#sigh. for blocklist.

[theminecraftbee]

okay, so. let me be a bit clearer about why a lot of the stuff people have been suggesting i should do with lizzie in the joel persona au bothers me:

so like, it's not a great feeling to have a bunch of people are going "you should put lizzie in your au to be joel's dedicated love interest."

it's a problem with lizzie characterization in this fandom in general: SO OFTEN she is reduced to just being joel's wife or joel's dedicated love interest. and man, i like jizzie as much as the next guy, and maybe it's not my space to talk as someone who is much more of a joel main than a lizzie main, but it feels Bad. it feels Bad that very frequently the ONLY reason lizzie is in an au or a fic or something is because joel is there. because people see her as automatically coming with joel as a pair instead of like... as her own person to be involved in something by her own merits or not.

she has other traits! she does her own things! she doesn't just need to be here as joel's Cool Friend or joel's dedicated love interest! and she doesn't need to be here automatically because joel is, as though that's a requirement, either, because that starts to boil down to the same sort of "you see her as an extension of him" feeling. and i'm sure many people are just suggesting her to me because they really like her, and NOT because of this, but the number of un-posted "she should be a childhood friend of joel's" "what if she was the lovers" "what if she were this mysterious person joel has a crush on" "she should be his velvet room attendant"... you see how all of those are putting her in a role that is Inherently More About Joel? and i GET why you want her as a cameo and would be sad if she weren't, but like...

man. it just feels bad how often her ONLY character trait seems to be "joel has a crush on her", and i didn't want to contribute to that.

anyway i have come up with her cameo role that i think is funny but i am putting my foot down on "and her other important trait is of course that joel has a crush on her" because i just. this bothers me A LOT. and i know i'm one to talk given that i don't write her that often and given that, as i said, i like jizzie, but like, man. she's her own guy, guys. she's not solely part of a pair.

that's all i guess.

[rjalker]

autisticafghan for your blocklist, and see their latest post if you don't understand

ewww thank you.

Free ableist blocklist everyone. Is first of all insisting that autism isn't a disability, and is then saying that being disabled means "putting yourself in a victim box". And is saying that people who are "actually disabled by autism" don't use the internet.

(Sarcasm)Because erasing the existance of autistic people who don't support your ableist hyopthesis is definitely the right thing to do.(/sarcasm)

[cookii-moon]

*Shoots your Lilly and Cole with a dragonifier 3000 and runs*

Qilin Cole. That’s it that’s the post.

[catboygirljoker]

Xig/Lux's whole persona is so fascinating to me like. To me it comes off as him emulating his old master, and thats so full of potential character payoff/pathos/whatever on its own already, just fun to consider thoughts about. Puts him in the microwave to watch him spin around in there

for sure!!! people have all these headcanons/theories about him being like, literally a past version of the MoM, or his son, or the MoM raised him from a child, etc, and i must admit i'm bored by that. in my head, Luxu is emulating the MoM in a much more basic mundane way. he's Been Through A Lot Of Shit and his strongest internal example of authority, confidence, intelligence, power, is the MoM. he finds himself talking like him, gesturing like him, not even on purpose most of the time.

there's so much in his relationship with the MoM that i find fascinating. Luxu's relationship with the MoM is unique, and i imagine he believes he was uniquely close to him, as well. Luxu is the one who's most comfortable actually questioning the MoM to his face...yet he's given one of the two most important roles, next to Ava, who is the foreteller least likely to question the MoM at all. no difference between the dog with a twenty foot leash and the dog with a two foot leash if they both stay at the master's heel. makes my mind swirl and spin

fuck i have so many thoughts about the master of masters, too. fucking stellar character. don't get me wrong—terrible, terrible person! but truly one of my favorite characters in the franchise. less in a blorbo skrunkly way and more in a "i find this character fascinating and well written" way. but admittedly in a little bit of a blorbo skrunkly way.

[cum-villain]

hmm. found an interesting video essay on The Shipping Wank and watched it. turns out extensive discussion of that bullshit is a trigger now. how fun.

