#motherofboys

[drjohnsonosas]

#WeddingGuest #happyweekend #HighVoltage #motherofthree #motherofboys (at Benin, Nigeria) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkUxi3gqQOa/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[elizabethvantassel]

Happy #startrekday ✨! This was such a favorite memory from when our kids were young. The original sets went on tour and came through San Diego where we were living. It was just magical to watch those red doors open and see exactly what the captains chair felt like and what were those crazy buttons all about? I’ve got to tell you that going to these movies and watching the TV show with my father shaped my love for science fiction. What about you? Always ready to beam me up Scotty! #beammeupscotty #scifi #scififantasy #authorlife #bookish #trekkie #trekkies #startrekkers #startrekfan #authorlifemonth #amwritingfantasy #motherofboys https://www.instagram.com/p/CTk47VXPxlC/?utm_medium=tumblr

[motherandlawyer]

There’s Light at the End of the Tunnel

I have had such a good week. Not the sentence you often associate with me, which is a shame, but it’s been a tough 12 months+ I don’t know why I have felt more energetic, motivated and happy, but I have been taking supplements for about a month. I am taking them because I believe I have a hormonal imbalance, which I am adamant is the cause of all or most of my depression. Not sure about the anxiety, but it’s likely causing most of that too. 

Here goes, I am about to admit something here, my almost 16 month old has never really slept through. He climbed out of his cot (via a nearby chair) at around 7 months. He is tall, strong and tenacious. When I did “cry it out” at around the 8 month sleep regression, he made himself sick. He put his fingers down his throat and once flipped himself out of the cot. This is what I am dealing with here, so I have a toddler that was OK at sleeping, but now is waking more and wants to be in my bed. Most of the time I give in through sheer exhaustion, due to the impact it has on my mental health and in turn my family. It sounds like an excuse, but it soon passed at around 10 months the first time around. Maybe it will be over shortly and he will go onto the next phase. It’s always a phase, but when you’re in it, it feels like an eternity! Nothing tops the 4 month sleep regression, which will be hard to beat.

By feeling good, I have had so much more energy and actually been productive and this is a lovely cycle to be in. Sadly I woke up this morning and felt lethargic and mildly depressed. I pretended I was fine and fought through exercise. I have ate my feelings this afternoon, which is usually the opposite response. However, I am giving myself a break. F*** it. Today I will have a (slight) break from the norm and I am watching BS now whilst I type this. Toddler zzzz. Thank God. He has tried to skip his naps recently and it’s hard work. 

Today, my hubby, eldest son and my father-in-law are camping. Originally I was going to go, but I kept thinking about how stressful it would be with the tyrant toddler. I then saw the weather forecast of muggy storms and was like, nah! It’s been a tough 3 months in lockdown. This is the first time I will be on my own tonight (assuming toddler sleeps). The introvert in me is delighted, but I can’t help but miss them. What the hell is wrong with me?! Is this why I have low mood today? It could be the guilt of missing my son’s first camping experience. He doesn’t seem bothered in the slightest. Motherhood is strange. I am sure it will be like the time I was sad when my kids started nursery/pre-school. The next time my hubby takes “the boys camping,” I will probably not feel guilty for going on a spa weekend with the girls! 

I’ll end this by telling you about my French lesson on Monday. I was teaching my eldest 4 year old some French. I was teaching him animal words. Chat, to be exact. He laughed and said: “Oooo, like s**t!” No, W, not like s**t.

[starina23]

Took all 3 kids to the park today. I didn’t even think about it, anxiety-wise. We just... went. They were good listeners. They had fun. The weather was sunny and 50+ degrees and for a moment, it felt like Spring. Aversion of me a few years ago would’ve needed a Xanax and a pep talk to take multiple kids someplace alone. How far I’ve come. #defeatinganxiety #postpartumanxiety #thankyoulexapro #almostspring #lovelyweather #motherofboys #motherofthreeboys https://www.instagram.com/p/B869afvFN8kyU_moMJs829LTXR0_yZkHVkAK_A0/?igshid=1xai6a1no522x

[slayerforbreakfast-blog]

