People just actively refusing to be accomedating to disabled people both physically and mentally frustrate me so God damn much. Yes it is shitty behaviour to actively choose not to do this when given the option to. If your friend is struggling to walk and out of breath you wait with them until they have energy to keep going. If someone is struggling to stand on the bus and you can give them your seat without any harm to yourself you do that. If your flatmate can't enter the kitchen because their OCD is making them paranoid about contaminatipn from the dirty dishes then clean the dishes you were going to eventually clean anyway. If your friend with ADHD loses something then help them look for it without shouting at them.
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the thing about Cyrus is that he's supposed to be likeable. Cyrus Wyvernwind is supposed to be that himbo npc that is funny and charming and gets you attached. I don't know what it is about him but I don't buy it. Not that I think he's faking it. I know he's profoundly stupid.
I just don't think he's charming enough. I don't think hes sweet enough. I don't think he's fun enough to justify everything he put people through.
He shows up, scaring the shit out of Dorian. He's trailing Bells Hells (badly) to the point that everyone was on high alert. THEN he asks for Dorian to separate from the group. While they're on a stake out. While they know someone's trailing them. And Dorian goes, putting everyone even more on edge, and himself in danger. Then he has the audacity to be bitchy about it.
And I don't know if I'm remembering wrong? But he's not even happy to see Dorian? Like he doesn't give him a hug. Hes not stoked to see his brother after so long. Hes defensive and guarded. And Dorian is forced to know that his brother followed in his footsteps, badly, and now has a bounty over his head bigger than anyone's ever seen.
He then proceeds to be the fall guy AGAIN because he was so desperate to prove himself. So desperate to fix his mess himself.
But Cyrus does not seem grateful for everything his brother and his brothers friends have done for him. These are people who could have turned everything around for him. For the bounty, for the connections they had to Hexum. Cyrus could have been a part of Bell's Hells. He could have become another important member to the team. They could have all been family.
He makes a bigger mess of his life and then drags Dorian down with him. He drags Dorian down with him and he doesn't even seem grateful. He seems embarrassed, ashamed, sure.
Instead he was too proud to let his brother help. He was too proud to let his birth family help. He fumbled and failed and he never learned.
Abria said at the top of the Crown Keepers interlude that he was still level six because he never learned a lesson.
And I think that's what gets me about that mother fucker. He allegedly wanted to do this all on his own. He wanted to fix it himself, right? BUT HE NEVER LEARNED. HE NEVER GOT STRONGER.
Dorian and the crown keepers went up seven levels. They kept up with Bell's Hells. That means they were doing dangerous shit to survive because they were on the lamb because of cyrus and he didn't do a damn thing to help. This man didn't even do anything during the heist. He didnt join in at all. Even when they were all 6th level. He was just as capable as the rest in that moment and he didn't do shit.
Then he didn't improve. He didn't get stronger. He didn't do anything remotely helpful for months. When most of this strife started with him.
So now he's dead. After everything Dorian went through to save his life. After everything everyone did for him.
Dorian is adorned in gold and has a weight on his shoulders that should have never been his. He is left with a feeling of failure because he could not save his brother. His brother who did not try to save himself. He could have been such a prize. A prince who came back so much stronger and worldly. To rule as a king well and true and fair because he had seen the world beyond.
So Dorian will return that heir. Because his brother was not fit.
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ok my headcanon for heimdall is that when he got his powers of foresight odin decided to set him loose among the worst people possible. people with sick and evil intentions even with kind faces, so heimdall learned young how twisted people were. and then using that newfound distrust and paranoia of others, odin convinced heimdall that he was the only one who could truly defend asgard from them. basically shaping him to be the perfect guardian, never to be won over by righteousness as he doesn't believe in it.
