#stephanie answers

[redheadbigshoes]

Judging men by how they treat women they aren’t attracted to is the ultimate life hack. Not just for relationships, but friendships as well

^^^

[incorrectquotesmcu]

I love your blog so much

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[lgg5989]

In the One Beer universe, when did the squad meet Eddie?

You know dear anon, I love that you've asked this!!

I think they'd know Bobby had a girl but maybe they don't realise the full extent of his little family on base? Then one day (maybe it's a family visit day or a barbecue he/someone holds) the dagger squad is struck dumb when Bobby shows up with his family.

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Eddie stretching up to reach Bob’s hand, his little glasses crooked on his nose. Katie clutching at your hair, your arms wrapped tightly around her little torso. You had put on your best sundress for the occasion of course.

Hangman greets your family with a surprised, "Floyd, I guess you really do have a Baby On Board!"

And Bob just chuckles at him, rolling his eyes at the man's antics, "What can I say? I like to live up to expectations."

Rooster and Coyote are impressed that Bob has himself a family of his own. Fanboy and Payback are stunned that of all the people to have a hot wife it was Bobby boy.

Mav just smiles proudly, him and Penny having found out when they ran into you at the supermarket. Eddie is Bob's twin you couldn't blame them for asking if you knew a Lieutenant Floyd.

The only one who had known from the minute you came onto base was Phoenix. She spotted the picture Bob had in the cockpit of you all on Eddie's 6th birthday the second day of training.

"Auntie Phoenix!" Eddie called out, running to her.

"Hey buddy! How are you?" She asked, scooping him up in her arms.

"I'm good! I have somethin' for you!" He said, pulling back from her arms to stick his small hand in his pocket.

Phoenix started to laugh when he pulled a toy car out of his pocket, an exact replica of her mustang, "Where did you find that?"

"At the store!" He said proudly.

"Thank you," she said taking the car, a smile splitting her face.

Hangman's jaw is hung open, "Auntie Phoenix?"

Phoenix just shoots him a look, "Maybe one day you could be an Uncle, Bagman."

Eddie just beams at her, "Bagman?"

"Yes honey, that there is Bagman," she confirms for him.

You and Bob just laughs at Hangman's deep frown.

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Just a little on the spot piece! I hope you like it 💜😁

[redheadbigshoes]

Yknow. I thought the LGBTQ community was supposed to celebrate diversity but it seems like people actually just want everyone to be bisexual and preferably a man ://

People are not willing to recognize and accept the fact that not everyone’s into men. The misogyny in the LGBTQ+ community is concerning.

[redheadbigshoes]

I just found out that other people can find regular men attractive.. like not just celebrity men or animated character who take days to perfect their appearance, but regular men that they know and see in public or whatever

I thought that you have to pick who you could have a crush on based on whether you find him aesthetically appealing or whatever other girls are saying

I don’t know how to compare this with how I feel with girls because I never had a crush on either men or women, but I feel attracted to women’s bodies both celebrity and irl

Tbh this does sound like you’re a lesbian. We don’t really pick crushes based on the ones you find attractive or someone who you simply don’t find ugly, having a crush also comes with actually feeling something for that person.

And yeah only finding unattainable men attractive can definitely be a sign that you’re a lesbian.

[redheadbigshoes]

Every person who believes in bi lesbian that I have seen has been white and chronically online lmfao white queers can be so insufferable as a brown lesbian I literally can't tolerate them

And American lol which explains a lot tbh

[redheadbigshoes]

Man, I decided to try out this new twitter replacement called Bluesky, and did the dumb thing of trying to look up lesbians on there to find lesbian accounts (duh) and why is it that the first thing you find is a non-lesbian man screeching about bi lesbians “bisexuals have called themselves lesbians for years, and if you think that lesbianism is only about attraction to women/femmes, then you’re a terf” like…..dude you’re not even a lesbian or a woman/fem person?? Why should I listen to you?

