How to improve your self-esteem?
Venus in the houses
Venus is our self-esteem and values. The house Venus sits in can show us hints on how to help ourselves to build healthy strong self-esteem. Let’s go!
Venus in the 1st house
Of course, the main key here is your appearance. I don’t mean that you must be always gorgeous and pretty. However, it is very important for you to feel that you fit at least your standards. Hair and make-up play a big role. You feel more confident when you like your look. NB!! Not others, but you! Also, your self-esteem grows when you socialize and show your identity in group settings. Don’t hide all the gorgeous talents you have! You MUST show them to the world. Be assertive when it is necessary because achieving goals and being the best is the number one key to your self-confidence. One more thing: aesthetics. Since Venus is in the first house, which makes this planet rising, that means that the qualities of Venus are important to express as well. Aesthetics, art, beautiful things, music, poetry, acting, and everything where you can show your talents. Also, although the first house is ME and my identity, Venus requires peace and balance. It is not easy, but you have to find a balance between showing yourself and being on the same wavelength as others.
Venus in the 2nd house
Here Venus is in its own house. Meaning that the themes of this house are emphasized. Your self-esteem improves when you feel safe and all is set: you have a nice place to live, you have a good salary, and your surroundings are harmonious. Defining your values helps to gain self-confidence. It is totally okay to express your material desires. They make your self-esteem improve. This is the essence of the 2nd house. Save money to have a backup but don’t be strict with yourself. If you really want something, just get it! The key to your self-esteem is your well-being. When you are fed well, dressed well, and generally feel good, you are confident. Any aesthetic activity that makes you feel calm and satisfied is good. Art and other creative areas also may help you because it develops your sense of beauty and allows you to express your talents.
Venus in the 3rd house
Your self-esteem is growing when you feel that you are an interesting companion. The worst nightmare is when people call you boring. That is why sometimes you are trying too hard to attract attention. However, it is only because of your insecurities. I think the key here is to allow yourself to be outgoing and funny personality which you are. Express your interest in communication and exploration. Your self-esteem improves when you feel knowledgeable. You need to constantly receive and share some interesting information. Also, learning something will increase your self-esteem as well. It can be anything: from cooking to science. You just need new knowledge to feel your self-worth and it is okay because it is the way your Venus feels at home. Don’t be afraid to show your knowledge, and make new friends and connections. Also, writing is very good for you. For example, you can express your feelings on paper. It might help you to build a strong relationship with yourself.
Venus in the 4th house
Your self-esteem improves when you are in touch with your emotions and your subconscious needs are met. It is very important not to suppress emotions and feelings. Also, helping and understanding make you feel needed. Sometimes it is not so good thing to seek this feeling, but for Venus in the 4th house supporting and helping someone is beneficial. Every field and place where you can express your ability to FEEL will be useful. For example, psychology, astrology, volunteering, etc. Also, as you know, the 4th house = home. Meaning that you MUST have your own safe place to restore your energy resources. Decorating and cleaning are helpful for your Venus because on a subconscious level you perceive this home as welcoming and safe.
Venus in the 5th house
One word — self-expression. As simple as that, your self-esteem improves when you express yourself and your talents. If you don’t show your creativity, it will grow inside you and turn into poison. So it is so important to express that! Even if you think that the idea is stupid, please just try! Because it is not only about the result but also about the process. Also, showing others your warm and generous side will help your Venus a lot. Be yourself and don’t hide even weird and unusual sides of you because it is still you. Love yourself and respect your desires, enjoy life, and be optimistic about the world! Also, your self-esteem improves when you are the best at something. It shouldn’t be something great, it can be just a little thing that is only yours.
Venus in the 6th house
Your self-esteem improves when you build your plans and fulfill them. Yes, the 6th house here is all about working on yourself. You feel fulfilled when you follow your own rules and routines. It makes you feel like everything is in its place. Sometimes others find your little habits weird but it is who you are. Also, healthy nutrition and sport will make you feel more confident. Being healthy and put together improves your self-esteem. In addition, helping others helps you as well! The 6th house is all about service and when you help someone you feel fulfillment. It is just your essence so don’t hide it!
