#genuinely devastated

[starmocha]

[semantic-vegas]

I’d rather die than confront a reality where swaymark are broken up

[cuz--fuckyou]

Not to make Bobby’s death about buddie but like HE CAN’T BE DEAD HE HASN’T GOTTEN TO LOOK SMUG ABOUT BUCK AND EDDIE GETTING TOGETHER YET

HE’S KNOWN FROM THE BEGINNING HE CAN’T DIE BEFORE THEY KISS EACH OTHER

[pippinscribs]

Local artist actually uses reference to draw character, turns out I gaslit myself into believing Kristen had curly hair

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

Can't believe this friendship breakup is one of the genuinely most upsetting moments in any romcom ever

[piosplayhouse]

// Danny smoke in furryland spoilers

KING MAGNUM DIED DRINKING THE GAY POTION??? FUCK THIS WORLD

[ectonurites]

the bar we do karaoke and trivia at every week is permanently closing i wanna scream

[my-dark-happy-place]

I just found out that my favorite perfume isn't being produced or sold anymore.

I am so genuinely devastated.

I only found some leftover stock on the douglas websites in Belgium and Slovenia but they don't ship here. So if anyone from those 2 countries wants to literally make my whole life pls dm me

[justanotherjaydrawing]

The story I was working on just got so much sadder and more intense than I had planned for it and now I am upset.

[spellmage]

whoever invented the concept of a spam folder i'm going to hunt you down and kill you

[cowlovely]

dunkin donuts has gotten rid of my beloved brisket scramble

[artistcarcass]

Quotev dying is emotionally devastating. I started using it in 2014 and met one of my longest friends on there, @xxsugarbones.

Losing messaging and specifically groups is rough. Sugar and I did so much story planning and writing in our own little group just for us and now seven years worth of it will be gone. I’ve already transferred a handful of important ones, but looking at all the ones we just can’t save hurts. It’s like losing the record of our friendship.

There’s a petition to prevent the update linked here. I don’t know if it will work, it may not. But seeing the community come together and put their everything into trying to save what little the site has left means the world to me.

I hope any recent migrates from Quotev can find a new community here. And if this goes through, here’s to what we had everyone. 🥂

[rosaaeles]

tw: mention of sexual harassment

yesterday i found out that a person i considered a friend (ill call them J for convenience) told someone on our uni course (ill call them k) about sexual harassment i faced last year.

i didn’t want J to tell anyone, especially not K seen as K and his friendship group were literally there when i got sexually harassed and bystood the whole event.

i keep trying to make sense of it but i cant. i cant rationalise it.

i told J about this confidentially. it told them about something super traumatic that happened in my life and now they’ve taken it and discussed it with someone who they know bystood the entire event and didn’t step in to help me whilst i was being harassed.

it makes me sick. J came up to me and told me yesterday and said “i know it wasn’t my thing to say, hope it’s okay that i did.” and it’s like???? if you knew it wasn’t your thing to say why did you? i made it explicitly clear that i didn’t want to talk to K or his friendship group. i’ve been ignoring them all year for a reason. i can’t look at them without panicking or feeling sick. i associate them with what happened to me, and i truly feel nauseous whenever i think about how none of them stepped in to help me or comfort me afterwards.

it feels like something has been taken from me. a trauma that should have been my own to decide what to do with now belongs to people i never wanted it to. only K knows for now i think, but the rest of his friendship group will soon and then all of them will know and i hate this so much. i feel so sick thinking about it.

i trusted J with something so personal and they used it as gossip fodder to become closer friends with K. i trusted J with an awful event and they fucking told one of the people that i directly associate with it.

it also feels like J never really cared about how deeply i was affected by being harassed. or like, they didn’t attach much weight to it and therefore thought it would be okay to talk about it. i’ve spent months trying to tell myself that what i experienced was serious and i wasn’t overreacting in the aftermath. it’s so devastating to feel like it’s all very trivial and just gossip.

i feel so distraught. i feel like im crazy. i can’t imagine doing the same to someone else. i dont know why J thought it would be okay.

idk if i’m making much sense rn, everything feels like a mess

[mrsimpstabler]

you cannot tell me that Otto isn’t unbelievably heartbroken here like HELLO??????? He covers it with anger in ep 5 and blames Alicent but he’s just tossing blame around bc he’s sad💔

[alittleannihilation]

it is simply my OPINION that jesse lacey should kill himself

[goobiesnoober]

Thinking Abt the big bird plush that I didn't get from the store cuz I was too scared to ask. I feel so bad I wanna go back and get him 💔💔💔