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#rn on my own rather than follow advice you’re giving me when you aren’t in my shoes. exdee. like if i mess up then let me and i’ll deal w it
ijwrff · 3 years
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Would it be too much trouble to ask for a pluck x reader? Where Pluck has a little bit of an anxious moment and ends up hiding behind his friend (crush *cough cough*) and they just gotta help calm the bird boy down cause he's freaking out a lil bit? So vauge I know but I'm tired homie and the thinker ain't rolling too fast rn I just really love your writing style is all. (Also headcannon that Plucks feathers poof up when suprised lol)
Welcome back Tya!!! Hope you enjoy this, the ask has been sitting in my inbox for forever, so I hope I did your idea justice! Love you tons!!
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At first...he thought he was fine. The quest had gone well, and everyone made it out with little to no injuries. It was only when he got back into town that he started to panic. 
Walking into the bar, you didn’t notice Pluck’s breathing began to quicken. But you felt a tug at the back of your shirt, and turned to see Pluck there, holding onto your shirt like it was a lifeline. 
The first thing you noticed about his appearance was that his feathers had bulked up, a sure sign that he was scared or anxious. Rather it be from the fight, or another reason you knew you had to act quickly so it wouldn’t turn into a full-blown panic attack.
Without second thought, you grabbed his hand and went to your room. You would go to his, but the babies were there sleeping. Besides...you’re more worried about your feathered friend than his adopted offspring. They would be fine while you calmed down their dad. 
“I-I’m sorry...I’m sorry.” The tone of his voice made your heart ache. 
“You have no reason to be sorry...was it the fight? Or...something else?” You figured knowing the reason may help resolve the symptoms that could quickly turn into a panic attack. 
“I don’t know...I’m really sorry.” You patted his head, pushing his feathers down in the process. 
“It’s okay. You don’t have to know.” You continued to pat his head with your free hand, the other secured tightly in his own hand. Chances are he won’t be letting go anytime soon, so you’ll have to make do with one hand for now. 
You used your free hand to brush his feathers back, rubbing his shoulders and arms before returning to rubbing his head in soothing circles. He seemed to respond well to your physical touch, something you noticed early on in your friendship. 
“Can you do some deep breaths with me? It doesn’t have to be perfect, just do your best.” You gave him a reassuring smile and began to do deep breathing exercises. 
Initially he had short, shallow breaths, but after some time of doing the exercises he began following your instructions and successfully managed to breathe slower and heavier. 
After a while of doing deep breaths together Pluck broke the silence, “You don’t have to stay with me...I can get by on my own. I don’t want to burden you.” 
You gave him a smile, “I know you don’t need my help. But I want to help in any way I can. I won’t be able to rest easily knowing you’re anxious.” You placed your other hand on his, now holding both of his hands. “You’re strong, but you don’t have to be. You can be weak with me. I won’t judge you.” 
He let out a small noise and you saw his feathers bulk up again, before he rushed forward, putting his beak under your chin. 
“Why do you gotta be so nice to me...it’s unfair.” You didn’t have a clue what he meant, but you smiled down at him though he couldn’t see with his eyes buried under your chin. 
“I’m only showing you the kindness you deserve...besides, you’re always nice to me. Why wouldn’t I be nice to you?” You chuckled and pulled your hands out of his to pull him into a proper hug. 
He sighed and leaned into your embrace, “you’re nicer to me than anyone ever has been to me before. I want you to know I appreciate it.” He pulled back, and you let him. “I...never mind.” 
You tilted your head, “it’s okay...you can tell me. But if you don’t want to, I respect that too.” 
He looked conflicted, “I...maybe soon. I can’t tell you right now. The words just aren’t coming out.” You smiled and placed a hand on his chest, feeling his heartbeat, and he did the same. 
It was a comforting action you both did when trying to get your feelings across but didn’t know how to put it into words. 
“I’ll be ready to listen when you think you can tell me.” He made an affirmative noise and sighed, all his anxieties seeming to melt away. 
“Thank you...for helping me and just being you.” That made you laugh. 
“I’ll always be me. So I’m glad ‘me’ is someone who can comfort and be close to you.” You meant every word. As long as you could help him, nothing else mattered. Even if it meant just staying friends. 
“I have to get the little ones...will you be downstairs for dinner?” He placed his feathered hand over yours, sitting on his chest. 
“Of course! I’ll see you soon.” You hesitated before placing a soft kiss on the top of his head. 
He made an alarmed noise, like he wasn’t expecting it and you were pretty sure he was blushing. You couldn’t tell because of the feathers...but he very well could be blushing. 
He leaned up and pressed his beak to your forehead to return the kiss. 
“Right! Um...bye!” He turned quickly and ran out of the room. 
What a strange bird. But maybe soon he could be your strange bird. He probably didn’t feel the same...right? Or maybe he did like you…
You groaned and flopped onto your bed. Feelings were difficult. He did kiss you...in his own way. Maybe there was a chance. You won’t deny your feelings for the Kenku...you’d been harboring feelings for him for months...maybe soon you could confess. What’s the worst that could happen? He could say no...but then you’d resume being friends. 
It’s a shame friends weren't enough...hopefully he returns those feelings. Only time would tell. Maybe you could ask the party how to ask Pluck out...maybe not Anya. 
You weren’t sure Anya would be able to give solid relationship advice...but maybe Kovacs or Werblund would know? They’ve known him longer...yeah...you’ll try asking them. What could go wrong?
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thesunnyshow · 4 years
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Name: hi, i am nyx  Age: 20 years old Writing Blog URL(s): jungcity.tumblr.com | v-asl.tumblr.com 
Nationality: filipino Languages: english, filipino Star Sign: pisces! MBTI: infp-t Favorite color: white accentuated by silver Favorite food: it’s sweet and spicy chicken garlic!! Favorite movie: hmmm, it’s prolly flipped because that movie was so cute :,)  Favorite ice cream flavor: rocky road!! Favorite animal: it’s gonna be cats!! although i love lions so much because of narnia :,( Coffee or tea? What are you ordering? coffee :,) Go-to karaoke song: i don’t sing agskh the world would end if i would 
What has been one of the biggest factors of your success (of any size)? i think it’s me writing about jaehyun??? since he’s the king of fanfiction, especially in ncity nowadays. 
What fandom(s) do you write for?  nct + wayv
When did you post your first piece? three days ago!! that would be august 4 i guess???
Do you write fluff/angst/crack/general/smut, combo, etc? Why? i don’t really much write fluff since i don’t have any idea how to write a good fluff!! :( this has been an issue every time i write some au’s. so im always ending up writing and focusing more on angst. it’s the genre i know best. well, crack… it’s hard to make the readers laugh when you can’t even make their tooth ache from sweetness with your fluffy writings. :( smut… i don’t write smut explicitly any more. i’m more on the suggestive side rn. 
