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Watching The Pitt (Max) for the third time and I've noticed something.
Everyone points out Robby's misogynistic bias when stressed. But can we talk about Langdon's oblivious misogynistic issues??
Like he literally shrugs when Dana points out his wife could use a vacation and his reaction is "Don't I deserve one, I'm the doctor." Mind you he has two kids under four and from what I can tell, Abby his wife is a stay at home mom or a work from home mom, either way she is very obviously around the kids more than Langdon. Add on he got a dog without discussing it in general with HIS FUCKING WIFE.
And in Langdon's case, he's iffy when it comes to teaching female residents. Like Santos gets under his skin but as Robby points out, belittling and shaming are not good teaching tools and as Robby also points out, PTMC is a teaching hospital (Robby himself was even able to put his anger with McKay aside to have a teaching moment).
I think we miss it cause we all love the way he and Mel work together but he's very oblivious. And we won't know if it's just the drugs until season 2.
Honestly, all the characters of The Pitt have a blind spot.
Collin's literally points out McKay's when a plus size patient comes back in after crashing her car.
As a Writer: All the blind spots and imperfections are wonderful to see in characters. Whether we like it or not, the world is shades of grey and having character flaws is realistic.
#frank langdon#the pitt#michael robinavitch#the pitt (hbo)#character thoughts#dana evans#heather collins#cassie mckay#trinity santos#melissa king#It's beautiful writing#flaws are realistic#even when we don't like them
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None of them are equivalent to eachother but you get the point
#i love asshole characters#i love them EVEN MORE when they’re women#i support womens rights and womens wrongs#and they're all diferent kinds of assholes too#some of them are just bad bitches (kinda mean) and others are bad bitches (straight up murdered someone)#realistic flawed and incredibly entretaining#eleanor shellstrop#the good place#johanna constantine#the sandman#crazy jane#madame rouge#laura de mille#doom patrol#reagan ridley#inside job#crystal palace#dead boy detectives#i shouldve put esther too#i love her#Helen Sharp#madeline ashton#death becomes her#my stuff
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Ok fiiiine I don’t even really go here but my brain conjured up the idea of Steve Harrington, pre season 4, like after school picking up the kiddos after Hellfire, defending Lucas’s sports playing to his friends and Eddie. Like “wait I thought you liked nonconformity, or does it only count if it’s about the stuff you like? Let the kid do the things he likes, man”. Which is something they all need to hear I think but then it turns into Steve COMPLETELY obliviously and accidentally turning it into “it’s ok to be Bi” subtext.
Like “you can be more than one thing, you know? It’s ok to like both. They don’t have to cancel each other out.”
And the kids maybe aren’t picking up on anything but maybe one or two of them are subconsciously like “you can??? This is good to know and keep in my mind for future crises” meanwhile Eddie is like “Holy fucking shit is STEVE HARRINGTON bisexual?” and being launched head first into a crisis of his own.
It is so, so important to me that Steve has no idea that he’s doing this, and may not even be aware that he himself is, in fact, bi.
#steve harrington#eddie munson#Steddie#stranger things#I don’t think eddie’s view of Lucas Doing Sports is bad writing btw it’s a pretty common and realistic flaw for nerd teenagers to have#but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t warrant a little calling out#but the important thing here is#bi steve harrington
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Something something the winner takes it all. Vague doodles from my post canon thoughts... She did horrible, horrible things for that woman, and we should talk about it
#AM I EXAGGERATING. MAYBE. but i wanted to show the sheer extent of Flo's devotion to the admin#and i chose Scout to be the one she goes to first not only because she feels like he'll forgive her the easiest (Which is pretty awful of+#her but it's realistic in a way) but also because he is a father now and he would be heartbroken to hear this girl whom he had in such high+#regard was in fact flawed and not whatever idealized version of her that existed in his mind was#tf2#team fortress 2#tf2 scout#miss pauling#flo pauling#also I hope this doesnt come across as mindless angst for the sake of it... i actually have my reasoning i promise...!
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You could make a really cool cottagecore fantasy novel using the structure of Little House in the Big Woods. Where the main characters live in a stable environment and go about their daily lives dealing with the domestic details of the world, but they meet characters who have gone on adventures. So a huge chunk of the book is made up of the stories that these characters tell. The main characters would face very little peril, but you'd still have a book full of thrilling stories.
