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The Strange Situation and Attachment Patterns of Mary Ainsworth

In 1970′s research, the psychologist named Mary Ainsworth devised the “Strange Situation” which is a semi-structured laboratory procedure that allows to identify with no lengthy home observation about the infants who effectively use a primary caregiver as a secure base. The procedure was involve a series of eight episodes which lasting in approximately 3 minutes each, whereas the mother, child and the stranger are introduced, separated and reunited. However, the strange situation designed to observe attachment security in children within the context of caregiver relationships or to tell something about the quality of the relationship they had.

Ainsworth’s Attachment Patterns

“Attachment pattern are ways of thinking and behavioral strategies that children develop in order to feel safe and to maximize their opportunities for receiving care and protection from close adults”

In 1970, upon doing the strange situation procedure, Ainsworth identified the four attachment styles or pattern such as secure attachment, insecure-avoidant attachment, insecure-ambivalent/resistant attachment, and disorganized attachment.

The Four Attachment Patterns

SECURE ATTACHMENT PATTERN

“When a child was in a room, it will explore while its parent is present and when its parent leaves the room, the child will start to show of missing its parent during their separation. Someway, the kids in secure attachment pattern was able to separate from their parents but they would be very upset and when their parents would come back they would be happy. Their preference to the parent over stranger is evident. Yet, they seek comfort from their parents/caregiver.”

INSECURE-AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT PATTERN

“The child here was often fails to cry when it was separated in its parent and they avoid and ignore their parent when reunited (by moving away, leaning out of arms if picked up, and turning away). Children in this attachment pattern will show a no preference between a parent and a complete stranger.”

INSECURE-AMBIVALENT/RESISTANT ATTACHMENT PATTERN

“The child here may be wary or distressed prior to separation of their parents and they will show a little exploration of their environment. In this attachment pattern, children would be suspicious to strangers and they seem preoccupied with the status and location of their parent, and may appear angry or passive.”

DISORGANIZED ATTACHMENT PATTERN

“The children of this attachment pattern was most likely develop into psychiatric diagnosis of Reactive Attachment Disorder. Also, the they would display a disorganized or disoriented behaviors when their parents are present. The children here could described as displaying dazed behavior and sometimes they seems like either confused or apprehensive in the presence of their parents.”

When I was a kid, I can say that I have an insecure-ambivalent attachment towards my parents, because as what my mother told me that I’m a crybaby back then at first but gradually as I getting older I become not scared and not a crybaby anymore even if they aren’t around with me. I become not fussy and used to explore things on my own, because according to my mother she didn’t really have her full attention to me because she has a lot of things to do especially in taking care of my sisters who always getting sick before. My father was also busy to his work. That’s why these days, I’m not like others who can simply say “I love you” in a serious way to my parents or to other people (unless if I say it jokingly) because I’m not used to say it, it’s just like I feel awkward or shy when I say it to someone. I actually have difficulties to express my feelings and share my problems to others especially to my parents, because I'm not used to do it since then, it doesn't mean that I didn't trust them, it just like I prefer to keep all of my problems and have a secret battle in facing them, because I'm afraid to be judged I guess or it just like I used to handle all of my problems without the help of others. I also feels like too worried about what other people think about me, which actually caused me anxiety. Anyway, I just realized that the behavior that we have or the way we act as a human person was also depends on how our parents raised us.

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English text is below👇 👹Меня без моего ведома записали на вакцинацию от covid19. Записали один раз, я отменила запись. Записали второй, и прежде чем успела отменить запись, записали еще и третий. Меня что, назначили отдуваться за всю страну? Мама говорит, жди, они и 4, и 5, 6, 7, 8 запишут. А я вот сижу и думаю. Если бы так же просто можно было записаться на прививку от Гепатита А, которую днем с огнем на сыщешь. А болезнь-то между прочим опасная даже для молодых и здоровых, и заразная. То есть, как бы, риск помереть от гепатита А невелик, но и риск вылечиться от него, если он идет в фульминантной форме, тоже невелик. Тут даже врачи мало чем могут помочь. И даже если выживешь, валяться несколько месяцев в больничке невесело. Я конечно уважаю естественный отбор, но не до такой же степени. #вакцинация #ковид19 #гепатит #гепатитА #прививка #вакцина #молниеносныйгепатит #естественныйотбор #страннаяситуация #странноефото 👹Somebody appointed me covid19 vaccination without me asking that. I canceled the appointment as soon as I noticed it. But soon I got the second appointment. And beforr I cancel that too, they sent me the third. Am I in charge to pay for the whole country? Mom says, wait, they'll do it 4, and 5, 6, 7, 8th time. But the question is, why I cannot get the Hepatitis A vaccination that easy, why is it so hard to find it? And this is a disease, by the way, dangerous for young and healthy people too, and contagious. Generally, the risk of death from hepatitis A is small. But the chance to be cured is it's a fulminant form is small too. Doctors can do little to help there. And if one survives, still, it's bad luck to wallow in the hospital for several months. Of course, I respect natural selection, but not that much. #vaccination #covid19 #hepatitis #hepatitisA #vaccine #fulminanthepatitis #naturalselection #strangesituation #strangephoto https://www.instagram.com/p/CJPHsQsD1c1/?igshid=1gk9nlv4zsqzn