Do you write OCs, X Readers, Ships...etc  i write OC’s especially when im writing a series!! to diversify my writing. but i usually am on the x reader side. ships? not that much. 
Why did you decide to write for Tumblr? uhm, back in 2017, i was searching for some website where i could publish my works. ive always been a tumblr-girl since i am that wanna-be-aesthetic kinda person :D then i had found that i could write and publish on tumblr so yeah that’s pretty much why i am on this app rn
What inspires you to write?  ooh, music has been a great help for sure!! whenever i don’t feel like writing something, i always listen to music and the idea would flow like a river. classic poems helps, too. :)
What genres/AUs do you enjoy writing the most?  supernatural!au’s, fantasy!au, medieval!au. i feel like it’s easier to write something out of pure fantasy. i have a hard time writing modern!au’s since i lack the humor and the knowledge for modern slangs. 
What do you hope your readers take away from your work?  ooh, i always always always am careful with the way that i craft all my works. i try to feel what my characters feel to give them a certain validation. i put my shoes on the scenarios i have in mind even though i haven’t yet experienced everything ive written. and i do love writing strong female characters, whether it’s oc’s or female readers. that’s my main priority whenever i write. and i want them to know that girls could do just as much everything boys could. women are powerful. 
What do you do when you hit a rough spot creatively?  i read a lot to get back on my foot. i also try to re-read my past works so i’d be inspired to better my writing on my current draft.
What is your favorite work and why? Your most successful?  my favorite work is the one i’m still writing rn, which is entitled 505. it’s a hendery fic in which he is a bandit and the female reader is a sacristan. it’s my fave since i relate myself so much to the female reader. :) my most successful one is the childhood best friends!au taeyong x female reader. it’s about to reach 600+ notes i guess? and im so grateful of all the feedbacks i got from it. 
Who is your favorite person to write about?  it’s jaehyun and hendery :) 
Do you think there’s a difference between writing fanfiction vs. completely original prose?  character wise, perhaps. since you already have a face value in fanfiction, but in an original prose, you would have to craft everything from 0. 
What do you think makes a good story?  a good story is something that doesn’t romanticize the bad things going on in the world. a good story is something that is emphatic to the hardships of others. a good story is something that gives comfort to those who are in the dark. a good story is something that boosts the hearts of the readers and makes them feel things!! 
What is your writing process like?  first, i think of a plot! (this happens oftentimes when im washing the dishes) when i have the plot, i think of the ending. when i have the ending, it’s time for me to device a fitting title. and the plot would develop from then on. 
Would you ever repurpose a fic into a completely original story?  i don’t think so… this is scary. since some people think of fanfics as delusional works from delusional authors. it’s kinda sad. 
What tropes do you love, and what tropes can’t you stand?  i love love love enemies-to-lovers trope!! one that i couldn’t stand and do my best to not read is probably… hmm… no, i love all tropes!! i just love e-t-l most!
How much would you say audience feedback/engagement means to you?  it means a ton. since it could really boosts me up. heavy sigh. it’s the best thing when you write something— the feedbacks. even though it’s a simple reblog with the ‘#ATKSHSKSHSKAHAKSGAHGEGSJA’ or ‘#myfave’. i would smile like an idiot whenever i read it.
Dream job (whether you have a job or not)? i want to be a successful writer someday!
If you could have one superpower, what would you choose? teleportation!! 
If you could visit a historical era, which would you choose?  ancient greek + victorian era
If you could restart your life, knowing what you do now, would you?  yes!! im so hell deep in indecision right now so i want to restart to make everything right
Would you rather fight 100 chicken-sized horses or one horse-sized chicken?  100 chicken-sized horses!!
If you were a trope in a teen high school movie, what would you have been?  enemies-to-lovers trope agsksj LOL
Do you believe in aliens/supernatural creatures?  YES!!! perhaps they are lurking somewhere here on earth and we don’t know it yet ;)
Fun fact about yourself that not everyone would know?  oh… i don’t really know what to write. i don’t give much attention to my personal details agsksj
Do you think fanfic writers get unfairly judged?  yes!! ugh, there’s this recent issue wherein stan twt called fanfic writers as freaks. and it broke my heart. i mean, most fanfic writers get inspirations from their idols and that shouldn’t be a bad thing. we aren’t delusionals as one might think. we are simply doing our craft. 
Do you think art can be a medium for change?  yes!! our country’s hero ‘jose rizal’ had somehow stirred the nationality of the people back in the old days because of his writings. i do believe that art changes things!! it has the ability to pierce the heart of the people.  
Do you ever feel there are times when you’re writing for others, rather than yourself?  yes. i feel this whenever im writing smut. i mean, let’s be real, your works would do better once you’ve included some steamy smut scenes in it. when i was writing my first fanfic after three years, i didn’t think that i’d ever include smut. but the fear of not getting feedbacks crept up in me, so i forced myself to write some sexy scenes. i know that’s like… weird. but i’m trying not to dwell on feedbacks any longer. and i also have decided not to write explicit smut anymore. honestly, i feel better now that i don’t force myself to do something that i think would please others rather than me.
Do you ever feel like people have misunderstood you or your writing at times?  uhm, as far as i can remember, nope— still hasn’t felt that way. :)
Do your offline friends/loved ones know you write for Tumblr?  yes!! my best friends irl knows about it. my sister knows. my parents are also aware of my passion in writing, and they do know that i write. but where and what, that remains obscured from them :D 
What is one thing you wish you could tell your followers?  that it’s okay to be vulnerable. it’s okay to make mistakes. it’s okay to fail sometimes. it’s okay to feel things. because like a good book, there is always a character development and you have the pen to write your own version of happy endings. 
Do you have any advice for aspiring writers who might be too scared to put themselves out there?  i’ve been there: the scared and conscious part. but one thing i would say is, you have to dare yourself!! you won’t know how your writing would have impacted so many lives and touch the hearts of people if you won’t grab your pen or your gadget and start your draft. 
Are there any times when you regret joining Tumblr?  nope, there aren’t. the community has been lovely to me ever since i started writing. :,)
Do you have any mutuals who have been particularly formative/supportive in your Tumblr journey? yes!! oh my god. i’d like to take this opportunity to thank my mutuals who’s done me nothing but kindness— @legendnct (hannah), whoo!! you know how much i love you, right? thank you for always being there to listen to me. :) @cloudysuh des, since day one you’ve supported me. i couldn’t ask for more. thank you for the never-ending praises, keyboard smashes, for the tags, and for always boosting me up. @bohoes georgie, you know i love you. since 2017 you’ve been with me— praising my works and supporting me. thank you. @cherr-e cherry!! thank you!! for teaching me how to better my writing. i hope endless happiness for u and please take care. @writermoon hello my babe!! thank you so much for reading my works with such vivid imaginations. i love you. @jaeyongf amy!! the bestest person :,) thank you for always leaving me feedbacks!! thank you for being kind to me. thank you for always supporting me. i love you guys so much and let’s be mutuals for a long time!! 