I'd try for a middle-grade fantasy. Center it on a group of siblings whose parents went on save-the-world adventures, but have settled down to raise a family. Maybe they run an inn that caters to people from a ton of the nations and races of this fantasy world. Or maybe they're just frequently visited by old adventuring companions who always have cool stories to share about the adventures they've been on or the events or history of their homeland.
#adventures in writing#i should have a tag for those story ideas i share because i like them but i'll realistically never write them#this one has more potential for my short-story writing tendencies though#if i ever get inspiration i could always write an individual story or two#and see if it develops the world enough to eventually make enough to link into a whole book#i'm combining this idea with a daydream premise i had about a year ago#(i don't think i wrote anything down which annoys me)#based on other classic children's lit formats#so there would be four siblings: two boys and two girls#who each have their own dreams and flaws to deal with#they probably each have a fascination/connection to one of the fantasy races#this is prob the same world with the rom com with the artistic introverted mermaid in an arranged marriage with the gregarious academic elf#could be a subplot with side characters here
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The erasure of uchiha contribution to konoha’s founding makes me so sad because that village was as much madara’s dream as it was hashirama’s and his part in it deserves to be remembered. How does izuna get erased from everything when he was one of the strongest people of that time, an equal to Tobirama, and his death was the literal catalyst to the peace treaty and the village’s creation?
#I get it was like a over a 100 years ago but it’s such a aignificant time period for shinobi I can’t imagine they wouldn’t learn about it#in academy#those are the creators of the modern era!! the revolutionaries who put an end to thousands of children dying!!#hashimada had powers which was considered godlike and unattainable and they used it to create the first place where shinobi were safe#yes the villages are incredibly flawed and children still die#but their existence is a hundred times better than anothing from the warring states period#you can’t end a status quo in one lifetime and I absolutely get madara’s frustration with that fact#because when your progressivism goes so much further than anything realistically possible to implement#and you know you or even your grandchildren will never see the vision that you’re fighting for because change takes time#that frustration is absolutely maddening#naruto#naruto shippuden#madara uchiha#uchiha izuna#hashirama senju#senju tobirama#founders era#naruto founders#uchiha things#uchiha clan
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Would you mind elaborating on what you mean by having to edit Stephs relationship with the bats in the fic?
before i read more about her character i assumed she had a more sibling relationship to the Bats and her mentorship with Bruce was different/more parental. i even had one of them refer to her as a sister or vice versa? but i know better now and went back and changed it. though she does comment that dick is like a brother to her i see it more as being good friends with your friend's/ex's/new partner's sibling, if that makes sense. i made a post a while back to clear up the miscommunication with the change but it has been a while
#now i know that steph and bruce did NOT have a father daughter relationship and honestly? good for her#it is kind of boring if EVERY kid in their circle ends up as his kid#now when you read bruce including her in things (such as him buying flowers for the girls) know it's because LoF bruce isn't written-#-by someone that hates women and thinks batman should be Like That#in the LoF household we're better than that#because i believe that in a world where people become superheroes to help people#they're GOOD PEOPLE#i don't care if it's “more realistic” and “characters have flaws” i'm not writing any of the heroes as abusive/sexist/racist/etc#because then they wouldn't be heroes#we're getting off topic#steph brown#bruce wayne
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I hate it when people villainize Craig for the way he deals with Tweek’s emotional outbursts sometimes
Like. Craig loves Tweek. He’s just also a very independent person who doesn’t always know how to handle his emotions in a healthy manner, let alone the emotions of a hyperactive paranoid 4th grader who has been drugged with meth (presumably) their whole life. Obviously this is in no way TWEEK’S fault, but he CAN at times be a bit clingy, latching onto the one person who will listen (in this case Craig) as he doesn’t get that same attention at home, and while this may be understandable, it’s still not an entirely healthy thing to be doing. Craig is absolutely someone that needs to work on himself as well, such as learning better ways to communicate and deal with his feelings, but people also seem to forget that he’s just a KID, and to be somewhat responsible for a whole other human being, especially one like Tweek, is probably a lot sometimes. As much as I love Tweek, he CAN be a bit intense. If a relationship is going to work out between them, there are things HE needs to work on just as much as Craig does.