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

going to check out the blog u see liking a lot of your posts and finding out they’re against an entire spiritual belief and don’t think trans men face oppression 😐

[ardentem-iustitia]

guys when doomscrolling makes them feel bad. huh

[foxgirltail]

Once again missing the days when you could block an anon, then check your Blocklist to see who it was. Sigh

[anshelsgendercrisis]

sigh. more for the blocklist ig

https://www.tumblr.com/pocket-deer-boy/760259784584921088/first-anon-nah-were-two-different-people-calling?source=share

triple dunked for rabid antisemitism and conflating jews with american christianity.

[spot-the-antisemitism]

I suggest everyone adds judahmacabees to their blocklists, they’re unhinged

SIGH

receipt now or it's slander

[rjalker]

im-a-goddamn-cat for your free amisic blocklist. says people aren't ace if they have or enjoy sex. because sex shaming is cool apparently.

[pet-cemetery-emotes]

Hello, I am an archiver of emoji tumblr information, I am making a list of active and inactive emoji blogs. Would you be okay with me tagging/linking your blog in the post? if you dont want to be included, that's fine , of course.

- @echo-sigh

I would answer this privately if I could, but anon blues haha. Anyways if ur giving me the choice, then no thank you. No discourse blogs for me thanks. I think this is kind of inappropriate to ask and I’d prefer no one do it again. I am not entrenched in internet culture and I find ur blog confusing and alarming.

I think everyone who thinks I suck and hates me should just block me :) and they’re welcome to do so (/gen)

Ppl who have blocked me or I have blocked are still welcome to use my resources btw, I don’t want to cut anyone off from getting their communication needs met - just view my blog on desktop (and enjoy my lovely theme) or join the discord, since it doesn’t facilitate texting and is just my archives.

As for visibility… I trust that ppl will find me 🙏 and I have no intent to delete this blog

tho in general I don’t mind being involved in archives, this doesn’t pass my vibe check ESPECIALYL cuz real ones know people have used blocklists to harass ppl in the past, even in the emoji community and not even that long ago. I will not participate if I can help it.

Good luck on your endeavors tho, I hope you get where ur going.

[a-hobit]

Sigh…blocklist

[tomboyyyaoi]

my blocklist is so long bc everytime someone says trigun 98 milly and wolfwood was forced and were only together to "straighten" wolfwood, that vash and wolfwood are strictly gay and monogamous for eachother, that milly is just the female version of vash and thats why wolfwood slept with her, just any other abysmal take that refuses to see trigun outside of this cumbrained vashwood only lense i get so. So. exhausted like an english teacher having to hear 20 disgruntled teenagers whine about how "maybe the curtains were just blue" when trying to teach them the most basic media analysis skills. except i can just let out the fattest sigh hit block and move on with my life

[scarymath]

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https://www.tumblr.com/mangocheesecakes/751109520094281728/chiefarcadedreammer-giftedheartgiver

https://www.tumblr.com/mangocheesecakes/750229006118420480/here-is-a-convenient-post-you-can-show-to-convince

would you mind deleting their scam from your blog, or clearly labeling it as a scam so it doesn't spread to others? in the future, please remember to search the username/paypal account name/text used by the people asking for money in your inbox

please familiarize yourself with the posts of some current scammers while they are still under these usernames: taheeeramohamed, stevmwita, thoughtfulfestivallove, keenladysussymerrriine, lucymkiraa, swagprincessfire, nashonimudaki, marryum-aljabill, quoradigestere, atomiclovedestiny, choppedphilosopherwitch, nako700

i really recommend looking at their pinned posts in order to better recognize scams, not just using this list as a blocklist, because once they are terminated they each will immediately remake their scams under a new username

thank you for the info, i deleted the post - i tried looking through the notes of the og to see if anyone said anything and looked up the username to see if there was a post that had the info if they were legit or not. it's a shame people are willing to go so far as to fake being a victim a genocide of all things. sigh

[gayloringinplainsight]

Genuine question after seeing your response to that other anon: how would you react if she came out as bi?

Also I almost agree with the other anon. I think the aggressive hetlors are worse, but I think all the points they made seemed reasonable. Mostly because any time I try asking another gaylor a good faith question about ‘what if some signs actually meant something slightly different, like she hasn’t been bearding she’s just been bi and dating both men and women’ I get screamed at like you screamed at the other anon.

