#not their fault that they haven't broken out of that amatonormativity yet and obvi ppl are allowed to want what they want | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

knifearo · 7 months

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i say it all the time but being aromantic fucking rocks actually. loneliness is one thing but being aro + romance averse had me confront the amatonormative expectation of romantic partnering and you know what i'm NOT worried about now? having a partner. sharing a bed with someone. kissing someone. being held by someone. cause all those physical + emotional needs can be fulfilled by all the people i hold dear in my life and it is no loss of mine to not have a partner. and it's so radical and empowering to say that i don't care and i don't fucking want one! i like being by myself! I HOPE I DIE ALONE ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

#WILL SAY IT FOREVER AND EVER! FUCK PARTNERING! I HOPE I DIE ALONE!!!#literally the power of it. my fucking life. it's for me. and i hope i die alone #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aro positivity #loneliness as an expression of total detachment from other people is a separate issue from the romantic loneliness that i see.#which is so fucking lame tbh. no shame to people feeling sad that they don't have a partner specifically #not their fault that they haven't broken out of that amatonormativity yet and obvi ppl are allowed to want what they want #but like. lmao. could NOT be me at this point in my life <3 #i am enjoying who i am and the prospect of a future as myself so much...#and being totally free from that manufactured structured loneliness in the absence of a romantic partner is fucking awesome.#it's me and myself babe but i am NOT framing myself as my own partner.#i am one person and ultimately my life is about me. and i love and fucking treasure myself. and i'm so excited to die alone #talking

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