Rebecca Caridad of @manzanitalines drew into existence this gorgeous work of art delineated from a portrait of Trevor skin-to-skin with a moments old newborn baby Brixton 💖 some of ya may recollect the portrait, from my Father's Day post about expectations & imperfections - if not ya can swipe to see her inspiration. my game plan is to commission two more works of art - for a full series featuring Trevor + newborn Brixton, Trevor + me on our wedding day & me + newborn Oct Babe. my bigger picture game plan consists of consciously supporting independent artists - specifically gentlewomen & wenches, damsels dames dowagers, magicians matrons mavens, goddesses & gorgons. I believe in the power of exposure to create community & I know community fosters change 🙌 I want to see more ladies with courage & vision MAKING things ... so for the kids like me who thrive on inspiration & possibility I will be featuring FEMTREPRENEURS - it IS a thing - on some Fridays, starting fucking today. between heartfelt communication about art & intention & magic Rebecca proffered to discount the other two pieces I envision her creating for me - she volunteered to extend the 50% off to anyone interested in supporting independent artists & female entrepreneurs 💖 so if you want to be a part of supporting small, sustainable business visit her shop & use AUDRASENTUS to enjoy a generous price reduction of 50% ... just $7.50 for a stunning rendition of Aretha or @manzanitalines intimate sketch of lingering hands! swipe to see both - or just $30 for a priceless, commissioned piece of you & someone you love. so SUPPORT INDEPENDENT FEMALE ARTISTS & ENTREPRENEURS & go scope her skills, follow her like a boss & get inspired with a piece of her commissioned art 💖 xox #femtrepreneur #lineart #linedrawing #indieartist #sustainablebusiness #supportthearts #fatherandson #newbornart #tourphotography #onstage #concertphotographer #workingmom #motherofboys #toddlermom #punksgoneparent #ourcandidlife #thehappynow #sobermom #sobrietyrocks #cleanandsober #giftsofrecovery #soberaf #justfortoday #odaat #wedorecover https://www.instagram.com/p/BziJSoUAx5x/?igshid=13kt9d58vtrtd

[arenaqueen74-blog]

Halfway to Empty

Hi, my name is Rebecca. I am a university student, a chocolate salesperson, a volunteer and a single mom. The role that I have always taken the most joy in is that of a mother. I have two amazing sons. They have always been my primary career. Mothering has been my vocation I suppose.

Last summer I launched my first born out in to the world. Not just to the next city, or somewhere a few hours drive away; but to Calgary Alberta. A four-hour flight from our Ontario home. Why so far away one might ask? What does Alberta offer that Ontario doesn’t? Well, my son is a speed skater. A pretty good one. He was invited to join the National Training Program. Of course, I encouraged him. What good mother doesn’t support her kid’s dreams? He was also accepted to the University of Calgary’s science program (smart kid too). We made all the preparations. We found him a beautiful off campus home, shipped his belongings out west on a Greyhound bus and flew out to meet them.

I spent five days with him in Calgary, doing all the things that parents do when they leave their kids at university, and we found some time for a “last” adventure to the mountains. It was amazing. I knew with every fiber of my being that he would love life out west.

 And then I left him.

  I cried the whole flight home. I didn’t for one second doubt the rightness of our decision. I didn’t worry that he would starve or forget to do laundry or get lost on campus. He would do what he always does….  study hard and train hard. What I didn’t expect and was in no way ready for was the physical ache in my gut. It’s still there. I’ve just gotten better at burying it deep underneath the frenetic pace of my every day life.

Why am I still feeling such grief at times? I’m so happy and proud. He has accomplished everything I thought he would and then some, but I miss him. Hard. I miss tripping on his size 14 Jordan’s by the front door and never having any food in the fridge despite grocery shopping nearly every day. The time when my son needed me is over. His childhood is over.

I lead a full and joyful life. I have self care and wellness time. I spend lots of time with my younger son and my boyfriend. Am I doing this wrong?

I’ve heard all about empty nest syndrome, but I thought it was for people launching their last child. When I look at social media everyone seems to be reveling in their newfound freedom. Hopefully I can get to that place before I launch my next son in five years!