Venus in the 7th house
Venus here is in its own house but this placement is kind of tricky. Sometimes your self-esteem depends on your partner and you can’t find solid ground for your own personality. It can be so frustrating that you may feel even empty without a partner. However, this situation is not healthy because Venus and the 7th house are all about balance. Yes, Venus in the 7th house screams PARTNERSHIP, but you need to find balance. Give and take equally, respect each other and find harmony in this relationship. This is the main lesson for Venus in the 7th house. Your self-esteem improves when you and your partner find balance and peace in your relationship.
Venus in the 8th house
The 8th house is all about transformations so sometimes having Venus in the 8th house feels unbearable. Your self-esteem transforms constantly. Sometimes you almost don’t feel it but sometimes it breaks your heart. However, it is the essence of this placement. You need to transform yourself and the perception of your values. Life will give you a lot of critical situations that will test your values and self-confidence. Yes, this is not an easy placement to have, but this tough experience makes your self-esteem unbreakable and solid and you become wise and unstoppable.
Venus in the 9th house
Your self-esteem improves when you get new experience and share it with others. It is so important for you to explore the world and build your own philosophy in life. You need to dig deep into the definition of the word «freedom». Your self-esteem improves when you feel no pressure and when you can do whatever you want with your life. Advice-giving is so good for your Venus. You have a lot to share with others so do that! Also, any kind of exploration of other cultures is good, whether it be a new language or travel. Your self-esteem improves when you can help others using your own experience. That is why you would be a great couch!
Venus in the 10th house
Your self-esteem improves when you are the best of the best in your field. You need respect and admiration from others. However, it is important to mention the difference between dependence on someone's opinion and deserved admiration for hard work. The second case is about Venus in the 10th house. Your self-esteem improves when you work hard on your goal and it doesn’t matter how big it is. You just need to build a plan and follow it until your goal is reached. Your self-esteem NEEDS to have a goal. It can be something small but also don’t shy away from big ones!
Venus in the 11th house
Your self-esteem grows when you are not afraid to express your authentic self and show your weird sides to the world. It is extremely important not to think about the opinion of others when it comes to your self-expression and creativity. Sometimes your ideas may seem strange but it is where the real innovation lies! Your self-esteem improves when you feel that your life is fully yours and you can do whatever you want. Also, like-minded people give you confidence because you know that you are not the only one. In addition, participation in some social activities helps your Venus to feel better. For example, charity or fighting for someone's rights.
Venus in the 12th house
Your self-esteem improves when you can express your deep emotions through creativity. Whether it be music or theatre, you need to find a way to free your endless feelings. It can be something small! Also, your self-esteem improves when you help those who are in need. However, be careful! Your sweet soul sometimes doesn’t understand when people take advantage of you. Everything must be in balance. Also, you need to find a field where you can use your empathic gifts to help others. For example, psychology, astrology, therapy, etc.
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Queer MTL : quoi faire en mars 2024 // Queer MTL things to do: March 2024
QUEER MTL THINGS TO DO: March 2024
The year keeps marching on, and spring is on its way (not to mention International Women’s Day)! This month, Montréal is stuffed to the brim with events, parties and unique experiences painted in all the colours of the LGBTQ+ rainbow. From drag to community, circuit to underground, here’s some of our picks for the best LGBTQ+ things to do in the city. For further announcements, including those not announced at time of publication, follow Queer MTL on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Tumblr! Got an event coming up? DM it our way!
