#headship and submission

[gospelborn]

Men and Women in Creation

14 Points from Genesis that emphasize male-female differentiation  What does it mean to be a man? What does it mean to be a woman? While it seems that this discussion is a fruitless endeavor that results in people only stating their personal preferences, we do find an objective perspective given to us in the first three chapters of Genesis that demonstrate the essential equality of men and…

[bvthomas]

The Test of True Faith: Submission, Love, and Obedience to God's Word

The Test of True Faith: Submission, Love, and Obedience to God’s Word Introduction In today’s Christian landscape, many believers tend to disregard what might be considered the “little doctrines” of the Bible—instructions that earlier generations revered and obeyed with deep reverence. Practices such as a woman covering her head while praying or prophesying, submitting to her husband, or the idea…

[spankedquail]

Dead Phone = Spanking

My phone ran out of batteries the last night, before a concert out with my girl friends. I texted him with my friend's phone, telling him what had happened. He replied and thanked us for letting him know.

Today, I was punished for it.

I knelt in front of him on the hardwood, stripped naked like I always am for punishments. Hands behind my neck, elbows out, eyes on his face.

"You need to pay more attention to how much battery you have left. When your phone dies, I can't check your location and make sure that you're safe. Do you understand?"

"Yes, sir."

"What will you do to prevent this from happening in the future?"

"I can check my phone's battery a few hours before I go out, sir."

A firm slap to my cheek, leaving it stinging. My eyes stung with the first tears of the night. "You said 'can' when I think you meant 'will'. Want to try again?"

"I will check my phone's battery a few hours before I go out, sir."

"Good girl. What else?"

"I will bring an extra battery pack with me when I go out, sir. I will make sure to keep that charged in case of emergencies, sir."

"Better. What do you think will happen if you forget again?"

"I'll get a spanking, sir."

"That, and you'll lose your privileges." Daddy is generous with me; I'm usually allowed to do whatever I want with my friends. But going out is something he can revoke at any point. It is a privilege now, not a right.

"Yes, sir."

"Alright. Get over my knee."

I got a taste of the wooden paddle for this lesson. He worked methodically, paddling me up and down my bottom, to the top of my thighs (which made me squeal), turning my backside a bright red.

I had to work hard to keep my cheeks loose, the way he expects. Clenching earns me thigh paddling as a warning, and repeated offenses escalate from a harder, longer, session with the corrective instrument at hand, or another additional punishment altogether, with a more fearsome option.

Eventually the tears came. He continued paddling my sore bottom until I was openly weeping, laying meekly across his lap. My punishments are usually around 20-30 minutes long, and my bottom is crimson with dusty white marks by the end of it. A regular red bottom is for maintenance; he takes correction seriously.

. . .

After corner time, he ordered me to my knees again. We often "complete" a correction with me providing oral service until he finishes in my throat. It's a way for me to show my gratitude for his correction, and to use my mouth, lips, tongue, and throat to express that I've learned my lesson.

I'm expected to keep my eyes on him as much as I can, even as I lap as his balls until I'm allowed to make my way back to his cock, depending on his mood. It's a very submissive act, and a powerful one.

From Spanking Your Wife, a great blog on domestic discipline:

The physical nature of her fellating him is fitting to the time after her correction. She shows her husband her natural position before him by kneeling. She shows her openness to his command and his teaching by stretching open physically for him. She receives his member as she receives his will. She shows her desire to serve him by focusing on pleasuring him completely.  These aspects of pleasuring he man express in action what she probably has expressed verbally during the spanking — her submission to him, and the reverence she has for his headship. Those words are quickly being put into action on her knees.

[thatgentlewife]

💍 Clearing the Confusion: Traditional Marriage, Intimacy, and God’s Heart

There’s a dangerous and painful lie going around that traditional men — especially Christian husbands — are more likely to rape or sexually abuse their wives. As someone who believes in biblical marriage, I want to lovingly speak into this with clarity and grace.

Let’s break it down. ⬇️

✘ Myth: Traditional, stay-at-home dynamics make wives vulnerable to sexual abuse.

✔ Truth: Abuse is never God’s design — and it’s not caused by tradition, but by sinful, selfish hearts.

A man walking in the love of Christ will never force, manipulate, or coerce his wife into intimacy. God’s design is mutual, joyful, and sacred union — not ownership or domination.