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Attachment Theory!!!!

Hello, welcome back to Blog 2 of ParentPal. In this Blog I’ll be explaining attachment theory and the various categories which attachment relationships have been split into. This is the basis of ParentPal, we want you to understand how your parenting influences the attachment which you have between you and your child. In this way, parents can facilitate positive relationships which set their child in good stead for the future.

Attachment Theory- John Bowlby

Take the scenario of baby Oscar. The relationship which Oscar has with his parents is influential to his later development. Bowlby the pioneer of attachment theory, explained that the relationship formed with your primary caregiver (the person who predominantly looks after Oscar) within their first 2-3 years of life, will be the basis of their internal working model. This internal working model is the main template from which Oscar will base all his future relationships off, so you really want this model to be the best it can be. This internal working model is built through a give and take process whereby the child provides cues which the parent responds to, and vice versa. This gradually builds a mutual understanding whereby each party is responsive to one another. The quality and type of relationship which a parent forms with their child has been categorised by Mary Ainsworth into 3 distinct categories:

1.       Secure attachment type: little Oscar is crying, you cuddle and sooth him showing sensitivity and responsiveness to his needs. You try feeding him, using blankets to keep him warm and give him milk to drink. All of these reactions are aiming to sooth Oscar and make him feel wanted, loved and cared for. Through consistently parenting in this way, research suggests that you will build security whereby Oscar is secure in the fact that you will be there for him when he is distressed.

2.       Avoidant attachment type: little Oscar is crying, you’re in bed and decide that he’ll be ok, ‘I’m sure he will stop soon’. Oscar continues to cry, yet you leave him to it thinking, ‘I’m sure it’s not that bad’. The theory supposes that this lack of responsiveness is making Oscar question your availability and leading to Oscar having an avoidant attachment type where he feels unconnected to you both physically and emotionally. This could have negative consequences in Oscar’s later life when he starts to care for others or build more meaningful relationships as his internal working model is based on a lack of emotional availability.

3.       Ambivalent/resistant attachment: little Oscar is crying, you’re in bed, you think to yourself, ‘I went to see if he was ok last night when he cried, tonight I will leave him for a while and see if he stops’. This inconsistent demonstration of responsiveness can lead to the formation of an ambivalent attachment type, whereby the child is not soothed by the parent’s affection when in distress. It also leads to them being clingy to the parent with reluctance to explore the external environment. This can have implications in the future as the internal working model will be built of this inconsistency in love and care.

These attachment types have been expanded on in more modern psychological studies, moreover, there has been a wealth of research linking them to later social, emotional and intellectual development. ParentPal will help you to better understand how your parenting style can facilitate a secure attachment relationship with your child. Through doing this, we hope to provide a means to which parents can give their children the best chance to reach their potential.

Here’s to parental perfection,

ParentPal

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Day 5 of characters IN strange situations. Scrat in a block of ice in "Ice Age" for Friday's (9/22) lunchbox drawing. . . . #lunchboxdrawings #lunchbreakdrawings #postitnotes #postit #ink #inking #illustration #art #artist #sketch #drawings #draw #cartoon #cartoons #cartooncharacter #animation #strangesituation #Scrat #iceage

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Chelley~! for the ship ask meme! :D

Who said “I love you” first

I was going to say Wheatley, but he’d be so confused by his own feeling that he wouldn’t know what to say. So Chell would go ahead and give him something to orient himself on

Who would have the other’s picture as their phone background

Definitely Wheatley, and he’d always choose the pictures Chell doesn’t like, but he thinks they’re cute.

Who leaves notes written in fog on the bathroom mirror

Chell, and it’s mostly reminders of what needs to be done that day.

