#self ship family

[the-phoenix-and-the-witch]

4 wives

Valerie: We are all here? Serenity: Here! Rosa: Here as well. Atzi: Here....

Valerie: well well this is a lovely surprise! Rosa: I have to admit it has been overdue. Atzi: Agreed some longer than others. Serenity: for reals. Rosa: Soo... Do we invite the husbands to the convo? Serenity: Next time they are busy. Atzi: What will we do next time? Valerie: We can answer some questions about our marriages. Rosa: Sounds lovely. Serenity: All the nitty gritty *giggling* Atzi: No that is personal it shouldn't be talked about. Serenity: kidding love seeing you a bit flustered Rosa: Just the cute ones maybe the naughty ones for later. Valerie: sounds like a plan. But we will be showing our sides of what is like to be married to a WBP. Rosa: This will be quite lovely. Atzi: We should be leaving now. Serenity: Right I have to meet up with my own husband. Valerie:👀 Atzi:👀 Rosa:👀 Serenity: what? Valerie: stay safe. Serenity: We will hehe Atzi: they wont. Rosa: of course not

[cinderellahoneymoon]

im being so fucking for real and i need you guys to boost and reblog this you nonblack selfshippers have got to stop using "simp." you have to. its african american vernacular english (aave) which in colloquial terms means its not for you to use. in a space already hostile towards shippers of color, youre just making it more inhospitable to black selfshippers by appropriating our language. say youre crushing. say youre obsessed. say youre head over heels, say youre a sucker, say youre infatuated, just stop saying simp. for the love of god

{nonblack shippers [even other shippers of color] i do NOT want to hear your opinion on this post or hear about how you "didnt know" or are "changing it right now." just be an ally and LISTEN instead of needing to add your piece.}

[3kidsinacoat]

Tianlang-jun: Master Shen, can I offer you something? Water? Tea? My nephew's hand in marriage?

Shen Qingqiu: what?

Tianlang-jun: Perhaps wine? Some snacks? My sons hand in marriage?

Shen Qingqiu: I-

Tianlang-jun: Tanghulu? Congee? My hand in marriage?

[random-selfship-imagines]

Yes, I'm taken (I'm dating a fictional character inside my head)

[bearwuvimagines]

Imagine Bonking your f/o with ur head like a cat. Romantic platonic familial any kind of f/o just bonk them . it’s a real love language trust me ok

[aliens-luvr]

Imagine your f/o's scent when you kiss their cheek, how their skin feels against your hands when you touch them or against your body when you hold them. Just the feeling of them so close to you <3

read dni before interacting | no pr0-shippers/variants

[donahdevotees]

If you have a fem f/o, romantic, platonic or familial doesn't matter, please like this post! (Also feel free to rb with your fem f/o ships <3)

[1111-sunset-circle]

f/o who is inexplicably gentle with you, even if you don't believe that you deserve it. not in a patronizing way, not like they're walking on eggshells around you. in a way that makes you feel like the most precious thing in the world

[principled-uncertainty]

For my autistic self shippers: your f/o feels so special when you stim around them or involve them.

Maybe you repeat random words they say, or you like to play with their hands, anything really! And they’re thinking “omg i’m part of something that makes you happy/comfortable”

After the way the world has treated you for being different, they know how much trust it takes for you to unmask and be yourself around someone. They’re honored that they’re one of those trusted people, and your F/O being around you while you’re just being yourself makes both of you so happy and at peace.

[cinderellahoneymoon]

i guess we gotta have this talk AGAIN

the selfship community is using and appropriating aave to an astounding amount and as a black selfshipper, it makes the community feel unsafe for us to be around. here is a list of the words/phrases you should not be using and let your mutuals know they should also not be using because they are aave

simp

pookie

rizz

down bad

slay

finna

also yall barely interact w black selfshippers in general, get on that.

[NONBLACK PEOPLE DO NOT SPEAK AT ALL ON THIS POST. YALL ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING TO SAY KEEP IT TO YOURSELF IT ISNT YOUR TURN TO TALK.]