#idk I just feel like some people hold their standards for this ELEMENTARY school relationship WAY too high sometimes#like they’re KIDS. it’s perfectly okay for them to have flaws and not always be this perfect couple 24/7#I feel like it’s more realistic yk? they’re still figuring a lot of shit out and that okay!#at the end of the day they love each other and are always able to come to a conclusion that works for them#and it’s their ability to just listen to each other-#even if it takes a bit to get there sometimes-#that makes them such a healthy couple in the first place#south park#tweek tweak#craig tucker#sp creek
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i liked the sparring scene from the start of siege of darkness a normal amount
#ugh i've been working on this for like several days#it's been so long since i fully shaded and rendered something so the perfectionist in me is tempted to just keep adjusting shading opacitie#but no i'm posting it now and then i'm never going to look at it again#lest i notice a mistake#artist things. you understand#these two... they are sooo good to me i love them they're adorable#i love them and their stupid personality flaws and their stupid will they won't they romance and their stupid mutual pining <3#ordinarily a male mc ogling at their love interest might come off as creepy but 1. drizzt has emotional issues so it's ok and 2. he's a gir#i almost put a lesbian flag behind him in the doodle of him staring at catti but i reeled it in#but for real transfem drizzt anyone? i've been thinking of this nonstop am i the only person to ever have thought of that?#i actually legit am shocked i've not seen anyone else in the fandom make that observation yet cuz he's SO transfem coded to me#it makes sooo much sense and catti-brie's relationship with wulfgar is like TEXTBOOK comphet too BUT WHATEVER WHATEVER it's fine it's fine#don't even worry about it#one day i'll rant about it#The Cattidrizzt Yuri Rant#it's on the horizon#but the point is they're cute & i like them#starless night and siege of darkness are def my favourite books so far#ESPECIALLY STARLESS NIGHT LITERALLY SUUUCH A GOOD BOOK#you know how long it's been since i got so obsessed with something that i drew this much fanart of it??? YEARS#it began SO SUDDENLY but these books have me in a CHOKEHOLD#legend of drizzt#drizzt do'urden#catti-brie battlehammer#catti-brie#putting 2 tags for her cuz realistically who is searching her name with the clan name on this site.#lod#forgotten realms#dnd#i feel like because of lighting my drizzt design's skintone looks comically different in every drawing i do of him
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flaws are what make characters interesting im all for addressing them but also 99% of the time warrior cats fans go on about squirrelflight being flawed specifically in relation to bramblestar or other characters, then usually they're either just making shit up or being wrong
#she is flawed in that she is written like a decently realistic person#but like she was right about hawkfrost she was right to lie about the kits she was right to try to help The Sisters idk what to tell you#'shes just as bad as bramblestar they are mutually toxic' is a take that's back in vogue and i have yet to see a scrap of evidence#that does not require ignoring all context and motivation in order to be bought#'she was an annoying apprentice' and yet you are a fan of crowfeather or nightheart or cloudtail or jayfeather or smth. interesting#wc talking
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I think about this everytime I look at him
#WE LOVE YOU HANK!!!!!!#<- Im the only one in the crowd 😔😔#I love him despite his flaws#i dont care that he wouldn't realistically fit the loading gauge I LOVE HIMMM#I LOVE BIG SOUTHERN MEN!!!!!!!#my fav himbo fr fr#ttte hank#ttte meme#ttte#thomas and friends#thomas the tank engine#ttte fandom
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i havent gone on a date with someone new in literally two years im so fucking nervous
#....slightly less than two years#my ex and i got together at the end of february 2023#and we broke up six months ago but the only two people ive seen since then are people i had flings with years ago#WHAT IF I SAY SOMETHING STUPID#WHAT IF HES NOT INTO ME#realistically i know im hot and interesting and reasonably funny#but godddddddd i cannot stop focusing on my flaws
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one thing i’ve never really seen explored in fics explicitly is the fact that despite both echo and tech being autistic, they were brought up in very different environments with different responses to their autistic traits.
tech’s special (war-related) interests and obsessive data gathering was likely encouraged by the kaminoans. he had a group of supportive brothers who were equally shunned by the other clones, but the kaminoans saw them as elite, and they internalized that. what the regular clones say can hurt, sure, but they aren’t the ones in power, the kaminoans are. the bad batch know they’re different from the other clones, but they think they’re inherently better. and yeah, the batch still tease tech and are outright mean about traits of his sometimes, but they stand by each other when it counts. tech’s differences make him special in a good way, and despite the hardships, he knows that.