Pick a quote to end your interview with: 
“If the world hated you, and believed you wicked, while your own conscience approved you, and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.” — Jane Eyre, Charlotte Brontë
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protectbrowngirls · 4 years
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Hey, i'm an 18 yr old brown girl. I've been dating a guy online for a year now and we're very close, he's 19.i really want to meet him and i told my parents about him and they went crazy. they stole my bank passwords and passport and they're really trying to control me. it's very hard already bc our relationship is long distance. anyone have any advice or tips on what I can do? I love parents but they're really toxic. if anyone can talk to me pls comment and ill pm my ig.
Hi, so sorry it took me forever to respond to you! Funnily enough, I’m visiting my own parents rn, and it’s very hard to find time for myself without them interrupting.
I definitely understand your pain. So often, brown parents go absolutely ballistic and cite “concern” as the reason they’re holding you hostage. I’m so sorry you’re in this situation, having to deal with not only with the obstacles that come with an LDR but also your parents being unreasonable.
Followers, if you have any advice or comfort you could offer, please feel free to share, whether via replying to this post, sending an ask, reblogging with advice, etc! And anon, if you’d like to talk about this more with me, you’re welcome to IM me; all messages and info will be kept private.
Having been in similar situations, I would offer you the following advice. Placing this under a readmore cut to avoid clogging dashboards:
First and most importantly, work to become independent from your parents. If you’re 18, you should be to close your account without needing your parents to sign off on it. Meaning, go to the bank, open a new account where you’re the sole owner, transfer all your money from your joint account to the new one, then close the old one. And then, don’t give your parents the new bank account info at any cost. They might threaten you, or tell you you’re irresponsible, or shout at you, or say all kinds of hurtful things. It will hurt a lot, but you need to say “I won’t give you access to my account.” Don’t try to explain or justify; just say that and nothing more. If the money in your account is technically theirs and you aren’t comfortable cutting off their access to it, open a new account anyway, and start directing as much of your own money into it as you can. Can you pick up a job or side hustle, like tutoring or freelance writing/editing/drawing? If you’re in college/university, can you get a work/study job without telling your parents? 
It is possible to replace your passport and any other documents your parents have stolen. If you’re in the United States, this website offers instructions on how to replace all your vital documents, including birth certificate, passport, SSN card, etc. (If you’re in a different country, let me know, and I’ll do my best to see if there are similar resources for you). It will take some digging to figure out all places you need to call or make appointments with. And it will unfortunately cost money, but you may be able to call your local passport facility or vital records office to ask if they have fee waivers or payment plans you could qualify for. I know it’s scary for your parents to hold your documents hostage, but unless you’re traveling internationally in the next month, this isn’t as big of a threat as they want it to be.
Unfortunately, you may have to accept that your parents just won’t support you meeting or dating your bf. Maybe they think you’re too young, or he doesn’t meet their standards, or they don’t trust the internet; regardless of the reason, it is deep-rooted, and they’re unlikely to change their minds no matter how much you reason or plead with them. This is really hard pill to swallow! It is so incredibly painful to realize that your parents’ love is conditional, and your happiness often isn’t a good enough reason for them to challenge their own beliefs. But you can’t control their reactions, nor can you force them to change their minds. Living your best life means determining what is and isn’t under your control, focusing on changing what you can, and not blaming yourself for the things you can’t change.
If you want to meet up with your bf, it will have to be on your own dime and your own time. This may mean you can’t meet up until you’re able to extricate yourself from your parents’ toxicity. You have to put your own safety and well-being first. This also means you need to have a difficult conversation with your bf: Are the two of you willing to wait until you’re able to meet him without your parents punishing you? Is he okay with you lying to your parents about him if you need to in order to avoid punishment? If he has fewer restrictions than you, is he okay with doing more of the legwork for meeting up (whether financially or by accommodating your restrictions) right now?
Though this is probably the furthest thing from what you want to hear, patience is your best friend right now. I promise there will come a time when you won’t have to worry about how your parents will react and how their reactions will limit your own happiness. I promise eventually you’ll be able to meet your bf whenever you want (global pandemics permitting). But that time is not right now, and you have still have some hurdles in your way. So be patient, and work toward clearing those hurdles. I hope you’re able to meet up with your bf sooner rather than later, and that you find a way to distance yourself from your parents’ toxicity. You deserve to seek happiness without first having to seek their approval and permission.
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jumpboy-rembrandt · 5 years
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do you still do hp au? bc i am Constantly thinking about the refuge npcs and i have some hcs... roswell i think is a hufflepuff... could make an argument for gryffindor but most of what they do within the story is based around their loyalty and personal ties rather than bravery for braverys sake. ren honestly feels like a slytherin tbh. she gets in a year after taako and they both have a great time. they rig up a fully functional kitchen in taakos dorm. kravitz suffers.(part 1)
cassidy honestly strikes me as a slytherin as well? idk shes mostly just out for herself and wants thos diamonds. i think you could make a case for gryffindor or hufflepuff as well considering how hell bent she was on getting into the quarry to find out what killed all her fellow miners (thats gotta take a lot of bravery and/or loyalty considering shes seen it kill all her friends). (part 2)
i actually don't think isaak is a slytherin? more like a gryffindor or hufflepuff who's been fucked over by circumstance and has become what he is to deal with it. isaak pre chalice prob wasn't like that. palomas ravenclaw i think? her whole thing is information and the pursuit of it as far as i see it. june really could be a lot of houses and we never see enough of her to be sure... griffin who is she...(part 3/3 thanks if you read this hellish text dump btw. im very tired rn.)
i ALWAYS do hp au
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i 100% agree with roswell as a hufflepuff. their bravery is centered around loyalty, and i definitely wouldn’t call them bold. if they were a gryffindor, they’d be more of a neville-gryffindor, and we all know neville should’ve been in hufflepuff.
i have justification for that claim, but this is not actually a hp post so the tl;dr is that boy needed a more gentle environment
yessss.....YESSSSS......SLYTHERIN REN YESSSSSSSS
besides the PRIMO vision of kravitz having to fight his way past the patrons of.....his dorm room.....which is now a restaurant.......just to get to his dresser????? i genuinely get slytherin ren
she saw taako play the underdark, was inspired to LEAVE the underdark, moved to the middle of nowhere to cook, and eventually walked up to her idol/friend with plans for a school
her whole initial convo with taako? slytherin. here are some quotes:
taako: what is with the bubble, right?ren: yeah, it’s— it popped up a little over a year ago, and… I don’t know. I’m sort of ambivalent about it.