[eboni-napalm]

(this didn't happen to me recently but it did to someone I know in a self-ship Discord server I'm in so I'm making a post on this because it needs to be said AGAIN.) - (long rant incoming, tw for mention of s*****e)

Hey, self-shippers- yes, ALL OF YOU, because we ALL need to crack down on this and do better- there's probably quite a few of us, if not a lot of us, that don't like sharing some of our F/O's, and that's okay.

However, what's NOT FUCKING OKAY is GOING INTO THE INBOX OR DM'S OF A USER WHO SHARES AN F/O WITH YOU THAT YOU'RE NOT COMFORTABLE SHARING AND CALLING THEM NAMES/SLURS, TELLING THEM THEY'LL NEVER LOVE THAT PERSON, AND/OR THEN SAYING THEY SHOULD ACTUALLY KILL THEMSELVES. What in the actual FUCK is wrong with you? I don't care if you're a minor or an adult in the community, that shit is absolutely disgusting and unacceptable.

We as a whole need to do better about cracking down on this kind of behavior, for real. Self-shipping is a place where people should be able to feel welcome and able to ship themselves with characters they love without having to feel like they have to walk on eggshells just so they don't incur the wrath of others who think it's okay to treat others like this. This shouldn't be what people imagine when they think of self-shippers, but a few bad apples will bring our image down and make it to where no one wants to even joke about interacting with us.

To those self-shippers who are not okay or comfortable sharing your F/O's in whatever way- if you come across someone who shares one of those characters with you, instead of pulling shit like that (especially on anon, you spineless cowards), either just block the person without saying anything if you don't interact or have never interacted with them, or if it's someone you know/are on good terms with, kindly inform them not to talk about that F/O in personal interactions or have them tag posts with a certain tag so you can block that tag and hide them from your view so you don't have to see them. There's ways around everything here that avoids being an asshole to people and they're not that difficult to do.

I want to be proud to be part of this community as someone who's in it, not ashamed of it because of instances like this; even if they don't happen very often, they still happen, and they shouldn't. We can do better, we can be better.

Spread love, not hate. Please. ❤️

[random-selfship-imagines]

When your f/o has so little information about them in their canon media:

I'M GONNA GIVE THEM THE LORE THEY DESERVE

[bearwuvimagines]

Imagine your f/o getting you a little treat at the supermarket. Like they’re just doing groceries and maybe they remember you’ve been feeling down, or you’ve had a big day, or they randomly decide to get you something because they love you. Whatever the reason, when they come home they just hand you a bar of chocolate/crackers/any little snack you like and maybe even give u a kiss on the forehead :)

(this imagine is for platonic, familial, or romantic f/os!)

[dragon-in-the-woods]

Yknow what would be fun? Making little posts about you and your F/O(s) like they're real life events. Like you doing something and adding how your F/O(s) would react. For example:

"Was reaching down to grab my blankets at the end of the bed and stretched my arms like a cat. My husband goes "here kitty kitty" as I'm pulling the blankets up."

Just little ways to connect to our fictional relationships.

Proshippers/variants don't even think about stealing this. Your life is bankrupt of morals and no one wants to hear about your horrid behavior.

[gooseco]

they've invaded my brain

[stars-self-ships]

💖 Hey, you! 💖

Your F/O wanted me to relay some words of love and affirmations to you! They wanted you to know...

You are worthy of love and belonging.

You do not need to 'earn' rest.

Everything you do, whether it's big or small, has a purpose.

You are more talented than you lead yourself on.

You deserve to take pride in what you create and do.

You have such a wonderful smile, and you really should smile more often.

It is okay to be sensitive. It is okay to not be okay. It is okay to cry.

You are strong. Whatever you are going through, you can pull through. You always have.

Take deep breaths. Drink some water. Get something to eat if you need it.

You are loved more than you could ever fathom.

And honestly... I couldn't agree with them more! 💖💖💖