LEGEND
🎥 Cinema
👑 Drag
🥳 Parties
🎶 Concert
✊ Activism
🏳️⚧️ Trans
🏳️🌈 Community
😆 Comedy
🎭 Performance
💪 Sports and Dance
👯♀️ Dance
🎤 Karaoke
🎨 Arts
📚 Literary / Educational
👠 Ballroom / Vogue
Vendredi 1 mars / Friday, March 1
🏳️🌈 FAG QC* : 40 ans, 40 invité.es, 40 propositions tirées des Fonds des Archives Gaies du Québec, commemorating 40 years of the AGQ, Archives gaies du Québec
📚 Québec Lesbian Network hosts Colloque Recherches lesbiennes, Réseau des lesbiennes du Québec
🥳 Britney One More Time: 25 Years of Britney Dance Party, Cabaret Berlin
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Vendredi Fou with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
🤠 Club Bolo—Danse Country Montréal meet on Fridays at the Association sportive et communautaire du Centre-Sud
Samedi 2 mars / Saturday, March 2
🏳️🌈 FAG QC* : 40 ans, 40 invité.es, 40 propositions tirées des Fonds des Archives Gaies du Québec, commemorating 40 years of the AGQ, Archives gaies du Québec
🥳 Pikete presents Raveton with Jaijiu, Alta Magia, Jashim, Mcherry, La Niña Kiwi and Whorito, La Sotteranea
🥳 BLUSH x Nuit Blanche Montréal : Ménagerie with performers HercuSleaze and Lizzy Strange, DJs Patience, Girl, DJ Thatz and Glowzi, videographer Slug Bait and gogo dancers Dora Bones, Just Horny, Mina Minor and Stupid Baby Cupid at Nouvel établissement
🥳 Nuit Blanche—7 Péchés Capitaux, Le Protocole Kinky Lounge
🎤 Bareoke: Strip Karaoke, Café Cléopatra
👑 Jimmy Moore presents Madonna: The Celebration Tour, Cabaret Mado
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Jackbox Games with Uma Gahd and Selma Gahd, Bar Le Cocktail
👑 Drôles de Drags with Miss Butterfly, Ciathanight, Crystal Starz or Emma Déjàvu in rotation, Bar Le Cocktail
👯 Tango/Salsa Queer holds lessons every Saturday, visit queertangomtl.com for information or contact
[email protected] or call +1 (514) 709-4678 for prices and signup information, Espaces des Arts
Dimanche 3 mars / Sunday, March 3
🎭 Ligue d’impro Gailaxie, Cabaret Mado
👑 Le Tracy Show with Tracy Trash, Marla Deer, Bobépine, Robin Brutal, Faymiss and Kelly Torrieli Cabaret Mado
👑 Dimanche Show with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
Lundi 4 mars / Monday, March 4
😆 Trivia Night with PamDemic, La Casona
Mardi 5 mars / Tuesday, , March 5
👑 Full Gisèle : Spring Break with Gisèle Lullaby, Johnny Jones, Lana Dalida, Prudence and Victoire de Rockwell, Cabaret Mado
😆 Stand Up St. Henri Open Mic focusing on women, non-binary, queer and allied comedians, Impro Montréal
Mercredi 6 mars / Wednesday, March 6
🎨 Drink & Draw by @Hommehomo, Bar Le Cocktail
🎶 Glitterer with Glixen and Seed Toss, La Sotterenea
😆 Very Pretentious Comedy presents 30/30: Raquel Maestre and Yumi Blake at the Poly Mic with Raquel Maestre, Yumi Blake and Sarah Warren, Bar Notre-Dame-Des-Quilles
👑 Crystal and the Pals with Crystal Starz, Victoire de Rockwell, Eden Ashes and Rawxy, Cabaret Mado
Jeudi 7 mars / Thursday, March 7
📚Colloque international : Éthique queer, corporalités queer / Queer Ethics, Queer Embodiments conference, in French and English, Université de Montréal Pavillon Lionel-Groulx
🏳️🌈 Comité Queer Pointe-Saint Charles hosts Cuisine collective, Club Populaire des Consommateurs
👑 Girls’ Night Out with Krystella Fame, Tracy Trash, Bobépine and Jessie Précieuse, Cabaret Mado
👑 Concours MX Cocktail, Bar Le Cocktail
Vendredi 8 mars / Friday, March 8