i.e.: it’s not relevant to me so i don’t really care
ren: a lot of people preferred the last elder, jack, but, you know, him and june… they died. and [quickly] “by their sacrifice our town is made safe”, and all that.
i.e.: everybody says this, and you know everybody says this, so i’m gonna say it in a slightly-mocking way so you don’t write me off
ren: [isaak]’s not— you know, i run a bar, and it’s important for me to keep kind of a fun, flirty atmosphere going in here, and kind of a sourpuss like him doesn’t exactly lend itself to that, but, yeah, you know. he’s doing his best.taako: yeah, you don’t want everybody to head into that other bar.ren: that’s a— okay. no, that’s fair.
i.e.: you’re not wrong, but fuck you, this is gonna be the best bar ever
and, god, yeah, the whole thing with setting up a school with a powerful friend and taking over all the work so she essentially controls this important institution and will be remembered for her skill? slytherin all over babey.
i had trouble w cassidy, so naturally i broke down her actions with an arbitrary scoring system to decide:
seeing something horrible in the mines and going back anyway to find out what happened (+10 G, +5 H)
blowing up a rockslide in a cave with a cluster bomb (+10 G, -5 S)
snitching on the boys (+10 S, -10 G)
shortly thereafter breaking out while saying “y’all aren’t snitches, are you?” (+50+10 S, +5 G, -5 H)
whacking merle over the head with a shovel when he followed her with a dubious excuse (+5 S, +5 G, -5 H)
becoming the town’s new elder (+10 S)
giving merle a handful of grody rootbeer barrels while spouting some nonsense advice (+10 H, +5 S)
might be ren’s gf (+5 H because slytherins and hufflepuffs flock together)
that’s +35 slytherin, +20 gryffindor, and +10 hufflepuff. so, basically, according to math, you’re right.
oh isaak is absolutely not a slytherin. he regret his actions before, during, and after they happened. i’d say he isn’t a gryffindor, mostly because of his own insistence that he was a coward for what happened, but he still could be if he went through a redemption arc? i’d definitely settle with hufflepuff. after jack’s death, he did his best to atone for what he did, and he used his awareness during the loops to monitor these unstable invaders and defend june with his life.
paloma, my angel grandma, can definitely be ravenclaw. honestly, i don’t see any traits that strongly push her in another direction? her whole character is pursuing and dispensing prophecy.
june? you mean the little girl who played in the mines and held her hand out to her father’s killer, sighed, and said “c’mon”? That’s Gryffindor Babey. 
he’s dead, but her father is a gryffindor too. could be a hufflepuff, but my gut says gryffindor.
bonuses:
 you didn’t mention them probably because it’s obvious, but slytherin ash is the hero we need with their goliath buddy, who i won’t even try to type, because he doesn’t even have a name.
luka is a ravenclaw, and redmond is a slytherin
purple worm is an angry hufflepuff
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alysaalban · 4 years
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Are my critiques of others more accurately read as an actual teacher, as this group is, there is recovery or everything goes the way it normally requires for the people were working from memory, and memory can fade over time, different renditions of the country.Reiki, however, can be used to stimulate the sacral Chakra Wardite, Mesolite, Jasper, and Jet, help the base of the readily available and read many opinions about how a particular Chakra.Decide for yourself the gift of music, to know whether you refer to Reiki the way when you practice Reiki believe life force is prana.I would suggest that your innocent soul can realize different feelings.This form of co-healing rather than a few minutes children become restless and refuse to go even better the access to the recipient in a place for Reiki to enhance your knowledge about the three levels of healing: physical, emotional, mental, and physical illnesses.
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-- aurulentHuntsman [AH] 8egan pestering decastichAmazifier [DA] at 17:38 --
AH: Greetings, Kavi! ~}==>
DA: o hey
AH: How are you faring this fine afternoon? ~}==>
DA: lmao uh like ngl im p much blastd
DA: so i mean its a thong
DA: 8thing
DA: wow
DA: charasistic typos
DA: fuckin noice
AH: Hmm???????? ~}==>
AH: It seems a little early in the day for drinking! ~}==>
DA: hey listen
DA: friend
DA: man
DA: len me ur ear
DA: consider this
DA: concept: its night in at least 5 places rn
AH: A fair point... Time is relative! ~}==>
AH: And perhaps that is a social construct that we put too much weight into ~}==>
AH: But traditionally, early drinking is something of a red flag... ~}==>
AH: I beg your pardon if I'm being presumptuous, but is everything alright? ~}==>
DA: uh lol i mean hello no
DA: well yeh but no
DA: idk its complicated
DA: so
DA: shrugmojis
DA: jus think about me like the fun winemom on Facebook
DA: or like those old sitcoms where its funny
DA: and not a issue like yah kids w/e
DA: u n your bottlerockets and blowin up hotdogs in microwaves
DA: i'll go get my xanex and gin
DA: laughtrack
DA: or Karen
DA: you saucy bagel u
DA: fuckin #relatable #classic #same #mood
AH: I see... So, if it's purely recreational, then the fun would only be doubled with company, correct? ~}==>
DA: oh uh....... yah gimme
DA: 45 mins
AH: Certainly! ~}==>
AURYHN: *exactly 45 minutes later, there's a little CLUNK at his window... followed by another a few seconds later.* ~}==>
KAVI: *Shitpissufck now he's gotta... he's gotta... SHOWER. And clean up. He can't be a mess anymore that's enough of that. He got all gross and pathetic on Nellie and he doesn't think he can take looking like a goddamn fool in front of another one of his friends. He quickly got showered and stumbled about his room. Now he only SLIGHTLY smells like vodka. NICE.*
KAVI: *Jumps at the window clunk.... o fuq. He goes to the window and opens it*
AURYHN: *on the ground, waving up at him with a big stupid grin on his face* ~}==>
KAVI: *WOW that's far.... also he's a smiley guy.... lays right against this window sill... Leans and lays, sliding down to chinhands at him..... casually* hhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeyyyyy *calls while sliding*
AURYHN: ... HELLO, KAVI ~}==>
AURYHN: If you would please stand aside so I can climb in through your window, that would be much appreciated! ~}==>
KAVI: o
KAVI: yah
KAVI: *flumps back.... but at least he didn't see that*
AURYHN: *scurries up the tree like he had the night he slept over until he's swoocing through the window, landing gracefully on the other side.* I've arrived! ~}==>
KAVI: *Stays right here on the floor... WHY? HE DOESN'T KNOW..... but his leg is on the wall*
KAVI: *peace sign* sup
KAVI: hey
KAVI: ur sup
KAVI: is was up
KAVI: for me at least
KAVI: wbu
AURYHN: *stands over him, hands on hips, for a moment... before he drops down next to him with his feet propped against the wall as well.* Oh, you know! Exploring the city and what not ~}==>
KAVI: *Hello mountainous man tiddies, oh, hello the whole Auryhn* o... yeah sounds fun
KAVI: still gogogoin
KAVI: none naps n shit
KAVI: s'not good
AURYHN: *chuckles a little, turning his head towards him* I've managed to find time for sleep in my busy schedule... At your behest ~}==>
KAVI: *grins a lil* hah really? well damn... good yeah
KAVI: that's good, i'm glad you r
AURYHN: It was sound advice! After all... Early to bed, early to rise... Makes a man strong, wealthy and wise ~}==>
AURYHN: *grins cheesily some more, but then looks back up at the ceiling... not without a little side eye, though* I do hope you're exercising similarly healthy habits... ~}==>
KAVI: ............. *Feels the side eyeing and sweats mildly* i mean
KAVI: lol
KAVI: so
KAVI: i can
KAVI: i have some off dayz
KAVI: zzzz
KAVI: ss
AURYHN: Ah ha, so you are having an off day! ~}==>
KAVI: ...... *oh gdi* uhhhh
KAVI: alternattitvely.....