I feel like Taylor is in an impossible position, because the biphobia I have seen from some gaylors is absolutely unreal and every bit as bad as the homophobia I’ve seen from hetlors. If she comes out as gay, the hetlors are furious. If she comes out as bi, the biphobic gaylors will say it’s a baby step toward a Real coming out without invalidating her whole narrative (aka not believing her), AND the hetlors would be pissed.

I don’t think she would call herself a friend of Dorothea if she were straight, so I’ll leave that option out.

Again. Not all gaylors as biphobic. But holy shit, some of the things I have seen (and blocked) in this tag. Or been told.

I think we have to write the hetlors off as a lost cause, but I want her to feel like gaylors will at least stick with her and believe her if it turns out she was bi for some or all of this time. I feel like I never see that in the tag, though. I’ve seen people saying it would be appropriative because she had Me out on lesbian visibility day, but… I’m Taylor’s age, and all WLW were ‘lesbians’ in middle school bathrooms. And lesbian has historically included bi women under the label, even if that’s changed in recent years. (When I was in college running the campus GSA, lesbian still included bi women)

Basically, this is a lot of dithering to say that I’m worried about Taylor. I’m worried she thinks we’ll leave if she’s not a gold star lesbian. I’m worried she doesn’t know that not all gaylors are biphobic assholes because I just…never saw that vitriol getting shut down by other gaylors. My blocklist is huge because of it.

I don’t know if she’s bi. She might be a lesbian who dated men before realizing. She might be a lesbian who was in comphet but not bearding relationships as she tried to make herself straight. She might be a lesbian who was still groomed by older men who convinced her they could change that. She might be a gold star lesbian. I don’t know! I can see the signals meaning any of those options tbh. Because she has to talk in code, we can’t be 100% about anything. And I’m worried that she thinks she’ll lose EVERYONE if she comes out as the wrong thing. Does that make sense?

Basically, I want to know what other gaylors would do if her identity matched her YNTCD hair dye. I try to keep up to date on the tag, but you know how tumblr is. I might have missed posts reassuring her that we would stay regardless. That we would believe her. Because all I’ve seen were posts about how there was no need to worry, gaylors would understand if she called herself bi to cover up her narrative, and we would know that ACTUALLY she was a lesbian all along, etc. (this was admittedly a long time ago and I blocked whoever said that)

Anyway. If you think even suggesting she could be bi is an insult, just… Don’t even bother replying. Block me instead. Sigh.

If she's bi then she's bi and that would be awesome. I'm not sure why you think I'd have a problem with that. I'm very careful in all my posts to refer to her as queer because we don't know her label.

I interact with a LOT of gaylors because I'm very active in the gaylor subreddit, and I don't know anyone who would have a problem with her being bi or would abandon her for it. Sure, some suspect she's a lesbian based on recent flagging but everyone acknowledges that we don't know for sure.

I must not be hanging out in the same gaylor spaces as you because I really haven't seen much biphobia. But maybe we have different definitions of it. It's not clear what exactly you're referring to so I'll say a couple things on the subject.

First, it's not biphobic to suspect she might be a lesbian. There's been a ton of lesbian flagging on eras. There's also been bi flagging and pan flagging throughout the years. Simply having an opinion on her label isn't in and of itself biphobic.

It's also not biphobic to think that her public relationships with men may have been PR. Now if she were a normal non-famous person who dated both men and women and someone claimed that the relationships with men were fake, that would absolutely be biphobic. But she's not a normal person. She works in an industry that famously employs and requires PR relationships. Even straight people have PR relationships. There's a great resource on the subreddit that talks about how to recognize PR relationships and why celebrities use them. Personally I'm fairly certain that all the public guys have been PR. I've also seen some compelling evidence that she may have dated men privately, e.g. Martin Johnson. So just because someone thinks that the public ones are PR doesn't mean that they think there's no way she could be bi.

Lastly, I didn't address this in the other anons ask but since you brought it up, I think the idea that if Taylor were to come out that that would also mean she's co-signing every single little theory that gaylors have is ridiculous. And the idea that this is what's keeping her from coming out is also ridiculous. So is the idea that some rando on Tumblr who wants her to be a lesbian is keeping her from coming out as bi. She'll come out when she's ready and I think the overwhelming majority of gaylors will celebrate whatever label she claims.