#post a work in progress orrrrr like

[dyesprout0ysphoria]

Name the silliest person you know, old sport

Uhhhhhhhh

Wellll uhhh

Hm

There's

a lot of people that fit that role

@/theokusgallery and @/tosteur-gluteal, for example

but also

@/basilmiko, @/smiles-tm, @/starya-knight, @/yfnkar, etc, etc

too many people who are silly

[poognthebrainbois]

🐛 & 🗻

🐛Which part made a lot of progress?

Kiara.

She's been around for 6 years now, and in that time they've been through a lot. While they still identify as a fictroject, it took her a long time to let go of the ties she had to the people she used to know, and to build stronger ones with those of us she could get to know.

She's been kind of a rock for our host(s) over the years. She was the first to be unapologetically herself in many ways, and I think because of that, they've had the most time to work on themself.

We could write an essay on her and why she's important and loved and appreciated (honestly we might), but suffice to say, they've come a long way from the angsty, rebellious 13 year old we met all those years ago. She's now around 17 most days, and basically the one holding the system together.

She's half the reason we get out of bed/can even function right now given our circumstances. They've gotten us through some of our worst times, and we got to be with and there for her during some of hers.

We love you Kiara. Everything that you are, have been, and will be.

(Next Question)

🗻(something something) What makes the innerworld feel like home

uuuhhh best I can mention is the front room? It's not exactly homey but we got like couches and a coffee table a couple years ago. First time the place had ever changed (at least to the hosts' knowledge).

I mean we all have like bedrooms r whatever but honestly (and this is gonna be cheesy as hell 'cause I don't have another answer), the thing that makes the innerworld feel like home is the people.

The varying dynamics between headmates range from the equivalent of "I saw you on the street one time" to "I know a guy who knows you" to genuine family dynamics.

Family in the way of We're All Close Friends Who Share An Apartment And We Annoy The Fuck Out Of Each Other For Fun But Also Help Each Other Through Hard Times And We're All We've Got. Like found family. Orrrrr the way that you put the main characters of a movie in the same fight even though they have nothing to do with each other and by the end of the movie they're family, y'know? It's like that.

I can't describe much of the innerworld 'cause I can't see a lot of it. And most of what I know about isn't exactly a home-environment. So that's all I got.

Anyway, thanks for the ask. If anyone else sees this, here's the link to the post so y'all can toss us a couple.

Later,

Xander

He/him, co-host

[nancypullen]

Black Market Blonde Hair

After yesterday’s post I received some very nice messages about my before hair, none about the after.  Where were you guys when I needed someone to stop me??  Just kidding, I needed a trim, I just didn’t need the shearing that I got.  Several of you said that you like my current hair color. Thankyouverymuch.  As you know, it’s a struggle and always a work in progress.  Let me fill you in on how I arrived at this particular shade.  I spent most of my life as a brunette, then Mother Nature decided to take me in a different direction.  Much like my maternal grandmother, our beloved Ethel, I went mostly white before I was 50.  I can’t even remember how many years before 50, but an unfair number. So I colored.  I did DIY color, I also paid big bucks at salons, and honestly - never saw a huge difference in anything but the price.  But boxed color isn’t always great quality, and you’re fairly limited in color range - so the logical next step is a beauty supply store, right?  That’s when Sally’s entered my life and we had a loving, long term relationship.  I usually used their Ion brand with decent results.  I could blend colors, tone, touch up and earn coupons at the same time. I was forever getting $5 off my purchase.  I’ll bet the Sally’s in Mt. Juliet is worried sick about me right now, I should have let them know that I was relocating.  When we moved to Denton I was saddened to learn that the closest Sally’s  (by the way, I know it’s actually Sally Beauty Supply, not Sally’s) is a good 30 minutes away.  Inconvenient, but not the end of the world.  I’d just have to stock up, right?  I was planning to do just that, went to the website and figured I’d fill a cart with my staples and go pick it up...only to find that they didn’t have any of my color in stock at that location.  Rut roh.  So I forgot about it for a while and then a while longer, and the white was growing in a half inch at a time (my hair grows like kudzu).  I told my sister that maybe I’d just let it go white again.  I’d done it during early lockdown and didn’t really care for it, but maybe this time I could live with it.  I tried, I really tried - it just started to feel a little too much like this.

