#psyche2go

[potatodemon-beesensible]

I actually ended up tearing up at this. Almost felt like sobbing ^^" Great video. And I'm vibin' :3 Like... as in I'm doing alright. I just got emotional at about five minutes in with all the examples of overapologizing. Brought me back. Just... that face with the "I'm sorry for everything" fucking hit for me. I've felt that and the raw emotion expressed is... so damn accurate. Videos like this are always really nice for me. Feels like I can just... sit down and process everything with 'em. It's comforting and healthy every once in a while. Psyche2Go's always been a safe space for me ever since I was in like... Middle School. I vent about a lotta personal stuff after this read more. It'd be ungodly long if I didn't put it here and a lotta people might not be all too up for a trauma essay basically ^^"

My mom's been... herself. Basically. Going through that part of the cycle again where she's poking and prodding, making offhanded comments about "Oh at least one of my children love me." Trying to make up for stuff in weird ways that make me uncomfortable. Putting stuff on my sibling and just... pushing. And being around that is very very unpleasant for me. It's like getting slapped in the face with trauma and being taken back to that old headspace I hate. I feel paralyzed when that happens. Just... the slow subtle manipulation all throughout your childhood. Downplaying anything you go through, pushing you for 'your own good'. I... already was going through some pretty horrible stuff in school and that really did not help in the slightest. I felt like I wasn't even a person. And to this day she will do anything but take responsibility. Back when I hurt myself she went into her "Comfort and nurture mode" which... was nice. But she always goes back to her old habits anyways. She'll push and expect you to go back to school. Play the "UwU I'm just an innocent bebe puppy woman what did I do wrong? I'm sorry you feel that way...🥺" card when there was pushback on my part because that was **REALLY** not what I needed. I was tired of living and didn't have it in me to keep going. And then she'd go back to pushing me as soon as possible. When I got upset and confronted her on how no way she was trying to 'help' was genuine and she'd refuse to take responsibility for how she made me feel all throughout my childhood no matter what she'd simply get a dumbfounded look on her face and walk away. Or, if the mask slipped she'd give a spiky "How was I supposed to know that?" before realizing what she was saying would just make me more upset and distancing herself from the conversation. Not that distancing yourself and regaining your composure isn't a very good thing to do at times... but she used it as a tool keep up her status quo. Also, "I'm sorry you feel that way" is a shit thing to say to someone, it puts the blame on them when they're genuinely opening up to you on something. Very easily weaponized and it should in no capacity be accepted as an apology. Don't let 'em convince you that you're 'drilling into' their words somehow because they'll just keep taking more and more ground until there's nothing left of you. (Easier said than done still... my mom can still convince me and make me feel like my feelings aren't real at times. She puts me through a trauma response and takes advantage of it. She doesn't care and will never change. I'm tired of having to downplay it for my dad because his brain's the size of a fucking walnut. He takes responsibility... I love him... but he does astound me at times. And he's hurt me too. Only difference is that he owns up to it and makes an effort to be considerate because he cares about me.) Situations can be rough and sometimes there's just... no real answer and you gotta weather someone's bullshit. As someone who's been through it I'm grateful I have the friendships I have and they've helped me so damn much. Looking back on the headspace I was in is just... painful. Whenever I see something I typed back then I just... wanna do anything but look at it ^^" If you're going through it... I hope you keep going. And I hope you find some great people. Well- it can just be decent people tbh. Or any kinda people. As long as you connect with them and they treat you well. Basic respect for someone as a human being goes a long way...

[bili-th-grayling]

for those that don't get it.

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Things that only those who've seen too much internet will understand

Is it an instructional video about psychology?

Is it an RPG for adults with a fantastical obsession?

Is it a react video about false news?

Or is it..

NOT THE TREE AGAIN!

[almoststickynachos]

Yo Psychology side (and general population) of tumblr what is your genuine opinion about pedophilia being classified as a sexual disorder under DSM 5 tryna understand shit

[meanncat]

10 Interesting Facts About Introverts

I’m All but anxious...but at times I find myself acting like the Anxious introvert, so I don’t even know. LOL. Thinking is defiantly me, daydreams for days!

[holyshxtangel]

Did i really just found out that psyche2go is ableist through an omori post

[sojc123]

Advice of the day: #advice #psyche2go #adviceoftheday (at Huntsville, Alabama)

[atlasllm]

okay so i’m watching some psyche2go videos for writing reference and also because i think they’re the same channel that referenced mcyts in their thumbnails, i can’t find the mcyt thumbnails but they did reference the scene of willow from the owl house lifting weights and i’m lowkey wondering if they’ll eventually reference hunter because of his two panic attacks in the show

[beesmygod]

so, unsurprisingly, the headline sucks and barely captures what the study is about.

the psychological dark triad is comprised of three traits: narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy (arguably, and in my opinion, should include sadism as well). these traits are/were largely understood to come hand in hand with a lack of empathy, but as it turns out, you need empathy in order to understand how to manipulate people emotionally. their study found a small group of people with a “traditional” triad without empathy and high aggression. they also found a larger group with the triad AND empathy with lower aggression.

this seems obvious to me. the office sociopath isn’t going to call you a slur and break your nose, they’re going to exclude you from events and make up lies about your behavior. the idea that there’s entire clumps of humans who have “no empathy” as opposed to blunted or simply ignored/suppressed/leveraged empathy seems extremely reductive of the wide and wacky spectrum of human behavior.

the final paragraph begins with: “Our research is looking at people in the general population who have elevated levels of dark personality traits, rather than personality disorders.” my question is: why and uh, what? is there value in this line of study? is it revealing to know that most humans show at least one or two or the dark triad’s traits at least once, if not habitually, in their lifetimes?

they identified two other groups: “One is an "emotionally internalized group", with high levels of affective empathy and average cognitive empathy, without elevated dark traits. The other shows a pattern similar to autistic traits – particularly, low cognitive empathy and average affective empathy in the absence of elevated dark traits.“ i feel like this study, and a lot of these studies, are so granular that they lose sight of the wider picture. having to differentiate between the two types of empathy seems completely useless; for example, here’s their definitions of the empathies:

Empathy can refer to the capacity to share feelings, namely "affective empathy" (if you are sad, I also feel sad). But it can also be the ability to understand other people's minds, dubbed "cognitive empathy" (I know what you think and why you are feeling sad).

homie, that’s empathy and sympathy. we have a word for that already!

anyway, this seems like a silly thing for people to diagnose themselves with online for attention. more than anything im failing to understand the difference between a “dark empath” and a sociopath.i guess “dark empath” has better branding.

anyway the article also has a video from a youtube channel called “psyche2go” that looks. bad.

anyway. what da fuck lol

Wake up babe new personality type just dropped.

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[novas-space]

I recently realized...(#2)

I absolutely hate conflict. By this logic, I’m assuming my love style, thanks Psyche2Go, is Pleaser. Please keep in mind I know nothing about any of this and am blindly trusting the internet. Feel free to correct any of this politely.

What are the traits of the pleaser? Well you can either watch the video...

...or you can read this tiny list.

1. Mainly focuses on others happiness rather than their own, and is willing to do things that would normally make them uncomfortable if it means improving another’s happiness.

2. When someone has a negative change in mood, people like pleasers may have an internal struggle, i. e., feeling anxious, upset, or stressed.

3. May sometimes lie, do, or say what a person wants to avoid conflict.

4. It’s also rather hard for a pleaser to say no.

Now did I watch this video because I was bored? Yes.

Did I watch it to get called out? No.

But did I? ....yes...

I recommend watching it for more information if you’re curious or bored. Cheers!

[pscyheee]

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