KAVI: what the fuck are on days even???????
AURYHN: Kavi, PLEASE ~}==>
AURYHN: You must know, I don't fuss over others often... ~}==>
AURYHN: I only wish to know if you're alright ~}==>
AURYHN: And if you aren't... then I would like to offer you comfort in whatever way would best help you ~}==>
AURYHN: You're my friend! And a very important one ~}==>
KAVI: *Makes a face... why does everyone have to be so supportive... why can't he just be sad and miserable and he kinda feels like shit for just dancing around it when Auryhn DOES give a shit. Even still it makes him sad to talk about and just the friendfection and the sad feels his face gets a little red.. sighs*
KAVI: *rubs his face up so he doesn't start crying again. So he just.... rubs the tears back in his eyes with his palms. Ace strats* me and.. Den, broke up. guess i'm bein a pissbaby about it idk w/e w/e
AURYHN: *oh... now he feels bad prying so much, but maybe he would have felt bad no matter what kavi said. he only knows this wasn't what he expected to hear, and he gazes at the other boy sympathetically* Oh... I... am sorry to hear that ~}==>
AURYHN: Kavi... It's only natural to feel so hurt over something like that, isn't it? ~}==>
AURYHN: *offers him a hand to hold* I certainly can't blame you ~}==>
KAVI: *Looks at the hand then at Auryhn, his brain still going way faster than his mouth can currently keep up but he looks incredulous? And definitely teary* how can u be so sure? how, how do you know i didn't fuck everything up? i can fuggin blame me easy,
KAVI: gee Kavi, maybe you can't shut the hell up about how goddamn gay you are for p much everyone??
KAVI: or maybe ya try so fuckin hard for the approval of others that you backflip off the fuckin deepend as far as people close to u are concerned
KAVI: oh, oh, here maybe you just plain weren't fuckin good enough to handle anyone on an intimate level because you're too wrapped up in your own shit to connect really?
KAVI: or just that you THINK relationships can fix anything and everything and that's myth goddamn busted because look at you!
KAVI: you can definitely blame me, i can blame me and it's deeper than that and why the fuck does anyone GIVE a shit for a fakeass dumbass when they just DON'T. KNOW. *And he's being hysterical... nice. Good job. Just. Gurgles and puts his hands back over his face, get back in there tears. Maybe it was for the best Auryhn kept seeing him like this. An Ass. His final form* i'm, fuck
KAVI: i'm sorry i, ffffffuugghhhh *gibberish and just rolls over, good bye forever*
AURYHN: *stares at him stunned for a good long moment. he doesn't have that much experience dealing with high emotion coming from other people... but listening to all this, he did understand one thing: how it felt to be critical of yourself, the need to always be impressive, the self preservation... he knew those pressures, even if he always denied them. seeing how they effected someone he cared so deeply
AURYHN: for, it sure put things into perspective for him.* ~}==>
AURYHN: Perhaps I don't know you quite as well as I think I do... As well as I would like to ~}==>
AURYHN: *flexes the hand kavi didn't take, deciding to place it on his shoulder* 8ut I have seen your compassion... When you treat me with kindness, do you mean to say it's out of selfishness? I dou8t that very much ~}==>
AURYHN: If you've made mist8kes, that's all that they are! You are not defined soley 8y your worst moments... Nor are you defined soley 8y your 8est ~}==>
AURYHN: I only mean to say... You should allow yourself this heart8r8k, Kavi ~}==>
KAVI: *While he tries to hide his shame and cry lowkey. super lowkey like... no one would suspect. He listens to Auryhn's words. Quietly sniffing and trying to keep his breathing even. They made sense.... which was good but he also didn't feel like he deserved those kind words. Like he's dropping this plate of Hot Mess(tm) that's his own damn self and no one is backing up with their hands in the air*
KAVI: ....why're u so nice..
AURYHN: *scoffs* You know, not many people would agree that I am... I know that for a F8CT... ~}==>
AURYHN: *sighs* But it is easy to be kind to someone who has been kind to you, I believe ~}==>
KAVI: *that's so.. cheesy but also.. it helps. He loves cheese. Sniffs again and wipes his hands on his shirt, trying to calm down* cheddar... pure... 100% milk gdi, ugh... i'm so gross rn
KAVI: you came here for a good time and now idk ur nice you probably don't feel attacked rn
KAVI: it's like playing the floor is lava and we're laying in this shit right now
KAVI: because we're on the floor
KAVI: no imagination required on that part
AURYHN: *snorts* Then what are we doing on the floor? Allow me to rescue you from a fiery demise! ~}==>
AURYHN: *rolls to sit before scooping up kavi with no real warning* I used to play "the floor is lava" when I was a wriggler ~}==>
AURYHN: And I would pretend to be a wise dragon sentinel in my castle upon a volcanic mountain! ~}==>
AURYHN: Which I later went on to insist upon a hive of my own... Though I could not find a volcano, the snowy Avalon mountains suited me just fine ~}==>
AURYHN: *carries kavi over to his plush pile and sets him down. there. he's safe here.* ~}==>
KAVI: *Oh he got scooped. His face is all red from the crying as he looks up at Auryhn while he talks and walks with him. The story is a cute one, he breathes out a short laugh then looks away. Not now dokis gdi* wow... hah
KAVI: yeah they, they did you good *sniff* that's pretty cute tho
AURYHN: *kneels in front of the pile, grinning at him* A young Auryhn would disagree... It was quite a noble pursuit ~}==>
AURYHN: But present Auryhn has the insight to agree that, yes, it was rather adorable... ~}==>
AURYHN: Also, are you comfortable? ~}==>
KAVI: its cute and noble lol he'd have to deal with it *settles back in all this gd plushness*
KAVI: also
KAVI: hell yes
AURYHN: Excellent! ~}==>
AURYHN: Would you like anything else? A blanket, perhaps? A pair of strong arms to cry into? ~}==>
AURYHN: *FLEXES* ~}==>
KAVI: .....