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…” — Ephesians 5:25

🔎 What is rape in marriage?

Marital rape is real and evil. It is any sexual act done without consent — whether by threat, coercion, force, or manipulation. This is not biblical headship. This is abuse.

A godly husband protects, cherishes, and serves. Intimacy in marriage should always reflect love, safety, and unity — not fear or harm.

💬 What about CNC and “Free Use”?

CNC (consensual non-consent) and “free use” roleplay are trends found mostly in secular and porn-influenced spaces. These terms reflect a twisted version of dominance and submission that often glorify humiliation, power imbalance, and objectification.

Even when labeled “consensual,” these practices often mirror past trauma, and studies show they can increase feelings of shame, insecurity, and disconnection over time.

God’s design is so much better than roleplaying sin.

💖 What does God’s design for intimacy look like?

• Sacrificial (Eph. 5:25) — rooted in service, not selfishness

• Joyful (Song of Songs) — a celebration, not a duty

• Safe (1 Cor. 7:3-5) — based in mutual care and communication

• Holy (Heb. 13:4) — honored and protected

• Healing — a place of wholeness, not wounds

God designed intimacy as a way for two people to become “one flesh” — emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It’s never supposed to be harmful or transactional.

If you’ve been hurt, manipulated, or confused by intimacy in marriage, you are not alone. There is healing in Jesus. His heart is tender toward your pain, and His truth brings freedom — not shame.

And if you feel called to live out a biblical, traditional marriage, don’t be afraid. God’s design is beautiful, and when both husband and wife are surrendered to Christ, marriage becomes a place of peace, protection, and joy.

“Perfect love casts out fear.” — 1 John 4:18

<3thatgentlewife

[soumuchforthat]

with evanatsu week 2023 starting up, here are my submissions for the first three days <3

the first two are for day 1, aka summer/princess

the third one is for day 2, duty/ambition

for day 3, tattoo/headship, i wrote a oneshot called 'fate in vain', which you can read here: x (HEAVY SPOILERS FOR UMINEKO)

[a-fundie-bunch]

Isaac started high school today - a secular high school. I can only pray that his faith will stay strong, while he's surrounded by all those un-Watcherly people and ideas... may The Watcher guide him and bless his soul!

I really, really didn't want him to go, but Paul insisted - and even if he's not a man of faith anymore, he's still my husband and headship. I just have to be submissive, and trust him to decide what's best for our son... even if it's difficult sometimes.

At least I'm still allowed to homeschool our daughters - to teach them how to be women of The Watcher, how to be pure and sweet and obedient. I don't know what I would do if I couldn't keep them safe at home with me - Watcher save them all!

[mybeautifulchristianjourney]

One reason some biblical topics are increasingly being discussed, dissected, and debated today is because people don’t like all that much what Scripture has to say on the subject. Surely, the Bible doesn’t mean that, does it?

This is certainly the case when it comes to submission and authority in marriage. However unpopular biblical male headship is today in secular society (and sadly in many churches as well), it is still God-ordained, even though it is often misunderstood and…

[under-the-eye]

Chastity Shearer has officially joined the family by becoming Mrs. Adam Loomis!

We held the ceremony at the Parish, officiated by Chastity’s father, the Pastor. A blizzard raged outside, but inside we warmed each other with the strength of our love and devotion to the Watcher’s holy design for us. Both of them had saved their first kisses for the altar, but that didn’t stop them from pouring out their passion when Adam was finally given permission to kiss his bride!

The vows were beautiful. Chastity swore to be meek and submissive to Adam as her headship, and Adam vowed to lead and protect her as his helpmeet. They made such a lovely couple under the wedding arch– Chastity usually wears her hair naturally, but Adam requested she straighten it for the wedding, and isn’t she the picture of beauty?

(A/N Yes Adam is That Guy)

We are so happy to welcome Chastity into our family. I pray that the Watcher gives them many, many blessings!

And another surprise at the wedding– Isla is expecting her first blessing! I’m going to be a grandmother!!

[apilgrimpassingby]

How To Identify A Porn Addict Pretending To Be A Traditional Man

(This list is verbatim from @branwenferchllyr - again, halfway between feminist and tradfem - by DM, hence the very conversational sound of the language. Thanks Branwen, and I assume it's okay to share it. My comments are in italics).