Remember her? I also had to be honest with myself and admit that my always color-resistant gray/white was really not taking color well even before we’d moved up here and away from my favorite Sally’s.  What to do?  I could submit to the constant, expensive cycle of salon color...orrrrr I could get my hands on the products professionals use and do it myself.  I did loads of research and found out that what I probably needed was a Redken hair color dubbed CoverFusion.  It’s made just for stubborn gray and gets rave reviews from stylists.  At Sally’s you have to have an operator’s license or a stylist’s license or whatever it’s called to get the good stuff.  I don’t have that, just a lifetime of experience dealing with this hair.  That really should qualify me, though I suppose there are laws for a reason.  BUT, salons go out of business, product packaging changes and must be replaced on shelves, items are discontinued and must be sold before expiring, right?  Where does that stuff go?  Why, to the seedy underbelly of the beauty industry, of course - otherwise known as Ebay.  So I became a criminal. I shopped on Ebay and Poshmark for my color (9N) in Redken CoverFusion. Found it!  I ordered one tube as a test - checked the batch number when it arrived to make sure it wasn’t an expired product, made sure that it was factory sealed, then used the 20 developer I already had under the sink and turned my bathroom into a salon.  Previously, when using Ion products from Sally’s, my white would get coverage, but there was always a difference in the freshly colored white and the rest of my hair, no matter what method I used.  But lo and behold, the professional grade color worked like a charm!  The coverage was complete and even! On the left, my hair just taken out of a clip and getting ready to color. On the right, after coloring, rinsing, and spending a few minutes wrapped in a microfiber towel.  That was about a week ago, before the ugly cut.

I was so happy with the results that I immediately contacted my dealer (that’s right, I said dealer) and ordered a few more tubes.  I may have enough to get me through the rest of 2022.  Of course, I checked the batch number of every tube to make sure they weren’t expired. A tube of hair dye has a shelf life of about 3 years, so I’m good!  

I’m paying about $12 a tube to cover my white at home versus a minimum of $60 per visit at a salon.  Yes, I’m that cheap.   I never thought I’d be a blonde, but I’m apparently willing to break some laws to stay that way.  I wonder what the punishment is, surely not jail time?  Maybe community service - I’m okay with that.  If you see me picking up litter along the highway, honk and tell me my hair looks great. Stay safe, stay well, stay outta’ jail. XOXO, Nancy 

[bonesappreciationsquad]

so i could either finish my assignments that are all due this week orrrrr i couldddd....do a bunch of sit ups incorrectly and bruise my tailbone, making it hard to sit in my normal wacky positions resulting in more pain because i just cant not sit like that and leaving me in a lot of pain bc im bleeding rn (i have a werewolf type situation going on-i was cursed when i was 12...rip) which would leave me to consume enough commercial pain meds to kill a horse and make me want to sleep for like 84 hours and go to school with no work completed and get my progress report in like 3 weeks that is atrocious which would make me v sad and want to sh but i cant bc my brothers wedding is soon and i have to wear a dress for that plus i also have a surfing camp next week and a bunch of other shit i have to do and im going to finish this now bc what i thought was gonna be a quick funny post about my ed consuming my life has slowly delved into a ramble and honestly this happens more often than you think and i don think i really remeber what i was talking abojt jn ghd first olace and holy fuck my spellig. is aweful why did i turn of autocorrect rip this says so much about me tbh and too think i wanna study linguistics and im doing english lit rn..... atrocious which is incidentally one kf the assignment i need to write ive dont like nothing on bc i cant actually write criritical essays