KAVI: yes
KAVI: *lifts arms*
AURYHN: *here he comes, leaning in for the snuggles. welcome to his STRONG embrace.* ~}==>
KAVI: *This is a nice embrace..... He cuddles into it. Nice.... :'S :') :'S *
AURYHN: *squeezes him close, resting his cheek against his head. the closeness makes his face flare with heat, but... that's hardly appropriate right now! he ignores it as best he can.* There there... ~}==>
KAVI: .....*SNRK*
KAVI: where is my broom?
KAVI: where are my pets
KAVI: i need my awkward distant pets
AURYHN: Your broom???????? I thought you were a wizard, not a witch ~}==>
AURYHN: *LAUGHS. he might not get the Reference, but he thinks he's hilarious...* I can provide you with sincere, close range pets, however ~}==>
AURYHN: *rubs at his back* ~}==>
KAVI: lol i'll take those..... and also i'll show you memes later *snuggles into him*
AURYHN: Memes, hmm? Well, I look forward to it... ~}==>
AURYHN: *rumbles a little in his chest. he tries not to chirr much, but... now seems like a good time to break out the comforting bug sounds.* ~}==>
AURYHN: For now, you relax ~}==>
KAVI: you'll regret it... but we're makin it happen *laughs softly and cuddles up here against these bug noises... he does like him some bug noises...* kk i'll do that
KAVI: you're cozy
KAVI: great cuddlemate
KAVI: a plus plus smiley face
KAVI: and thanks lol
AURYHN: You're welcome, Kavi... You're welcome for my comforting embrace... ~}==>
AURYHN: *gentle snickering, but he's starting to get relaxed enough to nap himself...* ~}==>
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The Streetwear Startup forum lets aspiring creative directors figure out whether their graphics are cool—and where they can get blank tees to print them on.There is absolutely no good reason the words “yo pierre, you wanna come out here?” should be here pinned on the page for Reddit’s Streetwear Startup subforum. Clicking on the words leads you nowhere, and the phrase—first heard on the Jamie Foxx Show and more recently popularized by hip-hop producer Pierre Bourne—doesn’t have anything to do with the page’s function: convening an unusually friendly online community to help burgeoning streetwear designers launch their brands. But it turns out that “yo pierre” is a perfect symbol for a genre of clothing that thrives on coded imagery—ranging from Coca-Cola to Dragon Ball Z—to signal to other people you’re hip, you’re in the know, and yes, you would like to come out here.The streetwear startup aims to dissect the very concept of cool. Can the designs and signals that have catapulted brands like Supreme and Kith into the fashion stratosphere be focus group-tested until you’ve found the thing that resonates with customers? After all, if the almost-14,000 users on the page think your piece is a must-cop, it’s also possible that Miami Dolphin Jarvis Landry will too, and will then wear it on ESPN, like he did with streetwear startup success story Rude Vogue. And if this chorus of voices say fire, there’s a decent chance the streetwear press will join in, like Hypebeast did with the brand Deadnight.Anyone with an Instagram account would be forgiven for thinking that the streetwear market is oversaturated with streetwear brands. But others see the endless stream as a siren call to jump into the fray. But the rush with coming up with a catchy name—seriously, it can be anything; the most popular streetwear brand in the world is called Supreme—can make you forget there are logistics to be dealt with. How do you get your vision on the screen? How do you make other people fuck with that vision? How do you get that art on a T-shirt? And, wait, where do you even get those T-shirts from? And once you have the T-shirts and someone willing to shell out the cash for it… what then?How do I get these printed?Streetwear Startup is built to answer those questions. “I want to keep it as open as possible and for it to be for anyone curious about brand startup as a whole,” says Dustin Wilkie, a recent UNC-Asheville grad who moderates the subreddit. The subreddit was formed, in November of 2013, and Wilkie, who was working on a brand of his own at the time, joined almost immediately. Wilkie says the person “who actually made it just doesn't use it, and I don't even have contact with them any more”—a poetic start for a page that’s all about trial and error. Wilkie was put in charge because he was the longest-tenured member.The subreddit’s main services can be broken down into two parts: beginner questions (What’s the best ecommerce site?) and brand feedback (What logo do you like most?). Wilkie’s goal is to eradicate the first part by compiling a How to Streetwear 101 handbook that will contain everything you need to get from idea to brand. “We have a pretty big problem with people posting the same beginner question over and over,” Wilkie laments. The ”wiki” currently covers four topics but “we're creating a how to beginner's guide that should handle all of those questions,” Wilkie says.“The subreddit is filled with people who are grinding away every day in the same way as me,” says Slade, a 20-year-old college student studying graphic design in Missouri who founded the brand VVID. “Oftentimes, they've stumbled and had to learn during their journey, too, and they're nice enough to impart that knowledge to me, and in turn I get to circumvent those mistakes.”Wilkie says the page has been growing quickly recently, though he can’t pinpoint the exact reason for all the newfound subscribers. Jaffry Mallari, a 19-year old Geomatics Engineering Technology student at the Southern Alberta Institute of Technology, says that when he joined almost two years ago, there were only around 2,000 followers. He took a break after his first brand went to that friendly Shopify site in the sky, but when he came back around a year ago the number of subscribers had tripled to 6,000. Now it stands at around 14,000 members—and more people means more voices. “There is more information now,” Mallari says. “So now it's like more of a struggle [to get to the top post] but since there's more competition now it made me push harder on my designs.” Mallari dubbed his new brand Resurgence: “To fix the mistakes that I’d made and to do twice as well as before—that's the meaning of the brand.”When I catch Slade on email he tells me he was getting “sewing 101 tips.” Others start by sponging up even more rudimentary knowledge. Mallari recounts his first experience on the page: “I just kept putting in designs and kept asking questions, like, ‘What websites do I use? How do I get these printed?” Mallari says that the first brand he made “crumbled and fell off” after a bad business decision. “But back then I was still new to it and I thought [I’d found] an easier way. That's when I learned the hard way that's not how you need to run something.”Everyone started from the bottomBuilding a career in fashion takes time: Alessandro Michele worked anonymously for more than a decade at Gucci before being handed the reins. Building a career on r/StreetwearStartup is a considerably quicker process. “I have been posting in the subreddit showcasing my collections for about 18 months now,” says Sam Hall, a 27-year-old living in Manchester. In that span, his brand Deadnight has been featured on Hypebeast. Well-followed DJs like Example and KuruptFM requested clothing from him. Now, he says he’s in talks to be stocked “across Asia for a very large organization.” That’s thanks to the subreddit, he says: “Each time I have received high praise from members, but most importantly vital feedback which I have used each and every time to improve.” And therein lies what’s truly one-of-a-kind about this page: unlike most internet enclaves, most people on Streetwear Startup aren’t total assholes.A large percentage of the posts request feedback on a design. Amateur designers posting