#ownyourthrone

[kelseyraeartistnpc]

👑 Embrace Your Majesty, Let the Queen Within Shine! 👑✨ Beautiful souls, it's time for a regal reminder: You are a queen, a force of grace and strength. Let's embark on the journey to recognize our worth and let that radiant inner queen illuminate the world. 👸💖✨ 🌟 Crown of Confidence: Adjust your invisible crown and wear it with pride. Your confidence is the scepter that commands respect and admiration. Stride with the assurance that you are worthy of every dream. 👑🌈 💎 Jewels of Self-Love: Adorn yourself with the jewels of self-love. Appreciate the unique facets that make you sparkle. Remember, self-love is the foundation upon which the palace of your worth stands. 💖💎 🌹 Gown of Resilience: Cloak yourself in the gown of resilience. Life may present challenges, but your strength and perseverance are the threads that weave a tale of triumph. Every setback is a step toward your royal destiny. 🌹🏰 🌺 Scepter of Boundaries: Let the scepter of boundaries be your guide. As a queen, you decide who enters your kingdom. Set boundaries that honor your well-being and sovereignty. A queen's realm is a sacred space. 🛡️🌺 🎭 Masquerade of Authenticity: Unveil your true self at the grand masquerade of authenticity. Your authenticity is the grandeur that captivates hearts. Be unapologetically you, for that is where your true power resides. 🎭✨ So, dear queens, wear your regality with pride. You are a masterpiece, a sovereign ruler of your destiny. Let the world witness the majesty that is you. Shine on, radiant queens! 👑💫🌟 #QueenVibes #SelfLoveJourney #RadiateConfidence #OwnYourThrone 👸✨💖

[jadfherthrystan]

[anonymouslyash]

Fell in love with this, cudnt help but share.

Winning starts at your beginning.🔥 #the5amclub

Great book from a great author. Robin💙

[markdlaminiart-blog]

If Wonder Woman was from South Africa💥 @boity. Hand drawn using color pencils. Our second character in my MzansiHeroverse. What do you think? Please tag @boity so she sees this! Do share, RT! Thank you! #ownyourthrone #markdlaminiart#drawing #pencildrawing https://www.instagram.com/p/B-2KnDsBuD-/?igshid=1g7w6wr11pgfw

[alwanduthando-blog]

The day I found out I was HIV Positive.

I had just graduated and excited that I finally got my qualification and to my mind I had everything figured out and I already knew what I wanted to do after graduating; let’s just say I had a whole bucket list of things I wanted to do but before that I had to go out to celebrate my achievement.

It was supposed to be a celebratory night and everything was supposed to be merry especially after finding out that am gonna be a graduate, but everything turned south at a blink of an eye, and this is my story…

The night that changed everything

I was out and about with my friends to celebrate of course my hard earned achievement and with the mood being high and drinks everything that was happening on the night wasn’t planned which led to some drastic actions and irresponsible actions being done. On the night before my graduation I met a guy who was tall, dark and handsome more like our Idris Elba type am sure the ladies know what am talking about, he was such a perfect gentleman and every girl’s dream I mean he had bold shoulders his arms could fit me perfectly as if they were built for me to cuddle in them, he had a perfect smile with his white teeth shining so bright like he was advertising a Colgate brand or a dentist doctor you’d swear that when he smiles stars could fall from heaven, he had a deep voice that gave me goosebumps.

On that night when he approached me, when he chose our table I felt special I was like…okay am wearing a grad gown and a bonus is an Idris oh my word I couldn’t be less excited I was over the moon, and we just clicked like a house on fire, everything just happened gradually nothing was forced the conversations were matured and I drowned in his eyes every time he engaged in a conversation, when he asked to spend the night with me I didn’t hesitate or think twice I just said yes, little did I know that spending the night with him will change my life forever, little did I know that the night am gonna spend with him will affect me for the rest of my life.

So we went to his flat, had a few drinks started talking and thereafter we started kissing, mmmhh the kiss was just magical as if it was rehearsed, we both started breathing heavily as if we were racing I felt my undies were no wet and he was hard and the more his dick touched me the wetter I got and the more heavily we both breath and the more we couldn’t get off each other and the more we drowned in to the moment and the more we wanted to explore each other and enjoy each other, he started undressing me and I did the same, he gently rubbed my nipples as if he read my mind and knew exactly what I wanted I could feel his body warmth on me, he then went down to suck my girly now I had lost all control of my body and my knees felt like they weren’t mine anymore the more he sucked me the more I wanted him inside of me, he did it as though he was reading my mind he gentle looked me in the eyes and started kissing me on the neck while putting his D*** inside me.