Cant escape them like goddamnit

Men wanting to insert themselves in lesbianism is a huge red flag… And then they get pressed when we say we hate them, I wonder why lol

[redheadbigshoes]

I begging some of the bi people to stop saying lesbianism includes men please you would be upset if somebody said that bisexuality is not inclusive to women or men or non binary people so please don't say the opposite thing about us🫶

They invalidate themselves when they include men in lesbianism 😭 and they don’t realize that

[redheadbigshoes]

the term "bi lesbian" made it 10x harder for me to process and accept that i'm a lesbian. like, i started questioning my orientation fully around the time when bi lesbians began to be discussed and i was active in xenogender focused spaces (i have nothing against xenogenders btw, the communities surrounding them just tends to have a massive "radical inclusion" problem) and... yeah. i got convinced that i was every bi lesbian term under the sun because of how much my muturals would talk about it, and also my own internalized guilt over being attracted exclusively to women.

i was basically convinced that i was a bi lesbian because i "could still feel attraction to men someday", and that really fucked me up in the long run. fuck that shite

“Bi lesbians” are always either lesbians in denial or bisexuals in denial lol. Idk why people act like it’s so hard to call yourself just bi or lesbian.

I never trust radical inclusionists.

[redheadbigshoes]

So people like this exist irl

People are so stupid omg

The fact that they think liking feminine people = lesbian is sad because it shows their transphobia even though they’re trans.

I wish the trans community talked more about trans people being transphobic or having internalized transphobia. I don’t see this enough.

The most funny (perhaps saddest) thing is that this person is talking like they genuinely have no idea how problematic their mindset is.

This seems to be from Reddit, isn’t it? I hate that website lol

[redheadbigshoes]

I suspect that creating a new label for actual lesbians would go like this:

– here’s a new term for women and some nb people who are exclusively attracted to women and some nb people

– sounds kinda terfy ☝️🤡

I would add “maybe we should add men to that label to be more inclusive and progressive”

[redheadbigshoes]

I'm a trans guy and I *love* your point about that saying trans men can ID as lesbians kind of erases the whole "not attracted to men" thing.

As a gay guy, I would be *so* uncomfortable if the reverse happened!

People are openly transphobic when they want to include trans men in lesbianism and they think they’re being progressive.

I am not trans, but I can only imagine how awful it must be to see people invalidating your gender identity like this while thinking they’re supporting you.

[redheadbigshoes]

what makes a butch or a femme? and are those terms exclusively lesbian?

I don’t think I’m the best person to answer this, but I know there’s followers that do have more knowledge about this to answer you properly, so I hope they see this and answer you.

[redheadbigshoes]

Seeing bi people criticizing bi lesbian bullshit heals my soul a little. I hate how this dumb discourse made me wary of bisexuals in general just because some of them think their identity should be extra quirky “to confuse cishets uwu”

It truly does. I think bisexuals speaking up against “bi lesbians” is even more important than lesbians doing that considering we’re never listened to and taken seriously by non-lesbians.

[redheadbigshoes]

Why is bi4bi accepted, praised, and tolerated but when a lesbian says they’re les4les it’s shutdown and we’re told we’re bigots and biphobic?

Lesbophobia. People don’t want to accept the fact there’s lesbians who’re les4les for reasons that don’t have anything to do with bisexuality, not only that but because people love to generalize lesbians as biphobic and treat us as the villain.

[redheadbigshoes]

Just saw a pro-bi lesbian post with over 13000 notes. It’s shocking how few people want to respect us Jesus Christ

Unfollowed the idiot who put it on the dash but my following is pretty small, wondering if you have any blog recs seeing as idiots are in no short supply

I do, here’s some blogs you could follow: @/lesbofox, @/manicsystemic, @/pinkyfl4k, @/chronic-lesbian, @/princessefemmelesbian (and her main blog @/thisismisogynoir) , @/redactedbutch, @/softsapphicvibes, @/madohomurat, @/bodiesbodiesbodiesx3, @/flowergirlmiwa, @/saschagemruler, @/homunyas, @/acelez, @/bumblingbee1 (and their side blog @/less-bumbling)

There’s probably others as well, but these ones are the ones I remembered