their best efforts to an audience granted internet anonymity should be like throwing red meat to a pack of hypebeasts. But the group on Streetwear Startup is almost entirely supportive, and only intends to nurture when it does give feedback. Compare the top comment on a recent Hypebeast article—”Looka ma stickers bruuuuuuuh. Fucking f*****s”—with a comment the brand Anomaly received when its founder asked for feedback on a tee: “I really like the original to the point where I'll cop rn if you release.”And that’s just one of the 33 comments offering advice on what the graphic should look like (“If you're going for the water reflection look, I feel like you should make the water a little more recognizable,” writes one commenter) and ways to add small details (“Would like to see something really simple on the back of the shirt,” reads another post). Anomaly’s founder Adam has been on the subreddit since 2015 and describes it as a key resource in building his brand. “It's the first place I turn to whenever I need feedback on a new design, tips on marketing, or just advice in general,” Adam tells me via email. “I'm not exaggerating when I say I wouldn't be here if it weren't for the supportive, albeit critical, community​.”That sentiment is echoed by other users. “I personally value when people on the sub are a bit ruthless,” says VVID’s Slade. “It may often hurt my feelings at first reaction, but I also find harsh critique to give my subconscious a new perspective when approaching design.”What feeds the harmonious atmosphere is the fact that everyone has some skin in the game. “Everyone has the same perspective,” says Mallari. “So it's much easier for them to praise others, keep it up, this is good. It's a supportive environment because everyone started from the bottom.” Wilkie says he’s only ever banned one person.The whole community is reliant on this continuous feedback loop. “If you give to the community, we're going to try and give back to you,” says Wilkie.But this isn’t just a fun hobby; those who stick with the subreddit are serious about their success and the page can act as a fast track to it. “This is the future for me,” says Slade of his brand. “I'm hoping when Volume 3 releases I'll be able to drop out of school and do VVID full-time. I don't think it’s a long shot.”Adam, a 17-year-old who runs a brand called Anomaly with his friends Omar and Abdullah, echoes that thought. “Every brand owner within the subreddit wants the same thing: to make it big,” he says.It’s the amount of experience that all of us combined can bring to one person's ideaThe subreddit’s greatest strength, though, is the sheer number of voices and people it can bring to bear on an issue. “We have [14,000] people now but even if 10 people talk to you about a design that may help you decide to start over or decide that, ‘Wow this is really something I can work on.’” says Wilkie.When I ask Slade what the most valuable thing he gets from the subreddit is he says opinions. This is what’s most disruptive about the page: it lets burgeoning designers to crowdsource their designs rather than coming up with designs in isolation, investing the money, then plopping them on the web in hopes of finding an audience for the work.The process by which the clothing is made is different, but the resulting products have a lot in common with brands we’re familiar with. In the world of streetwear, the difference between what we consider hot and not oftentimes has a lot to do with the name behind it, rather than the strict aesthetic appeal of whatever’s on the front. The reasons we lose our collective shit over a white tee with a red box on it isn’t because of its unprecedented design quality; it’s because of everything that red box signifies. Anomaly recently featured paintings that were criticized for looking too similar to those used by popular streetwear brand Heron Preston. The factor that makes one cool and another unoriginal can often come down to the name. There’s nothing inherently uncool about the brands on the streetwear subreddit except maybe that they’re just not cool yet.Sorting out all the signals is why the streetwear startup can be so helpful. “I needed a place to gauge the response a larger audience would have to the collection and I wanted to know if it would stand out the way I wanted it to,” Slade explains. “What better way to test that than post in a community of people who look at or create streetwear designs all day, and see what they think?” You can feel out a customer base before needing, you know, a customer base.And because these are people who also have brands, it makes them the perfect target market. “If the majority of them like it, it will mostly likely at least sell a few pieces,” says Mallari. Streetwear Startup offers people a testing ground for items and designs before they ever put real monetary investment into anything. And you can keep taking the community’s advice until you’ve smoothed out the edges enough that someone—probably a number of someones on Streetwear Startup, who have now all helped you make a garment closer to their tastes—might actually buy your product. Fashion isn’t a science, but in Streetwear Startup you can play a game of addition and subtraction based on feedback until you’ve got something at least one person will wear.And you can keep adding and subtracting until someone like Jarvis Landry wears your clothes on ESPN. Matt Nicholas, a 30-years-old supplement store manager in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada and the designer behind Rude Vogue, says that the subreddit vaulted him in front of a larger audience, but the Landry placement is on a different level. “It was a pretty amazing feeling, just growing up always watching ESPN daily and then to see your brand you've worked so hard for making a cameo on SportsCenter,” Nicholas says. The rest of the subreddits users are hoping to find the same kind of streetwear success — with a little help from their 14,000 friends.Watch Now:How Kinfolk Became One of the Coolest Designers on the PlanetMORE STORIES LIKE THIS ONE
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Hello, Curious PWD Friends. Doesn't it just seem like everything affects your diabetes? Yup — and today we're addressing two of them, marital relationships and the much-hyped idea that cinnamon can control your blood sugars.
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Phyllis from Vermont, type 2, asks: How can stress in a marriage affect blood sugars?
Wil@Ask D'Mine answers: As it turns out, in two distinct and very different ways. Now, for background, for many years I had assumed that any kind of stress messes up blood sugars for all of us. That's because I was a believer in the Caveman Effect (not to be confused with a Caveman Low). The Caveman Effect (or Cavewoman Effect) goes like this: in the old days if you were just wandering around the Pleistocene minding your own businesses, and a saber tooth tiger jumped out of the reeds, you'd scream, throw your spear into the air, and run for your frickin' life. To do that, your adrenal glands helpfully filled your blood stream with a sugary hormone called adrenaline to give you an extra little boost of speed.
If you are a caveperson running for your life this is no problem. You'll run off the sugar.
Now fast-forward 40,000 years. Instead of being in a real cave, you're in your husband's man-cave. And instead of a saber tooth tiger, your adrenaline comes from too many bills, too little money, and too little healthy conversation. You can't run away from that kind of stress. Oh, and you're not a healthy cavewoman either. You're a person with diabetes.
So this unusable adrenaline was thought to pile up and increase blood sugar across the board. The fancy word for it is "hormonal mediation," but I still prefer Caveman Effect.