[mysticmoonbitch-blog]

[michelleauthor]

Nothing says NYE party like Dino shaped chicken nuggets...#nye #party #dinosaurs @inghamschicken #chickennuggets #chickennuggetsquad #chickennuggetsarelife #love #family #motherofboys #jurassicworld #newyearseve https://www.instagram.com/p/BsCbcORFUk_/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=yuklywfrxani

[makeupbypreeya]

Whites have for ever been…but linens have become my new favourites. Blame it on the summers or blame it on the love for whites. This @zara dress is definitely a new favourite. . . . #makeupbypreeya #bangaloremakeupartist #bangaloremua #indianmua #indianmakeupartist #makeupartistsworldwide #indianinfluencer #influencer #makeupinfluencer #mommyinfluencer #mommyofboys #motherofboys #mommyoftwo #motheroftwo (at Bangalore, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdha7njI58O/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[angellestat]

“A real mom: Emotional, yet the rock. Tired, but keeps going. Worried, but full of hope. Impatient, yet patient. Overwhelmed, but never quits. Amazing, even though doubted. Wonderful, even in the chaos. Life changer, every single day.” ~ Rachel Martin • • I love you for so many reason but being the mother of our boys, is one of the reasons I love you most!🖤 #wcw #wce #motherofboys #mygorgeousqueen #mysuperwoman (at Dallas, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/Boei7HmFVXK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=app3eftxztrw

[cdgorri]

I love my son for so many reasons. One of them is his endless curiosity which lead to this awesome discovery of another way to use the word poop in a sentence! Thanks my boy! #motherofboys #boymom https://www.instagram.com/p/CUXfAl1Abuy/?utm_medium=tumblr

[copperphoenixindy]

When daycare is closed and the kiddo hangs out at the studio with you..... you do stencil "tattoos" between clients❤ . #ladytattooer #momlife #shelbyvilleindiana #boymom #motherofboys #spiritpaper #wearesorrymom #localartist #supportlocal #supportsmallbusiness #smallbusiness #fridayvibes (at Shelbyville, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ1ggMaLmNk/?utm_medium=tumblr

[elizabethvantassel]

I had the most surprising day yesterday. At 7 am I sent my manuscript after years of nurturing this idea for wives and moms to my agent. A project of the heart 💜. 📚🙏🏻Then Jonathan and I climbed in the car for a mix of fun and college visits this week. We talked and talked the whole six hour drive! The mountains outside of Los Angeles were dotted with cascading purple and orange flowers 🌸, gorgeous. Then we had fun with Mickey at #disneyland walking in with the band playing God Bless America 🇱🇷. Shows with the Lion 🦁 King music 🎶 I’ll never forget from Joey’s show this year. Finally the wonderful music and fireworks. 💥 This place. This day. This moment - oh my heart! #motherofboys #theygrowupsofast (at Disneyland - Theme Park) https://www.instagram.com/p/Byg7iRjgt8R/?igshid=1gafo22aziyx

[mom-of-rochnrosh]

05•12•2021. 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙛𝙖𝙫𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙝𝙪𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨! 𝙄 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙬𝙤!😘👩‍👦‍👦 #momofrochandrosh #momlife #motherofboys https://www.instagram.com/p/CO0UlvlL9iL/?igshid=19fz3owism9q

[teresamorgan]

I'm a very lucky mum. Two boys sent to test me at times but they do love me really. They are thoughtful and kind. 😍 Fab gifts! Love my cushion! Today is going to be a chilled out affair today with my two favourite people. #mothersday #mumtoboys #mumtoteenagers #motheringsunday2021 #motheringsunday #writerofinstagram #authorsofinstagram #motherofboys #motherofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CMZce5fgkAr/?igshid=1sm7lvgrjl6rq

[cyanide-and-butterflies]

His smiles light up my entire world ❤ . . . . #babyboy #bigsmiles #amazing #cute #babyfelix #babyneill #marchbaby #2018baby #excited #10weeksold #myfamily #motherofboys #daddiesboy #mamasboy #happybaby #Felix #babyf