Shit I don’t recall him opening a condom I don’t recall asking him about one, so now am sober-minded and I need to get my shit together what really happened? Did we just…? I never did it raw with anyone and now what if am pregnant? Well, that was least of my worries but the question was what if I have an STI? So I decided to take myself out of the misery I went to the clinic hoping for something different but instead I was told “Ma’am your results came back positive, you are HIV+” I was numb the numbness gradually mutated into anger, it was quite unlike any anger I’d ever felt before and quite literally consumed me. There were two focuses for this anger. First of all, there was me. My diagnosis with HIV provided an opportunity to beat myself up, something which the homophobia I experienced throughout my adolescence and early adulthood had made me expert at.

But most of all I was furious with the man who infected me. Up until I met him, I’d taken excellent care of my sexual health; I’d never even had the most minor STI, I know that people reading this will say, “well, you should have asked for a condom.” But before you pass judgment, ask yourself: have you ever been influenced into doing something you’ve subsequently regretted against your better judgment?

[royalteezone]

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Day 26✅: You know the best way to make any 3.5 mile cardio session go by very fast is just get lost in your music and jam, baby!! Happy Thursday. I’m feeling so much better. For the past several days I was OUT OF IT. High fever and all that ish! Totally felt great getting back at it. Early morning sesh. We are just about at the finish line of this INCREDIBLY moving Challenge theme this month. Let’s go, babes! Let’s finish strong!! #fitgirlsguide #iactuallycan #fitgirlbootcamp #ownyourfierce #fitgirlsfam #fierceandlean2019 #marchtagteam #makeitcount_chen #fitgirl5k #ownyourthrone #fitgirl_royaltee #accountability #fitgirlfollow #fitgirlvarsity https://www.instagram.com/p/Bu_hK8hHQNw/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1njf6ib6rjx1e

[lisabmagdalena]

THE RULES OF THE BLAME GAME

In the blame game, nothing gets solved because the rules are too preoccupied with scoring points. It is designed to remove personal responsibility and make the other believe it’s all their fault and the only one who needs to change behaviour.

A Slave-Girl will absorb this as her personal failing. A Queen sees the game and works towards resolution or removes herself from the toxic drama.

Here are some emotionally manipulative sayings used in the blame game:

1. “OH YOU ARE JUST BEING OVERLY EMOTIONAL.” This dismisses feelings. Toxic people will be using this to blame you and your “issues” instead of accepting you are upset.

2. “YOUR FEELINGS ARE WRONG” This is about control. Healthy love is never mad at you for feeling a certain way nor does it ever want to take your feelings away from you.

3. “I NEVER SAID THAT” This spin webs and is designed to get you into knots. They will say one thing during an argument and then claim they never said that / you heard it wrong /you obviously weren’t listening. A Queen remembers the truth.

4. “YOU JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND ME” This is a technique to play the victim. It is designed to play the sympathy card, make you feel sorry for them. By making you feel unreasonable you take the responsibility for the situation.

5. “HOW CAN YOU DO THIS TO ME?” This is designed to remove the spotlight away from them and onto you and your insecurities.

6. “YOU ARE THE MOST INSECURE PERSON I HAVE EVER MET” This is designed to compare you negatively to others. If this happens it’s time to remove yourself. Healthy love lifts you up and supports you. It loves you with your anxieties and insecurities included.

7. “I NEVER LIED. I TOLD YOU WHEN YOU ASKED” This is withholding the truth. It is designed to get away with a lie and their inauthentic behaviour.

8. “I’M GOING TO SLEEP” This technique is to control the situation. If they can sleep while you are crying and distressed they don’t care about you.

I am sure we have all used these at some point. Toxic behaviour will use these most of the time. Loving, empowered people do not care how long it takes. They want both of you to feel reassured and the situation resolved.

COMMENT “QUEEN” below to stand in solidarity together for the solution to the Relationship you want and a life that fulfils you.

I have a few spaces left at my free Masterclass “How To Be Queen in Your Relationships”.  Claim your seat today at: www.lisamagdalena.com.