📚Colloque international : Éthique queer, corporalités queer / Queer Ethics, Queer Embodiments conference, in French and English, Université de Montréal Pavillon Lionel-Groulx
🥳 Queen & Queer’s Lesbo-queer dance party is back for its Édition Journée Internationale des Droits des Femmes with Maus and DJ Sam, Société des arts technologiques [SAT]
🥳 Cerise Noire goth night with Shillelagh Jones and Elizabeth Leslie, Bar NDQ
🎶 Matana Roberts solo with special guests, La Sala Rossa
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Vendredi Fou with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
🤠 Club Bolo—Danse Country Montréal meet on Fridays at the Association sportive et communautaire du Centre-Sud
Samedi 9 mars / Saturday, March 9
📚Colloque international : Éthique queer, corporalités queer / Queer Ethics, Queer Embodiments conference, in French and English, Université de Montréal Pavillon Lionel-Groulx
📚 The Violet Hour Book Club reads Yukio Mishima’s Confessions of a Mask, Archives gaies du Québec
🥳 Jhalak presents Rangoli: A Queer and Trans South Asian Party with DJ Deep, Bar Champs
🥳 Armada Montréal RFC hosts Players with D’Jimi, Lion d’Or
🎭 Le Coin des Arts Montréal / Montreal Art Nook, White Wall Studio
👑 Jimmy Moore personnifie Rihanna, Cabaret Mado
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Drôles de Drags with Miss Butterfly, Ciathanight, Crystal Starz or Emma Déjàvu in rotation, Bar Le Cocktail
👯 Tango/Salsa Queer holds lessons every Saturday, visit queertangomtl.com for information or contact
[email protected] or call +1 (514) 709-4678 for prices and signup information, Espaces des Arts
Dimanche 10 mars / Sunday, March 10
👑 Afternoon Drag Café with Awful, La Pitre, Spiked Corona and Teddy Boop, L’Orbite
👑 Le Brunch aux Folles with Misty Waterfalls, Esirena and Selma Gahd, Bar Social Verdun
🎭 Ligue d’impro Gailaxie, Cabaret Mado
👑 Le Tracy Show with Tracy Trash, Pétula Claque, Kiara, Bambi Dextrous and Aizysse Baga, Cabaret Mado
👑 Dimanche Show with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
Lundi 11 mars / Monday, March 11
🎶 The Dandy Warhols, Le Studio TD
😆 Trivia Night with PamDemic, La Casona
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
Mardi 12 mars / Tuesday, March 12
🎶 Video Age with Sean Nicholas Savage, l’Escogriffe Bar Spectacle
👑 Full Gisèle : Invasion Maritime with Gisèle Lullaby, Brooke Rivers, Trinity Foxx, X and Jessie Précieuse, Cabaret Mado
👑 Garden of Shade : Heroes vs. Villains with Lulu Shade, Sarah Winters, Lady Boom Boom, Ciatha Night, Skyler Rey and Stella Stone, Bar Le Cocktail
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
🏳️🌈 Formation gratuite sur les familles LGBT+, Coalition des familles LGBT+
😆 Stand Up St. Henri Open Mic focusing on women, non-binary, queer and allied comedians, Impro Montréal
Mercredi 13 mars / Wednesday, March 13
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
Jeudi 14 mars / Thursday, March 14
👑 Le Meilleur des Grands Concerts with Tracy Trash, Bobépine, Johnny Jones, Lana Dalida, Marla Deer, Sasha Baga, Bambi Dextrous, Ruby Doll, Clay Thorris and Nicole Lamotte, Cabaret Mado
🎭 Queer Magique presents DIVAS, Café Cléopatra
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Concours MX Cocktail, Bar Le Cocktail
Vendredi 15 mars / Friday, March 15
🎭 Queer Magique presents DIVAS, Café Cléopatra