An obsession with female submission, subservience, male 'headship', men having authority over women. Sure, there are just fundamentalist/traditionalist Christians who believe those things without being porn addicts, but they don't talk about it as much as the LARPers do, and when they do they tend to have much more nuanced opinions on it. There was a study done a while ago in which it was found that people who watch a lot of porn are less likely to believe in women's rights, autonomy etc. I'd honestly really like a link to that study or details of date, results and methodology, so I can bring it up in discussion.

So porn addicts objectify women, we know this, so here's something I've picked up on on the fetishy blogs: they'll reblog pictures where you can't see women's faces, zooming in on just their body parts. Typically it'll be the very small waists of women in 1650s dresses. Women wearing aprons from the neck down. A lot of the 1950s pinup stuff in general. Again, there are people (usually women) who just like the aesthetics/the fashion etc, but usually when it's a man reblogging pictures like that it rings alarm bells to me because of how I've seen them talk about these pictures before.

Some people have their follow lists and likes visible. Take a look at who they're following and what posts they're liking. There's a guy on here I was told about, @atraditionalgent, who follows a lot of the 'female inferiority' kinksters and likes their posts, whilst masquerading as a gentleman. If you want the evidence, Branwen has the screenshots of his now-hidden follows and I assume she'll provide them if you ask her for them.

Here's another big one: they spend a lot of their time reblogging posts about what a traditional woman should do... but not what a traditional man should do.

Oh, also anything to do with domestic discipline.

Oh, also another big telltale sign, which I saw @atraditionalgent do: they will capitalise the H for Him and the M for Man, in contrast with not doing the same for women. Which, considering they claim to be Christians, is deeply sacrilegious and hubristic. At least he's not claiming to be Christian.

[thefundiesaga]

TheNaylorFam

Rosabella returns home 🏡

Our dearest Rosabella is a young adult now :) Rosabella has a strong relationship with the watcher although during her pre teen and teenage years she struggled with our families devotion. However she was lucky to attend "Voyage of Discovery" for young ladies. This program is run for a few weeks and involves young ladies and teens becoming closer to the watcher through service of prayer , spreading the word of the watcher and mentoring others.

Rosabella is like a new person since she returned. She is so meek and mild . She is still waiting to meet her forever soul mate but she did speak of how close she became to one of the leaders at the retreat and they have continued to communicate since she came home! How neat is that! Of course we are thrilled to have her home, my husband Ralph is still her headship for now but we are prayerful that MR RIGHT comes soon! Rosabella loves to play the violin and piano . She has a a strong heart for children and would love to be a Mommy someday. If any of you mothers have any sons looking for a submissive true watcherful wife , let me know! 😉Until next time ...

Renee Naylor

AN: Yep Rosabella went all journey to the heart and took everything to heart. Also that leader she is close to will be showing up soon and y'all aren't ready. Until she is stuck in the house with Renee trying to sell her off.

[rose-reads-visualnovels]

What do you think motivates George to pursue Shannon, sure it's a power trip for him but how does benefit his plans to steal the headship from Jessica ?

The answer is pretty simple actually: lust misconstrued as love. Pretty, submissive Rose Furniture Shannon is the reward he's separated for himself for all of his future hardwork. Doesn't he apply himself to his father's company? To the Ushiromiya Family? Surely, a simple prize like Shannon isn't asking for much?

I really don't think the Shannon thing is that complicated to George. He's probably not aware of her "magic" status since the only Furniture to separate themself is Kanon. She's a pretty servant girl he's supposedly dating. Maybe he considers her a breath of fresh air? She's not tangled up with Family Drama (to his knowledge. I think she's so deep in it she's drowning.)

-- Rose, the Revolutionary Witch

[templevirgin]

“When I first began RCIA, my husband was still away from the church (he was a cradle Catholic that had stopped attending mass in college because other Catholics had left a bad taste in his mouth).

When my priest asked me about my faith background, he asked me if my husband was supportive of my conversion. I said yes, but, he himself was currently no longer attending mass and I’d like him to be fully invested again, but didn’t want to overstep my role as wife.

I thought I was being a good, submissive little wife. But my priest rebuked me.