Who buys the other cheesy gifts

Wheatley. He doesn’t want to b cheesy, but he can’t help it. Chell always rolls her eyes, but she still thinks it’s kinda cute.

Who initiated the first kiss

Chell, because Wheatley has been begging for it but is too shy to actually go ahead.

Who kisses the other awake in the morning

Wheatley tries, and falls on her. Otherwise it’s Chell. She gets up extra-early because she can’t stand the alarm clock.

Who starts tickle fights

Both. Wheatley loses most of the time.

Who asks who if they can join the other in the shower

Wheatley as well. At first he’s pretty awkward, but he eventually becomes more confident

Who surprises the other in the middle of the day at work with lunch

Both. Chell because she can never be sure if Wheatley didn’t forget to take something from home, and Wheatley because he ses it as his duty to be a good boyfriend. The lunch boxes are always a bit shambled, but thanks to internet tutorials actually quite good.

Who was nervous and shy on the first date

They both found it a strangesituation, but Wheatley was by far more awkward.

Who kills/takes out the spiders

Chell. Wheatley doesn’t see why that needs to be done because in Aperture nobody was bothered by them, and they tend to escape him.

Who loudly proclaims their love when they’re drunk

Wheatley, and it was in public, and Chell had to drag him home. It was embarrassing.

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So I am sitting on a bench outside my next class and some dude walked towards me - got within a couple feet of me. Paused. Looked at me, practically inspected me, and I just looked at him - he almost said something, but didn't. Turned around looked at me again, perplexed, then basically walked in a little circle and took a breath like he was going to say something, but didn't. Then he walked the way he came while looking back at me looking confused. When he was gone, I turned to the girl next to me on the bench, and we gave each other the knowing look that that was the strangest thing ever.

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He returned. Still looking confused, but less strange. Go figure!

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Stress doesn’t have to be a mess

In this blog, ParentPal will build upon the ideas introduced about sensitive and responsive parenting. Going into more detail as to what sensitive and responsive parenting is and how it can influence infants and children’s later development positively.

Firstly, imagine little Oscar, you have cared for him day in day out, you have become attuned to his emotions, concerns, and needs. Picking up on his habits and the cues he uses to grab your attention. That's the sensitive part of parenting. 

After understanding these key elements of Oscar’s personality and mannerisms, you then decide to give the appropriate level of support and reassurance. Responding with love and affection sometimes or with discipline and standard setting other times. That's the responsive part.

Both these characteristics are very simple, yet you’ll be surprised how much good they can do. Equally, you will also be surprised at how difficult it is to maintain such characteristics in your parenting style, especially with the difficulties and stresses which parenting can sometimes throw at you. Maybe this blog can be your source of inspiration, it can encourage you to ensure you keep sensitivity and responsiveness at the forefront of your mind in order to give your child the best head start in life.

For years, researchers have noticed that that sensitive, responsive parenting is linked with better cognitive outcomes for children. For example, infants learn language more rapidly when caregivers respond promptly and contingently to what babies do (Tamis-Lamonda et al 2014).

And young children develop better problem-solving ability, attention skills, and school readiness when their parents are sensitive and responsive (Landry et al 2003; Landry et al 2006; Yousafzai et al 2016).

Can parents protect kids from the physiological effects of stress?

Sensitive and responsive parents make children feel safe. They make kids less suspicious of other people, and therefore more relaxed. Secure, relaxed children experience fewer spikes of cortisol (stress hormone), and when they do get stressed, they recover more quickly. Moreover, more responsive parenting helps children develop better stress coping mechanisms, this will mean they will be able to deal with stressful events more efficiently.

In addition, parents help children develop effective self-soothing mechanisms. Kids learn how to cope, even when their caregivers aren't around. Together, these factors should help protect kids from the physiological wear-and-tear caused by chronic stressors (Repetti et al 2002; Chen et al 2011).

It demonstrates the role that responsiveness and sensitivity play in building an effective set of risk-limiting skills which will serve the children well in the future.

This article originates from author Gwen Dewar’s article on the website parentingscience.com.

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Day 3 of characters IN strange situations. Lewis in the toilet in "Meet the Robinsons" for Wednesday's (9/20) lunchbox drawing. . . . #lunchboxdrawings #lunchbreakdrawings #postitnotes #postit #ink #inking #illustration #art #artist #sketch #drawings #draw #cartoon #cartoons #cartooncharacter #animation #strangesituation #MeetTheRobinsons #disney #disneymovie

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