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Vendredi Fou with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
📚 Queer Oral History Workshop with Liam Devitt, Centre for Oral History and Digital Storytelling
🤠 Club Bolo—Danse Country Montréal meet on Fridays at the Association sportive et communautaire du Centre-Sud
Samedi 16 mars / Saturday, March 16
🎤 Bareoke: Strip Karaoke, Café Cléopatra
🎶 Stereolab’s Laetitia Sadier with Lola 1:2, Bar Le Ritz PDB
🎶 Chelsea Wolfe, Club Soda
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
🏳️⚧️ Atelier : Devenir parent (personnes trans ou non-binaires), Coalition des familles LGBT+
🏳️🌈 Comité Queer Pointe-Saint Charles hosts Soirée Cabaret, Press Start Youth Coop: Bâtiment 7
🥳 Queer Wine Night Edition No. 2, Vinorama
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Drôles de Drags with Miss Butterfly, Ciathanight, Crystal Starz or Emma Déjàvu in rotation, Bar Le Cocktail
👯 Tango/Salsa Queer holds lessons every Saturday, visit queertangomtl.com for information or contact
[email protected] or call +1 (514) 709-4678 for prices and signup information, Espaces des Arts
Dimanche 17 mars / Sunday, March 17
🎭 Ligue d’impro Gailaxie, Cabaret Mado
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
🏳️🌈 Cabane à sucre des familles 2SLGBTQ+, Coalition des familles LGBT+
🏳️🌈 Monkland Quilt Studio hosts Rainbow Stitching Days, Monkland Quilt Studio
👑 Le Tracy Show with Tracy Trash, Marla Deer, Océane Aqua-Black, Sasha Baga, Eva Moist and Crystal Starz, Cabaret Mado
👑 Bonne fête Sally-D with Sally-D, Bar Le Cocktail
Lundi 18 mars / Monday, March 18
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
😆 Trivia Night with PamDemic, La Casona
Mardi 19 mars / Tuesday, March 19
🎶 Otoboke Beaver with Drinking Boys and Girls Choir, Beanfield Theatre
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Full Gisèle : Beach Party with Gisèle Lullaby, Kiara, Adriana, Démone Lastrange and Rose Beef, Cabaret Mado
😆 Stand Up St. Henri Open Mic focusing on women, non-binary, queer and allied comedians, Impro Montréal
Mercredi 20 mars / Wednesday, March 20
🏳️🌈 Haircuts Without Appointment for LGBTQ+ community members who are unemployed or on low income, Centre communautaire LGBTQ de Montréal
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Le Sami Party with Sami Landri, Cabaret Mado
Jeudi 21 mars / Thursday, March 21
👑 RuPaul’s Drag Race UK vs. The World contestant Marina Summers, Cabaret Mado
👑 Sashalicious with Sasha Baga, Scarlett Evans, Will Charmer and Maeva Evans, Cabaret Mado
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Concours MX Cocktail, Bar Le Cocktail
Vendredi 22 mars / Friday, March 22
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
🏳️🌈 Spring into Action: Outrage, full lineup here, QPIRG | GRIP McGill
👑 Vendredi Fou with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
🤠 Club Bolo—Danse Country Montréal meet on Fridays at the Association sportive et communautaire du Centre-Sud
Samedi 23 mars / Saturday, March 23
📚 Violet Hour continues its literary series with Making Space featuring Michael Belcher, Paige Maylott and Marcus McCann, Casa d’Italia Montréal
🥳 Lez Dance presents Le retour de DJ Franklyne à la Taverne Urbaine! with DJ Franklyne, 1309 Taverne Urbaine
😆 Matteo Lane: The Al Dente Tour with Tranna Wintour, Olympia de Montréal
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Jimmy Moore personnifie Taylor Swift, Cabaret Mado