It was *my* job to help bring him back into the church. It was *my* job to help secure his salvation.

I was not to skirt around the edges and remain silent. I was to be the active, co-caretaker of my husband’s soul.

All that’s to say, as a wife, submission to your husband’s headship is a good and right thing. But you always submit to God first.”

- Alicia Bittle, writer for Evie Magazine

[arp-omni]

probably the best writing I've read on this topic so far, part 2 discusses women in abusive relationships but honestly read all of it, it's all necessary and provides context especially if you aren't familiar with evangelical beliefs and how far-reaching they are.

"For women in particular, who are raised in a church culture whose highest ideal for them is submission and obedience to the “headship” of a husband, the pressure to react to abuse with further submission and obedience is both internal and external. In Unholy Charade: Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church, the pastor and author Jeff Crippen lays out a series of theological justifications for abuse. In particular, he singles out the idea of total and unquestioning submission to authority, as conveyed in the teachings of wildly popular (and sexually abusive) Christian homeschooling guru Bill Gothard, as a means to quell “rebellion” in women who are being abused. “Teachings like this, which strike fear into the heart of an obedient Christian,” Crippen writes, “can work to keep a victim in a domestically abusive situation far past the time when the situation has become intolerable for her and her children."

"haha these alpha trad men really just have dom/sub kinks!" i know misogyny isn't real to a lot of you guys but did you know that some people just actually do genuinely think women are inferior creatures

[donaldjensan]

Published on YouTube: Cuckold intimacy exchange of destiny part 1

“Cuckold intimacy Exchange: The Spirit of Reversal, Siphoning & S3X Vampirism” In this eye-opening teaching, I expose the spiritual and psychological dimensions of cuckold sex exchange—a rising trend in relationships that is far more than just a fetish. This is not just about sex. It’s about power reversal, soul fragmentation, and spiritual theft. Many are unknowingly engaging in rituals that siphon identity, authority, and divine masculinity—transferring it to demonic systems through the gateway of humiliation, voyeurism, and passivity. 🔻 What You’ll Learn: • What “cuck” really means—and why it’s rooted in ancient emasculation rituals • How cuckold dynamics create soul ties and open doors to vampiric spirits • Why the spirit of siphoning targets leaders, prophets, and kingdom men • How this dynamic leads to reversal of headship, and the ritual dethroning of the man • Biblical truths to break free from these cycles of sexual submission and spiritual power loss This video is for those who want to understand the real cost of lust-based exchange, reclaim their spiritual authority, and cut the cord to perversion, passivity, and powerlessness. 🩸 It’s time to stop feeding vampires and reclaim your crown. ⸻ 🔔 Subscribe for more prophetic teachings, deliverance insights, and spiritual blueprints for Kingdom restoration. 📖 Follow me @DrAmecaCooley | #CuckoldSpirit #occultDeliverance #SoulTies #ReclaimYourAuthority #SpiritualWarfare #SiphoningSpirits #BecomingQueen #diddy #cassie #puffdaddy #rituals Cuckold intimacy exchange of destiny part 1 published first on https://www.youtube.com/@GodWon3/ via https://godwon3.blogspot.com/2025/06/published-on-youtube-cuckold-intimacy.html

[a-fundie-bunch]

My new book, A Watcherly Man's Guide to Family Life, has been published! It's been a huge success in our community, and all my Men's Association friends told me they've been reading it. The chapter on submission and headship in the household was particularly well-received!

Speaking of my household, things are going well there. My youngest boy, Caleb, is an infant now, and a very energetic one too. He sure keeps Nicole busy!

I have to say, though, that my home has been so much cleaner since Sophia started helping her mother with all the housework. Today she even cleaned up the boys' room after they left their toys out. Nicole's right about her - she's a good girl, and she's going to grow up one day to be a good, Watcher-honoring young woman.

[mybeautifulchristianjourney]

Q: What does it mean that the husband is the head of his wife?

A: “I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God” (1 Cor.11:3).

Verse 3 outlines a series of overlapping relationships: “The head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.” Anyone familiar with the scholarship on this issue knows that the little word “head” (kephale) has killed a lot of trees. Scholars, using their expertise in Greek and the latest computer software, have gone back and forth in articles and books arguing whether kephale means “authority over” or “source” (like the head of a river is its source). Others have argued that the…