i love that he's like baldur, with a gift that makes him 100x worse off. because really, imagine having that power. i already get heartily disillusioned reading twitter comments bruh
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like i totally understand why people think oversharing or "trauma dumping" or whatever is rude, and yeah it can be inconsiderate and whatever. but id rather talk to someone whos very in touch with their own emotions and willing to express themselves while struggling to understand the emotions of others, over someone who is both completely unaware or unable to express/understand their own emotions and the emotions of others. and also im autistic and i have bpd so when i meet someone for the first time i want them to trauma dump to me like bitch dont ask me about the weather dont ask me about my career. ask me about the lifelong trauma my mother has inflicted upon my soul. tell me about the horrors your family has forced you to endure since you were a child. and then you can tell me your weather preferences afterwards
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not to be insane or anything but it really pisses me off when people say whit killed arei 💀 it is objectively never that serious but everytime i see someone come up with a theory or whatever it just shows such a fundamental misunderstanding of his character and not that I'm a veteran or anything but i just wanted to right some wrongs.
whit is not a killer. he exists in a sphere of kindness and prosperity and nothing else. people only think he's suspicious because we've been dispositioned to think every 'nice' character in danganronpa is secretly evil. whit does not have a facade, he's truly and 100% a good person.
looking back at some of his character defining moments it's so striking that he was one of the only people to give his kindness to the two people who were at the time not very nice people themselves. its striking that he doesn't reveal charles' secret in the first trial until he feels as though charles is comfortable enough for everyone to know and how he does the same thing with david in the second trial because it simply isn't his secret to tell.
he extends kindness to those who probably don't deserve it and actively is willing to put aside his own personal grievances in order to comfort someone when they’re in need. like, it's insane to me that you can look at all of that say "yep 💀 that guys definitely the killer!" HES A GOOD PERSON like literally what more do i have to say.
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the man who falls – secret origins (1989)
[ID: Two cropped comic pages of Bruce Wayne as a child after falling into a cave and being ambushed by a swarm of bats. There's multiple narration boxes over the pages:
Page One: a three panel sequence of Bruce being rescued by his father. In the first panel, Bruce is screaming with his eyes squeezed shut in fear. He has his fists clenched in front of him and is wearing a reddish pink turtleneck sweater. The narration says, ‘Again, he shrieked — not in terror, but in despair...’ In the second panel, Thomas Wayne is shown from behind in a low angle. He's wearing a red sweater similar to Bruce and is holding a flashlight as he jerks Bruce into him. Above them is bats surrounding them and the broken wood floors that Bruce fell through. The narration continues, ‘The arm curled around him, muffling his voice, and his cheek rubbed against the rough wool of his father's jacket... He squeezed his eyes shut, willing himself to be away from here—’. In the third panel, they're standing outside. The narration reads, ‘When he opened them, he was in the area behind the mansion, in the pale light of the autumn afternoon, and his father's words pounded at him—’. Thomas is kneeling down in front of Bruce in front of the hole he fell in. He's gripping the child's shoulders as he scolds him, “Idiot! I told you never, never to go off alone. Didn't I? Didn't I?” Martha Wayne is behind them with her hand on the side of her face as she looks at them with relief that Bruce is okay.
Page Two: Martha is defending Bruce as Bruce has his head down. Thomas is still squeezing Bruce's shoulders as Martha tells him, “Thomas, he's frightened.” Thomas replies, “He damn well ought to be. He could have been killed.” Martha replaces Thomas's spot in front of Bruce, kneeling to gently place a hand on his upper arm and using a handkerchief to wipe his forehead. Bruce is standing with his fist still clenched and grimacing as Thomas angrily says, “He's got to learn.” Bruce is shown in a low angle, looking up at his mother with wide eyes. The narration continues, ‘He listened to his father's boots crushing the dead grass, and when he could no longer hear them, he dared to ask:’ “Mommy, was I in hell?” Martha soothes, “No, baby, that was just some old cave. You're safe now,” as she hugs him. His cheek is pressed against hers and she has her eyes closed as Bruce still looks uncertain. END ID]
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I hate to be like that on al gore's internet bur I grew up with an inconsiderate mother and. sometimes someone can just be inconsiderate and a decent human being, and you cannot just define a relationship as abusive because they don't gage how much your hobby means to you. like yeah my mom thinks I overspend on books but she also like... sacrificed her life for me to get an education, I don't think it's that big of a deal if she doesn't know my favorite soda lol.
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