👑 Drôles de Drags with Miss Butterfly, Ciathanight, Crystal Starz or Emma Déjàvu in rotation, Bar Le Cocktail
👯 Tango/Salsa Queer holds lessons every Saturday, visit queertangomtl.com for information or contact
[email protected] or call +1 (514) 709-4678 for prices and signup information, Espaces des Arts
Dimanche 24 mars / Sunday, March 24
😆 Matteo Lane: The Al Dente Tour with Tranna Wintour, Olympia de Montréal
🎭 Ligue d’impro Gailaxie, Cabaret Mado
👑 Le Tracy Show with Tracy Trash, Pétula Claque, Kitana, Peggy Sue and Lady Boom Boom, Cabaret Mado
👑 Dimanche Show with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
Lundi 25 mars / Monday, March 25
😆 Trivia Night with PamDemic, La Casona
Mardi 26 mars / Tuesday, March 26
🎶 Olivia Rodrigo: Guts World Tour, Bell Centre
🎶 Arlo Parks with Chloe George, Beanfield Theatre
👑 Full Gisèle : Burlesque, le Film with Gisèle Lullaby, Pétula Claque, Lady Boom Boom, Miss Fountain, Sasha Baga and Celes, Cabaret Mado
😆 Stand Up St. Henri Open Mic focusing on women, non-binary, queer and allied comedians, Impro Montréal
Mercredi 27 mars / Wednesday, March 27
🎶 Olivia Rodrigo: Guts World Tour, Bell Centre
Jeudi 28 mars / Thursday, March 28
🎶 Rêve with RALPH, Fairmount Theatre
🏳️🌈 Comité Queer Pointe-Saint Charles hosts Club de lecture Queer, Bibliothèque Saint-Charles
👑 Trashilaz with Aizysse Baga and Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Concours MX Cocktail, Bar Le Cocktail
Vendredi 29 mars / Friday, March 29
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Vendredi Fou with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
🤠 Club Bolo—Danse Country Montréal meet on Fridays at the Association sportive et communautaire du Centre-Sud
Samedi 30 mars / Saturday, March 30
🎤 Bareoke: Strip Karaoke, Café Cléopatra
🥳 District Events presents Locker Room with Reid Bourgeois, Alain Jackinsky and Mateo Tomas, Bain Mathieu
👑 Mado Reçoit with Special Guests, Cabaret Mado
👑 Jimmy Moore personnifie Britney Spears, Cabaret Mado
👑 Drôles de Drags with Miss Butterfly, Ciathanight, Crystal Starz or Emma Déjàvu in rotation, Bar Le Cocktail
👯 Tango/Salsa Queer holds lessons every Saturday, visit queertangomtl.com for information or contact
[email protected] or call +1 (514) 709-4678 for prices and signup information, Espaces des Arts
Dimanche 31 mars / Sunday, March 31
👑 Jimmy Moore presents Madonna: The Celebration Tour, Cabaret Mado
👑 Star Queens : Pâques with Plane Jane, Aurora Matrix, Denim, Pythia and Carmen Sutra, Cabaret Mado
👑 Dimanche Show with Michel Dorion, Bar Le Cocktail
OTHERS / LES AUTRES
🏐 Les Ratons-Chasseurs (Montréal’s LGBTA dodgeball group) holds regular events. Keep an eye on their Facebook for upcoming opportunities to join in and play.
🕹Montréal Gaymers hosts regular gatherings including board game nights and gaming gatherings. Check their Facebook for what’s next!
🏃🏾Join the Out-Run run and workout club for people relating to the queer / sapphic experience. Details on their Instagram!
🐦 Bird lovers should keep their eye on Queer Birders' regularly scheduled birdwatching events and excursions. Join the Facebook group and get those binoculars at the ready.
👠 Twice a month on every second Tuesday, Bring It! hosts an OTA night of ballroom and vogue with commentator and DJ. Follow their Instagram for dates and details.
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