either way, you are a huge comfort to your f/o; you are their safe person, whether it be your voice or not <3

[selfshipseaside]

☆ Reminder to all self-shippers that your f/os love you as you are! You'll never need to change for them, you are a perfect match for them no matter what anyone might say or elude to. Your personalities will compliment each other no matter how similar or dissimilar they are! You just have to trust them, because they love you!

[deathnot-e]

🌙 a friendly reminder ;

if I ever compliment one of your romantic f/os, say something like "what a baby!", "she's so gorgeous omg!", "he has such a lovely smile!", "they look so good, aw!" I always mean it platonically. this isn't me potentially thinking about adding them to my f/o list, it's me validating your choice in fictional partner and shipping you hard. ♡♡

[jokerislandgirl32]

Shoutout to the selfshippers who can’t draw their f/os and/or s/is! I know it can be extremely frustrating, but remember your f/o loves you and they wouldn’t want you to stress about drawing you and them together!

If you are unable to draw now, maybe your f/o will encourage you to keep trying until you’ve mastered the skills in the future. Or, if you are like me and you just can’t seem to get the hang of drawing, perhaps your f/o will remind you of your multitude of other talents, and encourage you to set aside the art for one of those talents they love!

Like maybe you are an amazing cook, singer, dancer, etc. They will want you to do what you love, what you are wonderful at: whatever makes you feel better because they love you, and seeing the smile on your face when you’re doing what you love/ are good at melts their heart!

Pr0ship DNI, please!

[lieutenantselnia]

Reminder that in your personal version of canon, you are your f/o's only true love <3

[qingxinships]

your f/o(s) love you flaws and all.

you might think that a certain flaw or behavior you have would be something they turn away from but they wouldn't. maybe you think you get too anxious or maybe you think you get too loud when you are excited about something but they don't mind. They love you for you, the negatives you might seem in yourself don't take away from the fact that they choose to love you the way you are just as you love them with their own flaws and attributes!

[starlit-roses-ships]

Oh, your f/os are so in love with how you look. You don’t even have to do anything special! No amount of makeup, specific clothes or hairstyles are needed for them to view you as the most attractive person they’ve laid eyes on. The way you captivate them so effortlessly never fails to make them feel butterflies, and it’s all simply because you are just the way you are 💖