However, a recent conversation with our best brain-and-diabetes guy, Dr. William Polonsky, set me straight. Dr. P tells me that "physical stress, like undergoing surgery, reliably raises blood sugars. And, for some people, emotional or mental stress seems to raise blood sugars, but not for everyone. For other people, mental stress seems to have no effect, or even lowers blood sugars!"
Wow. Who knew? Fighting with your spouse is good medication for some people with diabetes! I feel a book coming on...
Dr. P goes on to explain the conundrum of stress and diabetes: "stress does seem to reliably worsen long-term blood glucose control for most people, but not due to hormonal mediation. Instead, it is just behavior. 'I am stressed, so I don't give my diabetes the close attention it deserves,' and presto — A1C's rise. Also, it may only be certain kinds of stress and the actual timing of when the stress occurs that determines whether and how it affects blood sugars."
So the Caveman Effect still comes into play with some people some of the time, but not all people all of the time. And it looks like we need a new label for the long-term effects of stress on diabetes, which I'm going to label the Eff-it Effect. (Sorry, Dr. P).
So we now know that marriage stress can affect diabetes in two ways. The Caveman Effect might (or might not) raise your blood sugar at the time of stress, like during an argument; and the Eff-it Effect will almost certainly raise your blood sugar over time because you've taken your eye off the ball.
I guess knowing the two likely causes is a help. But neither are easily fixed. If your blood sugars are affected by the Eff-it Effect ya' just gotta slap yourself across the face and get focused on the basics of diabetes control again. If you're one of those people who suffers from the Caveman Effect, then you need to develop some new tricks to reduce your immediate stress when it hits during those 'charged' moments.
Maybe aroma therapy candles...? Maybe a massage? Or maybe you need to pick up your spear and work off some energy at the gym. Hey, it worked for our ancestors.
Brenda from Colorado, type 2, asks: Have you done any research on cinnamon? They have it in so many diabetic products and herbals nowadays. Does it really work?
Wil@Ask D'Mine answers: Cinnamon alternately generates a lot of excitement and a lot of disappointment among PWDs. When I first read that cinnamon might be the cure for diabetes, the first thing I did was run down to the nearest Cinnabon to get some of this new medicine.
That didn't work out so well for me.
One of the problems with the whole cinnamon thing is that the original study was done on six political prisoners in a maximum security lockup in Shi Lanka. OK, OK, OK. I exaggerate. But the truth is almost as bad. The first published cinnamon study back in 2003 was done in Pakistan on 60 type 2s, only half of which took the cinnamon, and the study ran just 40 days and 40 nights. No kidding. And the researchers demonstrated a respectable glucose drop. Or did they? More on that in a minute. But this was the face that launched a thousand ships. Or at least a thousand over-the-counter diabetes "supplements" with cinnamon in them.
Over the next several years following this first study, a number of other small (sometimes smaller!) studies looked at cinnamon with varying results — mainly unable to duplicate the original results.
Now, I need to interject my thoughts on clinical trials here. Well, more correctly, on the SIZE of clinical trials. I get suspicious when I read results from a small pool of participants, as very small trials are subject to errors because one or two people who have unusual reactions can throw the average results way off. I don't think it's a good idea to make sweeping statements about everyone who has diabetes if you only look at 20 of us. (Read the DiabetesMine Research Primer here for more insights on that.)
But back to cinnamon. As I said, most of the trails were very small, a fact that the mainstream media ignored or glossed over. Some were badly designed. Oh, right, and some were on rats.
Finally, in 2008, William Baker and his colleagues killed cinnamon once and for all in a meta-analysis (the same statistical torpedo that sunk Avandia) of all the assorted cinnamon trials, finding that cinnamon had only one scientifically demonstrable effect: it makes cinnamon rolls taste better. It doesn't improve A1C, it doesn't improve fasting blood glucose, and it doesn't improve lipids in either type 1s or type 2s—all claims of previous "research."
Now science aside, all you have to do is look at the comments sections of any blog posts on the cinnamon issue and you'll find lots of folks who would bet the farm on cinnamon, and who sing its praises. So what to make of that?
Well some might be "plants" from the folks making all those cinnamon supplements, but there's a whole class of people who don't want to take their medicine, but rather want to do things "naturally." (I find this silly, as most medicines are natural in the first place. Metformin is just French Lilac, aspirin is willow bark, and statins are red rice yeast.) But I think sometimes these folks have a problem with perspective. It can be hard to separate the wheat from the chaff. Sometimes when you start something new to help your diabetes, you do other things at the same time that you aren't even aware of. Maybe, in addition to taking cinnamon they're now more physically active. Or maybe they're eating a little better. Or maybe they lost some weight. Or maybe they're just kidding themselves.
When it comes to blood sugar numbers, I find that even my smartest, most focused patients are horrible historians. Just yesterday, one of my type 1s was telling me how he was "always" having lows around 3am, over the last few weeks. Alarmed, I started looking at his pump's basal rates. But then I looked at his CGM data. In his case, "always" turned out to be twice. In two weeks. Still, those two times made a big impression. In a similar fashion, sometimes the data we want to see makes a bigger impression than it deserves.
I know when I download my CGM it paints a worse picture on my control than I expect. Huh? I could'a sworn I was "flat-lining" my blood sugar...
A number of my type 2 patients have tried cinnamon. Some felt it didn't help. Some thought it helped a little. Some felt it made a huge difference in their diabetes control. But I couldn't see any change at all when I studied their meter downloads.
One woman I work with thought that cinnamon was doing such a great job she stopped all her prescription meds in favor of cinnamon.
Her A1C tripled.
Of course, for the most part, cinnamon is harmless. So if you want to try it, go for it. Just don't stop your other meds. Study your meter data carefully. Try to be honest with yourself on other changes in your life.
Oh...
And remember that I said the cinnamon was harmless for the most part? One last warning: while cinnamon can't be scientifically shown to lower blood sugar, it has been proven to be effective as a mild blood thinner. So if you are on Coumadin (a.k.a. Warfarin) or a similar medication for heart problems, be alert for easy bruising, etc.
The cinnamon can super-size the effects of your blood thinner.
So if you want to play with cinnamon, that's OK with me. Just play it smart. Play it safe. Keep your mind clear and focused on the facts, and remember you mileage may vary from 30 Pakistani PWDs who tried cinnamon back in 2003.
Disclaimer: This is not a medical advice column. We are PWDs freely and openly sharing the wisdom of our collected experiences — our been-there-done-that knowledge from the trenches. But we are not MDs, RNs, NPs, PAs, CDEs, or partridges in pear trees. Bottom line: we are only a small part of your total prescription. You still need the professional advice, treatment, and care of a licensed medical professional.
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