but echo? echo’s batch were also shunned, they were an actual “bad batch”, but the kaminoans were upset by it. these weren’t special defective clones, these were just defective clones. echo in particular had his habits of repeating orders and obsessively reading reg manuals, and because his batch were all trying so hard to fit in with the others, they learned to look down on traits like that, echo included. i think echo has a good amount of internalized ableism not just as a formerly physically able-bodied person who suddenly lost three limbs and his autonomy, but just as an autistic guy growing up in a system that praises conformity to the extreme. he’s literally a CLONE. and not a special elite one, he’s supposed to be just like everyone else, but he isn’t. (fives might’ve even been so adamant about clones’ individuality because of this, because echo had internalized harmful ideas of conformity and fives wanted him to see past that. idk i might add on to that later lol)
my point being, i think it’d be really interesting to see echo clashing a bit with tech when he first joins the group. not in an outright mean way, not with the intention to harm, but just. on accident. he’s ignorant, and he’s learned over the years to suppress those traits in himself, so seeing someone so openly and freely embracing his passions and interests and differences would probably make echo uncomfortable in ways he wouldn’t even recognize.
he might make casual comments or jokes that are meant to be harmless or at the most self-deprecating, but that end up hurting tech. he might be stricter with tech in certain situations, like formal events that he’s learned the hard way to pay attention during, but that tech brushes off to mess with his datapad. i think echo would scold tech for little unimportant things, things that echo trained himself out of, because he thinks he’s doing him a favor when really he’s just perpetuating harmful ideas. they might even be things tech already is aware of but knows are ableist ideas, so he ignores them.
idk. i just think it’d be fun if, in addition to helping him accept all the changes that have happened to him, tech also helped echo learn to accept who he’s always been :D
and of course there would be the side plot of crosshair gradually getting more and more defensive and protective of tech when echo is being a bit of an unintentional dick and them inevitably butting heads in a big way because of it. because ofc they would :D
tagging @the-bi-space-ace and @phantom-of-the-501st cause why not lol
#idk echo has just always given off the vibes of someone who has put a LOT of work into appearing as neurotypical as possible#even if he’s grown out of it a bit and isn’t consciously doing it anymore#compared to tech who straight up could not care less#(spoken as someone who has put a lot of work into appearing neurotypical and often has to catch their own internalized ableism lol)#i just think it’s fun if he’s a realistic flawed little guy! he’s not perfect but he’s still trying his best!! and that counts!!#that counts so much!!!!!!#saturn starts yappin#tbb echo#tbb tech#echo tbb
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how i feel when i spent months in the trenches fighting to defend mabel and now i’m doing the same thing for ford

#yes he’s selfish yes he’s flawed but it’s realistic!!!#given the way that he and stan were raised (fuck filbrick) and that he was then stuck in an interdimensional portal for 30 YEARS#WITH BILL#guys he’s my pookie#and he developed! or have we forgotten about the stan o’war#he’s such a good character guys please please please#gravity falls#stanford pines#stanley pines#mabel pines
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Percy would sacrifice the world to save those he loves, Luke would sacrifice those he loves to save the world.
And Luke is the one in the right.
#I said what I said#“oh but that means he never loved them to beginn with-” WRONG.#It just means that he isn't willing to sacrifice litteraly EVERYTHING else for them; he still loved them and he'll still mourn them#to destroy everything for a person is romantic on the surface- it is horrid and selfish if you view is objectivley#Percy is wish fulfillment; Luke is reality.#Percy is what everyone WANTS a leader to be- idealized; morally always pure and clean#Luke is what a leader is realistically- flawed; morally grey and being forced to make bad decisions to avoid worse#pjo#luke castellan#percy jackson#percy jackson and the olympians#luke castellan apologist#pro luke castellan#luke castellan defense
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one of the appeals of cdrw to me is that rewind is incredibly selfish for wanting/forgiving cd for his terrible actions. he tells chromedome not to do mnemosurgery and still forgives him when he does. chromedome's actions cause rewind to fucking die and he still made him a video that said "i dont care about what you did, you are a better person now, flawed and all, and i love you". when chromedome does it again he cuts off his arm!! he cuts his fucking arm off for trying to kill himself!! his main criticism of fucking lobotomy is its killing his lover. rewind shoots megatrons spark at conception because he wants to save everyone else from their species's devastating wrath yet hugs his war criminal husband!! rewind does not hold chromedome to the standard of others because he loves chromedome and wants to believe he can be better. and that gives him so much character to me. number one chromedome apologist
#rewind hates prowl bc he hangs out with his husband too much lmaoo#rewinds selfish!! because he loves chromedome#its realistic flaw love blinding him#hes so stubborn about it#rewind i stand with my canceled wife#i cant help but love him for that#merc mumbling#cdrw
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