[twala-23-icapture-reallife]

#lifeoftwala23💆💃📷😎 Standing alone doesn't mean im alone #inGodsgrace 🙏#iwillkeepshinnig💫 #bookingsnowopen @0632763729 @twala23_icapture_reallife 📲☎️📕 @0780885227 #whatsapp📲 #socialmediamarketingservices #selfmadebusinessman #ambitiousyoungking #ownyourthrone 🤴🇿🇦 #founderof @23famphotographyvisualstudio #yourbeliefinyourself 🤴#emerldason💫✌👌 (at Tokoza, South Africa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CRKpEH0Mk9w/?utm_medium=tumblr

[charllotedm]

Negativity: ●Rejection ●Criticism ●Judgments We tend to hate every next move/step of our life each moment we are Rejected,Criticised/Judged because we feel like we have the Blood of Bad Luck in our Veins,But that's not True...Life is all about Learning and getting things into perspectives not to Fail and Give up. So put yourself together and stand for yourself. #OwnYourThrone #model #photography #photoshoot #photogrid #photo #mzansihotties #SABeauty #instalike #instamood #instacool #followme #follow4follow #following #blackhair #naturalbeauty #studiophotography #africanwoman #africangirl #caramelbody #rhythm

[scribsters]

A life without purpose is like having a body without a soul. You're not born with purpose, you need to create your life out of purpose. When creating your life don't give the control to anyone, follow your own path, do something worth remembering and write a history.⠀ @shubham_mahajan99⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #scribsters #purpose #WriteYourLegacy #makeyourownlane #OwnYourThrone #KnowYourself #KnowYourWorth #worthit #BeYourself #havefaith #FaithOverFear #faithhopelove #DreamsComeTrue #lifegoals #goalsetting #lifequotes #LifeLessons #quotesaboutlife #quotestoliveby #ThoughtLeadership #successquotes #successmindset #MotivationalQuotes #InspirationalQuotes #MondayMotivation #MotivationMonday #WordsOfWisdom #writerscommunity #spiritualawakening #WordsOfWisdom (at Delhi, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CFrW9B-Ahmn/?igshid=gouai2vvax4v

[zasttra]

Cozy Hooded Sweaters you'll want to live in😍 ⠀ .⠀ This product can be shipped during COVID-19 lockdown. 🔐 ⠀ .⠀ #africanfashion #fashion #africanprint #ankarafashion #africa #ankara #africanstyle #african #asoebi #asoebibella #ankarastyles #style #fashionblogger #mzansi #mzansibeauty #mzansibaddest #gals #coolest #mzansibabes #mzansistyle #nochillinmzansi #mzansimagic #bikini #mzansigotnochill #mzansihotties #follow #jozi #dbn #durbangirls #ownyourthrone

[thereal-courtneycrosslin]

grand REIGN folk -- just some faqs: . . 1) when will you be making #minialtars again? . . 2) what is the difference between your #getgroundedshoes, #beyondTheFlats and #DARNits shoes? . . 3) what kind of reading do you do and how much does it cost? . . i will be sending out a newsletter late next week to answer these questions.  . . extra: * for those who have adopted plants and #hebit from me before, i have some rooted plants and will be harvesting henbit again this year. ** i may or may not start making wild woman jewelry again . . if you have not already done so, hit the link in the bio or copy madmimi.com/signups/15105/join. . . . VERIFIABLE identifiers: psychic | #multipotentialite | renaissance | trailblazer | muse | mystic | polymath | scanner | TechWitch | #ISeeWithMyHands . . . #THOTreader #courtneycrosslin #daretobedifferent #goddessvibes #wecandohardthings  #whodoesshethinksheis #womenwhorunwithwolves #blackgirlswithgardens #ownyourthrone #highpriestess  #dreamersanddoers #divinefeminine #womenempowerment #sacredfeminine #triplegoddess #spiritualpreneur #witchesofcolor #higherconsciousness  #RootWork #psychicmedium #blackfarmers #sacredofferings #woodworkingwomen  https://www.instagram.com/p/B7_E230nfk7/?igshid=ttlp181n7cfn

[neijsworld]

Don't underestimate a woman in a suit. @radissonblu_waterfront I'm ready for you. #bosslady#suit#management#hotelier#proudlyihs#ownyourthrone#power#business#student#loading#boss#company#hospitality# (at Cape Town, Western Cape) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz8hoUyl-ZZ/?igshid=cfypy52fjktq

[inside-the-cauldron]

Just let it in!!

[antonioscarinci]

#Repost for @akorfadaniella with @appreposter AFRICAN LUXURY CHOCOLATE _______________________________ Don't always trust what you see. Even salt looks like sugar. Be wise, be smart and be sharp. Photography : @lucashenryimage MUA :@curves_touch Playsuit :@adwoatetteh Cc @dr.clementasemnyra #ownyourthrone #missinternationalAfrica #kween #alpha #bronzegoddess https://www.instagram.com/p/BwW-Hj-nB89/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=2n25m9v75rqw